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| Boilerpipe Text | Some weeks, work can just beâŠa lot. Maybe youâve been busting your ass on endless assignments that make you
want to cry
, scream, or quit. Or, youâre so
over it
that hearing an email ping on a Friday night is enough to ruin your weekend.
In a culture that
prizes productivity
, itâs unfortunately all too common to feel utterly exhausted, depleted, and, some would even say, âburnt out.â But actually, thereâs a major difference between run-of-the-mill stress and true burnout,
Jessi Gold, MD
, chief wellness officer for the University of Tennessee System and author of
How Do You Feel?: One Doctorâs Search for Humanity in Medicine
, tells SELF.
âWe tend to use a lot of mental health words looselyâand
burnout
is definitely one of them,â Dr. Gold says. âA lot of people say theyâre experiencing it when they really mean theyâre tired or overworked.â But according to the
World Health Organization
(WHO), burnout doesnât refer to an occasional, temporary feeling of overwhelm in response to high stress; itâs a syndrome caused by a buildup of
chronic
stress that hasnât been effectively managed.
Of course, when youâre
losing sleep
from multiple late-night shifts in a row or drowning in a never-ending to-do list, it can be hard to know whether you just need a break or if youâre dealing with full-on burnout. Thatâs why we asked therapists to break down the key differences between the two.
1. Burnout is specific to work.
You might be sooo done with the
bleak dating scene
, say, or totally wiped after training for a bunch of 5K races. But technically speaking, the term âburnoutâ only refers to
workplace
exhaustion, according to the WHO.
âThis means the fatigue youâre experiencing comes from your jobâwhether youâre a stay-at-home parent, full-time student, healthcare professional, or working in an office,â
Angela Neal-Barnett, PhD
, a psychology professor and the director of the Program for Research on Anxiety Disorders among African Americans (PRADAA) at Kent State University, tells SELF. So, terms like âdating burnoutâ and âexercise burnoutâ arenât really accurate: What youâre likely referring to in these cases is simply feeling
worn
out
.
2. Burnout wonât disappear after you finish a big assignment or hit one deadline.
Sure, a high-stakes presentation or major patient care crisis can spike anxiety. But if you experience a wave of relief once the pressure subsides (and go back to feeling like your old self again), youâre likely just dealing with normal stress rather than burnout.
As Dr. Neal-Barnett explains,
stress
is your bodyâs physiological response to a specific challenge. In the moment, you may feel restless, tense, or as if your heart is racingâbut these symptoms should go away once the anxiety-inducing situation has passed. Burnout, on the other hand, is the result of ongoing, unresolved stress thatâs been building up over time, usually for more than
six months
.
Youâre not likely to be âburnt outâ from just one staffing shortage or deadline. âItâs more like youâve been fighting this unrelenting stress for so long that it just depletes you of everything, and your body and brain kind of give up,â Dr. Neal-Barnett saysâwhich explains why burnout can be more complicated to treat.
3. Unlike stress, burnout usually brings feelings of detachment or cynicism about your career.
Stress and burnout share a lot of symptoms in common, like anxiety, fatigue, and irritability. But with burnout, youâre so emotionally drained (and for such a long time) that you start feeling hopeless, cynical, and detached from your job,
Christina Maslach, PhD
, a psychology professor at the University of California, Berkeley, and coauthor of
The Burnout Challenge: Managing Peopleâs Relationships with Their Job
, tells SELF.
When youâre stressed, you might still have enough energy and motivation to push through whereas with burnout, âyouâre not doing your best, because your efforts feel pointless,â Dr. Maslach says. âYouâre mentally checked out, only doing the bare minimum and thinking, How do I just get through this?â As a result, you might start withdrawing from your patients, say, since youâre struggling to show them the compassion they deserve. Or, if you achieve some major accomplishment (like a promotion or praise from your boss), youâre not happy or proud: You justâŠdonât care.
4. Your work performance will suffer when youâre burnt out.
âIf you still really
like
your job and feel good about the quality of work youâre doing, youâre likely overextended but not experiencing burnout,â Dr. Maslach says. Thatâs because the latter, as we explained earlier, tends to make you feel pessimistic and
completely unmotivated
âwhich, naturally, lowers your job satisfaction and can cause your performance to suffer, too
You might find yourself
missing important deadlines
or submitting assignments without reviewing them for typos and errorsâbecause, honestly, you donât have it in you to give a damn anymore. Or, you might be so mentally and physically checked out, that you take longer to react in emergency situations.
However, you donât have to necessarily be on the verge of getting fired to be in burnout territory: âItâs also common to develop a perceived sense of failure or a negative evaluation of yourself, like,
I'm not good at this.
I canât handle this. I donât want to do this anymore
,â Dr. Maslach saysâand this self-doubt can lead you to believe your work quality is slipping (even if others havenât noticed).
5. Your usual stress relievers probably wonât magically âfixâ burnout symptomsâŠ
Most of us have
something
to look forward to after a grueling weekdayâwhether itâs a good workout, drinks with friends, or an episode (or three) of a
mindless TV show
. But according to Dr. Gold, burnout drains your energy to the point that even the activities you once relied on for balance stop working.
For example, maybe you used to
love cooking
, but now youâre ordering takeout every nightânot because you crave it, but because you canât muster the motivation to chop, sautĂ©, or even boil water. Or perhaps youâve always found peace logging a few miles before heading into the officeâbut for the past few months, lacing up your running shoes and dragging yourself out the door has felt like a total chore. Basically, when your usual
self-care
no longer alleviates your stress, it could signal a more chronic issue like burnout.
6. âŠand neither will taking a few days off.
Again, burnout doesnât come from just one super busy month or demanding assignment. Rather, itâs rooted in more systemic issues, like ongoing pressure from higher-ups, lack of support, or a constant stream of emergency calls (or urgent emails) keeping you on the clock, around the clock.
While a
restful vacation
may ease
some
of your symptoms, it might not do much for legit burnout, according to Dr. Maslach. âThe bigger problem is that these respites usually donât change the source of your burnout,â she explainsâeven the most relaxing getaway wonât address things like a toxic boss, unrealistic expectations, or a never-ending fear of layoffs, for example.
Thatâs why all the experts we spoke with agree: Workplaces and employers need to step up and make real changes towards a more supportive, positive environment. But since thatâs not happening overnight (sadly), one of the best things you can do is to talk to your boss about ways to improve your situation, Dr. Neal-Barnett suggests.
This could mean reducing your workload, for instance, or adjusting your schedule so youâre not working back-to-back late-night shifts. And if that doesnât get you anywhere, it might be time to start working on an exit strategyâby exploring new openings, networking with former colleagues, or saving up for a brief career breakâbecause no job is worth sacrificing your mental health.
Regardless of your next steps, make sure to
give yourself grace
. âRemember, youâre not lazy. Youâre not a failure for feeling this way,â Dr. Gold says. If this wasnât clear from all the expert insight above: Burnout is a serious issue and a reflection of a broken systemânot your worth.
Related:
How to Bounce Back From Failure, According to Experts
What Does It Mean to Really, Truly Rest?
Why Multitasking Doesnât Work and Is Actually Making Your Life Worse
Get more of SELF's helpful mental health tips delivered right to your inboxâfor free
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# Whatâs the Difference Between Stress and Burnout?
Understanding the distinction can help you make some changes before things get really bad.
By [Jenna Ryu](https://www.self.com/contributor/jenna-ryu)
October 24, 2024

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Some weeks, work can just beâŠa lot. Maybe youâve been busting your ass on endless assignments that make you [want to cry](https://www.self.com/story/stop-crying-when-angry), scream, or quit. Or, youâre so *over it* that hearing an email ping on a Friday night is enough to ruin your weekend.
In a culture that [prizes productivity](https://www.self.com/story/toxic-productivity-signs), itâs unfortunately all too common to feel utterly exhausted, depleted, and, some would even say, âburnt out.â But actually, thereâs a major difference between run-of-the-mill stress and true burnout, [Jessi Gold, MD](https://www.drjessigold.com/), chief wellness officer for the University of Tennessee System and author of [*How Do You Feel?: One Doctorâs Search for Humanity in Medicine*](https://cna.st/affiliate-link/233KfE645krK9NPNhD29E9qYzesz7vC8vjnAwBLotDLMNf7KqyfhpkmpM9fLyvJkG1uy632FNQbhUKWTowpW5yx3mkDuwwE468U16rxmj3SBNoAHq6MfuK5M29RuGwNUMJ2qjbXFczf9ADn5KMmZAXGrz9i2bn9kzfaNJTZu338es3vF3HpuepYxmYPpweaxEtCKcRPnzCXzXcmvPxEtVDDhQxNZ648WFfh1Dgb2CTvcecu1VU7ZPt4R8xKQ6YAuqa7yTNhhtAoh1j5J2HS6MxmcdGXed34y1CzCfmqqeMJU7BnWU64Hp2PRqjWC8rNkgG8fCZhBtzHyeLeNZTeTBk), tells SELF.
âWe tend to use a lot of mental health words looselyâand [burnout](https://www.self.com/story/signs-of-burnout) is definitely one of them,â Dr. Gold says. âA lot of people say theyâre experiencing it when they really mean theyâre tired or overworked.â But according to the [World Health Organization](https://www.who.int/news/item/28-05-2019-burn-out-an-occupational-phenomenon-international-classification-of-diseases) (WHO), burnout doesnât refer to an occasional, temporary feeling of overwhelm in response to high stress; itâs a syndrome caused by a buildup of *chronic* stress that hasnât been effectively managed.
Of course, when youâre [losing sleep](https://www.self.com/story/three-things-overthinking-before-bed) from multiple late-night shifts in a row or drowning in a never-ending to-do list, it can be hard to know whether you just need a break or if youâre dealing with full-on burnout. Thatâs why we asked therapists to break down the key differences between the two.
## 1\. Burnout is specific to work.
You might be sooo done with the [bleak dating scene](https://www.self.com/story/online-dating-horror-stories), say, or totally wiped after training for a bunch of 5K races. But technically speaking, the term âburnoutâ only refers to *workplace* exhaustion, according to the WHO.
âThis means the fatigue youâre experiencing comes from your jobâwhether youâre a stay-at-home parent, full-time student, healthcare professional, or working in an office,â [Angela Neal-Barnett, PhD](https://www.drangelanealbarnett.com/), a psychology professor and the director of the Program for Research on Anxiety Disorders among African Americans (PRADAA) at Kent State University, tells SELF. So, terms like âdating burnoutâ and âexercise burnoutâ arenât really accurate: What youâre likely referring to in these cases is simply feeling [*worn* out](https://www.self.com/story/work-stress-tips).
## 2\. Burnout wonât disappear after you finish a big assignment or hit one deadline.
Sure, a high-stakes presentation or major patient care crisis can spike anxiety. But if you experience a wave of relief once the pressure subsides (and go back to feeling like your old self again), youâre likely just dealing with normal stress rather than burnout.
As Dr. Neal-Barnett explains, [stress](https://www.self.com/story/three-things-loss-of-appetite-stress) is your bodyâs physiological response to a specific challenge. In the moment, you may feel restless, tense, or as if your heart is racingâbut these symptoms should go away once the anxiety-inducing situation has passed. Burnout, on the other hand, is the result of ongoing, unresolved stress thatâs been building up over time, usually for more than [six months](https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3380803/).
Youâre not likely to be âburnt outâ from just one staffing shortage or deadline. âItâs more like youâve been fighting this unrelenting stress for so long that it just depletes you of everything, and your body and brain kind of give up,â Dr. Neal-Barnett saysâwhich explains why burnout can be more complicated to treat.
## 3\. Unlike stress, burnout usually brings feelings of detachment or cynicism about your career.
Stress and burnout share a lot of symptoms in common, like anxiety, fatigue, and irritability. But with burnout, youâre so emotionally drained (and for such a long time) that you start feeling hopeless, cynical, and detached from your job, [Christina Maslach, PhD](https://psychology.berkeley.edu/people/christina-maslach), a psychology professor at the University of California, Berkeley, and coauthor of [*The Burnout Challenge: Managing Peopleâs Relationships with Their Job*](https://cna.st/affiliate-link/kNEXo3EPDNusUyfXsd6N7FfRMXDiUMd5ne42m4EsYqEgWCWw6YSWPpNcvNqDJ2PBtVmwC1yoyhKUKs2Q34jMwtbufFtEaUtpJtkY3egNC2Kshzg9s8YaocoYPdQ3tFh1iqNe2RL61uvZgNiJ2smV2v4E3Fwnod7WwuhVBuBcpkVeiz4cySETwe1g6pkoHPpS6DfRdmXnr5YSburVKsAzErVeUaV1cwrhVSdpHAMKaWx4T2fSziiTQRfrUJudqZ799a9gKwaLYYpxK6bS3HaWmwP3SC7F7UtPnwQFNPHwRSYdFDgS62gQ9taFtVJGmNiRWk7wvRH2xrDDkNaBzQ1FsjH6PDYHT5S5ML9WUmMe2x4cEvGZh6T926hKjEK1UBtmBLskD3mBVa1arwzJmw74ifZVbyXHqMw9epy9v7PPJ8SeBwQurUjYbWd7gfzwpM3chi5cHnxkdXeHF7uo9ADG6yt5xNSigwyN6BRzcTmMK3hjw2pWKaNwUzBmh14UARwEZ8PW3pcvp41DJZnALLrTmVVHehp1TggfAmgHVeH9xt2KdzH6TnZri1n379Brxnx2dB1S94FtrACbFawGi1hjeHjS9DhEdGq2FwWKWQcXLLo13R7ATiPATJrDgfxrTVhQadhwjBBitqPB6JrwozYL4RJ6bqJK4yXaWQtWGGQYvonoC2gbE93cFauCVnKGZz3SSkgpVdroatdKaYySDvQLcKmQpcqkS1sKZeS4cZKjATwhfWzbGSTRTsZHey2LnRXMFBgtPMtQ7NxehcWw7twsqJss3LqjWjVsyrg5LQsVg18N8nMVi97xaWvLnqZqcZfQo7gjNqH3A9YWn9sPKWX9XktWjuNkjzhsj8iYmiETv26h9XTjvvpnGHtSgEHjLTbx8NkML), tells SELF.
When youâre stressed, you might still have enough energy and motivation to push through whereas with burnout, âyouâre not doing your best, because your efforts feel pointless,â Dr. Maslach says. âYouâre mentally checked out, only doing the bare minimum and thinking, How do I just get through this?â As a result, you might start withdrawing from your patients, say, since youâre struggling to show them the compassion they deserve. Or, if you achieve some major accomplishment (like a promotion or praise from your boss), youâre not happy or proud: You justâŠdonât care.
## 4\. Your work performance will suffer when youâre burnt out.
âIf you still really *like* your job and feel good about the quality of work youâre doing, youâre likely overextended but not experiencing burnout,â Dr. Maslach says. Thatâs because the latter, as we explained earlier, tends to make you feel pessimistic and [completely unmotivated](https://www.self.com/story/lack-of-motivation-depression)âwhich, naturally, lowers your job satisfaction and can cause your performance to suffer, too
You might find yourself [missing important deadlines](https://www.self.com/story/how-to-stop-procrastinating) or submitting assignments without reviewing them for typos and errorsâbecause, honestly, you donât have it in you to give a damn anymore. Or, you might be so mentally and physically checked out, that you take longer to react in emergency situations.
However, you donât have to necessarily be on the verge of getting fired to be in burnout territory: âItâs also common to develop a perceived sense of failure or a negative evaluation of yourself, like, *I'm not good at this.* *I canât handle this. I donât want to do this anymore*,â Dr. Maslach saysâand this self-doubt can lead you to believe your work quality is slipping (even if others havenât noticed).
## 5\. Your usual stress relievers probably wonât magically âfixâ burnout symptomsâŠ
Most of us have *something* to look forward to after a grueling weekdayâwhether itâs a good workout, drinks with friends, or an episode (or three) of a [mindless TV show](https://www.self.com/story/mindless-tv-shows). But according to Dr. Gold, burnout drains your energy to the point that even the activities you once relied on for balance stop working.
For example, maybe you used to [love cooking](https://www.self.com/story/healing-cooking-burnout), but now youâre ordering takeout every nightânot because you crave it, but because you canât muster the motivation to chop, sautĂ©, or even boil water. Or perhaps youâve always found peace logging a few miles before heading into the officeâbut for the past few months, lacing up your running shoes and dragging yourself out the door has felt like a total chore. Basically, when your usual [self-care](https://www.self.com/story/real-self-care) no longer alleviates your stress, it could signal a more chronic issue like burnout.
## 6\. âŠand neither will taking a few days off.
Again, burnout doesnât come from just one super busy month or demanding assignment. Rather, itâs rooted in more systemic issues, like ongoing pressure from higher-ups, lack of support, or a constant stream of emergency calls (or urgent emails) keeping you on the clock, around the clock.
While a [restful vacation](https://www.self.com/story/work-stress-vacation-advice) may ease *some* of your symptoms, it might not do much for legit burnout, according to Dr. Maslach. âThe bigger problem is that these respites usually donât change the source of your burnout,â she explainsâeven the most relaxing getaway wonât address things like a toxic boss, unrealistic expectations, or a never-ending fear of layoffs, for example.
Thatâs why all the experts we spoke with agree: Workplaces and employers need to step up and make real changes towards a more supportive, positive environment. But since thatâs not happening overnight (sadly), one of the best things you can do is to talk to your boss about ways to improve your situation, Dr. Neal-Barnett suggests.
This could mean reducing your workload, for instance, or adjusting your schedule so youâre not working back-to-back late-night shifts. And if that doesnât get you anywhere, it might be time to start working on an exit strategyâby exploring new openings, networking with former colleagues, or saving up for a brief career breakâbecause no job is worth sacrificing your mental health.
Regardless of your next steps, make sure to [give yourself grace](https://www.self.com/story/imposter-syndrome-work-tips). âRemember, youâre not lazy. Youâre not a failure for feeling this way,â Dr. Gold says. If this wasnât clear from all the expert insight above: Burnout is a serious issue and a reflection of a broken systemânot your worth.
**Related:**
- [How to Bounce Back From Failure, According to Experts](https://www.self.com/story/how-to-bounce-back-from-failure)
- [What Does It Mean to Really, Truly Rest?](https://www.self.com/story/what-does-rest-mean)
- [Why Multitasking Doesnât Work and Is Actually Making Your Life Worse](https://www.self.com/story/why-multitasking-doesnt-work)
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| Readable Markdown | Some weeks, work can just beâŠa lot. Maybe youâve been busting your ass on endless assignments that make you [want to cry](https://www.self.com/story/stop-crying-when-angry), scream, or quit. Or, youâre so *over it* that hearing an email ping on a Friday night is enough to ruin your weekend.
In a culture that [prizes productivity](https://www.self.com/story/toxic-productivity-signs), itâs unfortunately all too common to feel utterly exhausted, depleted, and, some would even say, âburnt out.â But actually, thereâs a major difference between run-of-the-mill stress and true burnout, [Jessi Gold, MD](https://www.drjessigold.com/), chief wellness officer for the University of Tennessee System and author of [*How Do You Feel?: One Doctorâs Search for Humanity in Medicine*](https://cna.st/affiliate-link/233KfE645krK9NPNhD29E9qYzesz7vC8vjnAwBLotDLMNf7KqyfhpkmpM9fLyvJkG1uy632FNQbhUKWTowpW5yx3mkDuwwE468U16rxmj3SBNoAHq6MfuK5M29RuGwNUMJ2qjbXFczf9ADn5KMmZAXGrz9i2bn9kzfaNJTZu338es3vF3HpuepYxmYPpweaxEtCKcRPnzCXzXcmvPxEtVDDhQxNZ648WFfh1Dgb2CTvcecu1VU7ZPt4R8xKQ6YAuqa7yTNhhtAoh1j5J2HS6MxmcdGXed34y1CzCfmqqeMJU7BnWU64Hp2PRqjWC8rNkgG8fCZhBtzHyeLeNZTeTBk), tells SELF.
âWe tend to use a lot of mental health words looselyâand [burnout](https://www.self.com/story/signs-of-burnout) is definitely one of them,â Dr. Gold says. âA lot of people say theyâre experiencing it when they really mean theyâre tired or overworked.â But according to the [World Health Organization](https://www.who.int/news/item/28-05-2019-burn-out-an-occupational-phenomenon-international-classification-of-diseases) (WHO), burnout doesnât refer to an occasional, temporary feeling of overwhelm in response to high stress; itâs a syndrome caused by a buildup of *chronic* stress that hasnât been effectively managed.
Of course, when youâre [losing sleep](https://www.self.com/story/three-things-overthinking-before-bed) from multiple late-night shifts in a row or drowning in a never-ending to-do list, it can be hard to know whether you just need a break or if youâre dealing with full-on burnout. Thatâs why we asked therapists to break down the key differences between the two.
## 1\. Burnout is specific to work.
You might be sooo done with the [bleak dating scene](https://www.self.com/story/online-dating-horror-stories), say, or totally wiped after training for a bunch of 5K races. But technically speaking, the term âburnoutâ only refers to *workplace* exhaustion, according to the WHO.
âThis means the fatigue youâre experiencing comes from your jobâwhether youâre a stay-at-home parent, full-time student, healthcare professional, or working in an office,â [Angela Neal-Barnett, PhD](https://www.drangelanealbarnett.com/), a psychology professor and the director of the Program for Research on Anxiety Disorders among African Americans (PRADAA) at Kent State University, tells SELF. So, terms like âdating burnoutâ and âexercise burnoutâ arenât really accurate: What youâre likely referring to in these cases is simply feeling [*worn* out](https://www.self.com/story/work-stress-tips).
## 2\. Burnout wonât disappear after you finish a big assignment or hit one deadline.
Sure, a high-stakes presentation or major patient care crisis can spike anxiety. But if you experience a wave of relief once the pressure subsides (and go back to feeling like your old self again), youâre likely just dealing with normal stress rather than burnout.
As Dr. Neal-Barnett explains, [stress](https://www.self.com/story/three-things-loss-of-appetite-stress) is your bodyâs physiological response to a specific challenge. In the moment, you may feel restless, tense, or as if your heart is racingâbut these symptoms should go away once the anxiety-inducing situation has passed. Burnout, on the other hand, is the result of ongoing, unresolved stress thatâs been building up over time, usually for more than [six months](https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3380803/).
Youâre not likely to be âburnt outâ from just one staffing shortage or deadline. âItâs more like youâve been fighting this unrelenting stress for so long that it just depletes you of everything, and your body and brain kind of give up,â Dr. Neal-Barnett saysâwhich explains why burnout can be more complicated to treat.
## 3\. Unlike stress, burnout usually brings feelings of detachment or cynicism about your career.
Stress and burnout share a lot of symptoms in common, like anxiety, fatigue, and irritability. But with burnout, youâre so emotionally drained (and for such a long time) that you start feeling hopeless, cynical, and detached from your job, [Christina Maslach, PhD](https://psychology.berkeley.edu/people/christina-maslach), a psychology professor at the University of California, Berkeley, and coauthor of [*The Burnout Challenge: Managing Peopleâs Relationships with Their Job*](https://cna.st/affiliate-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), tells SELF.
When youâre stressed, you might still have enough energy and motivation to push through whereas with burnout, âyouâre not doing your best, because your efforts feel pointless,â Dr. Maslach says. âYouâre mentally checked out, only doing the bare minimum and thinking, How do I just get through this?â As a result, you might start withdrawing from your patients, say, since youâre struggling to show them the compassion they deserve. Or, if you achieve some major accomplishment (like a promotion or praise from your boss), youâre not happy or proud: You justâŠdonât care.
## 4\. Your work performance will suffer when youâre burnt out.
âIf you still really *like* your job and feel good about the quality of work youâre doing, youâre likely overextended but not experiencing burnout,â Dr. Maslach says. Thatâs because the latter, as we explained earlier, tends to make you feel pessimistic and [completely unmotivated](https://www.self.com/story/lack-of-motivation-depression)âwhich, naturally, lowers your job satisfaction and can cause your performance to suffer, too
You might find yourself [missing important deadlines](https://www.self.com/story/how-to-stop-procrastinating) or submitting assignments without reviewing them for typos and errorsâbecause, honestly, you donât have it in you to give a damn anymore. Or, you might be so mentally and physically checked out, that you take longer to react in emergency situations.
However, you donât have to necessarily be on the verge of getting fired to be in burnout territory: âItâs also common to develop a perceived sense of failure or a negative evaluation of yourself, like, *I'm not good at this.* *I canât handle this. I donât want to do this anymore*,â Dr. Maslach saysâand this self-doubt can lead you to believe your work quality is slipping (even if others havenât noticed).
## 5\. Your usual stress relievers probably wonât magically âfixâ burnout symptomsâŠ
Most of us have *something* to look forward to after a grueling weekdayâwhether itâs a good workout, drinks with friends, or an episode (or three) of a [mindless TV show](https://www.self.com/story/mindless-tv-shows). But according to Dr. Gold, burnout drains your energy to the point that even the activities you once relied on for balance stop working.
For example, maybe you used to [love cooking](https://www.self.com/story/healing-cooking-burnout), but now youâre ordering takeout every nightânot because you crave it, but because you canât muster the motivation to chop, sautĂ©, or even boil water. Or perhaps youâve always found peace logging a few miles before heading into the officeâbut for the past few months, lacing up your running shoes and dragging yourself out the door has felt like a total chore. Basically, when your usual [self-care](https://www.self.com/story/real-self-care) no longer alleviates your stress, it could signal a more chronic issue like burnout.
## 6\. âŠand neither will taking a few days off.
Again, burnout doesnât come from just one super busy month or demanding assignment. Rather, itâs rooted in more systemic issues, like ongoing pressure from higher-ups, lack of support, or a constant stream of emergency calls (or urgent emails) keeping you on the clock, around the clock.
While a [restful vacation](https://www.self.com/story/work-stress-vacation-advice) may ease *some* of your symptoms, it might not do much for legit burnout, according to Dr. Maslach. âThe bigger problem is that these respites usually donât change the source of your burnout,â she explainsâeven the most relaxing getaway wonât address things like a toxic boss, unrealistic expectations, or a never-ending fear of layoffs, for example.
Thatâs why all the experts we spoke with agree: Workplaces and employers need to step up and make real changes towards a more supportive, positive environment. But since thatâs not happening overnight (sadly), one of the best things you can do is to talk to your boss about ways to improve your situation, Dr. Neal-Barnett suggests.
This could mean reducing your workload, for instance, or adjusting your schedule so youâre not working back-to-back late-night shifts. And if that doesnât get you anywhere, it might be time to start working on an exit strategyâby exploring new openings, networking with former colleagues, or saving up for a brief career breakâbecause no job is worth sacrificing your mental health.
Regardless of your next steps, make sure to [give yourself grace](https://www.self.com/story/imposter-syndrome-work-tips). âRemember, youâre not lazy. Youâre not a failure for feeling this way,â Dr. Gold says. If this wasnât clear from all the expert insight above: Burnout is a serious issue and a reflection of a broken systemânot your worth.
**Related:**
- [How to Bounce Back From Failure, According to Experts](https://www.self.com/story/how-to-bounce-back-from-failure)
- [What Does It Mean to Really, Truly Rest?](https://www.self.com/story/what-does-rest-mean)
- [Why Multitasking Doesnât Work and Is Actually Making Your Life Worse](https://www.self.com/story/why-multitasking-doesnt-work)
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