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| Boilerpipe Text | On any given day, social media is full of suggestions for self-care, with images of twisty yoga poses, perfectly charred vegetables and the ever-present adviceâin colorful calligraphy, no lessâto âjust be in the moment.â
What does it even mean to be present or âin the moment,â and why should we aspire to live this way? Neuroscience may have an answer. Stanford research shows that we have evolved to allow our minds to wanderâto plan for the future or to learn from the pastâbecause it provides insights that can prove advantageous for survival. But despite the occasional rewards of letting our thoughts go where they may, constantly flitting from activity to activity (or from task to worry) can also lead to stress and exhaustion.
Emma Seppälä, science director at Stanfordâs Center for Compassion and Altruism Research and Education, expresses two of our desires: âWe seek to balance the frenzy of our current pace of life with the complete opposite: sitting still. We need to fulfill an unmet need for more calmness, quietude and peace of mind.â
It turns out that if we foster that sense of calm, itâs not just our happiness that may increaseâour focus can, too. Stanford lecturer Jonah Willihnganz is a co-founder of the LifeWorks Program for Integrative Learning at Stanford. LifeWorks offers courses that give students tools from mindfulness traditions and the fields of psychology and education in order to foster a sense of meaning and balance in their lives. Willihnganz draws his advice from those areas as well as from his training in Buddhism. âAfter youâve withdrawn your attention from the past and future and brought yourself into the physical, mental, emotional awareness of where you are, then you use the present moment to focus on something,â he says. We asked him how to do that.
Have a regular time to notice where your mind is.
Before you can begin to draw yourself into the present, you have to be able to recognize when your mind has wandered to the future or the past. That can mean different things to different people, says Willihnganz: âIt absolutely dependsâyour age, your gender can make a difference, not to mention your cultural background. And [people's] nervous systems are so different.â
Still, some common physical indicators can point to where our minds are. âOne thing Iâve been trained to do is, when I walk through a doorway, to reinitiate and be in the present moment. Iâm just walking into the room. Thatâs it,â he says. âAnd then I watch to see: Am I holding my shoulders up? Is my waist relaxed? Howâs my breathing? I scan myself physically. Am I feeling anxious? Is that necessary?â
This provides a simple opportunity to reset. âMost of us donât even think when we walk into a room what our purpose is; weâre just going through our day,â Willihnganz says. So he asks himself how he can engage in that moment and in that room.
Use physical markers to remind yourself to return to the present.
Bringing attention to your physical state while crossing a threshold is just one way of reminding yourself to be focus on whatâs happening right now. âMost wisdom traditions in the world have devices, markers, tricksâwhatever you want to call themâfor balancing yourself, because just having an âalways be presentâ conviction doesnât always work,â says Willihnganz. For example, he says, Christianity uses prayer; Buddhist traditions use bells.
Anything you do regularly, you can turn into a cue, Willihnganz says. âRemind yourself to bring yourself into the present moment without beating yourself up if you donât.â If the doorway reminder isnât for you, you can take a moment to set your mind to the present when you pick up your phone. âSome students I have now, the minute they pull it out to look at it, thatâs the flag,â he says. âThe act of looking at your phone should tell you turn it over, take a breath, withdraw yourself from the past and future, scan yourself, then ask yourself if thereâs a purpose to the moment youâre in now.â
Try out different types of meditation.
Meditation isnât the be-all and end-all of being presentâin fact, Willihnganz says, there are many ways of finding calm. âFor some people, the way to be present is to be activeâfor them to be in motion and have their energy circulating is a way for them to be calm, actually. And then for other people, like me, calm comes from having less stimuli going on around us.â
If youâve already tried one type of meditation and think it doesnât work for you, Willihnganz suggests considering the wide range of options out there.
Metta meditation is wishing good things for yourself, for those close to you and for those you donât even know. âSo youâre wishing, youâre extending compassion and beneficence for all sentient beings, but youâre starting with yourself, which can be very emotional, because most of us are in subtle ways attacking ourselves all the time,â Willihnganz says.
Mara meditation is identifying the bully inside yourself and then letting go of what it says. âGive it a personality, give it a cartoon character, like make it look like something,â Willihnganz says. âYouâre not trying to suppress it, and itâll get to have its say, and you can say âOK, tell me all the things you thinkâ[and] now youâre done.ââ
And meditation isnât just a specific time to be in the moment. Practicing that state of mind can help you more easily access it at other times throughout your day.
Practice with others.
Finding others who are also working on being present more often can make it easier to commit to a practiceâbe it meditating or simply agreeing to all âresetâ as you sit down to dinner. It can also create a more conducive space for centering the mind, since youâre all trying to do the same thing.
For those in the Stanford area, Willihnganz recommends Insight Meditation Center in Redwood City, which offers a number of informal gatherings and meditation sessions. âItâs worth going and sitting with groups of people and seeing what that feels like,â he says. âFor some people, it can be very powerful, like any event that makes you feel centered.â
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# How to Be Present
#### And what that even means.
November 22, 2019
Reading time 6 min

Photo: Getty Images/Caiaimage/Tom Merton
By Melina Walling
On any given day, social media is full of suggestions for self-care, with images of twisty yoga poses, perfectly charred vegetables and the ever-present adviceâin colorful calligraphy, no lessâto âjust be in the moment.â
What does it even mean to be present or âin the moment,â and why should we aspire to live this way? Neuroscience may have an answer. Stanford research shows that we have evolved to allow our minds to wanderâto plan for the future or to learn from the pastâbecause it provides insights that can prove advantageous for survival. But despite the occasional rewards of letting our thoughts go where they may, constantly flitting from activity to activity (or from task to worry) can also lead to stress and exhaustion.
Emma Seppälä, science director at Stanfordâs Center for Compassion and Altruism Research and Education, expresses two of our desires: âWe seek to balance the frenzy of our current pace of life with the complete opposite: sitting still. We need to fulfill an unmet need for more calmness, quietude and peace of mind.â
It turns out that if we foster that sense of calm, itâs not just our happiness that may increaseâour focus can, too. Stanford lecturer Jonah Willihnganz is a co-founder of the LifeWorks Program for Integrative Learning at Stanford. LifeWorks offers courses that give students tools from mindfulness traditions and the fields of psychology and education in order to foster a sense of meaning and balance in their lives. Willihnganz draws his advice from those areas as well as from his training in Buddhism. âAfter youâve withdrawn your attention from the past and future and brought yourself into the physical, mental, emotional awareness of where you are, then you use the present moment to focus on something,â he says. We asked him how to do that.
### Have a regular time to notice where your mind is.
Before you can begin to draw yourself into the present, you have to be able to recognize when your mind has wandered to the future or the past. That can mean different things to different people, says Willihnganz: âIt absolutely dependsâyour age, your gender can make a difference, not to mention your cultural background. And \[people's\] nervous systems are so different.â
Still, some common physical indicators can point to where our minds are. âOne thing Iâve been trained to do is, when I walk through a doorway, to reinitiate and be in the present moment. Iâm just walking into the room. Thatâs it,â he says. âAnd then I watch to see: Am I holding my shoulders up? Is my waist relaxed? Howâs my breathing? I scan myself physically. Am I feeling anxious? Is that necessary?â
This provides a simple opportunity to reset. âMost of us donât even think when we walk into a room what our purpose is; weâre just going through our day,â Willihnganz says. So he asks himself how he can engage in that moment and in that room.
### Use physical markers to remind yourself to return to the present.
Bringing attention to your physical state while crossing a threshold is just one way of reminding yourself to be focus on whatâs happening right now. âMost wisdom traditions in the world have devices, markers, tricksâwhatever you want to call themâfor balancing yourself, because just having an âalways be presentâ conviction doesnât always work,â says Willihnganz. For example, he says, Christianity uses prayer; Buddhist traditions use bells.
Anything you do regularly, you can turn into a cue, Willihnganz says. âRemind yourself to bring yourself into the present moment without beating yourself up if you donât.â If the doorway reminder isnât for you, you can take a moment to set your mind to the present when you pick up your phone. âSome students I have now, the minute they pull it out to look at it, thatâs the flag,â he says. âThe act of looking at your phone should tell you turn it over, take a breath, withdraw yourself from the past and future, scan yourself, then ask yourself if thereâs a purpose to the moment youâre in now.â
### Try out different types of meditation.
Meditation isnât the be-all and end-all of being presentâin fact, Willihnganz says, there are many ways of finding calm. âFor some people, the way to be present is to be activeâfor them to be in motion and have their energy circulating is a way for them to be calm, actually. And then for other people, like me, calm comes from having less stimuli going on around us.â
If youâve already tried one type of meditation and think it doesnât work for you, Willihnganz suggests considering the wide range of options out there.
Metta meditation is wishing good things for yourself, for those close to you and for those you donât even know. âSo youâre wishing, youâre extending compassion and beneficence for all sentient beings, but youâre starting with yourself, which can be very emotional, because most of us are in subtle ways attacking ourselves all the time,â Willihnganz says.
Mara meditation is identifying the bully inside yourself and then letting go of what it says. âGive it a personality, give it a cartoon character, like make it look like something,â Willihnganz says. âYouâre not trying to suppress it, and itâll get to have its say, and you can say âOK, tell me all the things you thinkâ\[and\] now youâre done.ââ
And meditation isnât just a specific time to be in the moment. Practicing that state of mind can help you more easily access it at other times throughout your day.
### Practice with others.
Finding others who are also working on being present more often can make it easier to commit to a practiceâbe it meditating or simply agreeing to all âresetâ as you sit down to dinner. It can also create a more conducive space for centering the mind, since youâre all trying to do the same thing.
For those in the Stanford area, Willihnganz recommends Insight Meditation Center in Redwood City, which offers a number of informal gatherings and meditation sessions. âItâs worth going and sitting with groups of people and seeing what that feels like,â he says. âFor some people, it can be very powerful, like any event that makes you feel centered.â
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