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| Boilerpipe Text | Over the past few years, women named Karen have taken a lot of heat in the media. The term âKarenâ has been used to describe a specific type of entitled, privileged and often middle-aged white woman. Typically, âKarenâ is depicted as demanding, self-important and constantly seeking to escalate minor inconveniences to authority figures, like demanding to âspeak to the manager.â
Identifying the folks who create unnecessary drama in our world is important. But calling them a âKarenâ isnât the best way to solve the problem. There are many reasons to have an issue with the âKarenâ stereotype. First, itâs terrible for people named Karen, and itâs also a connotation that many feel is
racist
,
sexist and ageist.
Further, according to
a new study by Trustpilot
, the stereotype isnât accurate. A recent survey by the online media site found that the people who leave the most one-star reviews arenât female, and the women who do it the most arenât named Karen.
Trustpilot is a site where people can review a business from which theyâve purchased a product or contacted customer service. According to TrustPilot, the number one biggest one-star reviewers are named John, not Karen.
âThe name John is top for [one-star] reviews in the US, with the rest of the top five positions filled by David, Michael, Chris and James,â the site wrote in
a press release
. âLooking at specific categories, John is also first for negative reviews in Business Services, Electronics and Technology, Shopping and Fashion, and Money and Insurance. Meanwhile, Lisa left the most [one-star] reviews in our Beauty and Wellbeing category.â
So, if your name is Karen, keep this story in your back pocket next time someone stereotypes you as an entitled complainer. The real complainers are the Johns and, for the women, Lisas.
Why do people go online and write negative reviews? Psychologist William Berry writes in
Psychology Today
that people get many positive benefits from complaining, although they may annoy everyone around them.
The first big reason is an ego boost. When people complain, they feel validated. It also makes them feel superior to others. Complaining can also bring like-minded people together. If you and a significant other have ever been mistreated in a restaurant or car dealership, having a mutual enemy can work wonders for your relationship.
There are also entire groups of people who bond over a common gripe.
People who habitually complain may do so because of the brainâs negativity bias. âThe human brain, geared for survival, focuses on negatives (as they appear more threatening to survival) than on positives (which enhance life but are less vital for survival),â Berry writes. âAs the brain perceives negatives at an approximated ratio of five to one, there is simply more to complain about than there is to be grateful for. Additionally, this may lead to less general happiness.â
Here are the top 15 names of consumers who leave the most one-star reviews on Trustpilot. (Also known as the folks that owe the Karens out there an apology.)
1. John
2. David
3. Michael
4. Chris
5. James
6. Mike
7. Mark
8. Robert
9. Alex
10. Paul
11. Lisa
12. Sarah
13. Steve
14. Sam
15. Daniel
This article originally appeared two years ago.
Youth-led party for community engagement, MEDEA, Tanzania Captured by James Roh for Pura
Music, community and joy drive real change
In a small village in Pwani, a district on Tanzaniaâs coast, a massive dance party is coming to a close. For the past two hours, locals have paraded through the village streets, singing and beating ngombe drums; now, in a large clearing, a woman named Sheilla motions for everyone to sit facing a large projector screen. A film premiere is about to begin.Â
Itâs an unusual way to kick off a film about gender bias, inequality, early marriage, and other barriers that prevent girls from accessing education in Tanzania. But in Pwani and beyond, local organizations supported by Malala Fund and funded by Pura are finding creative, culturally relevant ways like this one to capture peopleâs interest.Â
The film ends and Sheilla, the Communications and Partnership Lead for Media for Development and Advocacy (MEDEA), stands in front of the crowd once again, asking the audience to reflect: What did you think about the film? How did it relate to your own experience? What can we learn?Â
Sheilla explains that, once the community sees the film, âIt brings out conversations within themselves, reflective conversations.â The resonance and immediate action create a ripple effect of change.
MEDEA Screening Audience in Tanzania. Captured by James Roh for Pura
Across Tanzania, gender-based violence often forces adolescent girls out of the classroom. This and other barriers â including child marriage, poverty, conflict, and discrimination â prevent girls from completing their education around the world.Â
Sheilla and her team are using film and radio programs to address the challenges girls face in their communities. MEDEAâs ultimate goal is to affirm education as a fundamental right for everyone, and to ensure that every member of a community understands how girlsâ education contributes to a stronger whole and how to be an ally for their sisters, daughters, granddaughters, friends, nieces, and girlfriends.Â
Sheillaâs story is one of many that inspired Heart on Fire, a new fragrance from the
Pura x Malala Fund Collection
that blends the warm, earthy spices of Tanzania with a playful, joyful twist. Hereâs how Pura is using scent as a tool to connect the world and inspire action.
A partnership focused on local impact, on a global mission
Pura, a fragrance company that recognizes education as both freedom and a human right, has partnered with Malala Fund since 2022. In order to defend every girlâs right to access and complete 12 years of education, Malala Fund partners with local organizations in countries where the educational barriers are the greatest. They invest in locally-led solutions because they know that those who are closest to the problems are best equipped to solve and build durable solutions, like MEDEA, which works with communities to challenge discrimination against girls and change beliefs about their education.Â
But local initiatives can thrive and scale more powerfully with global support, which is why Pura is using their own superpower, the power of scent, to connect people around the world with the women and girls in these local communities.Â
The
Pura x Malala Fund Collection
incorporates ingredients naturally found in Tanzania, Nigeria, Pakistan, and Brazil: countries where Malala Fund operates to address systemic education barriers. Eight percent of net revenue from the
Pura x Malala Fund Collection
will be donated to Malala Fund directly, but beyond financial support, the Collection is also a love letter to each unique community, blending notes like lemon, jasmine, cedarwood, and clove to transport people, ignite their senses, and help them draw inspiration and hope from the global movement for girlsâ education. Through scent, people can connect to the courage, joy, and tenacity of girls and local leaders, all while uniting in a shared commitment to education: the belief that supporting girlsâ rights in one community benefits all of us, everywhere.Â
Youâve already met Sheilla. Now see how Naiara and Mama Habiba are building unique solutions to ensure every girl can learn freely and dare to dream.
Naiara Leite is reimagining whatâs possible in Brazil
Julia with Odara in Brazil. Captured by Luisa Dorr for Pura
In Brazil, where pear trees and coconut plantations cover the Northeastern Coast, girls like ten-year-old Julia experience a different kind of educational barrier than girls in Tanzania. Too often, racial discrimination contributes to high dropout rates among Black, quilombola and Indigenous girls in the country.Â
âIn the logic of Brazilian society, Black people donât need to study,â says Naiara Leite, Executive Coordinator of Odara, a women-led organization and Malala Fund partner. Bahia, the state where Odara is based, was once one of the largest slave-receiving territories in the Americas, and because of that history, deeply-ingrained, anti-Black prejudice is still widespread. âOur role and the image constructed around us is one of manual labor,â Naiara says.Â
But education can change that. In 2020, with assistance from a Malala Fund grant, Odara launched its first initiative for improving school completion rates among Black, quilombola, and Indigenous girls: âAyomidĂȘ Odaraâ. The young girls mentored under the program, including Julia, are known as the AyomidĂȘs. And like the
Pura x Malala Fund Collectionâs
Brazil: Breath of Courage scent, the AyomidĂȘs are fierce, determined, and bursting with energy.
AyomidĂȘs with Odara in Brazil. Captured by Luisa Dorr for Pura
AyomidĂȘs take part in weekly educational sessions where they explore subjects like education and ethnic-racial relations. The girls are encouraged to find their own voices by producing Instagram lives, social media videos, and by participating in public panels. Already, the AyomidĂȘs are rewriting the narrative on whatâs possible for Afro-Brazilian girls to achieve. One of the earliest AyomidĂȘs, a young woman named Debora, is now a communications intern. Another former AyomidĂȘ, Francine, works at UNICEF, helping train the next generation of adolescent leaders. And Julia has already set her sights on becoming a math teacher or a model.Â
âThese are generations of Black women who did not have access to a school,â Naiara says. âThese are generations of Black women robbed daily of their dreams. And weâre telling them that they could be the generation in their family to write a new story.âÂ
Mama Habiba is reframing the conversation in Nigeria
Â
Centre for Girls' Education, Nigeria. Captured by James Roh for Pura
In Mama Habibaâs home country of Nigeria, the scents of starfruit, ylang ylang and pineapple, all incorporated into the
Pura x Malala Collectionâs
âNigeria: Hope for Tomorrow,â can be found throughout the vibrant markets. Like these native scents, Mama Habiba says that the Nigerian girls are also bright and passionate, but too often they are forced to leave school long before their potential fully blooms.Â
âââSome of these schools are very far, and there is an issue of quality, too,â Mama Habiba says. âMost parents find out when their children are in school, the girls are not learning. So why allow them to continue?âÂ
When girls drop out of secondary school, marriage is often the alternative. In Nigeria, one in three girls is married before the age of 18. When this happens, girls are unable to fulfill their potential, and their families and communities lose out on the social, health and economic benefits.
Completing secondary school delays marriage, and according to
UNESCO
, educated girls become women who raise healthier children, lift their families out of poverty and contribute to more peaceful, resilient communities.
Centre for Girlsâ Education, Nigeria. Captured by James Roh for Pura
To encourage young girls to stay in school, the Centre for Girlsâ Education, a nonprofit in Nigeria founded by Mama Habiba and supported by Malala Fund and Pura, has pioneered an initiative thatâs similar to the AyomidĂȘ workshops in Brazil: safe spaces. Here, girls meet regularly to learn literacy, numeracy, and other issues like reproductive health. These safe spaces also provide an opportunity for the girls to role-play and learn to advocate for themselves, develop their self-image, and practice conversations with others about their values, education being one of them. In safe spaces, Mama Habiba says, girls start to understand âwho she is, and that she is a girl who has value. She has the right to negotiate with her parents on what she really feels or wants.â
âWhen girls are educated, they can unlock so many opportunities,â Mama Habiba says. âIt will help the economy of the country. It will boost so many opportunities for the country. If they are given the opportunity, I think the sky is not the limit. It is the starting point for every girl.â Â
From parades, film screenings to safe spaces and educational programs, girls and local leaders are working hard to strengthen the quality, safety and accessibility of education and overcome systemic challenges. They are encouraging courageous behavior and reminding us all that
education is freedom.
Experience the
Pura x Malala Fund Collection
here, and connect with the stories of real girls leading change across the globe.
There are many ways to pay tribute to a
music artist
through a cover of one of their
songs
. Some honor their inspiration by playing their hit song in a different genre of music. Others cover the song through different instrumentation or key changes. Then thereâs the guy who performs his cover with rubber
chickens
.
The professional pianist known as Lord Vinheteiro has gotten attention on
TikTok
by performing Guns Nâ Rosesâ song âSweet Child Oâ Mine.â Only, instead of the vocal stylings of Axl Rose, Vinheteiro sings the song through the squeaky voices of rubber chickens of varying sizes. And he nails it.
Commenters were equal parts impressed and amused:
âHow does one tune a rubber chicken?â
âNext yearâs Super Bowl show! UNRIVALED!!!â
âIf you close your eyes, it sounds just like Axl Rose.â
âThis is what the internet was invented for.â
âI donât care what yâall say⊠THIS IS TALENT.â
âSimply awesome, Maestro!â
âAs a middle school science teacher would you mind if I showed this video to my students? Weâre studying sound waves and this is a perfect example of frequency and pitch.â
âNeeded this smile. Thank you.â
âClucking brilliant.â
Who is this rubber chicken maestro?
Lord Vinheteiro, the professional name of Brazilian musician
FabrĂcio AndrĂ© Bernard Di Paolo
, has entertained the Internet since 2008. He gained attention through his expert piano skillsâwhere heâs playing theme songs from
cartoons
or playing the piano at a distance
with strings
. All the while, Vinheteiro adds to the absurdity by looking directly into the camera with an expressionless face.
Prior to his career as a
YouTube content creator
and music teacher, Paolo worked in
construction
. His videos grew in popularity in his
native Brazil
before gaining traction worldwide. Until recently, he showcased his classical music prowess by playing video game themes and other pop-culture favorites. In 2025, he began expanding his musical talent by incorporating rubber chickens into his content.
While still showcasing his impressive piano skills, he frequently shows off his rubber chicken singing abilities using chickens of various sizes. Impressively, Paolo is able to hit the proper tone and pitch with expert grip and timing. This feat has earned him millions of views on rubber chicken versions of a wide variety of songs, from System of a Downâs âChop Suey!â to Queenâs âBohemian Rhapsody,â and even the âImperial Marchâ theme from
Star Wars
.
If you are amused and fascinated by Lord Vinheteiroâs work, check out his
social media
for more. It may be piano and rubber chickens for now, but itâll be interesting to see which instrument he masters next.
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Canva
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22 common Southern phrases that leave people scratching their heads
Visiting different states within America
can sometimes feel like traveling to a completely different country, given the significant cultural differences and accents. Visiting parts of Louisiana may make you feel like you require a translator to navigate your vacation, as people often speak Creole or
Cajun
âboth of which have very thick, unique accents.
Southern Mississippi
also has a mishmash of accents that range from Cajun to a non-distinct regional accent.
But one thing North Carolina has in common
with states like Texas, Mississippi, and Louisiana is that they all have a range of southern colloquialisms that translate fine between southern states. Itâs when those creative southern phrases make their way above the Mason-Dixon Line that causes some confusion. Many southerners who travel north for work, pleasure, or relocation adapt quickly to not using uniquely southern phrases after experiencing looks of bewildered confusion.
Welcome to North Carolina State Line!
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Oftentimes, southerners donât even know where their beloved and well-used phrases originated or why. As far as a Google search pulls up, thereâs never been a child born in the world who has ever been small enough to be âknee high to a grasshopper,â but thatâs not going to stop PawPaw from saying it. People who are used to hearing the sometimes outrageous phrases simply interpret them themselves and add them to their own lexicon for future use.
General Southern expressions to keep in your pocket
1. âYou donât believe fat meat is greasy.â
This is an expression often used when someone is intent on not listening to advice. It essentially means they wonât believe it until they see or experience it themselves. We all know someone who has to learn lessons the hard way, and this is the saying that conveys that message without sounding harsh.
Smiling together:
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2. âThe Lord willing and the creek donât rise.â
A phrase like this is used a lot by elders. It just adds a little dramatic flair when theyâre making plans. In a conversation, it would go like this: âSo, Iâll see you next Sunday at the potluck, right?â There may be a pause for emphasis along with a fist perched on their hip before responding, âThe Lord willing and the creek donât rise.â Just know theyâll be there as long as they wake up in the morning and thereâs no natural disaster preventing them from getting there.
3. âThereâs more than one way to skin a cat.â
This particular one is a phrase my husband uses often. It is often said by men doing manual labor, whether itâs at work or around the house. If someone is trying something that isnât working, they have to come up with a better idea of how to make it work. If the original person pushes back on trying it a different way, thatâs when youâll hear, âThereâs more than one way to skin a cat.â To date, no one has skinned a cat to prove a point, that Iâm aware of, but thereâs debate on its origin. Itâs believed to come from a phrase used in the
mid-1600s in England
, âThereâs more than one way to kill a dog than hanging.â
Surprised cat faces an idiom shock!
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Eventually, it got changed to the cat idiom southerners say today, though some suggest the phrase came from when womenâs
coats were made from cat fur
âŠ(thatâs information you canât unlearn). Either way, as someone who has lived in the south for more than 20 years, you can rest assured that the only people skinning cats down here are taxidermists with the pet ownerâs permission. Just know theyâre saying thereâs more than one way to get the job done.
4. âDonât pee on my leg and tell me itâs raining.â
This is just a fancy way of telling someone not to lie to you.
5. âWell, you look rode hard and put up wet.â
Honestly, if someone says this to you, youâre looking mighty bad. This means not only do you look exhausted, but you also look disheveled, and maybe even ill. When people say this, itâs not meant to be rude. Theyâre typically genuinely concerned about your well-being, whether it be that you appear to need a break or you need to rest and get some soup in your belly.
Feeling under the weather with a warm cup in hand.
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6. âP*ss or get off the potâ and âFish or cut bait.â
These two phrases mean the exact same thing. Theyâre calling out someoneâs lack of progress and can be applied to all sorts of situations. It means to do what youâre supposed to be doing or get out of the way so someone else can do the job you wonât. By the time someone says this, theyâre a little annoyed, so itâs best to go ahead and âpee or get off the potâ before they move you over and do it themselves.
7. âWell, butter my butt and call me a biscuit.â
You can stick this in the same category as, âWell, Iâll be a monkeyâs uncle.â Itâs meant to convey genuine surprise and delight in information theyâve just received or upon seeing someone they havenât seen in a while and werenât expecting. Itâs a fun one to say, even outside of the South, due to the humorous element.
8. âIâve got a hitch in my giddy-upâ
Youâve got a limp due to hurting yourself somehow, or youâre feeling under the weather in some way thatâs slowing you down.
9. âWhy, bless your little pea-pickinâ heart.â
Ouch! Youâve just been insulted, and they wanted to make sure you knew. âBless your heartâ on its own can be said in a condescending way or a genuine, âIâm so sorry youâre going through thisâ way. Using tone and context clues can help you decipher the difference. But when they add âlittle pea-pickinâ right in the middle of the phrase, go grab some ointment because that was meant to sting.
10. âIâm going to snatch her baldheaded.â
Whoever is the target of that comment should probably avoid being around the person making it. See also, âIâm going to jerk a knot in her tail.â When itâs an adult directing the comment at another adult, it could simply mean theyâre going to have a verbal confrontation. But, depending on the person, it could also mean physical confrontation because that is not off the table in Southern culture. If itâs a parent directing the expression towards their child, then it usually means that the child is going to get into trouble.
Two women in a park having a tense conversation.
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Southern expressions about looks and intelligence
11. âPull your dress down, everyone can see Christmas.â
This feels self-explanatory, but itâs something you might hear a friend say to another friend to address a wardrobe malfunction. You may also hear a parent telling their young daughter a version of this as theyâre learning how to properly sit in a dress. Also see, âPull down that skirt! We can see clear to the promised land.â
12. âThey fell out of the ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down.â
Also in the vein of calling someone unattractive, one might say, âHeâs so ugly he could make paint peel.â
13. âPants are so tight you can see his thoughts.â
Those are some really tight pants.
14. âSheâs just as loony as a Betsy Bug.â
Until today, I had no idea what a Betsy Bug was, but apparently
itâs a type of beetle that eats decomposing wood
. There doesnât seem to be an explanation for what makes the beetle loony, though.
15. âWell, arenât you as bright as a box of black crayons.â
Have you ever seen a bright black crayon? If southerners are good at one thing, itâs insults.
16. âThat boyâs so dumb heâd throw himself on the ground and miss.â
See also: âHe ainât got the good sense God gave a mule,â and, âIf he had an idea, it would die of loneliness.â
Bonus sayings you donât want to miss
Clearly, southerners have a way with words, but there are a few more that can be fun to pull out for a party trick. A favorite is, âThat really burns my biscuits,â but a close second is, âIâm fuller than a tick on a dogâs behind.â If you want to get around the ears of nosey children while having a chat about an adult encounter, some people in the south will say, âHe took me to church,â âI was singing opera,â or âWe stayed in and played the piano.â
Whenever you decide to pull out any of these phrases, just make sure itâs not one thatâll make someone â
madder than a wet hen,
â and youâll be golden.
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An image of an embarrassed woman interlaid with a picture of two people cuddling while watching Netflix.
For many, if not most of us, when someone uses the term â
Netflix
and chill,â we know it to be a euphemism for, well, not much
TV
watching.Â
And yet, not everyone knows that this
phrase
has sexual connotations, apparently. At least one 34-year-old female college professor recently admitted to not knowing. Too bad she had been using the phrase as one of her go-to âicebreakersâ in class.
A teacher learns sheâs been using âNetflix
Â
and chillâ wrong
As she shared on
Reddit
, she would often list âNetflix and chillâ as one of her favorite hobbies. Not only that, but whenever students mentioned how stressed they were, she would reiterate: âWhile itâs important to study, itâs also important to take time to relax and recharge, so I hope they are able to do something for themselves soon, like âNetflix and chill.ââÂ
It wasnât until she visited her husband for lunch at his work and struck up a conversation with two of his co-workers that she discovered her hefty misunderstanding.
âIâm currently on maternity leave and mentioned to his co-workers that I canât wait for my infant to be older so I can âNetflix and chillâ again instead of having to feed and change diapers,â she wrote.Â
When one of the coworkers had a âshocked look on his face,â the OP was âconfused.â She couldnât believe it when this person explained that itâs a âeuphemism for hooking up.â And yet, when the other coworker, a 50-year-old female, said, âOh heâs right, even I know what that means!â there was really no denying it.Â
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Well, understandably, this woman was âmortifiedâ at having learned the truth and was ânow terrified Iâm going to be reported for sexual harassment because I guess Iâve been inadvertently telling my students I love to hook up and have been encouraging them to hook up, too??â
In her defense, itâs true that âNetflix and chillâ used to mean relaxing while streaming, but
that was about 17 years ago
. The context we are all familiar with has been around since 2015.
She also noted that she and her husband married young and therefore never spent much time on dating apps, which could help explain why she remained unaware. Plus, she lived at home and worked two jobs during her college years, which meant âNetflix and chillâ was literally âNetflixing and chilling,â she quipped.Â
All in all, she chalked this up to being an âoblivious Millennial.â And by that, she meant a âMillennial who is clearly obliviousâ to something âinvented by Millennials and has been around for at least 10-15 years.âÂ
Redditâs reactions
Down in the comments, people tried to ease her worries about the whole accidental harassment thing.Â
âThey either thought you were adorably clueless, or just a very cool teacher. Donât sweat it.â
 âEither people figured she didnât know and thought it was funny or just assumed theyâre very open and sex positive. NBD either way.â
âRate my professor: 10/10. She told me I can come over and netflix and chill anytime
â
Others didnât let her off so easily, especially when she surmised that her older coworkers also likely didnât know what it meant.Â
âI was shocked when I opened the post and saw OP was 34. I expected her to be 64.â
âI am 38 and have known what it means since itâs been around. This definitely isnât an age thing, this is a living under a rock thing lolâ
 âIâm an out of touch millennial but thatâs been a saying for like a decade now. lol. You might be under a rock.â
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Regardless, the OP has had a good sense of humor despite being mortified. She concluded her post by saying, âAnyone who has lived the past decade+ under a rock like me is welcome to come over to my place and literally chill and watch Netflix with me anytime! Iâll supply the popcorn
â
Listen, itâs bonkers when things like this happen, but they do happen. Is it embarrassing? Sure. But does it remind us that life is about laughing at ourselves? Also yes.
There is a particular kind of frustration that comes with being told how to
mow your own lawn
. Not whether the grass is too long, not whether the edges need trimming, but the specific direction
your lawnmower
needs to travel. For the man behind the TikTok account
@rootedlawnco
, that was apparently the line.
His
HOA
had instructed him to mow only in straight lines. So he did. Sort of.
In a
video
that has been bouncing around TikTok with the caption
âTake that HOA,â
he methodically mows his lawn in long, flowing, perfectly symmetrical waves. The result is gorgeous: a sea of alternating light and dark grass bands that roll across the yard like something off a golf course or a baseball field. He even varies the cut depth on alternating passes to give it a color shift, which makes the whole thing pop even more from a distance. The text overlay on the video reads, âWhen HOA tells you only straight lines.â His face, for what itâs worth, is extremely unbothered.
In a
follow-up video,
he shared an aerial shot of the lawn covered in sand: âPOV: You canât go to the beach, so you bring the waves to you.â
The comments landed exactly where youâd expect. âTell them you have astigmatism and this is straight,â wrote
@nowherenothin
.
@spiderlover74
added, âNo way theyâre trying to control the direction you mow your lawn.â One commenter,
@caffeinatedpossum
, offered a legal-ish read on the situation: âHOAs have legal rights to control the aesthetic of your grass, but thereâs no legal standard for them to control cutting patterns as the cutting pattern is semantic.â (Thatâs one interpretation, though HOA rules vary widely by state and governing documents, so your mileage may vary on that one.)
The broader frustration behind the video is real and well documented. A survey conducted by
Rocket Mortgage found that 57% of HOA homeowners dislike having one
, and more than 3 in 10 feel their HOA has too much power. A separate
YouGov poll
found that most Americans actually oppose HOA rules specifically around landscaping, with more people against those restrictions than in favor of them. And yet, 38% of HOA residents think their HOA is too restrictive, with rules about yard signs, fences, and landscaping among the most contested.
Itâs worth saying that HOAs were not invented to tell people which direction to push their lawnmower. The idea was originally to maintain shared spaces and protect property values. But thereâs a gap between that intention and the reality of a board with the authority to regulate the pattern of someoneâs grass, and that gap is where videos like this one get millions of views.
In yet
another video
, he openly disregards the HOAâs rules against using sand to level his yard: âPOV: When the HOA says no sand, but you did it anywayâŠâ
There is something deeply satisfying about a response that is simultaneously fully compliant and completely defiant. He did not fight the rule. He did not post an angry letter or file a complaint. He just made something beautiful out of the constraint, posted it to TikTok, and let the rest of us enjoy it.
The lawn looks incredible, for the record.
You can follow
@rootedlawnco
on TikTok for more content on home decor and lifestyle.
Woman gets shamed at CVS for âsonâsâ unusual name. The reality has people rolling.
It started like any ordinary pharmacy errand. A Michigan woman named Sarah was waiting at CVS to pick up a prescription for her âson.â When another woman waiting in line overheard the name of her âson,â she apparently couldnât help but let out an unsolicited opinion.âYouâll really name your son anything, huh?â the woman saidâŠ
2/16/2026
It started like any ordinary
pharmacy
errand. A
Michigan
woman named Sarah was waiting at CVS to pick up a prescription for her â
son.â
When another woman waiting in line overheard the name of her âson,â she apparently couldnât help but let out an unsolicited opinion.
âYouâll really name your son anything, huh?â the woman said with a sigh.
The name in question? Whiskey.
At least it wasn't Bubbles.
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Now, if youâre picturing a tiny human in a onesie named after your dadâs favorite Friday-night drink, and feeling a little baffled in the process, donât worry. So was everyone else.
Except Whiskey isnât a little boy. Heâs a
red
golden retriever
.
Yep. Sarahâs âsonâ is of the four-legged variety, currently undergoing cancer treatments and racking up a pharmacy bill that could rival a small countryâs GDP. She and her husband get his prescriptions filled at their local CVS because (fun fact) many human and animal meds are the same, just at different doses.
You just know there's a person named Whiskey out there getting a kick out of this.
media4.giphy.com
As Sarah explained to
Newsweek
,
this strategy saves them a few bucks, but can certainly lead to some incredible misunderstandings.
In her TikTok video, which has now been watched over 3 million times, Sarah retold this CVS name-shaming incident, and viewers collectively lost it.
One commenter shared, âI was shaming you too until you said dog!â Another wrote, âI mean, Whiskey is a horrible name for a child
But for a dog? Okay lol.â
However, a few folks came to Sarahâs defense. One person noted, âThere are women named Brandiâwhatâs wrong with Whiskey?â Another admitted, âin my 49 years I didnât know CVS filled pet meds!â
Itâs the kind of mix-up that reminds us how funny life can be when the human and animal worlds collide. Because letâs face it: Whiskey the dog? Adorable. Whiskey the toddler? Maybe⊠less so. It might be a mostly unspoken rule, but a rule nonetheless.
As for what became of that misunderstanding, Sarah shared that when the other woman called Whiskey a âhorribleâ name for a child to grow up with that could lead to getting bullied in school, Sarah quipped back with âWell, heâs a dog. So I donât think so.â Upon that realization, Sarah told
Newsweek
that she âapologized very nicelyâ once she learned that Whiskey was, in fact, a dog.
As Sarah put it, the stranger âjust left in a hurry, probably to think about her actions later.â
Meanwhile, TikTok is still chuckling, and celebrating one very good boy with a name that fits him perfectly.
Moral of the story: some names are meant for baby humans, like Zach or Emma
.
Others are for the fur babies who greet you at the door with a wagging tail and oodles of loveâŠlike
Whiskey.
This article originally appeared last year
Photo credit:
Canva
â
Curling has become a surprisingly popular Olympic sport.
When curling became an official
Olympic sport
in 1998, it was met with a fair amount of curiosity and confusion, at least among people outside
Canada
,
Scotland
, and the
Scandinavian countries
where it has long been a
winter sport
tradition. Without an explanation of whatâs happening, curling can look downright bizarre: large stones sliding across the ice toward a target, while people vigorously sweep the ice in front of them as the person who threw the stone yells unintelligibly.
Itâs not obvious what skills are required for curling just by watching, which initially led people to poke fun at the event. More recent Olympic Games, however, have seen interest in curling grow as people find the sport strangely riveting. Now, curling has reached even greater heights of popularity, as evidenced by satirical curling-at-home videos popping up on social media.
Many of them use a combo of a Roomba and a Swiffer, which works perfectly:
Why
Swiffer
is not the official sponsor of all Olympic curling events is a mystery.
Some creators take it a little further, adding in the yelling component:
Others use different household items, like a teapot, for a curling stone and add commentary:
And believe it or not, someone even used a baby as a curling stone, with the caption, âWhen new dads in Canada are left unsupervised.â
So how exactly did we get here?
The history of curling
No one knows the exact origins of curling, but there is evidence of the sport (or something like it) being played by monks on frozen lakes and ponds in Scotland in the 16th century. Farmers would join in curling games during the winter months, and as the sport evolved through the 1800s, it became more organized. Rules were formalized, and people began traveling to watch and participate in competitions held outdoors in large Scottish cities. The Scots eventually took the sport with them to other countries, and by the 1900s, curling had transformed from a Scottish outdoor pastime into an international, mostly indoor sport.
How does curling work as a sport?
Curling is played by two teams of four, with each team aiming to get its eight stones closest to the center of a target called a âhouse.â Teams alternate âthrowingâ their stones, which really means gliding them along the ice. Sweepers brush the ice to help guide the stones, while the team captain, or âskip,â gives directions, often by yelling, to place the stones where they want them to go.
After all 16 stones are thrown, the team with a stone closest to the center of the house
scores
one point for each of its stones that landed inside the house. The other team does not score at all in that round, called an âend.â There are eight or 10 ends per game, depending on the event, and the team with the most points after all the ends have been played is the winner.
Hereâs a visual explainer that goes through the basics:
Fun facts about curling
Tara Peterson
of the
USA Curling National Team
shared some interesting facts about curling
with Columbia Sportswear
:
Modern curling stones are made of granite that comes from only two places: a quarry in Wales and an uninhabited island off the coast of Scotland called
Ailsa Craig
.
Curling is called curling because of the way the stone curves depending on how itâs spun, but exactly how that happens is still a bit of a scientific mystery. Curling stones actually move in the opposite direction of what the turn would normally dictate according to physics.
Despite the yelling, curling is considered a polite âgentlemanâsâ sport, with traditional etiquette rules observed before and after the game.
Though it may not be immediately obvious, you have to be in pretty good shape to curl. Throwing a 42-pound stone, even on ice, isnât as easy as it looks, and the person throwing it must remain crouched close to the ground for long periods. Sweeping also requires arm strength and cardiovascular endurance.
Curling requiresu00a0more athleticism than it first appears.
Photo credit: Canva
Curlers wear two different shoes, one designed for gripping the ice and the other for sliding. The slider sole is made of Teflon or stainless steel, while the grippy sole is made of rubber.
Curling is called the âroaring game,â which might sound odd, but the sound of the stones gliding over the ice is apparently much louder in person than it sounds on TV.
Every sport is more fun to watch when you actually know what youâre seeing, and curling is no exception. If youâre wondering who to watch,
Canada
has traditionally dominated the sport, though
Sweden
trails by only two medals
in total Olympic curling medals
. And if youâre curious how
Scotland
fares as the original home of the sport, its curlers compete under
Great Britainâ
s flag.
Photo credit:
Photo Credit: Chase Hofer, Instagram
â
An Austin Powers impersonator shows up in Chase Hofer's apartment.
It was groovy, baby.
Chase Hofer
woke up one day and decided to hire an
Austin Powers
impersonator to just, well, come over. And that he did, creating a brilliantly funny and equally
awkward
exchange between two guys just hanging in an apartment. (Albeit one of them was dressed head to toe as the infamous English ladiesâ man.)
For those unfamiliar with the
Austin Powers
franchise, comedian
Mike Myers
created and played the character in a series of three films directed by Jay Roach. The gist was that Powers is a British international spy who loved crushed velvet suits and âshaggingâ and wasnât ashamed of either. The purposely cringe-heavy dialogue created hours of fun, and the â60s spy satire was blatant.
In the clip, Hofer opens the door to find âAustin Powersâ (as played by actual impersonator
Richard Halpern
) dressed in his trademark blue velour suit, frilly white shirt, and thick black glasses. They shake hands, and Halpern immediately says, âYou must be Chase, baby! What a grip you have. You must live alone!â They laugh uproariously.
Halpern asks, âSo what do you want me to do? Like what I would do at a party?â He then begins laughing maniacally, pacing and yelling out some of his catchphrasesâmost notably, âOh, BEHAVE.â After turning to his smartphone, he remembers a line that would only work if looking at a womanâs chest area: âOh, you make a lovely couple.â This lands awkwardly, as he tries to explain that itâs a âboobieâ reference. Hofer assures him he got it, though itâs a âdifferent time.â
From there, the awkwardness just gets better. Halpern is now lounging on the couch. Hofer asks, âDid you watch the Super Bowl?â He answers, âOh yeah, yeah sure I did.â Hofer follows this up with, âAre you more of a soccer guy since⊠U.K.?â He yells, âSoccer, I donât even know her!â Hofer attempts to feign a laugh, but it putters out pretty quickly.
The room is incredibly quiet for a bit, followed by a little more forced banter. The clip ends with the two of them watching a rap performance on TV in complete silence.
The comments on both Hoferâs TikTok and Instagram page are also truly observant and funny. One points out the commitment to the bit: âDude has the car and everything.â
Austin Powers impersonator arrives at Chase Hofer's apartment. Photo Credit: Kenneth Webb, TikTok
Another jokes, âWhen the
Austin Powers
impersonator thinks YOUâRE the weirdo.â
On Instagram, a person references the rap performance theyâre watching, noting, âThe 2016 XXL freshman cypher at the end is pure gold. PURE GOLD.â
Upworthy
had a chance to chat with Hofer, who shares how the idea sparked. âI came up with the idea after doing it with a magician! The magician was a friend of mine. So I thought it would be great to do it with this
Austin Powers
impersonator that my friends have worked with.â
Said aforementioned impersonator has been playing Austin Powers for ages. âAustin was played by this man on Instagram known as âAustin Powers Impersonator.â Heâs been doing this professionally for more than 25 years.â
(Note: On Richard Halpernâs Instagram page, he lets it be known that heâs L.A.-based and âready for YOUR event.â)
We asked if Halpern had been given a heads up. âBasically, I gave him the rundown that itâd just be us two, and then I rolled non-stop for 30 minutes. So it was basically all improv.â
As for Myers himself, Hofer is a fan. âI have not met Mike Myers! Big fan though. I felt like I was watching him a couple of days ago!â
As popular as this clip has become, some wonder if this cringe humor would be too much for younger generations. On the Reddit thread,
âDoes Generation Z enjoy the
Austin Powers
movies or find them offensive and outdated?
â the OP writes, âI recently watched
Austin Powers
with my nephew. He found half of it funny, but the other half he didnât really get. Some jokes he thought were racist and not funny. This made me wonder, Gen Z, do you like these movies, or do you find them offensive and outdated?â
The OP adds, âPersonally, I found these movies really funny. I love that Mike Myers has the laugh-per-minute dialed up in these movies. Thereâs constant jokes⊠nonstop jokes. Definitely some of the jokes lost their luster from when I was 19 years old. But the jokes are still there.â
This thread received nearly 3,000 comments. One Redditor wasnât bothered at all, noting that being offensive is the POINT. âThat seems funny to me because
Austin Powers
is a direct parody of the old
Bond
movies, so the overt sexual and offensive jokes are part of the satire.â
Another points out that itâs all relative, writing, âThe weird thing is that despite Austin being a complete and total horndog, heâs also weirdly more respectful than a lot of characters at the time or since. Thereâs a scene in one of the movies (I canât remember which one) where the female co-lead is finally willing to sleep with him after heâs been unsuccessfully hitting on her most of the movie, and he respectfully turns her down because sheâs drunk as a skunk and he has the decency to not take advantage of someone whoâs inebriated and thus canât consent.â
Perhaps Dr. Evil (also played by Myers in the
Austin Powers
films) said it best when he pointed out in
Austin Powers: International Man of Mystery
: âIâve been frozen for thirty years, okay?â
Photo credit:
Canva
â
Left: A woman holding her finger up to convey a secret. Right: A hand placing an antique item on a window ledge.
For many of us,
decluttering
is a necessary evil. We take no
joy
in it, other than knowing our lives might run a little more smoothly afterward. Itâs sort of like going to the
dentist
or getting an oil change.
But like so many of lifeâs mundanities, could decluttering become something we actually look forward to if we found a way to infuse a little playfulness?
For
Stephanie Patrick
, that meant secretly leaving random items at other peopleâs houses.
In a mega-viral
Instagram clip
, Patrick is seen placing a tiny bar of soap, a small creamer pitcher, and a vintage glass tealight candle holder on different countertops, accompanied by the caption, âSometimes you gotta do what you gotta do.â
The video has been viewed more than 25 million times, with thousands of people praising Patrick for her âdiabolicalâ yet âgeniusâ idea. Here are just a few of the reactions:
âA clever menace. I love it.â
âThis is amazing. They are going to go crazy asking each other âwhere did this come from? Do you know where this came from?ââ
âI have never felt so inspired in my whole entire life.â
âUNHEISTâ
âReverse burglaryâ
This isnât Patrickâs first, ahem, unconventional decluttering idea. In another
video
, we see her placing random itemsâa picture frame, a mini sewing kit, a sequined heart pillow, and yet another tealight candle holderâalong the aisles of
Hobby Lobby
. Retail sticker and everything.
âIâm sure they will sell eventually,â she wrote.
While leaving items for retail workers to deal with isnât the best option, Patrick clarified in the comments that she only âpretendedâ to leave the items behind. Still, thereâs something to be said for gamifying decluttering so the process itself becomes a bit more enjoyable.
Here are a
few ideas
procured from
around the web
:
Creative ways to make decluttering fun
H
anger reversal
Turn all your hangers the wrong way. When you wear an item, flip the hanger back. After six months, donate anything thatâs still reversed.
The âno-thingâ prize
Reward yourself with an experience, like a movie or dessert, rather than more items.
Take the 12-12-12 challenge
Locate 12 items to throw away, 12 to donate, and 12 to return to their proper homes. You can customize the challenge however you see fit.
Take before-and-after photos of a small area
Choose one part of your home, like a kitchen counter, and take a photo of a small area. Quickly clear away the items in the photo, then take an after shot. Once you see how your home
could
look, it becomes easier to start decluttering other areas.
Play the âminimalism gameâ
Created by Joshua Fields Millburn and Ryan Nicodemus (â
The Minimalists
â), this game has you determine how many items youâll declutter based on the day of the week, such as 20 items on the 20th. You can find a free printable by
clicking here
.
Decluttering jar
A âdeclutter jarâ contains color-coded sticks for each area of the house. The kitchen might be marked blue, with each blue stick representing a specific area, such as the pantry, under the sink, the junk drawer, or the cup shelf. Whatever stick you draw is the area you declutter. No decision-making necessary.
The âmoving methodâ
Pretend youâre moving into a smaller, but swankier, home and only keep what you absolutely love or need. Tap into your imagination while making room for real life. A win-win.
Lastly, never underestimate the power of simply throwing on a banginâ decluttering playlist. Whatever route gets you there is the route worth taking. Of course, if you follow in Patrickâs footsteps, you might have some explaining to do to your friends. |
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# Stop blaming the âKarens.â The people who complain the most have a different name.
The stereotype has been wrong all along.

By
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By
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Over the past few years, women named Karen have taken a lot of heat in the media. The term âKarenâ has been used to describe a specific type of entitled, privileged and often middle-aged white woman. Typically, âKarenâ is depicted as demanding, self-important and constantly seeking to escalate minor inconveniences to authority figures, like demanding to âspeak to the manager.â
Identifying the folks who create unnecessary drama in our world is important. But calling them a âKarenâ isnât the best way to solve the problem. There are many reasons to have an issue with the âKarenâ stereotype. First, itâs terrible for people named Karen, and itâs also a connotation that many feel is [racist](https://www.dispatch.com/story/opinion/columns/2020/08/05/column-racist-behavior-is-never-acceptable-including-lsquokarenrsquo-label/112801446/), [sexist and ageist.](https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/karen-meme-sexism-ageism-women-b1889486.html)
Further, according to [a new study by Trustpilot](https://au.trustpilot.com/blog/reviews-matter/one-star-five-star-review-names), the stereotype isnât accurate. A recent survey by the online media site found that the people who leave the most one-star reviews arenât female, and the women who do it the most arenât named Karen.
Trustpilot is a site where people can review a business from which theyâve purchased a product or contacted customer service. According to TrustPilot, the number one biggest one-star reviewers are named John, not Karen.
âThe name John is top for \[one-star\] reviews in the US, with the rest of the top five positions filled by David, Michael, Chris and James,â the site wrote in [a press release](https://au.trustpilot.com/blog/reviews-matter/one-star-five-star-review-names). âLooking at specific categories, John is also first for negative reviews in Business Services, Electronics and Technology, Shopping and Fashion, and Money and Insurance. Meanwhile, Lisa left the most \[one-star\] reviews in our Beauty and Wellbeing category.â
So, if your name is Karen, keep this story in your back pocket next time someone stereotypes you as an entitled complainer. The real complainers are the Johns and, for the women, Lisas.
Why do people go online and write negative reviews? Psychologist William Berry writes in [Psychology Today](https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-second-noble-truth/202104/the-psychology-complaining) that people get many positive benefits from complaining, although they may annoy everyone around them.
The first big reason is an ego boost. When people complain, they feel validated. It also makes them feel superior to others. Complaining can also bring like-minded people together. If you and a significant other have ever been mistreated in a restaurant or car dealership, having a mutual enemy can work wonders for your relationship.
There are also entire groups of people who bond over a common gripe.
People who habitually complain may do so because of the brainâs negativity bias. âThe human brain, geared for survival, focuses on negatives (as they appear more threatening to survival) than on positives (which enhance life but are less vital for survival),â Berry writes. âAs the brain perceives negatives at an approximated ratio of five to one, there is simply more to complain about than there is to be grateful for. Additionally, this may lead to less general happiness.â
Here are the top 15 names of consumers who leave the most one-star reviews on Trustpilot. (Also known as the folks that owe the Karens out there an apology.)
1\. John
2\. David
3\. Michael
4\. Chris
5\. James
6\. Mike
7\. Mark
8\. Robert
9\. Alex
10\. Paul
11\. Lisa
12\. Sarah
13\. Steve
14\. Sam
15\. Daniel
*This article originally appeared two years ago.*
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## ****Music, community and joy drive real change****
In a small village in Pwani, a district on Tanzaniaâs coast, a massive dance party is coming to a close. For the past two hours, locals have paraded through the village streets, singing and beating ngombe drums; now, in a large clearing, a woman named Sheilla motions for everyone to sit facing a large projector screen. A film premiere is about to begin.
Itâs an unusual way to kick off a film about gender bias, inequality, early marriage, and other barriers that prevent girls from accessing education in Tanzania. But in Pwani and beyond, local organizations supported by Malala Fund and funded by Pura are finding creative, culturally relevant ways like this one to capture peopleâs interest.
The film ends and Sheilla, the Communications and Partnership Lead for Media for Development and Advocacy (MEDEA), stands in front of the crowd once again, asking the audience to reflect: What did you think about the film? How did it relate to your own experience? What can we learn?
Sheilla explains that, once the community sees the film, âIt brings out conversations within themselves, reflective conversations.â The resonance and immediate action create a ripple effect of change.

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Across Tanzania, gender-based violence often forces adolescent girls out of the classroom. This and other barriers â including child marriage, poverty, conflict, and discrimination â prevent girls from completing their education around the world.
Sheilla and her team are using film and radio programs to address the challenges girls face in their communities. MEDEAâs ultimate goal is to affirm education as a fundamental right for everyone, and to ensure that every member of a community understands how girlsâ education contributes to a stronger whole and how to be an ally for their sisters, daughters, granddaughters, friends, nieces, and girlfriends.
Sheillaâs story is one of many that inspired Heart on Fire, a new fragrance from the [Pura x Malala Fund Collection](https://bit.ly/4bpclsk) that blends the warm, earthy spices of Tanzania with a playful, joyful twist. Hereâs how Pura is using scent as a tool to connect the world and inspire action.
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Pura, a fragrance company that recognizes education as both freedom and a human right, has partnered with Malala Fund since 2022. In order to defend every girlâs right to access and complete 12 years of education, Malala Fund partners with local organizations in countries where the educational barriers are the greatest. They invest in locally-led solutions because they know that those who are closest to the problems are best equipped to solve and build durable solutions, like MEDEA, which works with communities to challenge discrimination against girls and change beliefs about their education.
But local initiatives can thrive and scale more powerfully with global support, which is why Pura is using their own superpower, the power of scent, to connect people around the world with the women and girls in these local communities.
The [Pura x Malala Fund Collection](https://bit.ly/4snx1H1) incorporates ingredients naturally found in Tanzania, Nigeria, Pakistan, and Brazil: countries where Malala Fund operates to address systemic education barriers. Eight percent of net revenue from the [Pura x Malala Fund Collection](https://bit.ly/4bpclsk) will be donated to Malala Fund directly, but beyond financial support, the Collection is also a love letter to each unique community, blending notes like lemon, jasmine, cedarwood, and clove to transport people, ignite their senses, and help them draw inspiration and hope from the global movement for girlsâ education. Through scent, people can connect to the courage, joy, and tenacity of girls and local leaders, all while uniting in a shared commitment to education: the belief that supporting girlsâ rights in one community benefits all of us, everywhere.
Youâve already met Sheilla. Now see how Naiara and Mama Habiba are building unique solutions to ensure every girl can learn freely and dare to dream.
### ****Naiara Leite is reimagining whatâs possible in Brazil****

Julia with Odara in Brazil. Captured by Luisa Dorr for Pura
In Brazil, where pear trees and coconut plantations cover the Northeastern Coast, girls like ten-year-old Julia experience a different kind of educational barrier than girls in Tanzania. Too often, racial discrimination contributes to high dropout rates among Black, quilombola and Indigenous girls in the country.
âIn the logic of Brazilian society, Black people donât need to study,â says Naiara Leite, Executive Coordinator of Odara, a women-led organization and Malala Fund partner. Bahia, the state where Odara is based, was once one of the largest slave-receiving territories in the Americas, and because of that history, deeply-ingrained, anti-Black prejudice is still widespread. âOur role and the image constructed around us is one of manual labor,â Naiara says.
But education can change that. In 2020, with assistance from a Malala Fund grant, Odara launched its first initiative for improving school completion rates among Black, quilombola, and Indigenous girls: âAyomidĂȘ Odaraâ. The young girls mentored under the program, including Julia, are known as the AyomidĂȘs. And like the [Pura x Malala Fund Collectionâs](https://bit.ly/4bpclsk) Brazil: Breath of Courage scent, the AyomidĂȘs are fierce, determined, and bursting with energy.

AyomidĂȘs with Odara in Brazil. Captured by Luisa Dorr for Pura
AyomidĂȘs take part in weekly educational sessions where they explore subjects like education and ethnic-racial relations. The girls are encouraged to find their own voices by producing Instagram lives, social media videos, and by participating in public panels. Already, the AyomidĂȘs are rewriting the narrative on whatâs possible for Afro-Brazilian girls to achieve. One of the earliest AyomidĂȘs, a young woman named Debora, is now a communications intern. Another former AyomidĂȘ, Francine, works at UNICEF, helping train the next generation of adolescent leaders. And Julia has already set her sights on becoming a math teacher or a model.
âThese are generations of Black women who did not have access to a school,â Naiara says. âThese are generations of Black women robbed daily of their dreams. And weâre telling them that they could be the generation in their family to write a new story.â
### ****Mama Habiba is reframing the conversation in Nigeria****

Centre for Girls' Education, Nigeria. Captured by James Roh for Pura
In Mama Habibaâs home country of Nigeria, the scents of starfruit, ylang ylang and pineapple, all incorporated into the [Pura x Malala Collectionâs](https://bit.ly/4bpclsk) âNigeria: Hope for Tomorrow,â can be found throughout the vibrant markets. Like these native scents, Mama Habiba says that the Nigerian girls are also bright and passionate, but too often they are forced to leave school long before their potential fully blooms.
âââSome of these schools are very far, and there is an issue of quality, too,â Mama Habiba says. âMost parents find out when their children are in school, the girls are not learning. So why allow them to continue?â
When girls drop out of secondary school, marriage is often the alternative. In Nigeria, one in three girls is married before the age of 18. When this happens, girls are unable to fulfill their potential, and their families and communities lose out on the social, health and economic benefits.
Completing secondary school delays marriage, and according to [UNESCO](https://www.unesco.org/en/articles/unesco-sustainable-development-begins-education?utm_source=chatgpt.com), educated girls become women who raise healthier children, lift their families out of poverty and contribute to more peaceful, resilient communities.

Centre for Girlsâ Education, Nigeria. Captured by James Roh for Pura
To encourage young girls to stay in school, the Centre for Girlsâ Education, a nonprofit in Nigeria founded by Mama Habiba and supported by Malala Fund and Pura, has pioneered an initiative thatâs similar to the AyomidĂȘ workshops in Brazil: safe spaces. Here, girls meet regularly to learn literacy, numeracy, and other issues like reproductive health. These safe spaces also provide an opportunity for the girls to role-play and learn to advocate for themselves, develop their self-image, and practice conversations with others about their values, education being one of them. In safe spaces, Mama Habiba says, girls start to understand âwho she is, and that she is a girl who has value. She has the right to negotiate with her parents on what she really feels or wants.â
âWhen girls are educated, they can unlock so many opportunities,â Mama Habiba says. âIt will help the economy of the country. It will boost so many opportunities for the country. If they are given the opportunity, I think the sky is not the limit. It is the starting point for every girl.â
From parades, film screenings to safe spaces and educational programs, girls and local leaders are working hard to strengthen the quality, safety and accessibility of education and overcome systemic challenges. They are encouraging courageous behavior and reminding us all that *education is freedom.*
**Experience the [Pura x Malala Fund Collection](https://bit.ly/4snx1H1) here, and connect with the stories of real girls leading change across the globe.**
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Photo credit: [@lordvinheteiro on TikTok](https://www.tiktok.com/@lordvinheteiro/video/7605233506876214529?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc) â Rubber chickens are an underrated instrument.
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## [Brazilian pianist covers Guns Nâ Roses with the weirdest instrument of all: rubber chickens](https://www.upworthy.com/rubber-chicken-musician/)
Sweet Cluck Oâ Mine
[Erik Barnes](https://www.upworthy.com/author/erik-barnes/)
***
2/25/2026
There are many ways to pay tribute to a [music artist](https://www.upworthy.com/cold-beer-song-parody/) through a cover of one of their [songs](https://www.upworthy.com/canadian-teacher-teaches-science-pop-songs/). Some honor their inspiration by playing their hit song in a different genre of music. Others cover the song through different instrumentation or key changes. Then thereâs the guy who performs his cover with rubber [chickens](https://www.upworthy.com/tiktok-chicken-wars/).
The professional pianist known as Lord Vinheteiro has gotten attention on [TikTok](https://www.tiktok.com/@lordvinheteiro) by performing Guns Nâ Rosesâ song âSweet Child Oâ Mine.â Only, instead of the vocal stylings of Axl Rose, Vinheteiro sings the song through the squeaky voices of rubber chickens of varying sizes. And he nails it.
Commenters were equal parts impressed and amused:
*âHow does one tune a rubber chicken?â*
*âNext yearâs Super Bowl show! UNRIVALED!!!â*
*âIf you close your eyes, it sounds just like Axl Rose.â*
*âThis is what the internet was invented for.â*
*âI donât care what yâall say⊠THIS IS TALENT.â*
*âSimply awesome, Maestro!â*
*âAs a middle school science teacher would you mind if I showed this video to my students? Weâre studying sound waves and this is a perfect example of frequency and pitch.â*
*âNeeded this smile. Thank you.â*
*âClucking brilliant.â*
### Who is this rubber chicken maestro?
Lord Vinheteiro, the professional name of Brazilian musician [FabrĂcio AndrĂ© Bernard Di Paolo](https://boingboing.net/2025/10/09/this-professional-pianist-also-plays-a-mean-rubber-chicken.html), has entertained the Internet since 2008. He gained attention through his expert piano skillsâwhere heâs playing theme songs from [cartoons](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=evJaa6xcr3Y) or playing the piano at a distance [with strings](https://youtu.be/ZlbQAGj482A?si=ysxDkwdQFjMATG9e). All the while, Vinheteiro adds to the absurdity by looking directly into the camera with an expressionless face.
Prior to his career as a [YouTube content creator](https://boingboing.net/2025/10/09/this-professional-pianist-also-plays-a-mean-rubber-chicken.html) and music teacher, Paolo worked in [construction](https://g1.globo.com/jornal-nacional/noticia/2011/02/musico-faz-sucesso-na-internet-tocando-versoes-do-tema-do-jn.html). His videos grew in popularity in his [native Brazil](https://www.mixvale.com.br/2026/02/06/lord-vinheteiro-the-trajectory-of-the-pianist-who-revolutionized-classical-music-on-the-internet-with-humor-en/) before gaining traction worldwide. Until recently, he showcased his classical music prowess by playing video game themes and other pop-culture favorites. In 2025, he began expanding his musical talent by incorporating rubber chickens into his content.
While still showcasing his impressive piano skills, he frequently shows off his rubber chicken singing abilities using chickens of various sizes. Impressively, Paolo is able to hit the proper tone and pitch with expert grip and timing. This feat has earned him millions of views on rubber chicken versions of a wide variety of songs, from System of a Downâs âChop Suey!â to Queenâs âBohemian Rhapsody,â and even the âImperial Marchâ theme from *Star Wars*.
If you are amused and fascinated by Lord Vinheteiroâs work, check out his [social media](https://www.instagram.com/vinheteiro/) for more. It may be piano and rubber chickens for now, but itâll be interesting to see which instrument he masters next.
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Photo credit: [Canva](https://www.canva.com/photos) â 22 common Southern phrases that leave people scratching their heads
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## [22 common Southern phrases that leave people scratching their heads, laughing, or both](https://www.upworthy.com/confusing-hilarious-southern-phrases-ex1/)
The accent isnât the only thing different below the Mason-Dixon line.
[Jacalyn Wetzel](https://www.upworthy.com/author/jacalyn-wetzel/)
***
2/22/2026
[Visiting different states within America](https://www.upworthy.com/17-non-americans-share-the-most-american-moment-they-experienced-visiting-the-states) can sometimes feel like traveling to a completely different country, given the significant cultural differences and accents. Visiting parts of Louisiana may make you feel like you require a translator to navigate your vacation, as people often speak Creole or [Cajun](https://www.upworthy.com/american-island-brogue-ex1)âboth of which have very thick, unique accents. [Southern Mississippi](https://www.upworthy.com/lexis-redd-d-ville-is-bringing-drag-queens-mainstream-in-the-deep-south) also has a mishmash of accents that range from Cajun to a non-distinct regional accent.
[But one thing North Carolina has in common](https://www.good.is/happiest-states-in-the-us) with states like Texas, Mississippi, and Louisiana is that they all have a range of southern colloquialisms that translate fine between southern states. Itâs when those creative southern phrases make their way above the Mason-Dixon Line that causes some confusion. Many southerners who travel north for work, pleasure, or relocation adapt quickly to not using uniquely southern phrases after experiencing looks of bewildered confusion.

Welcome to North Carolina State Line! [Photo credit: Canva](https://www.canva.com/photos)
Oftentimes, southerners donât even know where their beloved and well-used phrases originated or why. As far as a Google search pulls up, thereâs never been a child born in the world who has ever been small enough to be âknee high to a grasshopper,â but thatâs not going to stop PawPaw from saying it. People who are used to hearing the sometimes outrageous phrases simply interpret them themselves and add them to their own lexicon for future use.
## General Southern expressions to keep in your pocket
### 1\. âYou donât believe fat meat is greasy.â
This is an expression often used when someone is intent on not listening to advice. It essentially means they wonât believe it until they see or experience it themselves. We all know someone who has to learn lessons the hard way, and this is the saying that conveys that message without sounding harsh.

Smiling together: [Photo credit: Canva](https://www.canva.com/photos)
### 2\. âThe Lord willing and the creek donât rise.â
A phrase like this is used a lot by elders. It just adds a little dramatic flair when theyâre making plans. In a conversation, it would go like this: âSo, Iâll see you next Sunday at the potluck, right?â There may be a pause for emphasis along with a fist perched on their hip before responding, âThe Lord willing and the creek donât rise.â Just know theyâll be there as long as they wake up in the morning and thereâs no natural disaster preventing them from getting there.
### 3\. âThereâs more than one way to skin a cat.â
This particular one is a phrase my husband uses often. It is often said by men doing manual labor, whether itâs at work or around the house. If someone is trying something that isnât working, they have to come up with a better idea of how to make it work. If the original person pushes back on trying it a different way, thatâs when youâll hear, âThereâs more than one way to skin a cat.â To date, no one has skinned a cat to prove a point, that Iâm aware of, but thereâs debate on its origin. Itâs believed to come from a phrase used in the [mid-1600s in England](https://www.bnd.com/living/liv-columns-blogs/answer-man/article181298616.html), âThereâs more than one way to kill a dog than hanging.â

Surprised cat faces an idiom shock! [Photo credit: Canva](https://www.canva.com/photos)
Eventually, it got changed to the cat idiom southerners say today, though some suggest the phrase came from when womenâs [coats were made from cat fur](https://folkwaysnowadays.com/theres-more-than-one-way-to-skin-a-cat/#:~:text=There's%20more%20than%20one%20way%20to%20skin%20a%20cat.,%2C%20therefore%2C%20must%20be%20skinned.)âŠ(thatâs information you canât unlearn). Either way, as someone who has lived in the south for more than 20 years, you can rest assured that the only people skinning cats down here are taxidermists with the pet ownerâs permission. Just know theyâre saying thereâs more than one way to get the job done.
### 4\. âDonât pee on my leg and tell me itâs raining.â
This is just a fancy way of telling someone not to lie to you.
### 5\. âWell, you look rode hard and put up wet.â
Honestly, if someone says this to you, youâre looking mighty bad. This means not only do you look exhausted, but you also look disheveled, and maybe even ill. When people say this, itâs not meant to be rude. Theyâre typically genuinely concerned about your well-being, whether it be that you appear to need a break or you need to rest and get some soup in your belly.

Feeling under the weather with a warm cup in hand. [Photo credit: Canva](https://www.canva.com/photos)
### 6\. âP\*ss or get off the potâ and âFish or cut bait.â
These two phrases mean the exact same thing. Theyâre calling out someoneâs lack of progress and can be applied to all sorts of situations. It means to do what youâre supposed to be doing or get out of the way so someone else can do the job you wonât. By the time someone says this, theyâre a little annoyed, so itâs best to go ahead and âpee or get off the potâ before they move you over and do it themselves.
### 7\. âWell, butter my butt and call me a biscuit.â
You can stick this in the same category as, âWell, Iâll be a monkeyâs uncle.â Itâs meant to convey genuine surprise and delight in information theyâve just received or upon seeing someone they havenât seen in a while and werenât expecting. Itâs a fun one to say, even outside of the South, due to the humorous element.

### 8\. âIâve got a hitch in my giddy-upâ
Youâve got a limp due to hurting yourself somehow, or youâre feeling under the weather in some way thatâs slowing you down.
### 9\. âWhy, bless your little pea-pickinâ heart.â
Ouch! Youâve just been insulted, and they wanted to make sure you knew. âBless your heartâ on its own can be said in a condescending way or a genuine, âIâm so sorry youâre going through thisâ way. Using tone and context clues can help you decipher the difference. But when they add âlittle pea-pickinâ right in the middle of the phrase, go grab some ointment because that was meant to sting.
### 10\. âIâm going to snatch her baldheaded.â
Whoever is the target of that comment should probably avoid being around the person making it. See also, âIâm going to jerk a knot in her tail.â When itâs an adult directing the comment at another adult, it could simply mean theyâre going to have a verbal confrontation. But, depending on the person, it could also mean physical confrontation because that is not off the table in Southern culture. If itâs a parent directing the expression towards their child, then it usually means that the child is going to get into trouble.

Two women in a park having a tense conversation. [Photo credit: Canva](https://www.canva.com/photos)
## Southern expressions about looks and intelligence
### 11\. âPull your dress down, everyone can see Christmas.â
This feels self-explanatory, but itâs something you might hear a friend say to another friend to address a wardrobe malfunction. You may also hear a parent telling their young daughter a version of this as theyâre learning how to properly sit in a dress. Also see, âPull down that skirt! We can see clear to the promised land.â
### 12\. âThey fell out of the ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down.â
Also in the vein of calling someone unattractive, one might say, âHeâs so ugly he could make paint peel.â

### 13\. âPants are so tight you can see his thoughts.â
Those are some really tight pants.
### 14\. âSheâs just as loony as a Betsy Bug.â
Until today, I had no idea what a Betsy Bug was, but apparently [itâs a type of beetle that eats decomposing wood](https://scienceline.org/2020/06/bug-blog/). There doesnât seem to be an explanation for what makes the beetle loony, though.
### 15\. âWell, arenât you as bright as a box of black crayons.â
Have you ever seen a bright black crayon? If southerners are good at one thing, itâs insults.

### 16\. âThat boyâs so dumb heâd throw himself on the ground and miss.â
See also: âHe ainât got the good sense God gave a mule,â and, âIf he had an idea, it would die of loneliness.â
## Bonus sayings you donât want to miss
Clearly, southerners have a way with words, but there are a few more that can be fun to pull out for a party trick. A favorite is, âThat really burns my biscuits,â but a close second is, âIâm fuller than a tick on a dogâs behind.â If you want to get around the ears of nosey children while having a chat about an adult encounter, some people in the south will say, âHe took me to church,â âI was singing opera,â or âWe stayed in and played the piano.â
Whenever you decide to pull out any of these phrases, just make sure itâs not one thatâll make someone â[madder than a wet hen,](https://grammarist.com/idiom/mad-as-a-wet-hen-and-mad-as-a-hornet/)â and youâll be golden.
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Photo credit: [Canva](https://www.canva.com/photos) â An image of an embarrassed woman interlaid with a picture of two people cuddling while watching Netflix.
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## [Teacher shares her surprisingly wholesome story of learning what âNetflix and chillâ means](https://www.upworthy.com/teacher-shares-her-surprisingly-wholesome-story-of-learning-what-netflix-and-chill-means/)
She chalked this up to being an âoblivious Millennial.â
[Heather Wake](https://www.upworthy.com/author/heather-wake/)
***
2/20/2026
For many, if not most of us, when someone uses the term â[Netflix](https://www.upworthy.com/netflix-fan-shares-hack-code-finding-shows) and chill,â we know it to be a euphemism for, well, not much [TV](https://www.upworthy.com/tag/tv) watching.
And yet, not everyone knows that this [phrase](https://www.upworthy.com/communicate-better-common-phrases) has sexual connotations, apparently. At least one 34-year-old female college professor recently admitted to not knowing. Too bad she had been using the phrase as one of her go-to âicebreakersâ in class.
### **A teacher learns sheâs been using âNetflix** **and chillâ wrong**
As she shared on [Reddit](https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/1r7y67k/tifu_by_learning_what_netflix_and_chill_is_code/?sort=new), she would often list âNetflix and chillâ as one of her favorite hobbies. Not only that, but whenever students mentioned how stressed they were, she would reiterate: âWhile itâs important to study, itâs also important to take time to relax and recharge, so I hope they are able to do something for themselves soon, like âNetflix and chill.ââ
It wasnât until she visited her husband for lunch at his work and struck up a conversation with two of his co-workers that she discovered her hefty misunderstanding.
âIâm currently on maternity leave and mentioned to his co-workers that I canât wait for my infant to be older so I can âNetflix and chillâ again instead of having to feed and change diapers,â she wrote.
When one of the coworkers had a âshocked look on his face,â the OP was âconfused.â She couldnât believe it when this person explained that itâs a âeuphemism for hooking up.â And yet, when the other coworker, a 50-year-old female, said, âOh heâs right, even I know what that means!â there was really no denying it.

[Photo credit: Canva](https://www.canva.com/photos)
Well, understandably, this woman was âmortifiedâ at having learned the truth and was ânow terrified Iâm going to be reported for sexual harassment because I guess Iâve been inadvertently telling my students I love to hook up and have been encouraging them to hook up, too??â
In her defense, itâs true that âNetflix and chillâ used to mean relaxing while streaming, but [that was about 17 years ago](https://madebyshape.co.uk/web-design-blog/how-netflix-and-chill-became-an-urban-term/). The context we are all familiar with has been around since 2015.
> Netflix and chill? No, really. [pic.twitter.com/ezcZ7V0peN](http://t.co/ezcZ7V0peN)
>
> â Netflix (@netflix) [July 22, 2015](https://twitter.com/netflix/status/623916102544814080?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw)
She also noted that she and her husband married young and therefore never spent much time on dating apps, which could help explain why she remained unaware. Plus, she lived at home and worked two jobs during her college years, which meant âNetflix and chillâ was literally âNetflixing and chilling,â she quipped.
All in all, she chalked this up to being an âoblivious Millennial.â And by that, she meant a âMillennial who is clearly obliviousâ to something âinvented by Millennials and has been around for at least 10-15 years.â
### **Redditâs reactions**
Down in the comments, people tried to ease her worries about the whole accidental harassment thing.
âThey either thought you were adorably clueless, or just a very cool teacher. Donât sweat it.â
âEither people figured she didnât know and thought it was funny or just assumed theyâre very open and sex positive. NBD either way.â
âRate my professor: 10/10. She told me I can come over and netflix and chill anytime â
Others didnât let her off so easily, especially when she surmised that her older coworkers also likely didnât know what it meant.
âI was shocked when I opened the post and saw OP was 34. I expected her to be 64.â
âI am 38 and have known what it means since itâs been around. This definitely isnât an age thing, this is a living under a rock thing lolâ
âIâm an out of touch millennial but thatâs been a saying for like a decade now. lol. You might be under a rock.â

[Photo credit: Canva](https://www.canva.com/photos)
Regardless, the OP has had a good sense of humor despite being mortified. She concluded her post by saying, âAnyone who has lived the past decade+ under a rock like me is welcome to come over to my place and literally chill and watch Netflix with me anytime! Iâll supply the popcorn â
Listen, itâs bonkers when things like this happen, but they do happen. Is it embarrassing? Sure. But does it remind us that life is about laughing at ourselves? Also yes.
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## [HOA told a guy exactly how to mow his own lawn. He found an epic loophole they didnât see coming.](https://www.upworthy.com/pn-hoa-told-a-homeowner-exactly-how-to-mow-his-lawn-he-found-am-epic-loophole/)
There is a particular kind of frustration that comes with being told how to mow your own lawn. Not whether the grass is too long, not whether the edges need trimming, but the specific direction your lawnmower needs to travel. For the man behind the TikTok account @rootedlawnco, that was apparently the line.His HOA hadâŠ
[Adam Albright-Hanna](https://www.upworthy.com/author/adam-albright-hanna/)
***
2/18/2026
There is a particular kind of frustration that comes with being told how to [mow your own lawn](https://www.upworthy.com/50-lawn-challenge-ex1). Not whether the grass is too long, not whether the edges need trimming, but the specific direction [your lawnmower](https://www.upworthy.com/kind-strangers-show-up-to-help-mow-lawn-rp8) needs to travel. For the man behind the TikTok account [@rootedlawnco](https://www.tiktok.com/@rootedlawnco/video/7445456002536885550), that was apparently the line.
His [HOA](https://www.upworthy.com/homeowners-get-perfect-revenge-on-hoa) had instructed him to mow only in straight lines. So he did. Sort of.
In a [video](https://www.tiktok.com/@rootedlawnco/video/7445456002536885550?embed_source=121374463%2C121468991%2C121439635%2C121749182%2C121433650%2C121404359%2C121497414%2C122122240%2C121351166%2C121811500%2C121960941%2C122122244%2C122122243%2C122122242%2C121487028%2C121679410%2C121331973%2C120811592%2C120810756%2C121885509%3Bnull%3Bembed_blank&refer=embed&referer_url=scoop.upworthy.com%2Fhoa-told-he-could-only-mow-lawn-in-straight-lines-he-did-the-opposite-ex1&referer_video_id=7445456002536885550) that has been bouncing around TikTok with the caption [âTake that HOA,â](https://www.tiktok.com/@rootedlawnco/video/7445456002536885550?embed_source=121374463%2C121468991%2C121439635%2C121749182%2C121433650%2C121404359%2C121497414%2C122122240%2C121351166%2C121811500%2C121960941%2C122122244%2C122122243%2C122122242%2C121487028%2C121679410%2C121331973%2C120811592%2C120810756%2C121885509%3Bnull%3Bembed_blank&refer=embed&referer_url=scoop.upworthy.com%2Fhoa-told-he-could-only-mow-lawn-in-straight-lines-he-did-the-opposite-ex1&referer_video_id=7445456002536885550) he methodically mows his lawn in long, flowing, perfectly symmetrical waves. The result is gorgeous: a sea of alternating light and dark grass bands that roll across the yard like something off a golf course or a baseball field. He even varies the cut depth on alternating passes to give it a color shift, which makes the whole thing pop even more from a distance. The text overlay on the video reads, âWhen HOA tells you only straight lines.â His face, for what itâs worth, is extremely unbothered.
In a [follow-up video,](https://www.tiktok.com/@rootedlawnco/video/7368453137943792939) he shared an aerial shot of the lawn covered in sand: âPOV: You canât go to the beach, so you bring the waves to you.â
The comments landed exactly where youâd expect. âTell them you have astigmatism and this is straight,â wrote [@nowherenothin](https://www.tiktok.com/@rootedlawnco/video/7445456002536885550). [@spiderlover74](https://www.tiktok.com/@rootedlawnco/video/7445456002536885550) added, âNo way theyâre trying to control the direction you mow your lawn.â One commenter, [@caffeinatedpossum](https://www.tiktok.com/@rootedlawnco/video/7445456002536885550), offered a legal-ish read on the situation: âHOAs have legal rights to control the aesthetic of your grass, but thereâs no legal standard for them to control cutting patterns as the cutting pattern is semantic.â (Thatâs one interpretation, though HOA rules vary widely by state and governing documents, so your mileage may vary on that one.)
The broader frustration behind the video is real and well documented. A survey conducted by [Rocket Mortgage found that 57% of HOA homeowners dislike having one](https://www.rocketmortgage.com/learn/assessing-the-association), and more than 3 in 10 feel their HOA has too much power. A separate [YouGov poll](https://today.yougov.com/economy/articles/48039-how-americans-view-hoas-and-their-influence) found that most Americans actually oppose HOA rules specifically around landscaping, with more people against those restrictions than in favor of them. And yet, 38% of HOA residents think their HOA is too restrictive, with rules about yard signs, fences, and landscaping among the most contested.
Itâs worth saying that HOAs were not invented to tell people which direction to push their lawnmower. The idea was originally to maintain shared spaces and protect property values. But thereâs a gap between that intention and the reality of a board with the authority to regulate the pattern of someoneâs grass, and that gap is where videos like this one get millions of views.
In yet [another video](https://www.tiktok.com/@rootedlawnco/video/7368453137943792939), he openly disregards the HOAâs rules against using sand to level his yard: âPOV: When the HOA says no sand, but you did it anywayâŠâ
There is something deeply satisfying about a response that is simultaneously fully compliant and completely defiant. He did not fight the rule. He did not post an angry letter or file a complaint. He just made something beautiful out of the constraint, posted it to TikTok, and let the rest of us enjoy it.
The lawn looks incredible, for the record.
*You can follow [@rootedlawnco](https://www.tiktok.com/@rootedlawnco) on TikTok for more content on home decor and lifestyle.*
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## [Woman gets shamed at CVS for âsonâsâ unusual name. The reality has people rolling.](https://www.upworthy.com/woman-shamed-for-sons-name-when-it-was-her-dog-ex1/)
It started like any ordinary pharmacy errand. A Michigan woman named Sarah was waiting at CVS to pick up a prescription for her âson.â When another woman waiting in line overheard the name of her âson,â she apparently couldnât help but let out an unsolicited opinion.âYouâll really name your son anything, huh?â the woman saidâŠ
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***
2/16/2026
It started like any ordinary [pharmacy](https://www.upworthy.com/tag/pharmacy-bills) errand. A [Michigan](https://www.upworthy.com/tag/michigan) woman named Sarah was waiting at CVS to pick up a prescription for her â[son.â](https://www.good.is/animal-photography-awards-ex1) When another woman waiting in line overheard the name of her âson,â she apparently couldnât help but let out an unsolicited opinion.
âYouâll really name your son anything, huh?â the woman said with a sigh.
The name in question? Whiskey.

At least it wasn't Bubbles. [Photo credit: Canva](https://www.canva.com/photos)
Now, if youâre picturing a tiny human in a onesie named after your dadâs favorite Friday-night drink, and feeling a little baffled in the process, donât worry. So was everyone else.
Except Whiskey isnât a little boy. Heâs a red [golden retriever](https://www.upworthy.com/tag/golden-retriever).
Yep. Sarahâs âsonâ is of the four-legged variety, currently undergoing cancer treatments and racking up a pharmacy bill that could rival a small countryâs GDP. She and her husband get his prescriptions filled at their local CVS because (fun fact) many human and animal meds are the same, just at different doses.

You just know there's a person named Whiskey out there getting a kick out of this. [media4.giphy.com](https://media4.giphy.com/media/v1.Y2lkPTc5MGI3NjExaWExZ3BxYXk3ZW0zNnBwdGM0Z2liZXJsNTNpdzZkMnU0ODAyMzZtMSZlcD12MV9pbnRlcm5hbF9naWZfYnlfaWQmY3Q9Zw/js60E02Z67xfV6dZBG/giphy.gif)
As Sarah explained to [**Newsweek**,](https://www.newsweek.com/woman-shamed-sons-name-pharmacy-but-theres-a-twist-10851525) this strategy saves them a few bucks, but can certainly lead to some incredible misunderstandings.
In her TikTok video, which has now been watched over 3 million times, Sarah retold this CVS name-shaming incident, and viewers collectively lost it.
One commenter shared, âI was shaming you too until you said dog!â Another wrote, âI mean, Whiskey is a horrible name for a child  But for a dog? Okay lol.â
However, a few folks came to Sarahâs defense. One person noted, âThere are women named Brandiâwhatâs wrong with Whiskey?â Another admitted, âin my 49 years I didnât know CVS filled pet meds!â
Itâs the kind of mix-up that reminds us how funny life can be when the human and animal worlds collide. Because letâs face it: Whiskey the dog? Adorable. Whiskey the toddler? Maybe⊠less so. It might be a mostly unspoken rule, but a rule nonetheless.
As for what became of that misunderstanding, Sarah shared that when the other woman called Whiskey a âhorribleâ name for a child to grow up with that could lead to getting bullied in school, Sarah quipped back with âWell, heâs a dog. So I donât think so.â Upon that realization, Sarah told [**Newsweek**](https://www.newsweek.com/woman-shamed-sons-name-pharmacy-but-theres-a-twist-10851525) that she âapologized very nicelyâ once she learned that Whiskey was, in fact, a dog.
As Sarah put it, the stranger âjust left in a hurry, probably to think about her actions later.â
Meanwhile, TikTok is still chuckling, and celebrating one very good boy with a name that fits him perfectly.
Moral of the story: some names are meant for baby humans, like Zach or Emma**.** Others are for the fur babies who greet you at the door with a wagging tail and oodles of loveâŠlike **Whiskey.** 
*This article originally appeared last year*
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Photo credit: [Canva](https://www.canva.com/photos) â Curling has become a surprisingly popular Olympic sport.
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## [Olympic curling gets humor treatment as people recreate the bizarrely riveting sport at home](https://www.upworthy.com/olympic-curling-gets-humor-treatment-as-people-recreate-the-bizarrely-riveting-sport-at-home/)
Using everything from Roombas to babies, people are embracing the joy of curling.
[Annie Reneau](https://www.upworthy.com/author/annie-reneau/)
***
2/13/2026
When curling became an official [Olympic sport](https://www.upworthy.com/didnt-qualify-for-the-olympics-sports-fail-videos) in 1998, it was met with a fair amount of curiosity and confusion, at least among people outside [Canada](https://www.upworthy.com/owl-break-ins), [Scotland](https://www.upworthy.com/live-in-bookshop-in-scotland), and the [Scandinavian countries](https://www.upworthy.com/scandinavian-babies-nap-outside-even-in-the-cold-maybe-they-re-on-to-something-ex1) where it has long been a [winter sport](https://www.upworthy.com/cats-attack-luge-racers-olympics) tradition. Without an explanation of whatâs happening, curling can look downright bizarre: large stones sliding across the ice toward a target, while people vigorously sweep the ice in front of them as the person who threw the stone yells unintelligibly.
Itâs not obvious what skills are required for curling just by watching, which initially led people to poke fun at the event. More recent Olympic Games, however, have seen interest in curling grow as people find the sport strangely riveting. Now, curling has reached even greater heights of popularity, as evidenced by satirical curling-at-home videos popping up on social media.
Many of them use a combo of a Roomba and a Swiffer, which works perfectly:
> Curling [pic.twitter.com/ucbt6HjxyX](https://t.co/ucbt6HjxyX)
>
> â Playteaux (@Playteaux1) [February 9, 2026](https://twitter.com/Playteaux1/status/2020663285905854880?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw)
Why Swiffer is not the official sponsor of all Olympic curling events is a mystery.
Some creators take it a little further, adding in the yelling component:
Others use different household items, like a teapot, for a curling stone and add commentary:
And believe it or not, someone even used a baby as a curling stone, with the caption, âWhen new dads in Canada are left unsupervised.â
> When new dads in Canada are left unsupervised. [pic.twitter.com/X6XiuTndHa](https://t.co/X6XiuTndHa)
>
> â Planet Of Memes (@PlanetOfMemes) [February 10, 2026](https://twitter.com/PlanetOfMemes/status/2021353804864815426?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw)
So how exactly did we get here?
## The history of curling
No one knows the exact origins of curling, but there is evidence of the sport (or something like it) being played by monks on frozen lakes and ponds in Scotland in the 16th century. Farmers would join in curling games during the winter months, and as the sport evolved through the 1800s, it became more organized. Rules were formalized, and people began traveling to watch and participate in competitions held outdoors in large Scottish cities. The Scots eventually took the sport with them to other countries, and by the 1900s, curling had transformed from a Scottish outdoor pastime into an international, mostly indoor sport.
## How does curling work as a sport?
Curling is played by two teams of four, with each team aiming to get its eight stones closest to the center of a target called a âhouse.â Teams alternate âthrowingâ their stones, which really means gliding them along the ice. Sweepers brush the ice to help guide the stones, while the team captain, or âskip,â gives directions, often by yelling, to place the stones where they want them to go.
After all 16 stones are thrown, the team with a stone closest to the center of the house [scores](https://www.nbcolympics.com/news/curling-101-rules) one point for each of its stones that landed inside the house. The other team does not score at all in that round, called an âend.â There are eight or 10 ends per game, depending on the event, and the team with the most points after all the ends have been played is the winner.
Hereâs a visual explainer that goes through the basics:
## Fun facts about curling
Tara Peterson of the USA Curling National Team shared some interesting facts about curling [with Columbia Sportswear](https://www.columbia.com/fun-facts-about-curling.html):
- Modern curling stones are made of granite that comes from only two places: a quarry in Wales and an uninhabited island off the coast of Scotland called Ailsa Craig.
- Curling is called curling because of the way the stone curves depending on how itâs spun, but exactly how that happens is still a bit of a scientific mystery. Curling stones actually move in the opposite direction of what the turn would normally dictate according to physics.
- Despite the yelling, curling is considered a polite âgentlemanâsâ sport, with traditional etiquette rules observed before and after the game.
- Though it may not be immediately obvious, you have to be in pretty good shape to curl. Throwing a 42-pound stone, even on ice, isnât as easy as it looks, and the person throwing it must remain crouched close to the ground for long periods. Sweeping also requires arm strength and cardiovascular endurance.

Curling requiresu00a0more athleticism than it first appears. [Photo credit: Canva](https://www.canva.com/photos)
- Curlers wear two different shoes, one designed for gripping the ice and the other for sliding. The slider sole is made of Teflon or stainless steel, while the grippy sole is made of rubber.
- Curling is called the âroaring game,â which might sound odd, but the sound of the stones gliding over the ice is apparently much louder in person than it sounds on TV.
Every sport is more fun to watch when you actually know what youâre seeing, and curling is no exception. If youâre wondering who to watch, Canada has traditionally dominated the sport, though Sweden trails by only two medals [in total Olympic curling medals](https://www.olympics.com/en/milano-cortina-2026/news/olympic-curling-complete-list-winners-medallists). And if youâre curious how Scotland fares as the original home of the sport, its curlers compete under Great Britainâs flag.
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Photo credit: Photo Credit: Chase Hofer, Instagram â An Austin Powers impersonator shows up in Chase Hofer's apartment.
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## [Man hires Austin Powers impersonator âjust for himselfâ and itâs delightfully awkward](https://www.upworthy.com/man-hires-austin-powers-impersonator/)
âYou must live alone!â
[Cecily Knobler](https://www.upworthy.com/author/cecily-knobler/)
***
2/12/2026
It was groovy, baby. [Chase Hofer](https://www.instagram.com/chasehofer/?hl=en) woke up one day and decided to hire an [*Austin Powers*](https://www.upworthy.com/mike-myers-returns-as-dr-evil-with-a-twist-in-a-hilarious-new-super-bowl-ad) impersonator to just, well, come over. And that he did, creating a brilliantly funny and equally [awkward](https://www.upworthy.com/dax-flame-mystery-comedy) exchange between two guys just hanging in an apartment. (Albeit one of them was dressed head to toe as the infamous English ladiesâ man.)
For those unfamiliar with the [*Austin Powers*](https://www.warnerbros.com/movies/austin-powers-international-man-mystery) franchise, comedian [Mike Myers](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000196/) created and played the character in a series of three films directed by Jay Roach. The gist was that Powers is a British international spy who loved crushed velvet suits and âshaggingâ and wasnât ashamed of either. The purposely cringe-heavy dialogue created hours of fun, and the â60s spy satire was blatant.
> [View this post on Instagram](https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUjX-wdkrqa/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading)
In the clip, Hofer opens the door to find âAustin Powersâ (as played by actual impersonator [Richard Halpern](https://www.instagram.com/austinpowersimpersonator/?hl=en)) dressed in his trademark blue velour suit, frilly white shirt, and thick black glasses. They shake hands, and Halpern immediately says, âYou must be Chase, baby! What a grip you have. You must live alone!â They laugh uproariously.
Halpern asks, âSo what do you want me to do? Like what I would do at a party?â He then begins laughing maniacally, pacing and yelling out some of his catchphrasesâmost notably, âOh, BEHAVE.â After turning to his smartphone, he remembers a line that would only work if looking at a womanâs chest area: âOh, you make a lovely couple.â This lands awkwardly, as he tries to explain that itâs a âboobieâ reference. Hofer assures him he got it, though itâs a âdifferent time.â
From there, the awkwardness just gets better. Halpern is now lounging on the couch. Hofer asks, âDid you watch the Super Bowl?â He answers, âOh yeah, yeah sure I did.â Hofer follows this up with, âAre you more of a soccer guy since⊠U.K.?â He yells, âSoccer, I donât even know her!â Hofer attempts to feign a laugh, but it putters out pretty quickly.
The room is incredibly quiet for a bit, followed by a little more forced banter. The clip ends with the two of them watching a rap performance on TV in complete silence.
The comments on both Hoferâs TikTok and Instagram page are also truly observant and funny. One points out the commitment to the bit: âDude has the car and everything.â

Austin Powers impersonator arrives at Chase Hofer's apartment. Photo Credit: Kenneth Webb, TikTok
Another jokes, âWhen the *Austin Powers* impersonator thinks YOUâRE the weirdo.â
On Instagram, a person references the rap performance theyâre watching, noting, âThe 2016 XXL freshman cypher at the end is pure gold. PURE GOLD.â
*Upworthy* had a chance to chat with Hofer, who shares how the idea sparked. âI came up with the idea after doing it with a magician! The magician was a friend of mine. So I thought it would be great to do it with this *Austin Powers* impersonator that my friends have worked with.â
> [View this post on Instagram](https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUJamY_kqhH/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading)
Said aforementioned impersonator has been playing Austin Powers for ages. âAustin was played by this man on Instagram known as âAustin Powers Impersonator.â Heâs been doing this professionally for more than 25 years.â
(Note: On Richard Halpernâs Instagram page, he lets it be known that heâs L.A.-based and âready for YOUR event.â)
We asked if Halpern had been given a heads up. âBasically, I gave him the rundown that itâd just be us two, and then I rolled non-stop for 30 minutes. So it was basically all improv.â
As for Myers himself, Hofer is a fan. âI have not met Mike Myers! Big fan though. I felt like I was watching him a couple of days ago!â
As popular as this clip has become, some wonder if this cringe humor would be too much for younger generations. On the Reddit thread, [âDoes Generation Z enjoy the *Austin Powers* movies or find them offensive and outdated?](https://www.reddit.com/r/movies/comments/1dmyu1t/does_generation_z_enjoy_the_austin_powers_movies/)â the OP writes, âI recently watched *Austin Powers* with my nephew. He found half of it funny, but the other half he didnât really get. Some jokes he thought were racist and not funny. This made me wonder, Gen Z, do you like these movies, or do you find them offensive and outdated?â
The OP adds, âPersonally, I found these movies really funny. I love that Mike Myers has the laugh-per-minute dialed up in these movies. Thereâs constant jokes⊠nonstop jokes. Definitely some of the jokes lost their luster from when I was 19 years old. But the jokes are still there.â
This thread received nearly 3,000 comments. One Redditor wasnât bothered at all, noting that being offensive is the POINT. âThat seems funny to me because *Austin Powers* is a direct parody of the old *Bond* movies, so the overt sexual and offensive jokes are part of the satire.â
Another points out that itâs all relative, writing, âThe weird thing is that despite Austin being a complete and total horndog, heâs also weirdly more respectful than a lot of characters at the time or since. Thereâs a scene in one of the movies (I canât remember which one) where the female co-lead is finally willing to sleep with him after heâs been unsuccessfully hitting on her most of the movie, and he respectfully turns her down because sheâs drunk as a skunk and he has the decency to not take advantage of someone whoâs inebriated and thus canât consent.â
Perhaps Dr. Evil (also played by Myers in the *Austin Powers* films) said it best when he pointed out in *Austin Powers: International Man of Mystery*: âIâve been frozen for thirty years, okay?â
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Photo credit: [Canva](https://www.canva.com/photos) â Left: A woman holding her finger up to convey a secret. Right: A hand placing an antique item on a window ledge.
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## [Woman concocts genius plan to declutter her house by sneaking random items into her friendsâ homes](https://www.upworthy.com/decluttering-genius-hack/)
Diabolical? Maybe. Effective? Definitely.
[Heather Wake](https://www.upworthy.com/author/heather-wake/)
***
2/11/2026
For many of us, [decluttering](https://www.upworthy.com/tag/decluttering) is a necessary evil. We take no [joy](https://www.upworthy.com/womans-typo-brings-unexpected-joy) in it, other than knowing our lives might run a little more smoothly afterward. Itâs sort of like going to the [dentist](https://www.upworthy.com/tag/dentist) or getting an oil change.
But like so many of lifeâs mundanities, could decluttering become something we actually look forward to if we found a way to infuse a little playfulness?
For [Stephanie Patrick](https://www.instagram.com/stephaniepatrick01/reels/), that meant secretly leaving random items at other peopleâs houses.
In a mega-viral [Instagram clip](https://www.instagram.com/reel/DTV9DxyFYp6), Patrick is seen placing a tiny bar of soap, a small creamer pitcher, and a vintage glass tealight candle holder on different countertops, accompanied by the caption, âSometimes you gotta do what you gotta do.â
> [View this post on Instagram](https://www.instagram.com/reel/DTV9DxyFYp6/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading)
The video has been viewed more than 25 million times, with thousands of people praising Patrick for her âdiabolicalâ yet âgeniusâ idea. Here are just a few of the reactions:
âA clever menace. I love it.â
âThis is amazing. They are going to go crazy asking each other âwhere did this come from? Do you know where this came from?ââ
âI have never felt so inspired in my whole entire life.â
âUNHEISTâ
âReverse burglaryâ
This isnât Patrickâs first, ahem, unconventional decluttering idea. In another [video](https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUWnSQJD7yM), we see her placing random itemsâa picture frame, a mini sewing kit, a sequined heart pillow, and yet another tealight candle holderâalong the aisles of Hobby Lobby. Retail sticker and everything.
âIâm sure they will sell eventually,â she wrote.
> [View this post on Instagram](https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUWnSQJD7yM/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading)
While leaving items for retail workers to deal with isnât the best option, Patrick clarified in the comments that she only âpretendedâ to leave the items behind. Still, thereâs something to be said for gamifying decluttering so the process itself becomes a bit more enjoyable.
Here are a [few ideas](https://www.becomingminimalist.com/creative-ways-to-declutter/) procured from [around the web](https://letsliveandlearn.com/delcuttering-games-how-to-make-decluttering-fun/):
## Creative ways to make decluttering fun
**H****anger reversal**
Turn all your hangers the wrong way. When you wear an item, flip the hanger back. After six months, donate anything thatâs still reversed.
**The âno-thingâ prize**
Reward yourself with an experience, like a movie or dessert, rather than more items.
**Take the 12-12-12 challenge**
Locate 12 items to throw away, 12 to donate, and 12 to return to their proper homes. You can customize the challenge however you see fit.
**Take before-and-after photos of a small area**
Choose one part of your home, like a kitchen counter, and take a photo of a small area. Quickly clear away the items in the photo, then take an after shot. Once you see how your home *could* look, it becomes easier to start decluttering other areas.
**Play the âminimalism gameâ**
Created by Joshua Fields Millburn and Ryan Nicodemus (â[The Minimalists](https://www.theminimalists.com/about/)â), this game has you determine how many items youâll declutter based on the day of the week, such as 20 items on the 20th. You can find a free printable by [clicking here](https://letsliveandlearn.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/items.pdf).
**Decluttering jar**
A âdeclutter jarâ contains color-coded sticks for each area of the house. The kitchen might be marked blue, with each blue stick representing a specific area, such as the pantry, under the sink, the junk drawer, or the cup shelf. Whatever stick you draw is the area you declutter. No decision-making necessary.
**The âmoving methodâ**
Pretend youâre moving into a smaller, but swankier, home and only keep what you absolutely love or need. Tap into your imagination while making room for real life. A win-win.
Lastly, never underestimate the power of simply throwing on a banginâ decluttering playlist. Whatever route gets you there is the route worth taking. Of course, if you follow in Patrickâs footsteps, you might have some explaining to do to your friends.
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| Readable Markdown | Over the past few years, women named Karen have taken a lot of heat in the media. The term âKarenâ has been used to describe a specific type of entitled, privileged and often middle-aged white woman. Typically, âKarenâ is depicted as demanding, self-important and constantly seeking to escalate minor inconveniences to authority figures, like demanding to âspeak to the manager.â
Identifying the folks who create unnecessary drama in our world is important. But calling them a âKarenâ isnât the best way to solve the problem. There are many reasons to have an issue with the âKarenâ stereotype. First, itâs terrible for people named Karen, and itâs also a connotation that many feel is [racist](https://www.dispatch.com/story/opinion/columns/2020/08/05/column-racist-behavior-is-never-acceptable-including-lsquokarenrsquo-label/112801446/), [sexist and ageist.](https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/karen-meme-sexism-ageism-women-b1889486.html)
Further, according to [a new study by Trustpilot](https://au.trustpilot.com/blog/reviews-matter/one-star-five-star-review-names), the stereotype isnât accurate. A recent survey by the online media site found that the people who leave the most one-star reviews arenât female, and the women who do it the most arenât named Karen.
Trustpilot is a site where people can review a business from which theyâve purchased a product or contacted customer service. According to TrustPilot, the number one biggest one-star reviewers are named John, not Karen.
âThe name John is top for \[one-star\] reviews in the US, with the rest of the top five positions filled by David, Michael, Chris and James,â the site wrote in [a press release](https://au.trustpilot.com/blog/reviews-matter/one-star-five-star-review-names). âLooking at specific categories, John is also first for negative reviews in Business Services, Electronics and Technology, Shopping and Fashion, and Money and Insurance. Meanwhile, Lisa left the most \[one-star\] reviews in our Beauty and Wellbeing category.â
So, if your name is Karen, keep this story in your back pocket next time someone stereotypes you as an entitled complainer. The real complainers are the Johns and, for the women, Lisas.
Why do people go online and write negative reviews? Psychologist William Berry writes in [Psychology Today](https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-second-noble-truth/202104/the-psychology-complaining) that people get many positive benefits from complaining, although they may annoy everyone around them.
The first big reason is an ego boost. When people complain, they feel validated. It also makes them feel superior to others. Complaining can also bring like-minded people together. If you and a significant other have ever been mistreated in a restaurant or car dealership, having a mutual enemy can work wonders for your relationship.
There are also entire groups of people who bond over a common gripe.
People who habitually complain may do so because of the brainâs negativity bias. âThe human brain, geared for survival, focuses on negatives (as they appear more threatening to survival) than on positives (which enhance life but are less vital for survival),â Berry writes. âAs the brain perceives negatives at an approximated ratio of five to one, there is simply more to complain about than there is to be grateful for. Additionally, this may lead to less general happiness.â
Here are the top 15 names of consumers who leave the most one-star reviews on Trustpilot. (Also known as the folks that owe the Karens out there an apology.)
1\. John
2\. David
3\. Michael
4\. Chris
5\. James
6\. Mike
7\. Mark
8\. Robert
9\. Alex
10\. Paul
11\. Lisa
12\. Sarah
13\. Steve
14\. Sam
15\. Daniel
*This article originally appeared two years ago.*
- [](https://www.upworthy.com/pura-malalafund-changing-the-narrative/)
Youth-led party for community engagement, MEDEA, Tanzania Captured by James Roh for Pura
## ****Music, community and joy drive real change****
In a small village in Pwani, a district on Tanzaniaâs coast, a massive dance party is coming to a close. For the past two hours, locals have paraded through the village streets, singing and beating ngombe drums; now, in a large clearing, a woman named Sheilla motions for everyone to sit facing a large projector screen. A film premiere is about to begin.
Itâs an unusual way to kick off a film about gender bias, inequality, early marriage, and other barriers that prevent girls from accessing education in Tanzania. But in Pwani and beyond, local organizations supported by Malala Fund and funded by Pura are finding creative, culturally relevant ways like this one to capture peopleâs interest.
The film ends and Sheilla, the Communications and Partnership Lead for Media for Development and Advocacy (MEDEA), stands in front of the crowd once again, asking the audience to reflect: What did you think about the film? How did it relate to your own experience? What can we learn?
Sheilla explains that, once the community sees the film, âIt brings out conversations within themselves, reflective conversations.â The resonance and immediate action create a ripple effect of change.

MEDEA Screening Audience in Tanzania. Captured by James Roh for Pura
Across Tanzania, gender-based violence often forces adolescent girls out of the classroom. This and other barriers â including child marriage, poverty, conflict, and discrimination â prevent girls from completing their education around the world.
Sheilla and her team are using film and radio programs to address the challenges girls face in their communities. MEDEAâs ultimate goal is to affirm education as a fundamental right for everyone, and to ensure that every member of a community understands how girlsâ education contributes to a stronger whole and how to be an ally for their sisters, daughters, granddaughters, friends, nieces, and girlfriends.
Sheillaâs story is one of many that inspired Heart on Fire, a new fragrance from the [Pura x Malala Fund Collection](https://bit.ly/4bpclsk) that blends the warm, earthy spices of Tanzania with a playful, joyful twist. Hereâs how Pura is using scent as a tool to connect the world and inspire action.
## ****A partnership focused on local impact, on a global mission****
Pura, a fragrance company that recognizes education as both freedom and a human right, has partnered with Malala Fund since 2022. In order to defend every girlâs right to access and complete 12 years of education, Malala Fund partners with local organizations in countries where the educational barriers are the greatest. They invest in locally-led solutions because they know that those who are closest to the problems are best equipped to solve and build durable solutions, like MEDEA, which works with communities to challenge discrimination against girls and change beliefs about their education.
But local initiatives can thrive and scale more powerfully with global support, which is why Pura is using their own superpower, the power of scent, to connect people around the world with the women and girls in these local communities.
The [Pura x Malala Fund Collection](https://bit.ly/4snx1H1) incorporates ingredients naturally found in Tanzania, Nigeria, Pakistan, and Brazil: countries where Malala Fund operates to address systemic education barriers. Eight percent of net revenue from the [Pura x Malala Fund Collection](https://bit.ly/4bpclsk) will be donated to Malala Fund directly, but beyond financial support, the Collection is also a love letter to each unique community, blending notes like lemon, jasmine, cedarwood, and clove to transport people, ignite their senses, and help them draw inspiration and hope from the global movement for girlsâ education. Through scent, people can connect to the courage, joy, and tenacity of girls and local leaders, all while uniting in a shared commitment to education: the belief that supporting girlsâ rights in one community benefits all of us, everywhere.
Youâve already met Sheilla. Now see how Naiara and Mama Habiba are building unique solutions to ensure every girl can learn freely and dare to dream.
### ****Naiara Leite is reimagining whatâs possible in Brazil****

Julia with Odara in Brazil. Captured by Luisa Dorr for Pura
In Brazil, where pear trees and coconut plantations cover the Northeastern Coast, girls like ten-year-old Julia experience a different kind of educational barrier than girls in Tanzania. Too often, racial discrimination contributes to high dropout rates among Black, quilombola and Indigenous girls in the country.
âIn the logic of Brazilian society, Black people donât need to study,â says Naiara Leite, Executive Coordinator of Odara, a women-led organization and Malala Fund partner. Bahia, the state where Odara is based, was once one of the largest slave-receiving territories in the Americas, and because of that history, deeply-ingrained, anti-Black prejudice is still widespread. âOur role and the image constructed around us is one of manual labor,â Naiara says.
But education can change that. In 2020, with assistance from a Malala Fund grant, Odara launched its first initiative for improving school completion rates among Black, quilombola, and Indigenous girls: âAyomidĂȘ Odaraâ. The young girls mentored under the program, including Julia, are known as the AyomidĂȘs. And like the [Pura x Malala Fund Collectionâs](https://bit.ly/4bpclsk) Brazil: Breath of Courage scent, the AyomidĂȘs are fierce, determined, and bursting with energy.

AyomidĂȘs with Odara in Brazil. Captured by Luisa Dorr for Pura
AyomidĂȘs take part in weekly educational sessions where they explore subjects like education and ethnic-racial relations. The girls are encouraged to find their own voices by producing Instagram lives, social media videos, and by participating in public panels. Already, the AyomidĂȘs are rewriting the narrative on whatâs possible for Afro-Brazilian girls to achieve. One of the earliest AyomidĂȘs, a young woman named Debora, is now a communications intern. Another former AyomidĂȘ, Francine, works at UNICEF, helping train the next generation of adolescent leaders. And Julia has already set her sights on becoming a math teacher or a model.
âThese are generations of Black women who did not have access to a school,â Naiara says. âThese are generations of Black women robbed daily of their dreams. And weâre telling them that they could be the generation in their family to write a new story.â
### ****Mama Habiba is reframing the conversation in Nigeria****

Centre for Girls' Education, Nigeria. Captured by James Roh for Pura
In Mama Habibaâs home country of Nigeria, the scents of starfruit, ylang ylang and pineapple, all incorporated into the [Pura x Malala Collectionâs](https://bit.ly/4bpclsk) âNigeria: Hope for Tomorrow,â can be found throughout the vibrant markets. Like these native scents, Mama Habiba says that the Nigerian girls are also bright and passionate, but too often they are forced to leave school long before their potential fully blooms.
âââSome of these schools are very far, and there is an issue of quality, too,â Mama Habiba says. âMost parents find out when their children are in school, the girls are not learning. So why allow them to continue?â
When girls drop out of secondary school, marriage is often the alternative. In Nigeria, one in three girls is married before the age of 18. When this happens, girls are unable to fulfill their potential, and their families and communities lose out on the social, health and economic benefits.
Completing secondary school delays marriage, and according to [UNESCO](https://www.unesco.org/en/articles/unesco-sustainable-development-begins-education?utm_source=chatgpt.com), educated girls become women who raise healthier children, lift their families out of poverty and contribute to more peaceful, resilient communities.

Centre for Girlsâ Education, Nigeria. Captured by James Roh for Pura
To encourage young girls to stay in school, the Centre for Girlsâ Education, a nonprofit in Nigeria founded by Mama Habiba and supported by Malala Fund and Pura, has pioneered an initiative thatâs similar to the AyomidĂȘ workshops in Brazil: safe spaces. Here, girls meet regularly to learn literacy, numeracy, and other issues like reproductive health. These safe spaces also provide an opportunity for the girls to role-play and learn to advocate for themselves, develop their self-image, and practice conversations with others about their values, education being one of them. In safe spaces, Mama Habiba says, girls start to understand âwho she is, and that she is a girl who has value. She has the right to negotiate with her parents on what she really feels or wants.â
âWhen girls are educated, they can unlock so many opportunities,â Mama Habiba says. âIt will help the economy of the country. It will boost so many opportunities for the country. If they are given the opportunity, I think the sky is not the limit. It is the starting point for every girl.â
From parades, film screenings to safe spaces and educational programs, girls and local leaders are working hard to strengthen the quality, safety and accessibility of education and overcome systemic challenges. They are encouraging courageous behavior and reminding us all that *education is freedom.*
**Experience the [Pura x Malala Fund Collection](https://bit.ly/4snx1H1) here, and connect with the stories of real girls leading change across the globe.**
- [](https://www.upworthy.com/rubber-chicken-musician/)
There are many ways to pay tribute to a [music artist](https://www.upworthy.com/cold-beer-song-parody/) through a cover of one of their [songs](https://www.upworthy.com/canadian-teacher-teaches-science-pop-songs/). Some honor their inspiration by playing their hit song in a different genre of music. Others cover the song through different instrumentation or key changes. Then thereâs the guy who performs his cover with rubber [chickens](https://www.upworthy.com/tiktok-chicken-wars/).
The professional pianist known as Lord Vinheteiro has gotten attention on [TikTok](https://www.tiktok.com/@lordvinheteiro) by performing Guns Nâ Rosesâ song âSweet Child Oâ Mine.â Only, instead of the vocal stylings of Axl Rose, Vinheteiro sings the song through the squeaky voices of rubber chickens of varying sizes. And he nails it.
Commenters were equal parts impressed and amused:
*âHow does one tune a rubber chicken?â*
*âNext yearâs Super Bowl show! UNRIVALED!!!â*
*âIf you close your eyes, it sounds just like Axl Rose.â*
*âThis is what the internet was invented for.â*
*âI donât care what yâall say⊠THIS IS TALENT.â*
*âSimply awesome, Maestro!â*
*âAs a middle school science teacher would you mind if I showed this video to my students? Weâre studying sound waves and this is a perfect example of frequency and pitch.â*
*âNeeded this smile. Thank you.â*
*âClucking brilliant.â*
### Who is this rubber chicken maestro?
Lord Vinheteiro, the professional name of Brazilian musician [FabrĂcio AndrĂ© Bernard Di Paolo](https://boingboing.net/2025/10/09/this-professional-pianist-also-plays-a-mean-rubber-chicken.html), has entertained the Internet since 2008. He gained attention through his expert piano skillsâwhere heâs playing theme songs from [cartoons](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=evJaa6xcr3Y) or playing the piano at a distance [with strings](https://youtu.be/ZlbQAGj482A?si=ysxDkwdQFjMATG9e). All the while, Vinheteiro adds to the absurdity by looking directly into the camera with an expressionless face.
Prior to his career as a [YouTube content creator](https://boingboing.net/2025/10/09/this-professional-pianist-also-plays-a-mean-rubber-chicken.html) and music teacher, Paolo worked in [construction](https://g1.globo.com/jornal-nacional/noticia/2011/02/musico-faz-sucesso-na-internet-tocando-versoes-do-tema-do-jn.html). His videos grew in popularity in his [native Brazil](https://www.mixvale.com.br/2026/02/06/lord-vinheteiro-the-trajectory-of-the-pianist-who-revolutionized-classical-music-on-the-internet-with-humor-en/) before gaining traction worldwide. Until recently, he showcased his classical music prowess by playing video game themes and other pop-culture favorites. In 2025, he began expanding his musical talent by incorporating rubber chickens into his content.
While still showcasing his impressive piano skills, he frequently shows off his rubber chicken singing abilities using chickens of various sizes. Impressively, Paolo is able to hit the proper tone and pitch with expert grip and timing. This feat has earned him millions of views on rubber chicken versions of a wide variety of songs, from System of a Downâs âChop Suey!â to Queenâs âBohemian Rhapsody,â and even the âImperial Marchâ theme from *Star Wars*.
If you are amused and fascinated by Lord Vinheteiroâs work, check out his [social media](https://www.instagram.com/vinheteiro/) for more. It may be piano and rubber chickens for now, but itâll be interesting to see which instrument he masters next.
- [](https://www.upworthy.com/confusing-hilarious-southern-phrases-ex1/)
Photo credit: [Canva](https://www.canva.com/photos) â 22 common Southern phrases that leave people scratching their heads
[Visiting different states within America](https://www.upworthy.com/17-non-americans-share-the-most-american-moment-they-experienced-visiting-the-states) can sometimes feel like traveling to a completely different country, given the significant cultural differences and accents. Visiting parts of Louisiana may make you feel like you require a translator to navigate your vacation, as people often speak Creole or [Cajun](https://www.upworthy.com/american-island-brogue-ex1)âboth of which have very thick, unique accents. [Southern Mississippi](https://www.upworthy.com/lexis-redd-d-ville-is-bringing-drag-queens-mainstream-in-the-deep-south) also has a mishmash of accents that range from Cajun to a non-distinct regional accent.
[But one thing North Carolina has in common](https://www.good.is/happiest-states-in-the-us) with states like Texas, Mississippi, and Louisiana is that they all have a range of southern colloquialisms that translate fine between southern states. Itâs when those creative southern phrases make their way above the Mason-Dixon Line that causes some confusion. Many southerners who travel north for work, pleasure, or relocation adapt quickly to not using uniquely southern phrases after experiencing looks of bewildered confusion.

Welcome to North Carolina State Line! [Photo credit: Canva](https://www.canva.com/photos)
Oftentimes, southerners donât even know where their beloved and well-used phrases originated or why. As far as a Google search pulls up, thereâs never been a child born in the world who has ever been small enough to be âknee high to a grasshopper,â but thatâs not going to stop PawPaw from saying it. People who are used to hearing the sometimes outrageous phrases simply interpret them themselves and add them to their own lexicon for future use.
## General Southern expressions to keep in your pocket
### 1\. âYou donât believe fat meat is greasy.â
This is an expression often used when someone is intent on not listening to advice. It essentially means they wonât believe it until they see or experience it themselves. We all know someone who has to learn lessons the hard way, and this is the saying that conveys that message without sounding harsh.

Smiling together: [Photo credit: Canva](https://www.canva.com/photos)
### 2\. âThe Lord willing and the creek donât rise.â
A phrase like this is used a lot by elders. It just adds a little dramatic flair when theyâre making plans. In a conversation, it would go like this: âSo, Iâll see you next Sunday at the potluck, right?â There may be a pause for emphasis along with a fist perched on their hip before responding, âThe Lord willing and the creek donât rise.â Just know theyâll be there as long as they wake up in the morning and thereâs no natural disaster preventing them from getting there.
### 3\. âThereâs more than one way to skin a cat.â
This particular one is a phrase my husband uses often. It is often said by men doing manual labor, whether itâs at work or around the house. If someone is trying something that isnât working, they have to come up with a better idea of how to make it work. If the original person pushes back on trying it a different way, thatâs when youâll hear, âThereâs more than one way to skin a cat.â To date, no one has skinned a cat to prove a point, that Iâm aware of, but thereâs debate on its origin. Itâs believed to come from a phrase used in the [mid-1600s in England](https://www.bnd.com/living/liv-columns-blogs/answer-man/article181298616.html), âThereâs more than one way to kill a dog than hanging.â

Surprised cat faces an idiom shock! [Photo credit: Canva](https://www.canva.com/photos)
Eventually, it got changed to the cat idiom southerners say today, though some suggest the phrase came from when womenâs [coats were made from cat fur](https://folkwaysnowadays.com/theres-more-than-one-way-to-skin-a-cat/#:~:text=There's%20more%20than%20one%20way%20to%20skin%20a%20cat.,%2C%20therefore%2C%20must%20be%20skinned.)âŠ(thatâs information you canât unlearn). Either way, as someone who has lived in the south for more than 20 years, you can rest assured that the only people skinning cats down here are taxidermists with the pet ownerâs permission. Just know theyâre saying thereâs more than one way to get the job done.
### 4\. âDonât pee on my leg and tell me itâs raining.â
This is just a fancy way of telling someone not to lie to you.
### 5\. âWell, you look rode hard and put up wet.â
Honestly, if someone says this to you, youâre looking mighty bad. This means not only do you look exhausted, but you also look disheveled, and maybe even ill. When people say this, itâs not meant to be rude. Theyâre typically genuinely concerned about your well-being, whether it be that you appear to need a break or you need to rest and get some soup in your belly.

Feeling under the weather with a warm cup in hand. [Photo credit: Canva](https://www.canva.com/photos)
### 6\. âP\*ss or get off the potâ and âFish or cut bait.â
These two phrases mean the exact same thing. Theyâre calling out someoneâs lack of progress and can be applied to all sorts of situations. It means to do what youâre supposed to be doing or get out of the way so someone else can do the job you wonât. By the time someone says this, theyâre a little annoyed, so itâs best to go ahead and âpee or get off the potâ before they move you over and do it themselves.
### 7\. âWell, butter my butt and call me a biscuit.â
You can stick this in the same category as, âWell, Iâll be a monkeyâs uncle.â Itâs meant to convey genuine surprise and delight in information theyâve just received or upon seeing someone they havenât seen in a while and werenât expecting. Itâs a fun one to say, even outside of the South, due to the humorous element.

### 8\. âIâve got a hitch in my giddy-upâ
Youâve got a limp due to hurting yourself somehow, or youâre feeling under the weather in some way thatâs slowing you down.
### 9\. âWhy, bless your little pea-pickinâ heart.â
Ouch! Youâve just been insulted, and they wanted to make sure you knew. âBless your heartâ on its own can be said in a condescending way or a genuine, âIâm so sorry youâre going through thisâ way. Using tone and context clues can help you decipher the difference. But when they add âlittle pea-pickinâ right in the middle of the phrase, go grab some ointment because that was meant to sting.
### 10\. âIâm going to snatch her baldheaded.â
Whoever is the target of that comment should probably avoid being around the person making it. See also, âIâm going to jerk a knot in her tail.â When itâs an adult directing the comment at another adult, it could simply mean theyâre going to have a verbal confrontation. But, depending on the person, it could also mean physical confrontation because that is not off the table in Southern culture. If itâs a parent directing the expression towards their child, then it usually means that the child is going to get into trouble.

Two women in a park having a tense conversation. [Photo credit: Canva](https://www.canva.com/photos)
## Southern expressions about looks and intelligence
### 11\. âPull your dress down, everyone can see Christmas.â
This feels self-explanatory, but itâs something you might hear a friend say to another friend to address a wardrobe malfunction. You may also hear a parent telling their young daughter a version of this as theyâre learning how to properly sit in a dress. Also see, âPull down that skirt! We can see clear to the promised land.â
### 12\. âThey fell out of the ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down.â
Also in the vein of calling someone unattractive, one might say, âHeâs so ugly he could make paint peel.â

### 13\. âPants are so tight you can see his thoughts.â
Those are some really tight pants.
### 14\. âSheâs just as loony as a Betsy Bug.â
Until today, I had no idea what a Betsy Bug was, but apparently [itâs a type of beetle that eats decomposing wood](https://scienceline.org/2020/06/bug-blog/). There doesnât seem to be an explanation for what makes the beetle loony, though.
### 15\. âWell, arenât you as bright as a box of black crayons.â
Have you ever seen a bright black crayon? If southerners are good at one thing, itâs insults.

### 16\. âThat boyâs so dumb heâd throw himself on the ground and miss.â
See also: âHe ainât got the good sense God gave a mule,â and, âIf he had an idea, it would die of loneliness.â
## Bonus sayings you donât want to miss
Clearly, southerners have a way with words, but there are a few more that can be fun to pull out for a party trick. A favorite is, âThat really burns my biscuits,â but a close second is, âIâm fuller than a tick on a dogâs behind.â If you want to get around the ears of nosey children while having a chat about an adult encounter, some people in the south will say, âHe took me to church,â âI was singing opera,â or âWe stayed in and played the piano.â
Whenever you decide to pull out any of these phrases, just make sure itâs not one thatâll make someone â[madder than a wet hen,](https://grammarist.com/idiom/mad-as-a-wet-hen-and-mad-as-a-hornet/)â and youâll be golden.
- [](https://www.upworthy.com/teacher-shares-her-surprisingly-wholesome-story-of-learning-what-netflix-and-chill-means/)
Photo credit: [Canva](https://www.canva.com/photos) â An image of an embarrassed woman interlaid with a picture of two people cuddling while watching Netflix.
For many, if not most of us, when someone uses the term â[Netflix](https://www.upworthy.com/netflix-fan-shares-hack-code-finding-shows) and chill,â we know it to be a euphemism for, well, not much [TV](https://www.upworthy.com/tag/tv) watching.
And yet, not everyone knows that this [phrase](https://www.upworthy.com/communicate-better-common-phrases) has sexual connotations, apparently. At least one 34-year-old female college professor recently admitted to not knowing. Too bad she had been using the phrase as one of her go-to âicebreakersâ in class.
### **A teacher learns sheâs been using âNetflix** **and chillâ wrong**
As she shared on [Reddit](https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/1r7y67k/tifu_by_learning_what_netflix_and_chill_is_code/?sort=new), she would often list âNetflix and chillâ as one of her favorite hobbies. Not only that, but whenever students mentioned how stressed they were, she would reiterate: âWhile itâs important to study, itâs also important to take time to relax and recharge, so I hope they are able to do something for themselves soon, like âNetflix and chill.ââ
It wasnât until she visited her husband for lunch at his work and struck up a conversation with two of his co-workers that she discovered her hefty misunderstanding.
âIâm currently on maternity leave and mentioned to his co-workers that I canât wait for my infant to be older so I can âNetflix and chillâ again instead of having to feed and change diapers,â she wrote.
When one of the coworkers had a âshocked look on his face,â the OP was âconfused.â She couldnât believe it when this person explained that itâs a âeuphemism for hooking up.â And yet, when the other coworker, a 50-year-old female, said, âOh heâs right, even I know what that means!â there was really no denying it.

[Photo credit: Canva](https://www.canva.com/photos)
Well, understandably, this woman was âmortifiedâ at having learned the truth and was ânow terrified Iâm going to be reported for sexual harassment because I guess Iâve been inadvertently telling my students I love to hook up and have been encouraging them to hook up, too??â
In her defense, itâs true that âNetflix and chillâ used to mean relaxing while streaming, but [that was about 17 years ago](https://madebyshape.co.uk/web-design-blog/how-netflix-and-chill-became-an-urban-term/). The context we are all familiar with has been around since 2015.
She also noted that she and her husband married young and therefore never spent much time on dating apps, which could help explain why she remained unaware. Plus, she lived at home and worked two jobs during her college years, which meant âNetflix and chillâ was literally âNetflixing and chilling,â she quipped.
All in all, she chalked this up to being an âoblivious Millennial.â And by that, she meant a âMillennial who is clearly obliviousâ to something âinvented by Millennials and has been around for at least 10-15 years.â
### **Redditâs reactions**
Down in the comments, people tried to ease her worries about the whole accidental harassment thing.
âThey either thought you were adorably clueless, or just a very cool teacher. Donât sweat it.â
âEither people figured she didnât know and thought it was funny or just assumed theyâre very open and sex positive. NBD either way.â
âRate my professor: 10/10. She told me I can come over and netflix and chill anytime â
Others didnât let her off so easily, especially when she surmised that her older coworkers also likely didnât know what it meant.
âI was shocked when I opened the post and saw OP was 34. I expected her to be 64.â
âI am 38 and have known what it means since itâs been around. This definitely isnât an age thing, this is a living under a rock thing lolâ
âIâm an out of touch millennial but thatâs been a saying for like a decade now. lol. You might be under a rock.â

[Photo credit: Canva](https://www.canva.com/photos)
Regardless, the OP has had a good sense of humor despite being mortified. She concluded her post by saying, âAnyone who has lived the past decade+ under a rock like me is welcome to come over to my place and literally chill and watch Netflix with me anytime! Iâll supply the popcorn â
Listen, itâs bonkers when things like this happen, but they do happen. Is it embarrassing? Sure. But does it remind us that life is about laughing at ourselves? Also yes.
- [](https://www.upworthy.com/pn-hoa-told-a-homeowner-exactly-how-to-mow-his-lawn-he-found-am-epic-loophole/)
There is a particular kind of frustration that comes with being told how to [mow your own lawn](https://www.upworthy.com/50-lawn-challenge-ex1). Not whether the grass is too long, not whether the edges need trimming, but the specific direction [your lawnmower](https://www.upworthy.com/kind-strangers-show-up-to-help-mow-lawn-rp8) needs to travel. For the man behind the TikTok account [@rootedlawnco](https://www.tiktok.com/@rootedlawnco/video/7445456002536885550), that was apparently the line.
His [HOA](https://www.upworthy.com/homeowners-get-perfect-revenge-on-hoa) had instructed him to mow only in straight lines. So he did. Sort of.
In a [video](https://www.tiktok.com/@rootedlawnco/video/7445456002536885550?embed_source=121374463%2C121468991%2C121439635%2C121749182%2C121433650%2C121404359%2C121497414%2C122122240%2C121351166%2C121811500%2C121960941%2C122122244%2C122122243%2C122122242%2C121487028%2C121679410%2C121331973%2C120811592%2C120810756%2C121885509%3Bnull%3Bembed_blank&refer=embed&referer_url=scoop.upworthy.com%2Fhoa-told-he-could-only-mow-lawn-in-straight-lines-he-did-the-opposite-ex1&referer_video_id=7445456002536885550) that has been bouncing around TikTok with the caption [âTake that HOA,â](https://www.tiktok.com/@rootedlawnco/video/7445456002536885550?embed_source=121374463%2C121468991%2C121439635%2C121749182%2C121433650%2C121404359%2C121497414%2C122122240%2C121351166%2C121811500%2C121960941%2C122122244%2C122122243%2C122122242%2C121487028%2C121679410%2C121331973%2C120811592%2C120810756%2C121885509%3Bnull%3Bembed_blank&refer=embed&referer_url=scoop.upworthy.com%2Fhoa-told-he-could-only-mow-lawn-in-straight-lines-he-did-the-opposite-ex1&referer_video_id=7445456002536885550) he methodically mows his lawn in long, flowing, perfectly symmetrical waves. The result is gorgeous: a sea of alternating light and dark grass bands that roll across the yard like something off a golf course or a baseball field. He even varies the cut depth on alternating passes to give it a color shift, which makes the whole thing pop even more from a distance. The text overlay on the video reads, âWhen HOA tells you only straight lines.â His face, for what itâs worth, is extremely unbothered.
In a [follow-up video,](https://www.tiktok.com/@rootedlawnco/video/7368453137943792939) he shared an aerial shot of the lawn covered in sand: âPOV: You canât go to the beach, so you bring the waves to you.â
The comments landed exactly where youâd expect. âTell them you have astigmatism and this is straight,â wrote [@nowherenothin](https://www.tiktok.com/@rootedlawnco/video/7445456002536885550). [@spiderlover74](https://www.tiktok.com/@rootedlawnco/video/7445456002536885550) added, âNo way theyâre trying to control the direction you mow your lawn.â One commenter, [@caffeinatedpossum](https://www.tiktok.com/@rootedlawnco/video/7445456002536885550), offered a legal-ish read on the situation: âHOAs have legal rights to control the aesthetic of your grass, but thereâs no legal standard for them to control cutting patterns as the cutting pattern is semantic.â (Thatâs one interpretation, though HOA rules vary widely by state and governing documents, so your mileage may vary on that one.)
The broader frustration behind the video is real and well documented. A survey conducted by [Rocket Mortgage found that 57% of HOA homeowners dislike having one](https://www.rocketmortgage.com/learn/assessing-the-association), and more than 3 in 10 feel their HOA has too much power. A separate [YouGov poll](https://today.yougov.com/economy/articles/48039-how-americans-view-hoas-and-their-influence) found that most Americans actually oppose HOA rules specifically around landscaping, with more people against those restrictions than in favor of them. And yet, 38% of HOA residents think their HOA is too restrictive, with rules about yard signs, fences, and landscaping among the most contested.
Itâs worth saying that HOAs were not invented to tell people which direction to push their lawnmower. The idea was originally to maintain shared spaces and protect property values. But thereâs a gap between that intention and the reality of a board with the authority to regulate the pattern of someoneâs grass, and that gap is where videos like this one get millions of views.
In yet [another video](https://www.tiktok.com/@rootedlawnco/video/7368453137943792939), he openly disregards the HOAâs rules against using sand to level his yard: âPOV: When the HOA says no sand, but you did it anywayâŠâ
There is something deeply satisfying about a response that is simultaneously fully compliant and completely defiant. He did not fight the rule. He did not post an angry letter or file a complaint. He just made something beautiful out of the constraint, posted it to TikTok, and let the rest of us enjoy it.
The lawn looks incredible, for the record.
*You can follow [@rootedlawnco](https://www.tiktok.com/@rootedlawnco) on TikTok for more content on home decor and lifestyle.*
- [](https://www.upworthy.com/woman-shamed-for-sons-name-when-it-was-her-dog-ex1/)
## [Woman gets shamed at CVS for âsonâsâ unusual name. The reality has people rolling.](https://www.upworthy.com/woman-shamed-for-sons-name-when-it-was-her-dog-ex1/)
It started like any ordinary pharmacy errand. A Michigan woman named Sarah was waiting at CVS to pick up a prescription for her âson.â When another woman waiting in line overheard the name of her âson,â she apparently couldnât help but let out an unsolicited opinion.âYouâll really name your son anything, huh?â the woman saidâŠ
***
2/16/2026
It started like any ordinary [pharmacy](https://www.upworthy.com/tag/pharmacy-bills) errand. A [Michigan](https://www.upworthy.com/tag/michigan) woman named Sarah was waiting at CVS to pick up a prescription for her â[son.â](https://www.good.is/animal-photography-awards-ex1) When another woman waiting in line overheard the name of her âson,â she apparently couldnât help but let out an unsolicited opinion.
âYouâll really name your son anything, huh?â the woman said with a sigh.
The name in question? Whiskey.

At least it wasn't Bubbles. [Photo credit: Canva](https://www.canva.com/photos)
Now, if youâre picturing a tiny human in a onesie named after your dadâs favorite Friday-night drink, and feeling a little baffled in the process, donât worry. So was everyone else.
Except Whiskey isnât a little boy. Heâs a red [golden retriever](https://www.upworthy.com/tag/golden-retriever).
Yep. Sarahâs âsonâ is of the four-legged variety, currently undergoing cancer treatments and racking up a pharmacy bill that could rival a small countryâs GDP. She and her husband get his prescriptions filled at their local CVS because (fun fact) many human and animal meds are the same, just at different doses.

You just know there's a person named Whiskey out there getting a kick out of this. [media4.giphy.com](https://media4.giphy.com/media/v1.Y2lkPTc5MGI3NjExaWExZ3BxYXk3ZW0zNnBwdGM0Z2liZXJsNTNpdzZkMnU0ODAyMzZtMSZlcD12MV9pbnRlcm5hbF9naWZfYnlfaWQmY3Q9Zw/js60E02Z67xfV6dZBG/giphy.gif)
As Sarah explained to [**Newsweek**,](https://www.newsweek.com/woman-shamed-sons-name-pharmacy-but-theres-a-twist-10851525) this strategy saves them a few bucks, but can certainly lead to some incredible misunderstandings.
In her TikTok video, which has now been watched over 3 million times, Sarah retold this CVS name-shaming incident, and viewers collectively lost it.
One commenter shared, âI was shaming you too until you said dog!â Another wrote, âI mean, Whiskey is a horrible name for a child  But for a dog? Okay lol.â
However, a few folks came to Sarahâs defense. One person noted, âThere are women named Brandiâwhatâs wrong with Whiskey?â Another admitted, âin my 49 years I didnât know CVS filled pet meds!â
Itâs the kind of mix-up that reminds us how funny life can be when the human and animal worlds collide. Because letâs face it: Whiskey the dog? Adorable. Whiskey the toddler? Maybe⊠less so. It might be a mostly unspoken rule, but a rule nonetheless.
As for what became of that misunderstanding, Sarah shared that when the other woman called Whiskey a âhorribleâ name for a child to grow up with that could lead to getting bullied in school, Sarah quipped back with âWell, heâs a dog. So I donât think so.â Upon that realization, Sarah told [**Newsweek**](https://www.newsweek.com/woman-shamed-sons-name-pharmacy-but-theres-a-twist-10851525) that she âapologized very nicelyâ once she learned that Whiskey was, in fact, a dog.
As Sarah put it, the stranger âjust left in a hurry, probably to think about her actions later.â
Meanwhile, TikTok is still chuckling, and celebrating one very good boy with a name that fits him perfectly.
Moral of the story: some names are meant for baby humans, like Zach or Emma**.** Others are for the fur babies who greet you at the door with a wagging tail and oodles of loveâŠlike **Whiskey.** 
*This article originally appeared last year*
- [](https://www.upworthy.com/olympic-curling-gets-humor-treatment-as-people-recreate-the-bizarrely-riveting-sport-at-home/)
Photo credit: [Canva](https://www.canva.com/photos) â Curling has become a surprisingly popular Olympic sport.
When curling became an official [Olympic sport](https://www.upworthy.com/didnt-qualify-for-the-olympics-sports-fail-videos) in 1998, it was met with a fair amount of curiosity and confusion, at least among people outside [Canada](https://www.upworthy.com/owl-break-ins), [Scotland](https://www.upworthy.com/live-in-bookshop-in-scotland), and the [Scandinavian countries](https://www.upworthy.com/scandinavian-babies-nap-outside-even-in-the-cold-maybe-they-re-on-to-something-ex1) where it has long been a [winter sport](https://www.upworthy.com/cats-attack-luge-racers-olympics) tradition. Without an explanation of whatâs happening, curling can look downright bizarre: large stones sliding across the ice toward a target, while people vigorously sweep the ice in front of them as the person who threw the stone yells unintelligibly.
Itâs not obvious what skills are required for curling just by watching, which initially led people to poke fun at the event. More recent Olympic Games, however, have seen interest in curling grow as people find the sport strangely riveting. Now, curling has reached even greater heights of popularity, as evidenced by satirical curling-at-home videos popping up on social media.
Many of them use a combo of a Roomba and a Swiffer, which works perfectly:
Why Swiffer is not the official sponsor of all Olympic curling events is a mystery.
Some creators take it a little further, adding in the yelling component:
Others use different household items, like a teapot, for a curling stone and add commentary:
And believe it or not, someone even used a baby as a curling stone, with the caption, âWhen new dads in Canada are left unsupervised.â
So how exactly did we get here?
## The history of curling
No one knows the exact origins of curling, but there is evidence of the sport (or something like it) being played by monks on frozen lakes and ponds in Scotland in the 16th century. Farmers would join in curling games during the winter months, and as the sport evolved through the 1800s, it became more organized. Rules were formalized, and people began traveling to watch and participate in competitions held outdoors in large Scottish cities. The Scots eventually took the sport with them to other countries, and by the 1900s, curling had transformed from a Scottish outdoor pastime into an international, mostly indoor sport.
## How does curling work as a sport?
Curling is played by two teams of four, with each team aiming to get its eight stones closest to the center of a target called a âhouse.â Teams alternate âthrowingâ their stones, which really means gliding them along the ice. Sweepers brush the ice to help guide the stones, while the team captain, or âskip,â gives directions, often by yelling, to place the stones where they want them to go.
After all 16 stones are thrown, the team with a stone closest to the center of the house [scores](https://www.nbcolympics.com/news/curling-101-rules) one point for each of its stones that landed inside the house. The other team does not score at all in that round, called an âend.â There are eight or 10 ends per game, depending on the event, and the team with the most points after all the ends have been played is the winner.
Hereâs a visual explainer that goes through the basics:
## Fun facts about curling
Tara Peterson of the USA Curling National Team shared some interesting facts about curling [with Columbia Sportswear](https://www.columbia.com/fun-facts-about-curling.html):
- Modern curling stones are made of granite that comes from only two places: a quarry in Wales and an uninhabited island off the coast of Scotland called Ailsa Craig.
- Curling is called curling because of the way the stone curves depending on how itâs spun, but exactly how that happens is still a bit of a scientific mystery. Curling stones actually move in the opposite direction of what the turn would normally dictate according to physics.
- Despite the yelling, curling is considered a polite âgentlemanâsâ sport, with traditional etiquette rules observed before and after the game.
- Though it may not be immediately obvious, you have to be in pretty good shape to curl. Throwing a 42-pound stone, even on ice, isnât as easy as it looks, and the person throwing it must remain crouched close to the ground for long periods. Sweeping also requires arm strength and cardiovascular endurance.

Curling requiresu00a0more athleticism than it first appears. [Photo credit: Canva](https://www.canva.com/photos)
- Curlers wear two different shoes, one designed for gripping the ice and the other for sliding. The slider sole is made of Teflon or stainless steel, while the grippy sole is made of rubber.
- Curling is called the âroaring game,â which might sound odd, but the sound of the stones gliding over the ice is apparently much louder in person than it sounds on TV.
Every sport is more fun to watch when you actually know what youâre seeing, and curling is no exception. If youâre wondering who to watch, Canada has traditionally dominated the sport, though Sweden trails by only two medals [in total Olympic curling medals](https://www.olympics.com/en/milano-cortina-2026/news/olympic-curling-complete-list-winners-medallists). And if youâre curious how Scotland fares as the original home of the sport, its curlers compete under Great Britainâs flag.
- [](https://www.upworthy.com/man-hires-austin-powers-impersonator/)
Photo credit: Photo Credit: Chase Hofer, Instagram â An Austin Powers impersonator shows up in Chase Hofer's apartment.
It was groovy, baby. [Chase Hofer](https://www.instagram.com/chasehofer/?hl=en) woke up one day and decided to hire an [*Austin Powers*](https://www.upworthy.com/mike-myers-returns-as-dr-evil-with-a-twist-in-a-hilarious-new-super-bowl-ad) impersonator to just, well, come over. And that he did, creating a brilliantly funny and equally [awkward](https://www.upworthy.com/dax-flame-mystery-comedy) exchange between two guys just hanging in an apartment. (Albeit one of them was dressed head to toe as the infamous English ladiesâ man.)
For those unfamiliar with the [*Austin Powers*](https://www.warnerbros.com/movies/austin-powers-international-man-mystery) franchise, comedian [Mike Myers](https://www.imdb.com/name/nm0000196/) created and played the character in a series of three films directed by Jay Roach. The gist was that Powers is a British international spy who loved crushed velvet suits and âshaggingâ and wasnât ashamed of either. The purposely cringe-heavy dialogue created hours of fun, and the â60s spy satire was blatant.
In the clip, Hofer opens the door to find âAustin Powersâ (as played by actual impersonator [Richard Halpern](https://www.instagram.com/austinpowersimpersonator/?hl=en)) dressed in his trademark blue velour suit, frilly white shirt, and thick black glasses. They shake hands, and Halpern immediately says, âYou must be Chase, baby! What a grip you have. You must live alone!â They laugh uproariously.
Halpern asks, âSo what do you want me to do? Like what I would do at a party?â He then begins laughing maniacally, pacing and yelling out some of his catchphrasesâmost notably, âOh, BEHAVE.â After turning to his smartphone, he remembers a line that would only work if looking at a womanâs chest area: âOh, you make a lovely couple.â This lands awkwardly, as he tries to explain that itâs a âboobieâ reference. Hofer assures him he got it, though itâs a âdifferent time.â
From there, the awkwardness just gets better. Halpern is now lounging on the couch. Hofer asks, âDid you watch the Super Bowl?â He answers, âOh yeah, yeah sure I did.â Hofer follows this up with, âAre you more of a soccer guy since⊠U.K.?â He yells, âSoccer, I donât even know her!â Hofer attempts to feign a laugh, but it putters out pretty quickly.
The room is incredibly quiet for a bit, followed by a little more forced banter. The clip ends with the two of them watching a rap performance on TV in complete silence.
The comments on both Hoferâs TikTok and Instagram page are also truly observant and funny. One points out the commitment to the bit: âDude has the car and everything.â

Austin Powers impersonator arrives at Chase Hofer's apartment. Photo Credit: Kenneth Webb, TikTok
Another jokes, âWhen the *Austin Powers* impersonator thinks YOUâRE the weirdo.â
On Instagram, a person references the rap performance theyâre watching, noting, âThe 2016 XXL freshman cypher at the end is pure gold. PURE GOLD.â
*Upworthy* had a chance to chat with Hofer, who shares how the idea sparked. âI came up with the idea after doing it with a magician! The magician was a friend of mine. So I thought it would be great to do it with this *Austin Powers* impersonator that my friends have worked with.â
Said aforementioned impersonator has been playing Austin Powers for ages. âAustin was played by this man on Instagram known as âAustin Powers Impersonator.â Heâs been doing this professionally for more than 25 years.â
(Note: On Richard Halpernâs Instagram page, he lets it be known that heâs L.A.-based and âready for YOUR event.â)
We asked if Halpern had been given a heads up. âBasically, I gave him the rundown that itâd just be us two, and then I rolled non-stop for 30 minutes. So it was basically all improv.â
As for Myers himself, Hofer is a fan. âI have not met Mike Myers! Big fan though. I felt like I was watching him a couple of days ago!â
As popular as this clip has become, some wonder if this cringe humor would be too much for younger generations. On the Reddit thread, [âDoes Generation Z enjoy the *Austin Powers* movies or find them offensive and outdated?](https://www.reddit.com/r/movies/comments/1dmyu1t/does_generation_z_enjoy_the_austin_powers_movies/)â the OP writes, âI recently watched *Austin Powers* with my nephew. He found half of it funny, but the other half he didnât really get. Some jokes he thought were racist and not funny. This made me wonder, Gen Z, do you like these movies, or do you find them offensive and outdated?â
The OP adds, âPersonally, I found these movies really funny. I love that Mike Myers has the laugh-per-minute dialed up in these movies. Thereâs constant jokes⊠nonstop jokes. Definitely some of the jokes lost their luster from when I was 19 years old. But the jokes are still there.â
This thread received nearly 3,000 comments. One Redditor wasnât bothered at all, noting that being offensive is the POINT. âThat seems funny to me because *Austin Powers* is a direct parody of the old *Bond* movies, so the overt sexual and offensive jokes are part of the satire.â
Another points out that itâs all relative, writing, âThe weird thing is that despite Austin being a complete and total horndog, heâs also weirdly more respectful than a lot of characters at the time or since. Thereâs a scene in one of the movies (I canât remember which one) where the female co-lead is finally willing to sleep with him after heâs been unsuccessfully hitting on her most of the movie, and he respectfully turns her down because sheâs drunk as a skunk and he has the decency to not take advantage of someone whoâs inebriated and thus canât consent.â
Perhaps Dr. Evil (also played by Myers in the *Austin Powers* films) said it best when he pointed out in *Austin Powers: International Man of Mystery*: âIâve been frozen for thirty years, okay?â
- [](https://www.upworthy.com/decluttering-genius-hack/)
Photo credit: [Canva](https://www.canva.com/photos) â Left: A woman holding her finger up to convey a secret. Right: A hand placing an antique item on a window ledge.
For many of us, [decluttering](https://www.upworthy.com/tag/decluttering) is a necessary evil. We take no [joy](https://www.upworthy.com/womans-typo-brings-unexpected-joy) in it, other than knowing our lives might run a little more smoothly afterward. Itâs sort of like going to the [dentist](https://www.upworthy.com/tag/dentist) or getting an oil change.
But like so many of lifeâs mundanities, could decluttering become something we actually look forward to if we found a way to infuse a little playfulness?
For [Stephanie Patrick](https://www.instagram.com/stephaniepatrick01/reels/), that meant secretly leaving random items at other peopleâs houses.
In a mega-viral [Instagram clip](https://www.instagram.com/reel/DTV9DxyFYp6), Patrick is seen placing a tiny bar of soap, a small creamer pitcher, and a vintage glass tealight candle holder on different countertops, accompanied by the caption, âSometimes you gotta do what you gotta do.â
The video has been viewed more than 25 million times, with thousands of people praising Patrick for her âdiabolicalâ yet âgeniusâ idea. Here are just a few of the reactions:
âA clever menace. I love it.â
âThis is amazing. They are going to go crazy asking each other âwhere did this come from? Do you know where this came from?ââ
âI have never felt so inspired in my whole entire life.â
âUNHEISTâ
âReverse burglaryâ
This isnât Patrickâs first, ahem, unconventional decluttering idea. In another [video](https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUWnSQJD7yM), we see her placing random itemsâa picture frame, a mini sewing kit, a sequined heart pillow, and yet another tealight candle holderâalong the aisles of Hobby Lobby. Retail sticker and everything.
âIâm sure they will sell eventually,â she wrote.
While leaving items for retail workers to deal with isnât the best option, Patrick clarified in the comments that she only âpretendedâ to leave the items behind. Still, thereâs something to be said for gamifying decluttering so the process itself becomes a bit more enjoyable.
Here are a [few ideas](https://www.becomingminimalist.com/creative-ways-to-declutter/) procured from [around the web](https://letsliveandlearn.com/delcuttering-games-how-to-make-decluttering-fun/):
## Creative ways to make decluttering fun
**H****anger reversal**
Turn all your hangers the wrong way. When you wear an item, flip the hanger back. After six months, donate anything thatâs still reversed.
**The âno-thingâ prize**
Reward yourself with an experience, like a movie or dessert, rather than more items.
**Take the 12-12-12 challenge**
Locate 12 items to throw away, 12 to donate, and 12 to return to their proper homes. You can customize the challenge however you see fit.
**Take before-and-after photos of a small area**
Choose one part of your home, like a kitchen counter, and take a photo of a small area. Quickly clear away the items in the photo, then take an after shot. Once you see how your home *could* look, it becomes easier to start decluttering other areas.
**Play the âminimalism gameâ**
Created by Joshua Fields Millburn and Ryan Nicodemus (â[The Minimalists](https://www.theminimalists.com/about/)â), this game has you determine how many items youâll declutter based on the day of the week, such as 20 items on the 20th. You can find a free printable by [clicking here](https://letsliveandlearn.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/08/items.pdf).
**Decluttering jar**
A âdeclutter jarâ contains color-coded sticks for each area of the house. The kitchen might be marked blue, with each blue stick representing a specific area, such as the pantry, under the sink, the junk drawer, or the cup shelf. Whatever stick you draw is the area you declutter. No decision-making necessary.
**The âmoving methodâ**
Pretend youâre moving into a smaller, but swankier, home and only keep what you absolutely love or need. Tap into your imagination while making room for real life. A win-win.
Lastly, never underestimate the power of simply throwing on a banginâ decluttering playlist. Whatever route gets you there is the route worth taking. Of course, if you follow in Patrickâs footsteps, you might have some explaining to do to your friends. |
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