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Stress can make it hard to sleep because of increased cortisol levels.
Mental health issues can disrupt sleep and should be addressed with care.
Poor sleep habits like inconsistent bedtimes can worsen sleep problems.
You're exhausted, and your bed is comfy, but your mind and body refuse to shut down. If you've ever found yourself lying awake, wondering, "Why won't my body let me sleep?," you're not alone. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), millions of American adults experience problems with falling or staying asleep.
1
When you feel tired, it should theoretically be easy to fall asleep. Unfortunately, thatâs not always the case. Wanting to sleep but being unable to can happen for many reasons. Stress, anxiety, hormonal imbalances, and lifestyle factors can all disrupt your body's natural sleep cycle. Here are some of the most common reasons for difficulty falling asleep.
Stress
Research from the American Psychological Association indicates that stress levels are higher than ever, which can greatly affect your ability to relax and rest. Stress leads to the release of excess
cortisol
in your body.
2
Cortisol, often called the "stress hormone," plays multiple roles, including waking you up, keeping you alert, and raising blood sugar for energy. It works in opposition to
melatonin
, the hormone that helps you feel sleepy.
3
Stress can trigger an increase in
cortisol
because you need that energy and alertness to respond to threats.
4
Unfortunately, that mechanism is best suited to dealing with immediate dangers (like a predator) where skipping sleep to fight or run away can save your life. For most modern causes of stress, like an excessive workload or a relationship problem, staying awake through the night doesnât really help.
Solution
While you can't control every stressor, managing what you can is important. You might not be able to back out of existing work projects, but you can be cautious about accepting new ones. Similarly, while you can't cure a
chronic health condition
, you can begin a tailored moderate exercise routine.
Mental Health Issues
Sometimes, your body's inability to sleep might be a symptom of a mental health condition. Depression, anxiety, and other mental health issues can also cause sleep problems. Whether chronic or acute, these conditions are stressful, which means they trigger that same elevated cortisol release that keeps you awake at night.
Not only that, sleep disturbances are often a symptom of a mood or anxiety disorder.
Solution
Taking care of your mental health is crucial. Consider seeing a mental health professional, even if you feel your issues aren't severe enough. Therapists can help you develop skills to improve your mental well-being, regardless of a clinical diagnosis.
In addition to
therapy
, engage in self-care and connect with friends and family. Activities that make you feel supported can reassure your body that you're safe, reducing the need for nightly cortisol spikes.
Poor Sleep Hygiene
Many people have trouble sleeping due to factors they may not realize, such as inconsistent bedtimes, consuming caffeine late in the day, or spending too much time on screens.
Sleep hygiene
involves the habits and conditions during your day that affect your natural sleep-wake cycle.
Your body uses environmental light
and temperature changes to determine the time of day, which influences your alertness or sleepiness.
In an ideal world, your sleep hygiene would include waking up to bright, natural sunlight, then gradually increasing your activity levels as light levels and temperature increase, peaking in the afternoon. Then, begin winding down your activity levels as temperature and light levels decrease before finally going to sleep in the dark.
Poor sleep hygiene
is any part of your day that doesnât match that ideal. Some of the most common culprits of poor sleep hygiene include:
Using screens that emit bright
blue light
, like TV or your phone in the evening.
5
Consuming caffeine, sugar, or other ingredients that cause a spike in energy or alertness later in the day when you should be winding down.
Waking up in a dark room.
A sedentary lifestyle where you donât get much physical activity during the day.
Working, reading, watching TV or doing anything other than sleep in your bed.
When these bad habits disrupt your body's natural sleep cycle, falling and staying asleep becomes a lot more difficult. The result is often a night of tossing and turning, followed by a day of excessive sleepiness and lingering fatigue. Improving your sleep hygiene can often make a BIG difference when it comes to getting the deep, restorative sleep that you need.
Solution
Some of the best things you can do to improve your sleep hygiene involve being more consistent with your sleep schedule and making sure you adapt to light and temperature conditions to help trigger different phases of the cycle.
Here are a few tricks you can try:
Open your curtains so you can wake up to sunlight.
Try to spend about two hours outside in the sun in the morning or afternoon.
6
For example, eat breakfast in your backyard and take your lunch break outside.
Dim or turn off lights when youâre at home relaxing in the evening.
If youâre not ready to give up screens at night, lower the brightness level and the sound volume. Also, consider trying to enforce a
screen ban on yourself
for at least the last hour right before bedtime.
Lower the temperature about one or two hours before bed, ideally to between 65â° and 68â° Fahrenheit.
If you canât touch the thermostat, take a hot bath or shower about 30-60 minutes before bed so that the comparatively cooler air when you get out of the water causes a decrease in body temperature.
Menstrual Cycle, Menopause or Pregnancy
Hormones also play a vital role in regulating sleep. If it feels like your body won't let you sleep, it's important to consider whether monthly changes in hormone levels might be a culprit.
For people who menstruate, the monthly fluctuations in estrogen and progesterone can also impact sleep quality.
7
The changes in estrogen and progesterone levels that accompany your menstrual cycle might make it difficult to fall asleep.
For the same reasons, the hormonal changes that come with pregnancy and menopause can also disrupt your sleep cycle. Heightened levels during pregnancy can cause daytime sleepiness and fatigue, while the sharp decline in those hormones during menopause can make it harder to fall asleep.
Understanding how these hormonal fluctuations might affect your sleep can help you recognize the causes and take steps to address these changes to minimize their impact on your body's ability to rest.
Solution
If you often find it hard to sleep right before or during your period, talk to your doctor about possibly taking
melatonin
or medication during this time. Your doctor might recommend a hormonal treatment when you begin menopause.
Circadian Rhythm Misalignment
Your body tries to stick to a relatively consistent 24-hour cycle. But sometimes, your internal clock doesn't sync up with your environment.
Jet lag
, which occurs when you travel to a different time zone and struggle to adjust your sleep schedule to fit, is one common example. However, this can also happen if you do
shift work
and your schedule isn't consistent from week to week.
Another possible cause of disruption is whatâs sometimes called "social jet lag" or
delayed sleep phase syndrome
.
8
This refers to people whose internal clock is naturally out of alignment with the society they live in.
If you need to go to bed at 10:00 p.m. to get enough sleep before work in the morning, but your melatonin and other sleep hormones don't start increasing until midnight, you'll struggle to force yourself into a sleep-wake cycle that fits your work schedule.
Solution
Unfortunately, thereâs no quick fix for this.
By paying extra attention to your sleep hygiene, including using light and temperature to trigger wakefulness and sleepiness during the day, you can gradually reprogram your internal clock to better fit your daily routine. Bright light therapy and certain medications may help.
What Should I Do If I Can't Fall Asleep?
A lot of the solutions above are more long-term fixes and prevention methods. In the meantime, here are some
strategies you can try right now that may help you fall asleep
tonight.
Do a Mindful Activity
If you've been lying in bed for more than 25 minutes without being able to fall asleep, get up and go to a different room. Leave your phone and any other screen behind and spend time doing a quiet, mindful activity in the dark or low lighting. Mindful activities can involve:
Yoga
Reading a book
Folding laundry
Meditation
Journaling
Knitting
Puzzles
Drawing or coloring
Sometimes, when it's hard to fall asleep, the
worry you feel about the fact that you canât fall asleep
ends up making it even harder. A mindful activity you enjoy can take your attention away from that worry and help put you in a calmer, more restful mental state.
If you start to feel sleepy at any point, go lay down in bed again. But if youâre still awake 25 minutes later, get up and repeat the process.
Do Something Kind for Yourself
If anxiety or depression are keeping you awake, you can try reclaiming control of your mind by combatting negative thoughts with defiant acts of kindness. Just because your brain is trying to convince you that you havenât earned rest or you don't deserve to relax doesnât mean you have to listen.
If your brain is convincing you itâs all pointless or hopeless, you can still choose pointless joy over pointless stress.
Blatantly contradict that train of thought by doing something nice for yourself.
Get up and take a bubble bath.
Go sit outside and admire the stars.
Paint your nails your favorite color.
Toss your blanket in the dryer for five minutes so you can wrap yourself up in its cozy warmth.
The negative thoughts might persist, but get in the habit of insisting that youâre going to choose joy regardless.Â
Try Our Sleep Quiz
Our fast and free
sleep quiz
can help you determine whether or not some of your sleep issues could potentially be connected to a sleep disorder:
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# 'I Want to Sleep But My Body Wonât Let Me': Why Does This Happen?
The science behind those sleepless nights
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- [Stress](https://www.verywellmind.com/i-want-to-sleep-but-my-body-wont-let-me-7111491#toc-stress)
- [Mental Health Issues](https://www.verywellmind.com/i-want-to-sleep-but-my-body-wont-let-me-7111491#toc-mental-health-issues)
- [Poor Sleep Hygiene](https://www.verywellmind.com/i-want-to-sleep-but-my-body-wont-let-me-7111491#toc-poor-sleep-hygiene)
- [Menstrual Cycle, Menopause or Pregnancy](https://www.verywellmind.com/i-want-to-sleep-but-my-body-wont-let-me-7111491#toc-menstrual-cycle-menopause-or-pregnancy)
- [Circadian Rhythm Misalignment](https://www.verywellmind.com/i-want-to-sleep-but-my-body-wont-let-me-7111491#toc-circadian-rhythm-misalignment)
- [What Should I Do If I Can't Fall Asleep?](https://www.verywellmind.com/i-want-to-sleep-but-my-body-wont-let-me-7111491#toc-what-should-i-do-if-i-cant-fall-asleep)
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### Key Takeaways
- Stress can make it hard to sleep because of increased cortisol levels.
- Mental health issues can disrupt sleep and should be addressed with care.
- Poor sleep habits like inconsistent bedtimes can worsen sleep problems.
You're exhausted, and your bed is comfy, but your mind and body refuse to shut down. If you've ever found yourself lying awake, wondering, "Why won't my body let me sleep?," you're not alone. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), millions of American adults experience problems with falling or staying asleep.1
When you feel tired, it should theoretically be easy to fall asleep. Unfortunately, thatâs not always the case. Wanting to sleep but being unable to can happen for many reasons. Stress, anxiety, hormonal imbalances, and lifestyle factors can all disrupt your body's natural sleep cycle. Here are some of the most common reasons for difficulty falling asleep.
## Stress
Research from the American Psychological Association indicates that stress levels are higher than ever, which can greatly affect your ability to relax and rest. Stress leads to the release of excess [cortisol](https://www.verywellmind.com/cortisol-and-stress-how-to-stay-healthy-3145080) in your body.2
Cortisol, often called the "stress hormone," plays multiple roles, including waking you up, keeping you alert, and raising blood sugar for energy. It works in opposition to [melatonin](https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-melatonin-5114942), the hormone that helps you feel sleepy.3
Stress can trigger an increase in [cortisol](https://www.verywellmind.com/cortisol-cocktail-for-a-month-11787394) because you need that energy and alertness to respond to threats.4
Unfortunately, that mechanism is best suited to dealing with immediate dangers (like a predator) where skipping sleep to fight or run away can save your life. For most modern causes of stress, like an excessive workload or a relationship problem, staying awake through the night doesnât really help.
### Solution
[Reducing your stress levels](https://www.verywellmind.com/tips-to-reduce-stress-3145195) can help. Use the time when you're awake to identify [whatâs causing your stress](https://www.verywellmind.com/what-are-the-main-causes-of-stress-3145063) and create a plan to tackle the root cause.
While you can't control every stressor, managing what you can is important. You might not be able to back out of existing work projects, but you can be cautious about accepting new ones. Similarly, while you can't cure a [chronic health condition](https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-cope-when-your-partner-has-a-chronic-health-issue-5193847), you can begin a tailored moderate exercise routine.
## Mental Health Issues
Sometimes, your body's inability to sleep might be a symptom of a mental health condition. Depression, anxiety, and other mental health issues can also cause sleep problems. Whether chronic or acute, these conditions are stressful, which means they trigger that same elevated cortisol release that keeps you awake at night.
Not only that, sleep disturbances are often a symptom of a mood or anxiety disorder.
### Solution
Taking care of your mental health is crucial. Consider seeing a mental health professional, even if you feel your issues aren't severe enough. Therapists can help you develop skills to improve your mental well-being, regardless of a clinical diagnosis.
In addition to [therapy](https://www.verywellmind.com/different-types-of-psychotherapy-5186909) , engage in self-care and connect with friends and family. Activities that make you feel supported can reassure your body that you're safe, reducing the need for nightly cortisol spikes.
## Poor Sleep Hygiene
Many people have trouble sleeping due to factors they may not realize, such as inconsistent bedtimes, consuming caffeine late in the day, or spending too much time on screens.
[Sleep hygiene](https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-sleep-hygiene-5085887) involves the habits and conditions during your day that affect your natural sleep-wake cycle. [Your body uses environmental light](https://www.verywellmind.com/synchronizing-biological-clock-daily-schedule-4174976) and temperature changes to determine the time of day, which influences your alertness or sleepiness.
In an ideal world, your sleep hygiene would include waking up to bright, natural sunlight, then gradually increasing your activity levels as light levels and temperature increase, peaking in the afternoon. Then, begin winding down your activity levels as temperature and light levels decrease before finally going to sleep in the dark.
[Poor sleep hygiene](https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-ditch-poor-sleep-hygiene-5225795) is any part of your day that doesnât match that ideal. Some of the most common culprits of poor sleep hygiene include:
- Using screens that emit bright [blue light](https://www.verywellhealth.com/best-blue-light-blocking-glasses-4579815), like TV or your phone in the evening.5
- Consuming caffeine, sugar, or other ingredients that cause a spike in energy or alertness later in the day when you should be winding down.
- Waking up in a dark room.
- A sedentary lifestyle where you donât get much physical activity during the day.
- Working, reading, watching TV or doing anything other than sleep in your bed.
When these bad habits disrupt your body's natural sleep cycle, falling and staying asleep becomes a lot more difficult. The result is often a night of tossing and turning, followed by a day of excessive sleepiness and lingering fatigue. Improving your sleep hygiene can often make a BIG difference when it comes to getting the deep, restorative sleep that you need.
### Mindful Moment
Need a breather? Take this free [2-minute meditation to help you fall asleep](https://www.verywellmind.com/2-minute-video-meditation-to-drift-off-to-sleep-8559761)âor choose from our [guided meditation library](https://www.verywellmind.com/guided-meditations-8609227) to find another one that will help you feel your best.
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### Solution
Some of the best things you can do to improve your sleep hygiene involve being more consistent with your sleep schedule and making sure you adapt to light and temperature conditions to help trigger different phases of the cycle.
Here are a few tricks you can try:
- Open your curtains so you can wake up to sunlight.
- Try to spend about two hours outside in the sun in the morning or afternoon.6 For example, eat breakfast in your backyard and take your lunch break outside.
- Dim or turn off lights when youâre at home relaxing in the evening.
- If youâre not ready to give up screens at night, lower the brightness level and the sound volume. Also, consider trying to enforce a [screen ban on yourself](https://www.verywellmind.com/why-and-how-to-do-a-digital-detox-4771321) for at least the last hour right before bedtime.
- Lower the temperature about one or two hours before bed, ideally to between 65â° and 68â° Fahrenheit.
- If you canât touch the thermostat, take a hot bath or shower about 30-60 minutes before bed so that the comparatively cooler air when you get out of the water causes a decrease in body temperature.
[11 Ways to Get Better Sleep](https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-get-better-sleep-5094084)
## Menstrual Cycle, Menopause or Pregnancy
Hormones also play a vital role in regulating sleep. If it feels like your body won't let you sleep, it's important to consider whether monthly changes in hormone levels might be a culprit.
For people who menstruate, the monthly fluctuations in estrogen and progesterone can also impact sleep quality.7
The changes in estrogen and progesterone levels that accompany your menstrual cycle might make it difficult to fall asleep.
For the same reasons, the hormonal changes that come with pregnancy and menopause can also disrupt your sleep cycle. Heightened levels during pregnancy can cause daytime sleepiness and fatigue, while the sharp decline in those hormones during menopause can make it harder to fall asleep.
Understanding how these hormonal fluctuations might affect your sleep can help you recognize the causes and take steps to address these changes to minimize their impact on your body's ability to rest.
### Solution
If you often find it hard to sleep right before or during your period, talk to your doctor about possibly taking [melatonin](https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-melatonin-5114942) or medication during this time. Your doctor might recommend a hormonal treatment when you begin menopause.
## Circadian Rhythm Misalignment
Your body tries to stick to a relatively consistent 24-hour cycle. But sometimes, your internal clock doesn't sync up with your environment.
[Jet lag](https://www.verywellmind.com/jet-lag-symptoms-causes-coping-and-prevention-7095358), which occurs when you travel to a different time zone and struggle to adjust your sleep schedule to fit, is one common example. However, this can also happen if you do [shift work](https://www.verywellmind.com/shift-work-sleep-disorder-7098445) and your schedule isn't consistent from week to week.
Another possible cause of disruption is whatâs sometimes called "social jet lag" or [delayed sleep phase syndrome](https://www.verywellmind.com/delayed-sleep-phase-syndrome-symptoms-causes-and-treatment-7110083).8 This refers to people whose internal clock is naturally out of alignment with the society they live in.
If you need to go to bed at 10:00 p.m. to get enough sleep before work in the morning, but your melatonin and other sleep hormones don't start increasing until midnight, you'll struggle to force yourself into a sleep-wake cycle that fits your work schedule.
### Solution
Unfortunately, thereâs no quick fix for this.
By paying extra attention to your sleep hygiene, including using light and temperature to trigger wakefulness and sleepiness during the day, you can gradually reprogram your internal clock to better fit your daily routine. Bright light therapy and certain medications may help.
## What Should I Do If I Can't Fall Asleep?
A lot of the solutions above are more long-term fixes and prevention methods. In the meantime, here are some [strategies you can try right now that may help you fall asleep](https://www.verywellmind.com/military-sleep-method-7111161) tonight.
### Do a Mindful Activity
If you've been lying in bed for more than 25 minutes without being able to fall asleep, get up and go to a different room. Leave your phone and any other screen behind and spend time doing a quiet, mindful activity in the dark or low lighting. Mindful activities can involve:
- [Yoga](https://www.verywellmind.com/yoga-for-sleep-benefits-poses-and-how-to-get-started-5209194)
- Reading a book
- Folding laundry
- [Meditation](https://www.verywellmind.com/types-of-meditation-to-find-your-calm-8553523)
- [Journaling](https://www.verywellmind.com/the-benefits-of-journaling-for-stress-management-3144611)
- Knitting
- Puzzles
- [Drawing or coloring](https://www.verywellmind.com/drawing-art-therapy-and-stress-relief-3144585)
Sometimes, when it's hard to fall asleep, the [worry you feel about the fact that you canât fall asleep](https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-sleep-anxiety-7109292) ends up making it even harder. A mindful activity you enjoy can take your attention away from that worry and help put you in a calmer, more restful mental state.
If you start to feel sleepy at any point, go lay down in bed again. But if youâre still awake 25 minutes later, get up and repeat the process.
### Do Something Kind for Yourself
If anxiety or depression are keeping you awake, you can try reclaiming control of your mind by combatting negative thoughts with defiant acts of kindness. Just because your brain is trying to convince you that you havenât earned rest or you don't deserve to relax doesnât mean you have to listen.
If your brain is convincing you itâs all pointless or hopeless, you can still choose pointless joy over pointless stress.
Blatantly contradict that train of thought by doing something nice for yourself.
- Get up and take a bubble bath.
- Go sit outside and admire the stars.
- Paint your nails your favorite color.
- Toss your blanket in the dryer for five minutes so you can wrap yourself up in its cozy warmth.
The negative thoughts might persist, but get in the habit of insisting that youâre going to choose joy regardless.
[12 Tips for Better Sleep With Anxiety](https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-sleep-with-anxiety-5224455)
## Try Our Sleep Quiz
Our fast and free [sleep quiz](https://www.verywellmind.com/sleep-quiz-how-well-are-you-sleeping-7562482) can help you determine whether or not some of your sleep issues could potentially be connected to a sleep disorder:
This sleep quiz was medically reviewed by Shaheen Lakhan, MD, PhD, FAAN.
Read more:
- [Living Well](https://www.verywellmind.com/living-well-7510832)
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| Readable Markdown | ### Key Takeaways
- Stress can make it hard to sleep because of increased cortisol levels.
- Mental health issues can disrupt sleep and should be addressed with care.
- Poor sleep habits like inconsistent bedtimes can worsen sleep problems.
You're exhausted, and your bed is comfy, but your mind and body refuse to shut down. If you've ever found yourself lying awake, wondering, "Why won't my body let me sleep?," you're not alone. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), millions of American adults experience problems with falling or staying asleep.1
When you feel tired, it should theoretically be easy to fall asleep. Unfortunately, thatâs not always the case. Wanting to sleep but being unable to can happen for many reasons. Stress, anxiety, hormonal imbalances, and lifestyle factors can all disrupt your body's natural sleep cycle. Here are some of the most common reasons for difficulty falling asleep.
## Stress
Research from the American Psychological Association indicates that stress levels are higher than ever, which can greatly affect your ability to relax and rest. Stress leads to the release of excess [cortisol](https://www.verywellmind.com/cortisol-and-stress-how-to-stay-healthy-3145080) in your body.2
Cortisol, often called the "stress hormone," plays multiple roles, including waking you up, keeping you alert, and raising blood sugar for energy. It works in opposition to [melatonin](https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-melatonin-5114942), the hormone that helps you feel sleepy.3
Stress can trigger an increase in [cortisol](https://www.verywellmind.com/cortisol-cocktail-for-a-month-11787394) because you need that energy and alertness to respond to threats.4
Unfortunately, that mechanism is best suited to dealing with immediate dangers (like a predator) where skipping sleep to fight or run away can save your life. For most modern causes of stress, like an excessive workload or a relationship problem, staying awake through the night doesnât really help.
### Solution
While you can't control every stressor, managing what you can is important. You might not be able to back out of existing work projects, but you can be cautious about accepting new ones. Similarly, while you can't cure a [chronic health condition](https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-cope-when-your-partner-has-a-chronic-health-issue-5193847), you can begin a tailored moderate exercise routine.
## Mental Health Issues
Sometimes, your body's inability to sleep might be a symptom of a mental health condition. Depression, anxiety, and other mental health issues can also cause sleep problems. Whether chronic or acute, these conditions are stressful, which means they trigger that same elevated cortisol release that keeps you awake at night.
Not only that, sleep disturbances are often a symptom of a mood or anxiety disorder.
### Solution
Taking care of your mental health is crucial. Consider seeing a mental health professional, even if you feel your issues aren't severe enough. Therapists can help you develop skills to improve your mental well-being, regardless of a clinical diagnosis.
In addition to [therapy](https://www.verywellmind.com/different-types-of-psychotherapy-5186909) , engage in self-care and connect with friends and family. Activities that make you feel supported can reassure your body that you're safe, reducing the need for nightly cortisol spikes.
## Poor Sleep Hygiene
Many people have trouble sleeping due to factors they may not realize, such as inconsistent bedtimes, consuming caffeine late in the day, or spending too much time on screens.
[Sleep hygiene](https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-sleep-hygiene-5085887) involves the habits and conditions during your day that affect your natural sleep-wake cycle. [Your body uses environmental light](https://www.verywellmind.com/synchronizing-biological-clock-daily-schedule-4174976) and temperature changes to determine the time of day, which influences your alertness or sleepiness.
In an ideal world, your sleep hygiene would include waking up to bright, natural sunlight, then gradually increasing your activity levels as light levels and temperature increase, peaking in the afternoon. Then, begin winding down your activity levels as temperature and light levels decrease before finally going to sleep in the dark.
[Poor sleep hygiene](https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-ditch-poor-sleep-hygiene-5225795) is any part of your day that doesnât match that ideal. Some of the most common culprits of poor sleep hygiene include:
- Using screens that emit bright [blue light](https://www.verywellhealth.com/best-blue-light-blocking-glasses-4579815), like TV or your phone in the evening.5
- Consuming caffeine, sugar, or other ingredients that cause a spike in energy or alertness later in the day when you should be winding down.
- Waking up in a dark room.
- A sedentary lifestyle where you donât get much physical activity during the day.
- Working, reading, watching TV or doing anything other than sleep in your bed.
When these bad habits disrupt your body's natural sleep cycle, falling and staying asleep becomes a lot more difficult. The result is often a night of tossing and turning, followed by a day of excessive sleepiness and lingering fatigue. Improving your sleep hygiene can often make a BIG difference when it comes to getting the deep, restorative sleep that you need.
### Solution
Some of the best things you can do to improve your sleep hygiene involve being more consistent with your sleep schedule and making sure you adapt to light and temperature conditions to help trigger different phases of the cycle.
Here are a few tricks you can try:
- Open your curtains so you can wake up to sunlight.
- Try to spend about two hours outside in the sun in the morning or afternoon.6 For example, eat breakfast in your backyard and take your lunch break outside.
- Dim or turn off lights when youâre at home relaxing in the evening.
- If youâre not ready to give up screens at night, lower the brightness level and the sound volume. Also, consider trying to enforce a [screen ban on yourself](https://www.verywellmind.com/why-and-how-to-do-a-digital-detox-4771321) for at least the last hour right before bedtime.
- Lower the temperature about one or two hours before bed, ideally to between 65â° and 68â° Fahrenheit.
- If you canât touch the thermostat, take a hot bath or shower about 30-60 minutes before bed so that the comparatively cooler air when you get out of the water causes a decrease in body temperature.
## Menstrual Cycle, Menopause or Pregnancy
Hormones also play a vital role in regulating sleep. If it feels like your body won't let you sleep, it's important to consider whether monthly changes in hormone levels might be a culprit.
For people who menstruate, the monthly fluctuations in estrogen and progesterone can also impact sleep quality.7
The changes in estrogen and progesterone levels that accompany your menstrual cycle might make it difficult to fall asleep.
For the same reasons, the hormonal changes that come with pregnancy and menopause can also disrupt your sleep cycle. Heightened levels during pregnancy can cause daytime sleepiness and fatigue, while the sharp decline in those hormones during menopause can make it harder to fall asleep.
Understanding how these hormonal fluctuations might affect your sleep can help you recognize the causes and take steps to address these changes to minimize their impact on your body's ability to rest.
### Solution
If you often find it hard to sleep right before or during your period, talk to your doctor about possibly taking [melatonin](https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-melatonin-5114942) or medication during this time. Your doctor might recommend a hormonal treatment when you begin menopause.
## Circadian Rhythm Misalignment
Your body tries to stick to a relatively consistent 24-hour cycle. But sometimes, your internal clock doesn't sync up with your environment.
[Jet lag](https://www.verywellmind.com/jet-lag-symptoms-causes-coping-and-prevention-7095358), which occurs when you travel to a different time zone and struggle to adjust your sleep schedule to fit, is one common example. However, this can also happen if you do [shift work](https://www.verywellmind.com/shift-work-sleep-disorder-7098445) and your schedule isn't consistent from week to week.
Another possible cause of disruption is whatâs sometimes called "social jet lag" or [delayed sleep phase syndrome](https://www.verywellmind.com/delayed-sleep-phase-syndrome-symptoms-causes-and-treatment-7110083).8 This refers to people whose internal clock is naturally out of alignment with the society they live in.
If you need to go to bed at 10:00 p.m. to get enough sleep before work in the morning, but your melatonin and other sleep hormones don't start increasing until midnight, you'll struggle to force yourself into a sleep-wake cycle that fits your work schedule.
### Solution
Unfortunately, thereâs no quick fix for this.
By paying extra attention to your sleep hygiene, including using light and temperature to trigger wakefulness and sleepiness during the day, you can gradually reprogram your internal clock to better fit your daily routine. Bright light therapy and certain medications may help.
## What Should I Do If I Can't Fall Asleep?
A lot of the solutions above are more long-term fixes and prevention methods. In the meantime, here are some [strategies you can try right now that may help you fall asleep](https://www.verywellmind.com/military-sleep-method-7111161) tonight.
### Do a Mindful Activity
If you've been lying in bed for more than 25 minutes without being able to fall asleep, get up and go to a different room. Leave your phone and any other screen behind and spend time doing a quiet, mindful activity in the dark or low lighting. Mindful activities can involve:
- [Yoga](https://www.verywellmind.com/yoga-for-sleep-benefits-poses-and-how-to-get-started-5209194)
- Reading a book
- Folding laundry
- [Meditation](https://www.verywellmind.com/types-of-meditation-to-find-your-calm-8553523)
- [Journaling](https://www.verywellmind.com/the-benefits-of-journaling-for-stress-management-3144611)
- Knitting
- Puzzles
- [Drawing or coloring](https://www.verywellmind.com/drawing-art-therapy-and-stress-relief-3144585)
Sometimes, when it's hard to fall asleep, the [worry you feel about the fact that you canât fall asleep](https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-sleep-anxiety-7109292) ends up making it even harder. A mindful activity you enjoy can take your attention away from that worry and help put you in a calmer, more restful mental state.
If you start to feel sleepy at any point, go lay down in bed again. But if youâre still awake 25 minutes later, get up and repeat the process.
### Do Something Kind for Yourself
If anxiety or depression are keeping you awake, you can try reclaiming control of your mind by combatting negative thoughts with defiant acts of kindness. Just because your brain is trying to convince you that you havenât earned rest or you don't deserve to relax doesnât mean you have to listen.
If your brain is convincing you itâs all pointless or hopeless, you can still choose pointless joy over pointless stress.
Blatantly contradict that train of thought by doing something nice for yourself.
- Get up and take a bubble bath.
- Go sit outside and admire the stars.
- Paint your nails your favorite color.
- Toss your blanket in the dryer for five minutes so you can wrap yourself up in its cozy warmth.
The negative thoughts might persist, but get in the habit of insisting that youâre going to choose joy regardless.
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