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[How do we rate?](https://www.commonsensemedia.org/about-us/our-mission/about-our-ratings) age 16+ Imaginative, loopy romance has mature themes, profanity. ## Parents Need to Know Parents need to know that ETERNAL SUNSHINE OF THE SPOTLESS MIND is a 2004 movie that explores the oft-stated idea that it is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all. There is frequent profanity throughout the film; the F-word, among others, is used quite a bit. Characters are often shown drinking… ## Why Age 16+? Language Frequent profanity. "F--k" is used often. "Bitch," "fag Drinking, Drugs & Smoking One of the lead characters is shown stumbling into an apartment after drunkenly Sex, Romance & Nudity While reliving a memory as a tween, the lead character is caught masturbating by Products & Purchases Not present Violence & Scariness Not present ## Any Positive Content? Positive Messages The movie explores the idea that it's better to have loved someone and known Positive Role Models In spite of their imperfections and the difficulties in their failing relationsh - ### Parents Need to Know Parents need to know that ETERNAL SUNSHINE OF THE SPOTLESS MIND is a 2004 movie that explores the oft-stated idea that it is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all. There is frequent profanity throughout the film; the F-word, among others, is used quite a bit. Characters are often shown drinking alcohol and smoking cigarettes and marijuana. In one scene, a woman stumbles into the apartment of her boyfriend after drunkenly driving his car into a fire hydrant. In another scene, a man is arguing with his girlfriend about how he likes to get high on marijuana to balance out being drunk. These scenes, and the general theme of preserving memories in spite of the pain they cause in the aftermath of a failed relationship, make this film best for mature teens and adults. To stay in the loop on more movies like this, you can sign up for weekly [Family Movie Night emails](https://www.commonsensemedia.org/newsletters) . - ### Language a lot Frequent profanity. "F--k" is used often. "Bitch," "faggot," "ass," "s--t," "p--sy." **Did you know you can flag iffy content?** Adjust limits for Language in your kid's entertainment guide. [Get started](https://www.commonsensemedia.org/movie-reviews) Close - ### Drinking, Drugs & Smoking some One of the lead characters is shown stumbling into an apartment after drunkenly driving her boyfriend's car into a fire hydrant. Characters are shown drinking beer and alcohol and acting intoxicated. Early in the movie, a character is shown pouring whiskey into her coffee while in a diner. Characters smoke marijuana; in one scene, a woman is noticeably high and starts babbling uncontrollably in front of her boss. Cigarette smoking. **Did you know you can flag iffy content?** Adjust limits for Drinking, Drugs & Smoking in your kid's entertainment guide. [Get started](https://www.commonsensemedia.org/movie-reviews) Close - ### Sex, Romance & Nudity some While reliving a memory as a tween, the lead character is caught masturbating by his mother. Characters are shown talking after having sex. Briefly exposed male buttocks. **Did you know you can flag iffy content?** Adjust limits for Sex, Romance & Nudity in your kid's entertainment guide. [Get started](https://www.commonsensemedia.org/movie-reviews) Close - ### Positive Messages very little The movie explores the idea that it's better to have loved someone and known all the joy the experience brings -- in spite of the hurt and sorrow that might come with the relationship and the relationship's ending -- than to go through life unscathed without having met that person. - ### Positive Role Models very little In spite of their imperfections and the difficulties in their failing relationship, Joel and Clementine grow to realize that the memories and experiences they shared are important and necessary to who they are as individuals. ## Where to Watch ## Videos and Photos -  Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind ### Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind ## Parent and Kid Reviews [See all](https://www.commonsensemedia.org/movie-reviews/eternal-sunshine-of-the-spotless-mind/user-reviews/adult) - [Parents Say (16)](https://www.commonsensemedia.org/movie-reviews/eternal-sunshine-of-the-spotless-mind#tab-9cd5b084-d0e8-4bdd-b2c7-321a00152dee0) - [Kids Say (32)](https://www.commonsensemedia.org/movie-reviews/eternal-sunshine-of-the-spotless-mind#tab-9cd5b084-d0e8-4bdd-b2c7-321a00152dee1) age 14+ Based on 16 parent reviews ![]() ### ![]() ### [See all 16 parent reviews](https://www.commonsensemedia.org/movie-reviews/eternal-sunshine-of-the-spotless-mind/user-reviews/adult) age 13+ Based on 32 kid reviews Kids say this movie is a brilliant exploration of love and relationships, showcasing emotional depth through imaginative storytelling and strong performances, especially from the leads. While praised for its visual artistry and unique narrative, some reviewers noted the mature themes, strong language, and mild sexual content, suggesting it is better appreciated by an older audience despite its potential for confusion among younger viewers. - emotional depth - strong performances - mature themes - visual artistry - unique narrative #####  Summarized with AI ![]() ### ![]() ### [See all 32 kid reviews](https://www.commonsensemedia.org/movie-reviews/eternal-sunshine-of-the-spotless-mind/user-reviews/child) ## What's the Story? Joel ([Jim Carrey](https://www.commonsensemedia.org/search/jim%20carrey)) is trying to work through the pain and sorrow of his recently ended relationship with Clementine ([Kate Winslet](https://www.commonsensemedia.org/search/kate%20winslet)). When he realizes that Clementine underwent a procedure to have all her memories of her time with Joel completely removed, he meets with the company that performed the procedure and decides that he wants the exact same thing. But as the process begins, and as he re-experiences these memories he shared with Clementine, he begins to have second thoughts. With Clementine's help, he begins to take control of the memories as a way to try and preserve as much as he can from his time with her, and even as these memories begin to fade away, Clementine and Joel work to figure out a way in which they can meet again, in spite of their clean slates. Show more ## Is It Any Good? **Our review:** **Parents say** ( [16 Parent Reviews](https://www.commonsensemedia.org/movie-reviews/eternal-sunshine-of-the-spotless-mind/user-reviews/adult) ): **Kids say** ( [32 Kid Reviews](https://www.commonsensemedia.org/movie-reviews/eternal-sunshine-of-the-spotless-mind/user-reviews/child) ): This fabulously imaginative and deliciously loopy romance is the sweetest movie yet from the magnificently twisty mind of writer Charlie Kaufman. He plays with the themes of identity, time, memory, and attraction in a slightly off-kilter world that seems oddly home-like and familiar. Shot in a style that is both gritty and dreamy, the movie's insinuatingly casual tone gently nudges the concepts along so it almost begins to make more sense than real life. Carrey and Winslet risk making their characters as maddening to us as they are to each other and are ultimately as irresistible, too. Mark Ruffalo, Tom Wilkinson, and Kirsten Dunst are impeccable, providing a bittersweet counterpoint of imperfection and longing. Director Michel Gondry matches Kaufman's script with understated but brilliantly original imagery of memory and forgetting. Show more ## Talk to Your Kids About ... - Families can talk about which memories they might think about erasing and which ones they will always make sure to keep. They might also like to look up the meaning of the word "lacuna," talk about some of their favorite quotations, and read some of the brilliant poetry of Alexander Pope. - How is the nature of memory explored and shown throughout the film? Does the disjointed nature of some of the scenes mirror your own attempts to remember moments from your life? - Did the drug and alcohol use in the movie seem gratuitous or a realistic reflection of what these adult characters did in their lives? Show more ## Movie Details - **In theaters** : March 12, 2004 - **On DVD or streaming** : September 27, 2004 - **Cast** : [Elijah Wood](https://www.commonsensemedia.org/search/Elijah%20Wood) , [Jim Carrey](https://www.commonsensemedia.org/search/Jim%20Carrey) , [Kate Winslet](https://www.commonsensemedia.org/search/Kate%20Winslet) - **Director** : [Michel Gondry](https://www.commonsensemedia.org/search/Michel%20Gondry) - **Inclusion Information** : Female Movie Actor(s) - **Studio** : [Focus Features](https://www.commonsensemedia.org/search/category/movie/studio/focus-features-30183) - **Genre** : [Drama](https://www.commonsensemedia.org/search/category/movie/genre/drama-73) - **Run time** : 110 minutes - **MPAA rating** : R - **MPAA explanation** : language, some drug and sexual content - **Last updated** : October 9, 2025 Show more ## Did we miss something on diversity? Research shows a connection between kids' healthy self-esteem and positive portrayals in media. 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### Common Sense Media Review age 16+ Imaginative, loopy romance has mature themes, profanity. Parents Need to Know Why Age 16+? Any Positive Content? ## Videos and Photos -  - [(16)](https://www.commonsensemedia.org/movie-reviews/eternal-sunshine-of-the-spotless-mind#tab-9cd5b084-d0e8-4bdd-b2c7-321a00152dee0) - [(32)](https://www.commonsensemedia.org/movie-reviews/eternal-sunshine-of-the-spotless-mind#tab-9cd5b084-d0e8-4bdd-b2c7-321a00152dee1) age 14+ Based on 16 parent reviews ![]() ![]() age 13+ Based on 32 kid reviews Kids say this movie is a brilliant exploration of love and relationships, showcasing emotional depth through imaginative storytelling and strong performances, especially from the leads. While praised for its visual artistry and unique narrative, some reviewers noted the mature themes, strong language, and mild sexual content, suggesting it is better appreciated by an older audience despite its potential for confusion among younger viewers. - emotional depth - strong performances - mature themes - visual artistry - unique narrative #####  Summarized with AI ![]() ![]() ## What's the Story? Joel ([Jim Carrey](https://www.commonsensemedia.org/search/jim%20carrey)) is trying to work through the pain and sorrow of his recently ended relationship with Clementine ([Kate Winslet](https://www.commonsensemedia.org/search/kate%20winslet)). When he realizes that Clementine underwent a procedure to have all her memories of her time with Joel completely removed, he meets with the company that performed the procedure and decides that he wants the exact same thing. But as the process begins, and as he re-experiences these memories he shared with Clementine, he begins to have second thoughts. With Clementine's help, he begins to take control of the memories as a way to try and preserve as much as he can from his time with her, and even as these memories begin to fade away, Clementine and Joel work to figure out a way in which they can meet again, in spite of their clean slates. ## Is It Any Good? **Our review:** This fabulously imaginative and deliciously loopy romance is the sweetest movie yet from the magnificently twisty mind of writer Charlie Kaufman. He plays with the themes of identity, time, memory, and attraction in a slightly off-kilter world that seems oddly home-like and familiar. Shot in a style that is both gritty and dreamy, the movie's insinuatingly casual tone gently nudges the concepts along so it almost begins to make more sense than real life. Carrey and Winslet risk making their characters as maddening to us as they are to each other and are ultimately as irresistible, too. Mark Ruffalo, Tom Wilkinson, and Kirsten Dunst are impeccable, providing a bittersweet counterpoint of imperfection and longing. Director Michel Gondry matches Kaufman's script with understated but brilliantly original imagery of memory and forgetting. ## Talk to Your Kids About ... - Families can talk about which memories they might think about erasing and which ones they will always make sure to keep. They might also like to look up the meaning of the word "lacuna," talk about some of their favorite quotations, and read some of the brilliant poetry of Alexander Pope. - How is the nature of memory explored and shown throughout the film? Does the disjointed nature of some of the scenes mirror your own attempts to remember moments from your life? - Did the drug and alcohol use in the movie seem gratuitous or a realistic reflection of what these adult characters did in their lives? ## Movie Details - **In theaters** : March 12, 2004 - **On DVD or streaming** : September 27, 2004 - **Cast** : [Elijah Wood](https://www.commonsensemedia.org/search/Elijah%20Wood) , [Jim Carrey](https://www.commonsensemedia.org/search/Jim%20Carrey) , [Kate Winslet](https://www.commonsensemedia.org/search/Kate%20Winslet) - **Director** : [Michel Gondry](https://www.commonsensemedia.org/search/Michel%20Gondry) - **Inclusion Information** : Female Movie Actor(s) - **Studio** : [Focus Features](https://www.commonsensemedia.org/search/category/movie/studio/focus-features-30183) - **Genre** : [Drama](https://www.commonsensemedia.org/search/category/movie/genre/drama-73) - **Run time** : 110 minutes - **MPAA rating** : R - **MPAA explanation** : language, some drug and sexual content - **Last updated** : October 9, 2025 ## Did we miss something on diversity? Research shows a connection between kids' healthy self-esteem and positive portrayals in media. That's why we've added a new "Diverse Representations" section to our reviews that will be rolling out on an ongoing basis. You can help us help kids by