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Calculated Shard: 115 (from laksa081)

2. Crawled Status Check

Query:

curl -X POST \
  'http://laksa115.int.ahrefs:8124/' \
  -H 'Content-Type: text/plain' \
  -H 'X-ClickHouse-Database: crawler3' \
  -H 'Authorization: Basic YXBpOg==' \
  -d 'SELECT getAhrefsURLFromUnparsed(src_unparsed) AS found_url, ifNull(toUnixTimestamp(download_stamp), 0) AS crawl_time, ifNull(toUnixTimestamp(props_url_first_seen), 0) AS first_indexed_time, download_http_code AS http_code, src_unparsed AS src_unparsed, src_root_hash AS src_root_hash, history_drop_reason AS history_drop_reason, meta_title AS meta_title, meta_descriptions AS meta_descriptions, attrs_boilerpipe_text AS attrs_boilerpipe_text, attrs_markdown AS attrs_markdown, attrs_readable_markdown AS attrs_readable_markdown, meta_canonical AS meta_canonical FROM crawler3.page_info_local FINAL PREWHERE (src_root_hash, src_unparsed) IN ((getAhrefsRootHashFromUnparsed(getAhrefsUnparsedNoserviceFromURL(\'https://www.brides.com/why-prince-william-waited-so-long-propose-kate-middleton-11766086\')), getAhrefsUnparsedNoserviceFromURL(\'https://www.brides.com/why-prince-william-waited-so-long-propose-kate-middleton-11766086\'))) FORMAT JSONEachRow'

Response:

{"found_url":"https:\/\/www.brides.com\/why-prince-william-waited-so-long-propose-kate-middleton-11766086","crawl_time":1776177524,"first_indexed_time":1751565703,"http_code":200,"src_unparsed":"com,brides!www,\/why-prince-william-waited-so-long-propose-kate-middleton-11766086 s443","src_root_hash":"14012246229061296715","history_drop_reason":null,"meta_title":"Why Prince William Waited So Long to Propose to Kate Middleton—And Its Unexpected Connection to King Charles","meta_descriptions":["Before announcing his engagement to Kate Middleton in November of 2010, Prince William had to overcome his fear of commitment, something that he reportedly inherited from his father, King Charles. Here, we break down why the prince was so hesitant to take the next step with his longtime partner."],"attrs_boilerpipe_text":"Key Takeaways\nBefore he proposed to Kate Middleton in November 2010, Prince William had to overcome his fear of commitment, a royal expert recently revealed.\nA private island getaway helped the couple reconnect and discuss their future, leading to a promise of commitment.\nKate Middleton’s patience and understanding allowed their relationship to grow stronger before William proposed three years later.\nWhen Prince William\nproposed to Kate Middleton\nin November of 2010, the announcement wasn't seen as a surprise to the British public. The couple,\nwho first met as students\nat the University of St. Andrews in 2001, dated for almost nine years before deciding to take the next step in their relationship. Even though they briefly split in 2007, the duo quickly reunited, confirming the seriousness of their dynamic. However, in her book,\nThe Making of a Royal Romance: William, Kate, and Harry—A Look Behind the Palace Walls\n, Katie Nicholl, a royal expert, revealed that the prince's\nfear of commitment\nwas one of the underlying reasons why it took so long for him to pop the question.\nIn August of 2007, the duo rekindled their romance after\ntheir split\n. To reconnect, they took a trip to Desroches, an island in the Seychelles. \"With a population of just 50 and 3 miles long, the paradise island was the perfect escape,\" Nicholl wrote,\naccording to\nMarie Claire\n. \"[B]oth of them knew that at some point they had to discuss the future.\" However, even though the pair understood that they needed to do just that, Nicholl reported that such a conversation was a difficult one for the prince.\n\"For a young man who has an inherent fear of tomorrow, this was not easy for William, but the tranquil backdrop of the island was as good place as any to discuss it,\" she wrote.\nCARL DE SOUZA \/ Staff \/ Getty Images\nUltimately, on the island vacation, William assured Kate that she \"was\nthe one\n,\" Nicholl wrote. \"William, who had inherited something of his father's fear of commitment, knew he would lose Kate if he could not give her some form of guarantee.\" While the prince didn't officially ask for Kate's hand in marriage during this getaway, Nicholl reported that the two made a pact that they would eventually take the next step in their relationship. \"William told Kate...he was\nnot ready to get married\n,\" a source told Nicholl. \"He promised her his commitment and said he would not let her down, and in turn she agreed to wait for him.\"\nThe plan proved to be a successful one: Three years later, William proposed to Kate with\nPrincess Diana's blue sapphire engagement ring\nwhile the two were vacationing in Kenya. They announced the news to the public later that same month. And on April 29, 2011, the two officially became husband and wife, saying \"I do\" in front of 1,900 guests at Westminster Abbey. Following their ceremony, the newlyweds continued the beloved tradition of a\npost-nuptial balcony kiss\nat Buckingham Palace, publicly displaying their love for each other.","attrs_markdown":"[Skip to content](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/why-prince-william-waited-so-long-propose-kate-middleton-11766086#skip-to-content)\n\n91 years of expert advice and inspiration, for every couple.\n\nSubscribe\n\n- [Rings](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/rings-4691993)\n  - [Engagement Rings](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/rings-4692040)\n  - [Wedding Bands](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/wedding-bands-5193655)\n- [Real Weddings](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/real-weddings-4692024)\n  - [Celebrity Weddings & News](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/news-4692000)\n- [Ideas & Advice](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/wedding-ideas-and-advice-4692038)\n  - [Wedding Planning](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/wedding-planning-5205040)\n  - [Venues](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/venues-4692037)\n  - [Destination Wedding](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/destination-weddings-4692036)\n  - 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[Anniversary Gifts](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/anniversary-gifts-5193659)\n  - [Wedding Favors](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/favors-4692026)\n- [Relationships](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/relationships-4692003)\n  - [Friends & Family](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/friends-and-family-5193661)\n  - [Marriage Proposal Ideas](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/proposals-4692039)\n  - [Married Life](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/married-life-4692002)\n  - [Love & Dating](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/love-and-dating-4692001)\n- [About Us](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/about-us-4777099)\n  - [The Brides Team](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/about-us-4777099#toc-the-brides-team)\n  - [Editorial Guidelines](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/editorial-guidelines-5222899)\n  - [Contact Us](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/about-us-4777099#toc-contact-us)\n\n- [Contact](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/about-us-4777099#toc-contact-us)\n- [Editorial Policy](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/editorial-guidelines-5222899)\n- [Careers](https:\/\/www.dotdash.com\/careers\/)\n- [Advertise](https:\/\/www.dotdash.com\/our-brands\/)\n- [Terms of Use and Policies](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/legal-4774058#toc-terms-of-use)\n- [Privacy Policy](https:\/\/www.people.inc\/brands-privacy)\n\n# The Surprising Reason Why Prince William Waited So Long to Propose to Kate Middleton—And Its Unexpected Connection to King Charles\nThe pair dated for almost 10 years before announcing their engagement in November of 2010.\n\nBy\n\n[Ellen O'Brien](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/ellen-o-brien-8697121)\n\n![Ellen O'Brien, Editor, Brides]()\n\n![Ellen O'Brien, Editor, Brides](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/thmb\/5728Acn1JPvuzoTmYYXlDyr4EBs=\/200x200\/filters:no_upscale\$\$:max_bytes\$150000\$:strip_icc\$\$\/EllenOBrien_Headshot0824-1dfffa436df5421bbc642fbbd2625122.jpg)\n\n[Ellen O'Brien](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/ellen-o-brien-8697121)\n\nEllen is an editor at Brides.\n\n[Brides's Editorial Guidelines](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/editorial-guidelines-5222899)\n\nUpdated on January 17, 2026 12:35PM\n\n![Prince William Duke of Cambridge with a smiling woman walking outdoors](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/thmb\/OGdaX53AQ9WmUx4ICM-Q0A0-b94=\/1500x0\/filters:no_upscale\$\$:max_bytes\$150000\$:strip_icc\$\$\/william-and-kate-recirc-getty-7-3-0c72d235e8e34fbbad37687f4d147aeb.jpg)\n\n![Prince William Duke of Cambridge with a smiling woman walking outdoors](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/thmb\/OGdaX53AQ9WmUx4ICM-Q0A0-b94=\/1500x0\/filters:no_upscale\$\$:max_bytes\$150000\$:strip_icc\$\$\/william-and-kate-recirc-getty-7-3-0c72d235e8e34fbbad37687f4d147aeb.jpg)\n\nSamir Hussein \/ Contributor \/ Getty Images\n\n### Key Takeaways\n- Before he proposed to Kate Middleton in November 2010, Prince William had to overcome his fear of commitment, a royal expert recently revealed.\n- A private island getaway helped the couple reconnect and discuss their future, leading to a promise of commitment.\n- Kate Middleton’s patience and understanding allowed their relationship to grow stronger before William proposed three years later.\n\nWhen Prince William [proposed to Kate Middleton](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/kate-middleton-disclosed-engagement-siblings-local-pub-8716794) in November of 2010, the announcement wasn't seen as a surprise to the British public. The couple, [who first met as students](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/kate-middleton-prince-william-relationship-timeline-4795884) at the University of St. Andrews in 2001, dated for almost nine years before deciding to take the next step in their relationship. Even though they briefly split in 2007, the duo quickly reunited, confirming the seriousness of their dynamic. However, in her book, *The Making of a Royal Romance: William, Kate, and Harry—A Look Behind the Palace Walls*, Katie Nicholl, a royal expert, revealed that the prince's [fear of commitment](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/signs-youre-afraid-of-commitment-4587342) was one of the underlying reasons why it took so long for him to pop the question.\n\nIn August of 2007, the duo rekindled their romance after [their split](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/prince-william-broke-up-kate-middleton-not-ready-for-engagement-8685934). To reconnect, they took a trip to Desroches, an island in the Seychelles. \"With a population of just 50 and 3 miles long, the paradise island was the perfect escape,\" Nicholl wrote, [according to *Marie Claire*](https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/celebrity\/royals\/prince-william-inherited-king-charles-fear-of-commitment-kate-middleton-agreed-to-wait\/). \"\\[B\\]oth of them knew that at some point they had to discuss the future.\" However, even though the pair understood that they needed to do just that, Nicholl reported that such a conversation was a difficult one for the prince. \"For a young man who has an inherent fear of tomorrow, this was not easy for William, but the tranquil backdrop of the island was as good place as any to discuss it,\" she wrote.\n\n## Related Stories\n[Prince William's Ex-Girlfriend Forced Him to Confirm His Relationship With Kate Middleton During the Drinking Game “Never Have I Ever\" ![Kate Middleton Showing Engagement Ring While Smiling and Linking Arms With Prince William]() ![Kate Middleton Showing Engagement Ring While Smiling and Linking Arms With Prince William](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/thmb\/GBQKZZxSiWHSUX-A9f0dNDCJkFw=\/400x400\/filters:no_upscale\$\$:max_bytes\$150000\$:strip_icc\$\$\/kate-middleton-prince-william-enagagement-recirc-getty-images-5ee8e5620aff4a318ee6c77cf39f06a2.jpg)](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/prince-william-ex-girlfriend-confirmed-relationship-kate-middleton-drinking-game-8691698)\n\n[Kate Middleton Reportedly Asked Queen Elizabeth II to Agree to This One Condition Before She Married Prince William ![Kate Middleton Looking at Queen Elizabeth II While They’re Sitting Next to Each Other]() ![Kate Middleton Looking at Queen Elizabeth II While They’re Sitting Next to Each Other](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/thmb\/cNSz8oXXDi4EvRQdubk_iyYOqBk=\/400x400\/filters:no_upscale\$\$:max_bytes\$150000\$:strip_icc\$\$\/kate-middleton-queen-elizabeth-terms-recirc-getty-images-0cf270b86afb416a963724be047d2fef.jpg)](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/kate-middleton-presented-terms-before-marrying-prince-william-8687342)\n\n![Prince William and a woman outdoors in a public event]()\n\n![Prince William and a woman outdoors in a public event](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/thmb\/S7sZzU3mMnip8GQ3X1O-YF82Jw0=\/1500x0\/filters:no_upscale\$\$:max_bytes\$150000\$:strip_icc\$\$\/GettyImages-141620566-52b947ac03714ba69ae9d9c7051199a6.jpg)\n\nCARL DE SOUZA \/ Staff \/ Getty Images\n\nUltimately, on the island vacation, William assured Kate that she \"was [the one](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/how-know-partner-is-the-one-8553193),\" Nicholl wrote. \"William, who had inherited something of his father's fear of commitment, knew he would lose Kate if he could not give her some form of guarantee.\" While the prince didn't officially ask for Kate's hand in marriage during this getaway, Nicholl reported that the two made a pact that they would eventually take the next step in their relationship. \"William told Kate...he was [not ready to get married](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/what-makes-someone-want-to-get-married-5095207),\" a source told Nicholl. \"He promised her his commitment and said he would not let her down, and in turn she agreed to wait for him.\"\n\nThe plan proved to be a successful one: Three years later, William proposed to Kate with [Princess Diana's blue sapphire engagement ring](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/kate-middleton-engagement-ring-8737094) while the two were vacationing in Kenya. They announced the news to the public later that same month. And on April 29, 2011, the two officially became husband and wife, saying \"I do\" in front of 1,900 guests at Westminster Abbey. Following their ceremony, the newlyweds continued the beloved tradition of a [post-nuptial balcony kiss](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/prince-william-kate-middleton-royal-wedding-second-balcony-kiss-viral-clip-7809863) at Buckingham Palace, publicly displaying their love for each other.\n\n[Kate Middleton Just Swapped Her Engagement Ring for a Sentimental Band Prince William Gave Her While They Were Dating](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/kate-middleton-promise-ring-prince-william-8693878)\n\nRead more:\n\n- [News](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/news-4692000)\n- [Celebrity & Royal Weddings](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/celebrity-and-royal-weddings-5114219)\n\n## Related Stories\n- [![Kate Middleton and Prince William in Carriage on Wedding Day]() ![Kate Middleton and Prince William in Carriage on Wedding Day](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/thmb\/5j4SyOs0TB3RsGenbnj1yrSPo8Y=\/600x600\/filters:no_upscale\$\$:max_bytes\$150000\$:strip_icc\$\$\/kate-and-william-carriage-recirc-getty-3-25-656d42d616254250ba5a264394a0762c.jpg) Prince William and Kate Middleton Shared a Sweet Exchange During Their Post-Wedding Carriage Ride—Here's What They Said](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/prince-william-kate-middleton-wedding-carriage-ride-conversation-lip-reader-11702880)\n- [![Elizabeth II Meghan Duchess of Sussex and Kate Middleton side by side in a collage]() ![Elizabeth II Meghan Duchess of Sussex and Kate Middleton side by side in a collage](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/thmb\/WTwUuiImo6zhSosb-8PoG13_hq0=\/600x600\/filters:no_upscale\$\$:max_bytes\$150000\$:strip_icc\$\$\/080525-royal-engagement-ring-6918ad8d12fd42899f99f8da189e19bb.jpg) Queen Elizabeth, Kate Middleton, or Meghan Markle: Which Royal Bride Received the Most Expensive Engagement Ring?](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/most-expensive-royal-engagement-ring-11784922)\n- [![Prince William Duke of Cambridge and Kate Middleton at a formal event]() ![Prince William Duke of Cambridge and Kate Middleton at a formal event](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/thmb\/VSw8MqfaTwc0OuhgiT46S4qxILQ=\/600x600\/filters:no_upscale\$\$:max_bytes\$150000\$:strip_icc\$\$\/kate-middleton-tiara-recirc-getty-7-9-f4a47d88c75d4049a571d4814b7a347b.jpg) Kate Middleton's Recent Tiara Choice Honors Queen Elizabeth's Royal Wedding Wish for Princess Diana](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/kate-middleton-lovers-knot-tiara-princess-diana-wedding-11768912)\n- [![Prince William and Duchess Catherine on their wedding day walking down the aisle together surrounded by bridesmaids]() ![Prince William and Duchess Catherine on their wedding day walking down the aisle together surrounded by bridesmaids](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/thmb\/dJ9a-DbrxhRR0VNQsveruP_vODs=\/600x600\/filters:no_upscale\$\$:max_bytes\$150000\$:strip_icc\$\$\/kate-middleton-dress-recirc-getty-9-10-b17a8fea5f91451ba1fe14f6071682df.jpg) Kate Middleton's \\$617,000 Royal Wedding Dress: The Iconic Gown That Redefined Bridal Style](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/kate-middleton-wedding-dress-details-11807744)\n- [![Prince William and Kate Middleton]() ![Prince William and Kate Middleton](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/thmb\/LnzeMEH1Ib4QwuDCOvc5Uib5Ks0=\/600x600\/filters:no_upscale\$\$:max_bytes\$150000\$:strip_icc\$\$\/will-and-kate-recirc-getty-11-1-5747e27f380e4d29832c0742ef0d56e2.jpg) Prince William and Kate Middleton Have a Surprising Sleeping Arrangement](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/prince-william-kate-middleton-sleeping-arrangement-8738413)\n- [![Prince William Duke of Cambridge dressed formally with others walking in an elegant hall]() ![Prince William Duke of Cambridge dressed formally with others walking in an elegant hall](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/thmb\/dnIU-IwexM-9WV6mPm4yiOeZZrY=\/600x600\/filters:no_upscale\$\$:max_bytes\$150000\$:strip_icc\$\$\/kate-and-will-recirc-getty-9-17-7c1dbf61902e401ba60915c306f86d67.jpg) Kate Middleton Just Wore a \\$135 Million Heirloom Tiara That Was One of Princess Diana's Favorite Pieces](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/kate-middleton-wears-princess-diana-favorite-heirloom-tiara-11812244)\n- [![Kate Middleton at a Recent Public Outing]() ![Kate Middleton at a Recent Public Outing](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/thmb\/pqT123c0e3aOpkCASoQdbd1vW5E=\/600x600\/filters:no_upscale\$\$:max_bytes\$150000\$:strip_icc\$\$\/kate-middleton-outing-recirc-getty-10-11-88f295dda049409fb20d17537006f7dd.jpg) Kate Middleton Has Replaced Her Sapphire Engagement Ring With a 4-Band Ring Stack](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/kate-middleton-ring-stack-missing-engagement-ring-8727031)\n- [![Queen Elizabeth at the Wedding of Prince William and Kate Middleton]() ![Queen Elizabeth at the Wedding of Prince William and Kate Middleton](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/thmb\/D103Hk0upG9PEvUXAX7henlIN40=\/600x600\/filters:no_upscale\$\$:max_bytes\$150000\$:strip_icc\$\$\/queen-elizabeth-wedding-recirc-getty-4-14-d69f8d01c4184f07a580714ee6ddbb9d.jpg) Queen Elizabeth Reportedly Disapproved of This Choice at Prince William and Kate Middleton's Wedding](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/queen-elizabeth-carriage-comment-prince-william-kate-middleton-wedding-11714601)\n\n- [![Diana Princess of Wales alongside another woman in a sidebyside image]() ![Diana Princess of Wales alongside another woman in a sidebyside image](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/thmb\/BEY2i68tLWrzo760bOAJnI3A3ps=\/600x600\/filters:no_upscale\$\$:max_bytes\$150000\$:strip_icc\$\$\/BRI-News-090525-3eb2328a9ea545deb6510647e0028058.jpg) Why Queen Camilla Wears the \\$10 Million Brooch That Inspired Princess Diana's Iconic Sapphire Engagement Ring](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/queen-camilla-wears-brooch-that-inspired-princess-diana-ring-11804199)\n- [![Princess Diana and Prince Charles, Prince William and Kate Middleton, or Prince Harry and Meghan Markle]() ![Princess Diana and Prince Charles, Prince William and Kate Middleton, or Prince Harry and Meghan Markle](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/thmb\/WdMoyH63msZY-O0t8-7SNs1ixps=\/600x600\/filters:no_upscale\$\$:max_bytes\$150000\$:strip_icc\$\$\/062725-BRI-News-39a4facde66641efa44f8eba342c0cde.jpg) Diana and Charles, William and Kate, or Harry and Meghan: Which Royal Couple Had the Most Expensive Wedding?](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/most-expensive-royal-wedding-11762490)\n- [![Prince Harry Duke of Sussex and a woman outdoors in formal attire]() ![Prince Harry Duke of Sussex and a woman outdoors in formal 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relationship to grow stronger before William proposed three years later.\n\nWhen Prince William [proposed to Kate Middleton](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/kate-middleton-disclosed-engagement-siblings-local-pub-8716794) in November of 2010, the announcement wasn't seen as a surprise to the British public. The couple, [who first met as students](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/kate-middleton-prince-william-relationship-timeline-4795884) at the University of St. Andrews in 2001, dated for almost nine years before deciding to take the next step in their relationship. Even though they briefly split in 2007, the duo quickly reunited, confirming the seriousness of their dynamic. However, in her book, *The Making of a Royal Romance: William, Kate, and Harry—A Look Behind the Palace Walls*, Katie Nicholl, a royal expert, revealed that the prince's [fear of commitment](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/signs-youre-afraid-of-commitment-4587342) was one of the underlying reasons why it took so long for him to pop the question.\n\nIn August of 2007, the duo rekindled their romance after [their split](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/prince-william-broke-up-kate-middleton-not-ready-for-engagement-8685934). To reconnect, they took a trip to Desroches, an island in the Seychelles. \"With a population of just 50 and 3 miles long, the paradise island was the perfect escape,\" Nicholl wrote, [according to *Marie Claire*](https:\/\/www.marieclaire.com\/celebrity\/royals\/prince-william-inherited-king-charles-fear-of-commitment-kate-middleton-agreed-to-wait\/). \"\\[B\\]oth of them knew that at some point they had to discuss the future.\" However, even though the pair understood that they needed to do just that, Nicholl reported that such a conversation was a difficult one for the prince. \"For a young man who has an inherent fear of tomorrow, this was not easy for William, but the tranquil backdrop of the island was as good place as any to discuss it,\" she wrote.\n\nCARL DE SOUZA \/ Staff \/ Getty Images\n\nUltimately, on the island vacation, William assured Kate that she \"was [the one](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/how-know-partner-is-the-one-8553193),\" Nicholl wrote. \"William, who had inherited something of his father's fear of commitment, knew he would lose Kate if he could not give her some form of guarantee.\" While the prince didn't officially ask for Kate's hand in marriage during this getaway, Nicholl reported that the two made a pact that they would eventually take the next step in their relationship. \"William told Kate...he was [not ready to get married](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/what-makes-someone-want-to-get-married-5095207),\" a source told Nicholl. \"He promised her his commitment and said he would not let her down, and in turn she agreed to wait for him.\"\n\nThe plan proved to be a successful one: Three years later, William proposed to Kate with [Princess Diana's blue sapphire engagement ring](https:\/\/www.brides.com\/kate-middleton-engagement-ring-8737094) while the two were vacationing in Kenya. 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Boilerpipe Text	Key Takeaways Before he proposed to Kate Middleton in November 2010, Prince William had to overcome his fear of commitment, a royal expert recently revealed. A private island getaway helped the couple reconnect and discuss their future, leading to a promise of commitment. Kate Middleton’s patience and understanding allowed their relationship to grow stronger before William proposed three years later. When Prince William proposed to Kate Middleton in November of 2010, the announcement wasn't seen as a surprise to the British public. The couple, who first met as students at the University of St. Andrews in 2001, dated for almost nine years before deciding to take the next step in their relationship. Even though they briefly split in 2007, the duo quickly reunited, confirming the seriousness of their dynamic. However, in her book, The Making of a Royal Romance: William, Kate, and Harry—A Look Behind the Palace Walls , Katie Nicholl, a royal expert, revealed that the prince's fear of commitment was one of the underlying reasons why it took so long for him to pop the question. In August of 2007, the duo rekindled their romance after their split . To reconnect, they took a trip to Desroches, an island in the Seychelles. "With a population of just 50 and 3 miles long, the paradise island was the perfect escape," Nicholl wrote, according to Marie Claire . "[B]oth of them knew that at some point they had to discuss the future." However, even though the pair understood that they needed to do just that, Nicholl reported that such a conversation was a difficult one for the prince. "For a young man who has an inherent fear of tomorrow, this was not easy for William, but the tranquil backdrop of the island was as good place as any to discuss it," she wrote. CARL DE SOUZA / Staff / Getty Images Ultimately, on the island vacation, William assured Kate that she "was the one ," Nicholl wrote. "William, who had inherited something of his father's fear of commitment, knew he would lose Kate if he could not give her some form of guarantee." While the prince didn't officially ask for Kate's hand in marriage during this getaway, Nicholl reported that the two made a pact that they would eventually take the next step in their relationship. "William told Kate...he was not ready to get married ," a source told Nicholl. "He promised her his commitment and said he would not let her down, and in turn she agreed to wait for him." The plan proved to be a successful one: Three years later, William proposed to Kate with Princess Diana's blue sapphire engagement ring while the two were vacationing in Kenya. They announced the news to the public later that same month. And on April 29, 2011, the two officially became husband and wife, saying "I do" in front of 1,900 guests at Westminster Abbey. Following their ceremony, the newlyweds continued the beloved tradition of a post-nuptial balcony kiss at Buckingham Palace, publicly displaying their love for each other.
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By [Ellen O'Brien](https://www.brides.com/ellen-o-brien-8697121) ![Ellen O'Brien, Editor, Brides]() ![Ellen O'Brien, Editor, Brides](https://www.brides.com/thmb/5728Acn1JPvuzoTmYYXlDyr4EBs=/200x200/filters:no_upscale:max_bytes$150000$:strip_icc/EllenOBrien_Headshot0824-1dfffa436df5421bbc642fbbd2625122.jpg) [Ellen O'Brien](https://www.brides.com/ellen-o-brien-8697121) Ellen is an editor at Brides. [Brides's Editorial Guidelines](https://www.brides.com/editorial-guidelines-5222899) Updated on January 17, 2026 12:35PM ![Prince William Duke of Cambridge with a smiling woman walking outdoors](https://www.brides.com/thmb/OGdaX53AQ9WmUx4ICM-Q0A0-b94=/1500x0/filters:no_upscale:max_bytes$150000$:strip_icc/william-and-kate-recirc-getty-7-3-0c72d235e8e34fbbad37687f4d147aeb.jpg) ![Prince William Duke of Cambridge with a smiling woman walking outdoors](https://www.brides.com/thmb/OGdaX53AQ9WmUx4ICM-Q0A0-b94=/1500x0/filters:no_upscale:max_bytes$150000$:strip_icc/william-and-kate-recirc-getty-7-3-0c72d235e8e34fbbad37687f4d147aeb.jpg) Samir Hussein / Contributor / Getty Images ### Key Takeaways - Before he proposed to Kate Middleton in November 2010, Prince William had to overcome his fear of commitment, a royal expert recently revealed. - A private island getaway helped the couple reconnect and discuss their future, leading to a promise of commitment. - Kate Middleton’s patience and understanding allowed their relationship to grow stronger before William proposed three years later. When Prince William [proposed to Kate Middleton](https://www.brides.com/kate-middleton-disclosed-engagement-siblings-local-pub-8716794) in November of 2010, the announcement wasn't seen as a surprise to the British public. The couple, [who first met as students](https://www.brides.com/kate-middleton-prince-william-relationship-timeline-4795884) at the University of St. Andrews in 2001, dated for almost nine years before deciding to take the next step in their relationship. Even though they briefly split in 2007, the duo quickly reunited, confirming the seriousness of their dynamic. However, in her book, The Making of a Royal Romance: William, Kate, and Harry—A Look Behind the Palace Walls, Katie Nicholl, a royal expert, revealed that the prince's [fear of commitment](https://www.brides.com/signs-youre-afraid-of-commitment-4587342) was one of the underlying reasons why it took so long for him to pop the question. In August of 2007, the duo rekindled their romance after [their split](https://www.brides.com/prince-william-broke-up-kate-middleton-not-ready-for-engagement-8685934). To reconnect, they took a trip to Desroches, an island in the Seychelles. "With a population of just 50 and 3 miles long, the paradise island was the perfect escape," Nicholl wrote, [according to Marie Claire](https://www.marieclaire.com/celebrity/royals/prince-william-inherited-king-charles-fear-of-commitment-kate-middleton-agreed-to-wait/). "\[B\]oth of them knew that at some point they had to discuss the future." However, even though the pair understood that they needed to do just that, Nicholl reported that such a conversation was a difficult one for the prince. "For a young man who has an inherent fear of tomorrow, this was not easy for William, but the tranquil backdrop of the island was as good place as any to discuss it," she wrote. ## Related Stories [Prince William's Ex-Girlfriend Forced Him to Confirm His Relationship With Kate Middleton During the Drinking Game “Never Have I Ever" ![Kate Middleton Showing Engagement Ring While Smiling and Linking Arms With Prince William]() ![Kate Middleton Showing Engagement Ring While Smiling and Linking Arms With Prince William](https://www.brides.com/thmb/GBQKZZxSiWHSUX-A9f0dNDCJkFw=/400x400/filters:no_upscale:max_bytes$150000$:strip_icc/kate-middleton-prince-william-enagagement-recirc-getty-images-5ee8e5620aff4a318ee6c77cf39f06a2.jpg)](https://www.brides.com/prince-william-ex-girlfriend-confirmed-relationship-kate-middleton-drinking-game-8691698) [Kate Middleton Reportedly Asked Queen Elizabeth II to Agree to This One Condition Before She Married Prince William ![Kate Middleton Looking at Queen Elizabeth II While They’re Sitting Next to Each Other]() ![Kate Middleton Looking at Queen Elizabeth II While They’re Sitting Next to Each Other](https://www.brides.com/thmb/cNSz8oXXDi4EvRQdubk_iyYOqBk=/400x400/filters:no_upscale:max_bytes$150000$:strip_icc/kate-middleton-queen-elizabeth-terms-recirc-getty-images-0cf270b86afb416a963724be047d2fef.jpg)](https://www.brides.com/kate-middleton-presented-terms-before-marrying-prince-william-8687342) ![Prince William and a woman outdoors in a public event]() ![Prince William and a woman outdoors in a public event](https://www.brides.com/thmb/S7sZzU3mMnip8GQ3X1O-YF82Jw0=/1500x0/filters:no_upscale:max_bytes$150000$:strip_icc/GettyImages-141620566-52b947ac03714ba69ae9d9c7051199a6.jpg) CARL DE SOUZA / Staff / Getty Images Ultimately, on the island vacation, William assured Kate that she "was [the one](https://www.brides.com/how-know-partner-is-the-one-8553193)," Nicholl wrote. "William, who had inherited something of his father's fear of commitment, knew he would lose Kate if he could not give her some form of guarantee." While the prince didn't officially ask for Kate's hand in marriage during this getaway, Nicholl reported that the two made a pact that they would eventually take the next step in their relationship. "William told Kate...he was [not ready to get married](https://www.brides.com/what-makes-someone-want-to-get-married-5095207)," a source told Nicholl. "He promised her his commitment and said he would not let her down, and in turn she agreed to wait for him." The plan proved to be a successful one: Three years later, William proposed to Kate with [Princess Diana's blue sapphire engagement ring](https://www.brides.com/kate-middleton-engagement-ring-8737094) while the two were vacationing in Kenya. They announced the news to the public later that same month. And on April 29, 2011, the two officially became husband and wife, saying "I do" in front of 1,900 guests at Westminster Abbey. Following their ceremony, the newlyweds continued the beloved tradition of a [post-nuptial balcony kiss](https://www.brides.com/prince-william-kate-middleton-royal-wedding-second-balcony-kiss-viral-clip-7809863) at Buckingham Palace, publicly displaying their love for each other. 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Readable Markdown	### Key Takeaways - Before he proposed to Kate Middleton in November 2010, Prince William had to overcome his fear of commitment, a royal expert recently revealed. - A private island getaway helped the couple reconnect and discuss their future, leading to a promise of commitment. - Kate Middleton’s patience and understanding allowed their relationship to grow stronger before William proposed three years later. When Prince William [proposed to Kate Middleton](https://www.brides.com/kate-middleton-disclosed-engagement-siblings-local-pub-8716794) in November of 2010, the announcement wasn't seen as a surprise to the British public. The couple, [who first met as students](https://www.brides.com/kate-middleton-prince-william-relationship-timeline-4795884) at the University of St. Andrews in 2001, dated for almost nine years before deciding to take the next step in their relationship. Even though they briefly split in 2007, the duo quickly reunited, confirming the seriousness of their dynamic. However, in her book, The Making of a Royal Romance: William, Kate, and Harry—A Look Behind the Palace Walls, Katie Nicholl, a royal expert, revealed that the prince's [fear of commitment](https://www.brides.com/signs-youre-afraid-of-commitment-4587342) was one of the underlying reasons why it took so long for him to pop the question. In August of 2007, the duo rekindled their romance after [their split](https://www.brides.com/prince-william-broke-up-kate-middleton-not-ready-for-engagement-8685934). To reconnect, they took a trip to Desroches, an island in the Seychelles. "With a population of just 50 and 3 miles long, the paradise island was the perfect escape," Nicholl wrote, [according to Marie Claire](https://www.marieclaire.com/celebrity/royals/prince-william-inherited-king-charles-fear-of-commitment-kate-middleton-agreed-to-wait/). "\[B\]oth of them knew that at some point they had to discuss the future." However, even though the pair understood that they needed to do just that, Nicholl reported that such a conversation was a difficult one for the prince. "For a young man who has an inherent fear of tomorrow, this was not easy for William, but the tranquil backdrop of the island was as good place as any to discuss it," she wrote. CARL DE SOUZA / Staff / Getty Images Ultimately, on the island vacation, William assured Kate that she "was [the one](https://www.brides.com/how-know-partner-is-the-one-8553193)," Nicholl wrote. "William, who had inherited something of his father's fear of commitment, knew he would lose Kate if he could not give her some form of guarantee." While the prince didn't officially ask for Kate's hand in marriage during this getaway, Nicholl reported that the two made a pact that they would eventually take the next step in their relationship. "William told Kate...he was [not ready to get married](https://www.brides.com/what-makes-someone-want-to-get-married-5095207)," a source told Nicholl. "He promised her his commitment and said he would not let her down, and in turn she agreed to wait for him." The plan proved to be a successful one: Three years later, William proposed to Kate with [Princess Diana's blue sapphire engagement ring](https://www.brides.com/kate-middleton-engagement-ring-8737094) while the two were vacationing in Kenya. They announced the news to the public later that same month. And on April 29, 2011, the two officially became husband and wife, saying "I do" in front of 1,900 guests at Westminster Abbey. Following their ceremony, the newlyweds continued the beloved tradition of a [post-nuptial balcony kiss](https://www.brides.com/prince-william-kate-middleton-royal-wedding-second-balcony-kiss-viral-clip-7809863) at Buckingham Palace, publicly displaying their love for each other.
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