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# 5 ways to find meaning and purpose in your life
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**Many of us will experience a lack of purpose at some point in our lives. And if youâre lucky enough to have a loving family, successful career, and supportive friends, you might wonder why that doesnât feel enough â or why something feels like itâs missing.**
When you lack meaning and purpose, it can feel like youâre walking numbly through life, or that youâre rudderless, floating aimlessly without direction. But finding meaning and purpose can tether you to something greater, giving you ambition, intention, passion, and energy. Plus, if you arenât sure what your purpose is, itâs never too late to find out.
With this in mind, here are five ideas to help you find meaning and purpose in your life.
## 1\. Read

Meaning and purpose are strongly linked to the idea of connection â and this is why reading can be one of the easiest and most accessible ways to find meaning.
At its core, reading is about connection. Reading the words of people weâll never know tethers us to them, if only briefly. It also connects us to different times and places â often ones entirely alien to us.
[Studies](https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/13674670050002072?journalCode=cmhr20) show that people who read the Bible or other religious books tend to have a greater sense of purpose than those who donât. But it isnât necessarily the religious aspect that creates this feeling. [Research](https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1002/cd.290) suggests that people who read non-religious works, like fiction and poetry, are also continually shown to have a stronger sense of purpose.
Think of some of the great literary characters in history. From Atticus Finch fighting racial injustice in *To Kill A Mockingbird* to Frodo Baggins journeying to Mordor in *The Lord of the Rings*, many characters share an unshakeable sense of purpose. The more we see purpose in the lives of others (fictional or otherwise), the more weâre likely to see it in ourselves.
Some of the most inspirational and driven people in the world credit reading for giving them purpose. So, if youâre feeling like your life lacks meaning, something as simple as picking up a book can make a difference and help you identify what matters in your life.
If youâd like some reading inspiration, we hope something might catch your eye in our articles: [27 must-read books](https://restless.co.uk/leisure-and-lifestyle/art-and-culture/the-best-must-read-novels/) and [15 inspiring self-development books](https://restless.co.uk/health/healthy-mind/inspiring-self-development-books/). You might also like to join one of the book clubs over on Rest Less Events.
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## 2\. Fight for something

When you think about injustice, most of us can pinpoint certain causes that weâre more passionate about than others.
Perhaps itâs cruelty to children or the struggles of people living through war and famine. It might be issues like racism, sexism, animal rights or sustainability. Maybe itâs that your own experiences, or those of your loved ones, have led you to be passionate about certain causes â for example, helping people who struggle with addiction or mental health problems.
Most of us have causes we care deeply about, and fighting for something bigger than ourselves can be an incredibly rewarding way to find purpose and meaning. So, itâs worth taking a moment to think about what upsets and angers you most, and the different ways you can help fight for or against it.
There are thousands of organisations and causes out there that desperately need help â and often, when youâre fighting for what you perceive to be the greater good, you can identify new ways to [make a difference](https://restless.co.uk/health/healthy-mind/meaningful-ways-to-help-others-and-give-back-to-your-community/).
Donating your time and money to help others is a great way to find purpose. But finding a way to repurpose your skills, interests, and experiences to bring about positive change can be even more effective.
If youâre a skilled writer, you could write articles to raise awareness about an issue youâre passionate about. If you enjoy [public speaking](https://restless.co.uk/leisure-and-lifestyle/learning/how-to-become-a-more-confident-speaker/), you could use your skills to educate people â for example, by visiting schools and talking to children about what you find important. Or, if youâre passionate about music, you could look into how music can be used as therapy.
Perhaps you could even consider a [career change](https://restless.co.uk/career-advice/career-change-advice/) where you can combine your skills with furthering a cause thatâs important to you.
If youâre not quite sure what âyourâ cause is or how you can make a difference, it might be helpful to ask yourself the following questionsâŠ
- What do I love doing?
- What comes easily to me?
- What do I care about?
- If I could change one thing in the world, what would it be?
If you still feel unsure or have several causes you feel deeply passionate about, you might benefit from taking a values survey. These can help you identify the issue or cause youâre most passionate about.
Whether you know what causes youâre passionate about, or youâd like to be inspired and see what opportunities are available, youâll hopefully find our [volunteering section](https://restless.co.uk/volunteer/) helpful.
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## 3\. Surround yourself with people who inspire you

If youâre experiencing a lack of meaning and/or purpose in your life, it can help to think about the people you surround yourself with.
Try not to focus on people you âhaveâ to see â such as colleagues and immediate family members â but those you choose to spend time with. If the people around you are negative, itâs easy to get weighed down â and if these people arenât interested in making positive change, it can be difficult to feel inspired.
Of course, you donât have to cut these people out of your life to find meaning and purpose. But it can help to spend more time with people who inspire and encourage you to make a difference.
You might also find it useful to read about inspirational people, though sometimes this can feel a little intimidating. If you read about a civil rights leader who awoke a generation, for example, you might feel motivated in some ways and daunted in others â like youâll never be able to make such a difference, no matter how hard you try.
But often the small things we do have a huge impact, and if there are people in your life who motivate and uplift you, make an effort to spend more time with them. If you have a friend who goes to social justice talks or protests, why not consider joining them? Or if you have a friend who volunteers at the local food bank, perhaps you could ask to join them.
If you donât have people in your life who inspire you in this way, donât worry. Today, there are many ways to [meet new people](https://restless.co.uk/health/healthy-mind/different-ways-to-meet-new-people/), forge meaningful connections, and get inspired â from joining Facebook groups and community hubs to online support groups.
You might like to read our articles, [9 different ways to meet new people](https://restless.co.uk/health/healthy-mind/different-ways-to-meet-new-people/) and [12 ways to make new friends](https://restless.co.uk/health/healthy-mind/ways-to-make-new-friends/), for ideas.
## 4\. Listen to others

Many of us are our own worst critics. We find it easy to see things like talent, passion, and intelligence in others, but donât often see them in ourselves so clearly. Therefore, it can be hugely beneficial to ask people for their feedback and thoughts, to find out what they appreciate about you, what they think youâre good at, and what makes you special.
Hearing what other people appreciate about you can give you an idea of your values and skills, which can be instrumental in helping you pursue a meaningful life.
For example, if someone tells you youâre unusually empathic or they find it easy to talk openly to you, you may realise you can use this trait to help others â perhaps by retraining as a [counsellor](https://restless.co.uk/career-advice/career-change-advice/how-to-become-a-counsellor/) or [volunteering](https://restless.co.uk/volunteer/) on helplines.
It can be strangely tricky to recognise the things you care most about or what youâre naturally best at, simply because theyâre so ingrained in us. So, ask people around you for insight and feedback and, most importantly, listen to them.
Though donât forget to listen to yourself, too. When you think about a passion or a cause, whatâs your gut telling you? Do you really want to volunteer for a particular charity, or are you only doing it because you think itâs the right thing? Do you really want to pursue that [new hobby](https://restless.co.uk/leisure-and-lifestyle/hobbies-activities/), or are you doing it because you canât think of anything else?
Try not to do anything for the sake of it, or do anything you feel uncomfortable with. When you find your purpose, itâll feel right. So listen to your intuition because only you know whatâs best for you.
## 5\. Help other people

Itâs widely accepted that certain emotions and behaviours, like generosity and selflessness, help boost our wellbeing, and they can also affect our sense of purpose. As a result, volunteering, helping others, and finding a way to give back are strongly associated with having a more meaningful, purposeful life.
There are many ways you can help others. You can donate money to a cause you care about, [volunteer](https://restless.co.uk/volunteer/), or help people around you directly.
For example, why not visit an elderly neighbour to provide company or offer to shop for a poorly friend? Whether you decide to help others every day or once a week, being kind can go a long way to making you feel like your life has purpose.
Itâs also worth mentioning that once you start working to help others, youâre likely to meet new people whoâll further inspire you. Volunteering at a homeless shelter once a week, for example, can put you in contact with people who dedicate their lives to those less fortunate than themselves. Often, these experiences have the most profound effect on us.
Thereâs no guarantee that volunteering will lead to a lightbulb moment where you suddenly realise what your purpose is. However, there are many ways to help others and give something back, and once you find the ârightâ way to do that, it should feel as though it makes sense. Plus, the act of helping can be invigorating.
If youâre looking for ideas, check out our article: [17 meaningful ways to help others and give back to your community](https://restless.co.uk/health/healthy-mind/meaningful-ways-to-help-others-and-give-back-to-your-community/).
## Final thoughts...
No matter how hard we search, finding purpose and meaning in our lives doesnât usually happen quickly. It can take months, years, or even a lifetime â but some say itâs the search thatâs the most meaningful of all.
You might find that what inspires and drives you changes over time. This is all part and parcel of our journey, and it doesnât mean youâre giving up on anything.
If you find a hobby, job, or cause that gives you purpose, it doesnât matter what it is â all that matters is that you get something out of it.
If you choose to pursue a new passion or cause, try to take some time to reflect on it as you go along. Ask yourself if this new road feels like the right direction. If it isnât, itâs fine to change course.
For more guidance, you might like our articles: [8 powerful questions to ask yourself when you arrive at a crossroads in life](https://restless.co.uk/health/healthy-mind/powerful-questions-to-ask-yourself-when-you-arrive-at-a-crossroads-in-life/) and [Who am I? 7 tips to figure out who you truly are](https://restless.co.uk/health/healthy-mind/who-am-i-tips-to-figure-out-who-you-truly-are/).
**Have you struggled to find meaning and purpose in your life recently? Or have you found something thatâs helped give you direction? Weâd love to hear about your experiences in the comments below.**
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