âšď¸ Skipped - page is already crawled
| Filter | Status | Condition | Details |
|---|---|---|---|
| HTTP status | PASS | download_http_code = 200 | HTTP 200 |
| Age cutoff | PASS | download_stamp > now() - 6 MONTH | 1.3 months ago |
| History drop | PASS | isNull(history_drop_reason) | No drop reason |
| Spam/ban | PASS | fh_dont_index != 1 AND ml_spam_score = 0 | ml_spam_score=0 |
| Canonical | PASS | meta_canonical IS NULL OR = '' OR = src_unparsed | Not set |
| Property | Value |
|---|---|
| URL | https://opinion.inquirer.net/178373/on-legalizing-divorce-or-should-only-death-do-us-part |
| Last Crawled | 2026-03-14 02:28:58 (1 month ago) |
| First Indexed | not set |
| HTTP Status Code | 200 |
| Meta Title | On legalizing divorce or should only death do us part? | Inquirer Opinion |
| Meta Description | Last May 22, 2024, the House of Representatives finally approved on third and final reading House Bill No. 9349, or the proposed Absolute Divorce Act. In |
| Meta Canonical | null |
| Boilerpipe Text | Last May 22, 2024, the House of Representatives finally approved on third and final reading House Bill No. 9349, or the proposed Absolute Divorce Act. In a country that values the sanctity of marriage, people have dissenting opinions about this matter. Some people believe that divorce has detrimental effects on the family and society, while others believe that it will help families that suffer an unhappy, abusive, and irreparable marriage.
People opposing divorce believe that marriage is sacred and has deep spiritual and social significance. The deeply embedded Catholic influence in Philippine culture where the Church teaches that marriage is a sacrament makes it indissoluble by human laws. Legalizing divorce would cause the dissolution of its essence in married couples.
Divorce is considered a threat to family unity and children of a divorced family bear the consequence of the separation of parents. The emergence of single-parent families can cause negative psychological and social impacts on children. The opposition also views divorce as a gateway to escape the weight of the marriage that goes against the essence of the vow. They suggest that marital problems can be solved by counseling.
Article continues after this advertisement
On the other hand, legalizing divorce recognizes that some marriages are beyond fixing. Staying in wedlock does prolong harm and agony, specifically in abusive relationships. Divorce is necessary in toxic relationships that have the occurrence and recurrence of physical, emotional, and psychological abuse. Cases of infidelity and abandonment are also valid reasons for divorce as staying together only perpetuates unhappiness and agony.
FEATURED STORIES
OPINION
OPINION
OPINION
Children can also suffer from having to witness the abuse in a toxic marriage. Staying in a toxic environment despite having a complete family can cause long-term damage. Aside from witnessing abuse, children who experience it are more likely to develop anxiety, depression, and memory issues caused by the trauma.
Legalizing divorce does not necessarily mean damaging the essence of marriage but it is proposed as a resort for irreparable marriages. It allows victims of domestic abuse to rebuild themselves. Moreover, it gives legal rights to individuals to leave a marriage that no longer provides love, security, safety, or peace.
Despite opposing perspectives, both sides value the sake of family and the children. The opposing view argues that divorce dissolute the essence of marriage and weakens the family structure, the proponents view this as a way to protect children and couples from toxic environments. Both of them also recognize that not all marriages work well.
Article continues after this advertisement
Advocates of legalizing divorce should implement mandatory counseling and mediation among couples before filing for legal separation. It ensures that preventive measures are taken before concluding that divorce is what the couple needs. It is also important to limit divorce to specific grounds, such as abuse, abandonment, infidelity, or neglect to still protect family values and the sanctity of marriage.
Filipinos are torn between preserving the holy matrimony of marriage and providing legal solutions for abusive and irreparable marriages.
Both sides share the same goal of protecting the family and ensuring the well-being of the children. A balanced approach in this situation could involve mandatory counseling and mediation between couples to ensure that it is approached with care before offering the last resort of divorce. It also includes regulating the grounds for filing for divorce to avoid casual separation. The presence of infidelity, abuse, neglect, and abandonment should be the only valid reasons for filing for divorce. Despite having strong points on both sides, debates on legalizing divorce are still a gray area in a country that is still conservative but also progressive. It is important to consider the middle ground in this gray area and have a balanced approach to avoid compromising each side of the issue.
Article continues after this advertisement
Eloisa DS. Deloverges
Your subscription could not be saved. Please try again.
Your subscription has been successful. |
| Markdown | 
Already a subscriber? [Log in.](https://plus.inquirer.net/profile/)
[](https://inqnews.net/inqplus33)
[](https://opinion.inquirer.net/178373/on-legalizing-divorce-or-should-only-death-do-us-part)
July 10, 2022
[](https://www.inquirer.net/)
[](https://www.inquirer.net/page-one-single/)
[](https://opinion.inquirer.net/178373/on-legalizing-divorce-or-should-only-death-do-us-part)
[](https://inquirer.net/)
[]()
[News](https://newsinfo.inquirer.net/)
[Global Nation](https://globalnation.inquirer.net/)
[Business](https://business.inquirer.net/)
[Lifestyle](https://lifestyle.inquirer.net/)
[Entertainment](https://entertainment.inquirer.net/)
[Technology](https://technology.inquirer.net/)
[Sports](https://sports.inquirer.net/)
[opinion](https://opinion.inquirer.net/)
[USA & Canada](https://usa.inquirer.net/)
[bandera](https://bandera.inquirer.net/)
[CDN Digital](https://cebudailynews.inquirer.net/)
[Pop](https://pop.inquirer.net/)
[Preen](https://preen.ph/)
[Noli Soli](https://nolisoli.ph/)
[Scout PH](https://scoutmag.ph/)
[Videos](https://videos.inquirer.net/)
[F\&B](https://fnbreport.ph/)
[Esports](https://esports.inquirer.net/)
[Multisport](https://multisport.ph/)
[Mobility](https://inqmobility.com/)
[Project Rebound](https://projectrebound.inquirer.net/)
[Advertise](https://advertise.inquirer.net/)
FOLLOW US:
[](https://www.facebook.com/inquirerdotnet)
[](https://twitter.com/inquirerdotnet)
[](https://www.youtube.com/@inquirerdotnet)
[](https://www.instagram.com/inquirerdotnet/?hl=en)
[](https://www.tiktok.com/@inquirerdotnet?lang=en)
Subscribe to our daily newsletter
Your subscription could not be saved. Please try again.
Your subscription has been successful.
[News](https://newsinfo.inquirer.net/)
[global nation](https://globalnation.inquirer.net/)
[business](https://business.inquirer.net/)
[lifestyle](https://lifestyle.inquirer.net/)
[entertainment](https://entertainment.inquirer.net/)
[technology](https://technology.inquirer.net/)
[sports](https://sports.inquirer.net/)
[opinion](https://opinion.inquirer.net/)
[EDITORIAL](https://opinion.inquirer.net/category/editorial)
[COLUMNS](https://opinion.inquirer.net/category/inquirer-opinion/columns)
[VIEWPOINTS](https://opinion.inquirer.net/category/viewpoints)
[TALK OF THE TOWN](https://opinion.inquirer.net/category/inquirer-opinion/talk-of-the-town)
[LOVE.LIFE](https://opinion.inquirer.net/category/love-life)
[NEWSLETTER](https://inqnews.net/DailyNewsletter)
opinion / [Latest Opinion](https://opinion.inquirer.net/category/latest-opinion)
[Latest Opinion](https://opinion.inquirer.net/category/latest-opinion)
# On legalizing divorce or should only death do us part?
[Philippine Daily Inquirer](https://opinion.inquirer.net/source/philippine-daily-inquirer) / 05:01 AM November 15, 2024
Share:
[](https://opinion.inquirer.net/178373/on-legalizing-divorce-or-should-only-death-do-us-part)
[](https://opinion.inquirer.net/178373/on-legalizing-divorce-or-should-only-death-do-us-part)
[](https://www.facebook.com/sharer/sharer.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fopinion.inquirer.net%2F178373%2Fon-legalizing-divorce-or-should-only-death-do-us-part)
[](https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?url=https%3A%2F%2Fopinion.inquirer.net%2F178373%2Fon-legalizing-divorce-or-should-only-death-do-us-part)
Last May 22, 2024, the House of Representatives finally approved on third and final reading House Bill No. 9349, or the proposed Absolute Divorce Act. In a country that values the sanctity of marriage, people have dissenting opinions about this matter. Some people believe that divorce has detrimental effects on the family and society, while others believe that it will help families that suffer an unhappy, abusive, and irreparable marriage.
People opposing divorce believe that marriage is sacred and has deep spiritual and social significance. The deeply embedded Catholic influence in Philippine culture where the Church teaches that marriage is a sacrament makes it indissoluble by human laws. Legalizing divorce would cause the dissolution of its essence in married couples.
Divorce is considered a threat to family unity and children of a divorced family bear the consequence of the separation of parents. The emergence of single-parent families can cause negative psychological and social impacts on children. The opposition also views divorce as a gateway to escape the weight of the marriage that goes against the essence of the vow. They suggest that marital problems can be solved by counseling.
*Article continues after this advertisement*
On the other hand, legalizing divorce recognizes that some marriages are beyond fixing. Staying in wedlock does prolong harm and agony, specifically in abusive relationships. Divorce is necessary in toxic relationships that have the occurrence and recurrence of physical, emotional, and psychological abuse. Cases of infidelity and abandonment are also valid reasons for divorce as staying together only perpetuates unhappiness and agony.
FEATURED STORIES
OPINION
[Failure to ease inflation](https://opinion.inquirer.net/188817/failure-to-ease-inflation)
OPINION
[The year of suspended animation?](https://opinion.inquirer.net/188819/the-year-of-suspended-animation)
OPINION
[US invasion act of imperialist aggression](https://opinion.inquirer.net/188820/us-invasion-act-of-imperialist-aggression)
Children can also suffer from having to witness the abuse in a toxic marriage. Staying in a toxic environment despite having a complete family can cause long-term damage. Aside from witnessing abuse, children who experience it are more likely to develop anxiety, depression, and memory issues caused by the trauma.
Legalizing divorce does not necessarily mean damaging the essence of marriage but it is proposed as a resort for irreparable marriages. It allows victims of domestic abuse to rebuild themselves. Moreover, it gives legal rights to individuals to leave a marriage that no longer provides love, security, safety, or peace.
Despite opposing perspectives, both sides value the sake of family and the children. The opposing view argues that divorce dissolute the essence of marriage and weakens the family structure, the proponents view this as a way to protect children and couples from toxic environments. Both of them also recognize that not all marriages work well.
*Article continues after this advertisement*
Advocates of legalizing divorce should implement mandatory counseling and mediation among couples before filing for legal separation. It ensures that preventive measures are taken before concluding that divorce is what the couple needs. It is also important to limit divorce to specific grounds, such as abuse, abandonment, infidelity, or neglect to still protect family values and the sanctity of marriage.
Filipinos are torn between preserving the holy matrimony of marriage and providing legal solutions for abusive and irreparable marriages.
Both sides share the same goal of protecting the family and ensuring the well-being of the children. A balanced approach in this situation could involve mandatory counseling and mediation between couples to ensure that it is approached with care before offering the last resort of divorce. It also includes regulating the grounds for filing for divorce to avoid casual separation. The presence of infidelity, abuse, neglect, and abandonment should be the only valid reasons for filing for divorce. Despite having strong points on both sides, debates on legalizing divorce are still a gray area in a country that is still conservative but also progressive. It is important to consider the middle ground in this gray area and have a balanced approach to avoid compromising each side of the issue.
*Article continues after this advertisement*
Eloisa DS. Deloverges
Your subscription could not be saved. Please try again.
Your subscription has been successful.
READ NEXT
[Controlling nature](https://opinion.inquirer.net/178377/controlling-nature)
[Great thinkers then and now](https://opinion.inquirer.net/178330/great-thinkers-then-and-now)
EDITORS' PICK
[OWWA, PCSO welcome home OFWs from Kuwait in âBagong Taong Salubongâ](https://globalnation.inquirer.net/304739/owwa-pcso-welcome-home-ofws-from-kuwait-in-bagong-taong-salubong)
[Actor Nico Antonio among passers in 2025 bar exams](https://entertainment.inquirer.net/646799/actor-nico-antonio-among-passers-in-2025-bar-exams)
[DepEdâs ARAL Program delivers early proof of learning reform in action](https://newsinfo.inquirer.net/2164411/depeds-aral-program-delivers-early-proof-of-learning-reform-in-action)
[Andrea Brillantes on rumored new romance: âPwera usog, please langâ](https://entertainment.inquirer.net/646745/andrea-brillantes-on-rumored-new-romance-pwera-usog-please-lang)
[LIVE: PBA Season 50 Philippine Cup Semifinals Game 2](https://sports.inquirer.net/657367/live-pba-season-50-philippine-cup-semifinals-game-2)
[FULL LIST: Passers of the 2025 Philippine Bar Examinations](https://newsinfo.inquirer.net/2164036/full-list-passers-of-the-2025-philippine-bar-examinations)
MOST READ
[FULL LIST: Passers of the 2025 Philippine Bar Examinations](https://newsinfo.inquirer.net/2164036/full-list-passers-of-the-2025-philippine-bar-examinations)
[LTO chief: James Deakinâs son committed 'reckless driving' on Skyway](https://newsinfo.inquirer.net/2164093/lto-chief-james-deakins-son-committed-reckless-driving-on-skyway)
[After 8 years, bar exam passer honors late father by becoming a lawyer](https://newsinfo.inquirer.net/2164351/after-8-years-bar-exam-passer-honors-late-father-by-becoming-a-lawyer)
[PBA: Tim Cone laments Ginebra bench production in Game 2 loss](https://sports.inquirer.net/657440/pba-tim-cone-laments-ginebra-bench-production-in-game-2-loss)
[View comments](https://opinion.inquirer.net/178373/on-legalizing-divorce-or-should-only-death-do-us-part#article_comment_box)
EDITORS' PICK
MOST READ
globalnation
**[OWWA, PCSO welcome home OFWs from Kuwait in âBagong Taong Salubongâ](https://globalnation.inquirer.net/304739/owwa-pcso-welcome-home-ofws-from-kuwait-in-bagong-taong-salubong)**
entertainment
**[Actor Nico Antonio among passers in 2025 bar exams](https://entertainment.inquirer.net/646799/actor-nico-antonio-among-passers-in-2025-bar-exams)**
newsinfo
**[DepEdâs ARAL Program delivers early proof of learning reform in action](https://newsinfo.inquirer.net/2164411/depeds-aral-program-delivers-early-proof-of-learning-reform-in-action)**
entertainment
**[Andrea Brillantes on rumored new romance: âPwera usog, please langâ](https://entertainment.inquirer.net/646745/andrea-brillantes-on-rumored-new-romance-pwera-usog-please-lang)**
sports
**[LIVE: PBA Season 50 Philippine Cup Semifinals Game 2](https://sports.inquirer.net/657367/live-pba-season-50-philippine-cup-semifinals-game-2)**
newsinfo
**[FULL LIST: Passers of the 2025 Philippine Bar Examinations](https://newsinfo.inquirer.net/2164036/full-list-passers-of-the-2025-philippine-bar-examinations)**
newsinfo
**[FULL LIST: Passers of the 2025 Philippine Bar Examinations](https://newsinfo.inquirer.net/2164036/full-list-passers-of-the-2025-philippine-bar-examinations)**
newsinfo
**[LTO chief: James Deakinâs son committed 'reckless driving' on Skyway](https://newsinfo.inquirer.net/2164093/lto-chief-james-deakins-son-committed-reckless-driving-on-skyway)**
newsinfo
**[After 8 years, bar exam passer honors late father by becoming a lawyer](https://newsinfo.inquirer.net/2164351/after-8-years-bar-exam-passer-honors-late-father-by-becoming-a-lawyer)**
sports
**[PBA: Tim Cone laments Ginebra bench production in Game 2 loss](https://sports.inquirer.net/657440/pba-tim-cone-laments-ginebra-bench-production-in-game-2-loss)**
newsinfo
**[2025 bar exams: Ateneo, UMak top schools for first-time takers](https://newsinfo.inquirer.net/2164154/admu-ateneo-de-davao-umak-lead-2025-bar-top-performing-schools-2)**
newsinfo
**[Mayon dome collapse releases lava, says Phivolcs](https://newsinfo.inquirer.net/2164295/mayon-dome-collapse-releases-lava-says-phivolcs)**
TAGS:
No tags found for this post.
Your subscription could not be saved. Please try again.
Your subscription has been successful.
###### **Disclaimer:** Comments do not represent the views of INQUIRER.net. We reserve the right to exclude comments which are inconsistent with our editorial standards. [FULL DISCLAIMER](https://opinion.inquirer.net/178373/on-legalizing-divorce-or-should-only-death-do-us-part)
- [](https://www.facebook.com/sharer/sharer.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Fopinion.inquirer.net%2F178373%2Fon-legalizing-divorce-or-should-only-death-do-us-part&p[title]=On+legalizing+divorce+or+should+only+death+do+us+part%3F&display=popup)
- [](https://twitter.com/intent/tweet?text=On+legalizing+divorce+or+should+only+death+do+us+part%3F&url=https%3A%2F%2Fopinion.inquirer.net%2F178373%2Fon-legalizing-divorce-or-should-only-death-do-us-part)
- [](<mailto:editors@inquirer.net?subject=On legalizing divorce or should only death do us part?&body=https%3A%2F%2Fopinion.inquirer.net%2F178373%2Fon-legalizing-divorce-or-should-only-death-do-us-part>)
- [](https://www.google.com/bookmarks/mark?op=edit&bkmk=https%3A%2F%2Fopinion.inquirer.net%2F178373%2Fon-legalizing-divorce-or-should-only-death-do-us-part&title=On+legalizing+divorce+or+should+only+death+do+us+part%3F)
- ##### The Inquirer Channels
- [News](https://newsinfo.inquirer.net/)
- [Sports](https://sports.inquirer.net/)
- [Entertainment](https://entertainment.inquirer.net/)
- [Lifestyle](https://lifestyle.inquirer.net/)
- [Technology](https://technology.inquirer.net/)
- [Business](https://business.inquirer.net/)
- [Opinion](https://opinion.inquirer.net/)
- [Global Nation](https://globalnation.inquirer.net/)
- [USA NEWS](https://usa.inquirer.net/)
- ##### Services
- [Mobile](https://m.inquirer.net/)
- [RSS](https://www.inquirer.net/fullfeed)
- [Email Us](mailto:suggestions@inquirer.net)
- [Archive](https://www.inquirer.net/article-index/)
- [Contact Us](https://services.inquirer.net/contactus/)
- [Newsletter](https://www.inquirer.net/newsletter/)
- [Job Openings](https://www.inquirer.net/job-openings/)
- ##### The Inquirer Company
- [About INQUIRER.net](https://services.inquirer.net/about)
- [About the INQUIRER](https://www.inquirer.com.ph/)
- [User Agreement](https://services.inquirer.net/user-agreement)
- [Link Policy](https://services.inquirer.net/link_policy)
- [Privacy Policy](https://services.inquirer.net/privacy-policy)
- [Article Index](https://www.inquirer.net/article-index/)
- ##### Partners
- [Libre](https://libre.inquirer.net/)
- [Hinge Inquirer](https://www.hip.ph/)
- [Bandera](https://bandera.inquirer.net/)
- [Cebu Daily News](https://cebudailynews.inquirer.net/)
- [DZIQ990 AM](https://radyo.inquirer.net/)
- [Motion Cars](https://motioncars.inquirer.net/)
##### Š Copyright 1997-2026 INQUIRER.net \| All Rights Reserved |
| Readable Markdown | null |
| Shard | 144 (laksa) |
| Root Hash | 423348435536997344 |
| Unparsed URL | net,inquirer!opinion,/178373/on-legalizing-divorce-or-should-only-death-do-us-part s443 |