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curl -X POST \
  'http://laksa021.int.ahrefs:8124/' \
  -H 'Content-Type: text/plain' \
  -H 'X-ClickHouse-Database: crawler3' \
  -H 'Authorization: Basic YXBpOg==' \
  -d 'SELECT getAhrefsURLFromUnparsed(src_unparsed) AS found_url, ifNull(toUnixTimestamp(download_stamp), 0) AS crawl_time, ifNull(toUnixTimestamp(props_url_first_seen), 0) AS first_indexed_time, download_http_code AS http_code, src_unparsed AS src_unparsed, src_root_hash AS src_root_hash, history_drop_reason AS history_drop_reason, meta_title AS meta_title, meta_descriptions AS meta_descriptions, attrs_boilerpipe_text AS attrs_boilerpipe_text, attrs_markdown AS attrs_markdown, attrs_readable_markdown AS attrs_readable_markdown, meta_canonical AS meta_canonical FROM crawler3.page_info_local FINAL PREWHERE (src_root_hash, src_unparsed) IN ((getAhrefsRootHashFromUnparsed(getAhrefsUnparsedNoserviceFromURL(\'https://notesbythalia.com/best-self-improvement-books/\')), getAhrefsUnparsedNoserviceFromURL(\'https://notesbythalia.com/best-self-improvement-books/\'))) FORMAT JSONEachRow'

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{"found_url":"https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/best-self-improvement-books\/","crawl_time":1776185891,"first_indexed_time":1648123998,"http_code":200,"src_unparsed":"com,notesbythalia!\/best-self-improvement-books\/ s443","src_root_hash":"17738334900024333021","history_drop_reason":null,"meta_title":"7 Best Self-Improvement Books That Changed My Life","meta_descriptions":["These are the 7 best self-improvement and self-help books that changed my life and ones that I think everyone needs to read..."],"attrs_boilerpipe_text":"The 7 Best Self-Improvement Books That Everyone Needs To Read At Least Once\nPublished:\nMarch 24th, 2022\nLast updated:\nMarch 13th, 2026\nTL;DR:\nWant to level up your mindset, habits, and creativity? These 7 self-improvement books are total game-changers. From Atomic Habits teaching you how to make lasting changes, to The Gifts of Imperfection helping you embrace your flaws—each book has the power to shift how you think, work, and live.\nFrom as young as I can remember, I’ve always loved reading.\nBooks allow me to tap into my imagination and escape into another world.\nBut since starting my online business, I no longer have a monogamous relationship with fiction books. I now find myself gravitating more towards the personal development and self-help aisle\nrather than beach reads.\nYes, reading self-help books can sometimes feel like a chore. Personal development is exhausting at times and sometimes seems quite arduous. But for me, there is something about reading these types of books.\nThey fill me with positive energy.\nBy the closing chapter, I feel somewhat accomplished. I say to myself, “I managed to finish this hefty book, I’m clearly capable of something!” It makes me feel motivated and inspired to start improving and growing as a person.\nSo while reading\nmy latest non-fiction\n, I reflected on the other self-help books I’ve read in the past couple of years. There were some that I loved, and some that I didn’t love so much. And there were some that provided me with guidance at a time when I needed it most.\nIt’s these self-improvement books that have stayed with me and changed my life for the better.\nSo I wanted to share them with you in the hopes that they will also inspire you on your personal development journey.\nHere are the 7 best self-improvement books that I think everyone needs to read at least once.\nP.S. \nIf you’re new here, hey! I’m Thalia.\n \nI help burnt-out girlies like you build a life that’s aligned, magnetic, and unapologetically yours. Every week(ish), I share content on burnout recovery, self-development, finding joy, and career growth. \nSubscribe here\nso you never miss a debrief.\nSaying that these self-improvement\nbooks have changed my life\nis not an understatement.\nThey have given my life more meaning, boosted my self-awareness and provided me with self-love.\nWhenever I read a self-help book, I always underline the words and lines that mean the most to me. I then transfer my underlinings\ninto Notion\n, where I can easily access them. And I always find myself coming back to these 7 books and re-reading the quotes I so thoughtfully underlined.\nSo it is these 7 self-improvement books that I consider to be the best:\nAtomic Habits\nby James Clear\nThe Gifts of Imperfection\nby Brené Brown\nStay & Slay\nby Thalia-Maria Tourikis\nThe Mountain Is You\nby Brianna Wiest\nThe Daily Stoic\nby Ryan Holiday\nStart With Why\n by Simon Sinek\nBig Magic\nby Elizabeth Gilbert\nMindset\nby Carol Dweck\n1 | Atomic Habits by James Clear\nJust as the title says,\nAtomic Habits\nis all about habits. How to build good ones and break bad ones.\nYou might be thinking, how can a book on habits be so popular?\nJames Clear shows us that habit-building can be easy and fun. It’s not as boring or arduous as you might think.\nAnd by making these tiny changes, you are setting yourself up to achieve remarkable results.\nHighlights\nEasy to read and digestible\nThe contents of the book are laid out well\nIncludes diagrams\nSummary at the end of each chapter\nTips and advice are all extremely actionable\nI’ve previously written a review\n, so you know it’s worth a read\nMillion copy #1 bestseller\nMy thoughts\nAtomic Habits\nhas literally changed the way I view habits. I now build habits to work for me rather than against me.\nAnd in all honesty, Atomic Habits was actually the motivating factor behind my blog.\nBefore I read this book, I was constantly comparing myself to others online and copying what female entrepreneurs were doing to be productive. Long story short, the hustle culture didn’t work for me, and I thought there was something wrong with me.\nBut when I read Atomic Habits, James Clear made me feel less alone. It wasn’t the fact that there was something wrong with me; it was the fact that these “productivity hacks from others” didn’t suit my personality.\nSo I applied his advice on building habits to my own work ethic. I then started to view productivity as unique to the individual and built it around my own personality and lifestyle.\nMy mindful approach to productivity was born, and so was the basis of my blog. I wanted to show others that there is a more sustainable way of working, and this is where it all started.\nSo yes, like the cover says, Atomic Habits is truly life-changing!\n“There is a version of every habit that can bring you joy and satisfaction. Find it. Habits need to be enjoyable if they are going to stick… tailoring your habits to your personality is a good start.”\nJames Clear | Atomic Habits\n2 | The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown\nQuite simply put, \nThe Gifts of Imperfection\n teaches us how to live a wholehearted life.\nAnd to do that, we need to embrace our flaws, vulnerabilities and imperfections. We need to step into our truth, own our story and live a truly authentic life.\nAnd the daily tools needed for this are courage, compassion and connection, our gifts of imperfection.\nHighlights\nActionable and digestible advice\nSpread out over 10 chapters, otherwise known as guideposts\nThere’s a\ndig-deep\nsection at the end of each guidepost, which encourages you to explore each topic on a deeper level\nIncludes top tips, questions to ask yourself and resources for further reading\nSpace at the back to make a note of the pages that spoke to you the most\n10th Anniversary Edition features a foreword by Brené herself\nI’ve previously written a review\n, so you know it’s worth a read\nMy thoughts\nI’m a devoted Brené Brown fan. I’ve read a few of her books, listened to her podcast and watched her talk on\nTED\nand\nNetflix.\nBrené provides me with so much guidance. The guidance that I don’t usually get from other people in my life or from social media.\nIn\nThe Gifts of Imperfection,\nBrené Brown proves once again that she has a way with words.\nShe speaks directly to the soul and sparks something inside.\nI honestly still get shivers from this book.\nIt taught me how to start letting go of the things holding me back, like fear, comparison and perfectionism and start cultivating the things I need more of, like intuition, gratitude and laughter.\nSeriously, what more do you want from a book?\n“Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing that we will ever do.”\nBrené Brown | The Gifts of Imperfection\n3 | Stay & Slay: How To Beat Burnout Without Quitting Your Job\nOkay, so this one is a bit of a shameless plug, but hey, it’s my blog, and I know for a fact that it’s exactly what you need.\nStay & Slay\nhelps you understand what’s really burning you out and teaches you how to rebuild your energy and confidence in a way that feels realistic, doable, and supportive.\nBecause if you ask me, you shouldn’t have to choose between an ambitious career and your well-being. You can have both.\nHighlights\nReflection prompts that help you figure out what’s really burning you out\nMy signature\nAnti-Burnout Framework™\nis built into every page, so you have a clear roadmap to follow\nActionable and realistic tips to help you navigate and beat burnout for good\nHear from my clients who’ve been where you are now and come out stronger\nIncludes a bonus workbook, so you can SLAY-as-you-go and actually put every strategy into action\nIt’s written by me, so you know it’s full of value\nMy thoughts\nThis is the book\nI wish I had when I was deep in burnout and thought the only way out was quitting.\nDon’t get me wrong, my job was toxic, and I knew I couldn’t stay. But after walking away, it took me another few years to figure out how to recover from burnout and build a\ncareer that actually feels good.\nThis book is everything I learned along the way (minus all the trial and error).\n“It will get better. You will experience better things, meet better people and step into a job (and life) that feels better. You will become better, stronger, and more aligned with who you’re meant to be. Trust the process, because the best is yet to come.”\nThalia-Maria Tourikis | Stay & Slay\n4 | The Mountain Is You by Brianna Wiest\nThroughout history, mountains have symbolised big challenges, much like the ones we face within ourselves. This is the message Brianna Wiest brings into\nThe Mountain Is You.\nThis book is your go-to guide to understanding why we hold ourselves back and how to\nbreak free from self-sabotage.\nThe Mountain Is You will take you on a journey with practical insights and tools to help you unleash your full potential and conquer life’s challenges through “self-mastery”.\nHighlights\nA life-changing read which is a must for everyone\nExplore how you can overcome self-sabotage through self-mastery\nA well-written book with a supportive and friendly tone of voice\nPowerful and emotional\nI’ve written a book review\n, so you know it’s worth a read\nReading this book is an act of self-care\nMy thoughts\nI’ve been following\nBrianna Wiest on Instagram\nfor a while now, and her thoughtful and mindful quotes always set the right tone for my day. They make me stop, think and question how I want to show up for myself that day and in life.\nSo if you read any book from this list, make sure it is\nThe Mountain Is You\n— it will be an act of self-care within itself.\n“If we want to change the world, we change ourselves. If we want to change our lives, we change ourselves. If we want to scale the greatest mountains before us, we change how we arrive at the path.”\nBrianna Wiest | The Mountain Is You\n5 | The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday\nAdopting a Stoic practice in your life can reduce anxiety,\nhelp you avoid distractions\nand teach you gratitude. However, there’s so much written on Stoicism that it can be hard to know where to start.\nRyan Holiday’s\nThe Daily Stoic\nmakes learning about Stoicism digestible and intentional.\nThis isn’t a typical book as it’s not split into chapters. Instead, The Daily Stoic is separated into a page-a-day to make practising Stoicism more manageable.\nEach page features a powerful lesson or quote from the Ancient Stoics, including Marcus Aurelius, the playwright Seneca and philosopher Epictetus, among others.\nThese thought-provoking observations help you “to tackle any problem, approach any goal and find the serenity, self-knowledge and resilience you need to live well.”\n(The Daily Stoic)\nHighlights\nIncludes 366 meditations on wisdom, perseverance and the art of living\nFeatures lessons from the Ancient Stoics, including Marcus Aurelius, Seneca and Epictetus\nPage-a-day guide; no need to read it all in one go\nIt’s dated daily from 1st January to 31st December\nDaily doses of practical, uplifting philosophy\nFrom the best-selling author of\nThe Obstacle Is The Way\nThere’s a guided\nDaily Stoic Journal\nthat accompanies the book to make it even easier for you to practice mindfulness\nMy thoughts\nI haven’t finished\nThe Daily Stoic\nyet, as it’s a year-long process.\nHowever, it’s already been incredibly life-changing for both me and my husband. It has positively impacted our minds in a way where we are learning to ignore the things we can’t control and focus only on what we can change.\nSo if you’re looking to cultivate more meaning and self-awareness this year, then The Daily Stoic is the best self-help book for you.\n“You have power over your mind – not outside events. Realise this, and you will find strength.”\nMarcus Aurelius\n6 | Start With Why by Simon Sinek\nStart With Why\n explores the fundamental question of why some leaders are able to inspire and motivate others while others struggle to do so.\nDrawing on real-life examples (mainly Apple), Simon Sinek explains that the key lies in understanding and communicating the “why” behind our actions — the deep-rooted causes and beliefs that drive us.\nWhether you are an aspiring leader, entrepreneur, or simply seeking personal growth, Start With Why provides you with a blueprint for discovering your own \nwhy\n and leveraging it to inspire others so you can\nlive with \nreal\n purpose.\nHighlights\nInspiring quotes you can refer back to again and again\nPart of a 3-book series which also includes a practical guide to Find Your Why\nUses well-known companies and individuals to back up his points, e.g. Martin Luther King Jr.\nBased on \nthe life-changing Ted Talk\nMulti-million-copy bestseller\nMy thoughts\nI read \nStart With Why\n during a time when I was figuring out the next steps for \nNotes by Thalia\n and what I envision for my brand.\nThis book has given me the guidance and space I needed to really dig deep and figure out the \ncore\n of what I use this space for and get really clear on my \nwhy\n.\nIt has \nlevelled up my productivity\n and given me so much motivation as a result.\nIn short, it is a book that has changed the way I show up and has greatly improved my business life. I also think it is a book that everyone needs to read, no matter where you are on your self-discovery journey.\nSo, if\nyou’re feeling a little lost,\nthen read\nStart With Why,\nas it will help you find your purpose.\n“The work we’re doing now is better than the work we were doing six months ago. And the work we’ll be doing six months from now will be better than the work we’re doing today. Because we wake up every day with a sense of WHY we come to work. We come to work to inspire people to do the things that inspire them.”\nSimon Sinek | Start WIth Why\n7 | Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert\nElizabeth Gilbert takes on the role of a life coach in\nBig Magic.\nShe shares her unique perspective on living a creative life that is led by curiosity and not by fear. Big Magic consists of Gilbert’s past life lessons, real stories and her timeless wisdom to draw out a road map of how we can gain the courage to pursue our own creative endeavours.\nHighlights\nNot your typical boring self-help book\nFeatures a bright, colourful cover which will look great on any bookshelf\nMore like a guidebook teaching you how to deal with your doubts, how to observe ideas and how to act upon them without fear\nGilbert writes as though she is writing to a friend\nMatter-of-fact, screw-the-norm tone of voice\nWritten by the author of the international bestseller\nEat Pray Love\nMy thoughts\nBig Magic\ntaught me that I should never feel embarrassed about building a creative business. I’m doing it for me, because I enjoy being creative, and that is all that matters.\nThere seems to be such a stigma around creative work, and I’m glad Elizabeth Gilbert has finally spoken up about the fact that it should be treated the same as non-creative work.\nSo, if you feel like you’re hiding your true creative self, then read Big Magic and cultivate the creativity you need to live a life that is truly your own.\n“Always remember that people’s judgements about you, are none of your business.”\nElizabeth Gilbert | Big Magic\n8 | Mindset by Carol Dweck\nMindset by Carol Dweck\nis a fundamental book that everyone should read.\nIt explores the power of our mindset and how success doesn’t just depend on our abilities or talent but rather on how we approach our goals: with a fixed or growth mindset⁣.\nThis book is all about changing the way we think to fulfil our potential.\nHighlights\nThe whole book is simply mind-blowing\nExplore the difference between a fixed and growth mindset\nIncludes chapters for every area of our life\nUses well-known and famous people as examples to back up her points e.g. Michael Jordan\nIncludes diagrams\nThe book has recently been updated\nI’ve previously written a review\n, so you know it’s worth a read\nMy thoughts\nI must admit that I was slightly apprehensive about reading\nthis book at first.\nCarol is one of the world’s leading researchers in personality and social and developmental psychology, so I felt that it would be highly academic and difficult to understand.\nBut it’s the complete opposite. Carol wanted this book to be digestible and easy to follow.\nAnd that’s exactly what it is.\nSo if you’re going to buy one of the self-help books from this list, make sure it’s this one, and invest in your mindset.\n“Mindsets are just beliefs. They’re powerful beliefs, but they’re just something in your mind, and you can change your mind.”\nCarol Dweck | Mindset\nWhy read self-improvement books?\nSelf-improvement books lead to positive change.\nThey help you\nlearn more about yourself\nwhile also providing you with the guidance and skills you need to help improve different areas of your life.\nI honestly wouldn’t be the person I am today without the help of these books.\nBrené Brown has worked wonders on my mind, soul and well-being. James Clear has changed my entire perspective on habits and what it means to be productive. Elizabeth Gilbert has provided me with the confidence I need to continue pursuing my creative business. Carol Dweck has opened up my eyes to what it means to truly\nhave a growth mindset.\nSimon Sinek has changed the way I show up in my business.\nAnd I continue to look inward as I learn more about how Stoicism and self-mastery can change my thinking for the better.\nIn a rush? Save this list on Pinterest for later!\nFinal thoughts\nI hope you feel inspired by this post and have the motivation to kickstart your self-development journey. Or continue the one you’re already on.\nIf you’re looking\nto become your best self,\nthen I honestly can’t recommend these self-improvement books enough.\nThey will provide you with the guidance and awareness you need to grow.\nAnd just to recap, the books I mentioned in this post are:\nAtomic Habits\nby James Clear\nThe Gifts of Imperfection\nby Brené Brown\nStay & Slay\nby Thalia-Maria Tourikis\nThe Mountain Is You\nby Brianna Wiest\nThe Daily Stoic\nby Ryan Holiday\nStart With Why\n by Simon Sinek\nBig Magic\nby Elizabeth Gilbert\nMindset\nby Carol Dweck\nI can’t wait to hear if you end up reading one of these books. Hopefully, you will fall in love with them just much as I have, and continue to turn to them in times of need.\nUntil next week,\nThalia xx\nJust a heads up:\nNotes by Thalia is reader-supported. This means that instead of running Ads, I occasionally write blog posts that contain affiliate links, and this is one of those posts. 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From Atomic Habits teaching you how to make lasting changes, to The Gifts of Imperfection helping you embrace your flaws—each book has the power to shift how you think, work, and live.\n\n![Aesthetic stock image showing a beige in door plant feature on top of a white hardback book. The image is purely for decorative use only to support the blog post on the best self-improvement books](data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iNzY4IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUzMiIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDc2OCA1MzIiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)\n\n**From as young as I can remember, I’ve always loved reading.**\n\n**Books allow me to tap into my imagination and escape into another world.**\n\nBut since starting my online business, I no longer have a monogamous relationship with fiction books. I now find myself gravitating more towards the personal development and self-help aisle [rather than beach reads.](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/best-contemporary-fiction-books\/)\n\nYes, reading self-help books can sometimes feel like a chore. Personal development is exhausting at times and sometimes seems quite arduous. But for me, there is something about reading these types of books.\n\nThey fill me with positive energy.\n\nBy the closing chapter, I feel somewhat accomplished. I say to myself, “I managed to finish this hefty book, I’m clearly capable of something!” It makes me feel motivated and inspired to start improving and growing as a person.\n\nSo while reading [my latest non-fiction](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/the-let-them-theory-mel-robbins-book-review\/), I reflected on the other self-help books I’ve read in the past couple of years. There were some that I loved, and some that I didn’t love so much. And there were some that provided me with guidance at a time when I needed it most.\n\nIt’s these self-improvement books that have stayed with me and changed my life for the better.\n\nSo I wanted to share them with you in the hopes that they will also inspire you on your personal development journey.\n\nHere are the 7 best self-improvement books that I think everyone needs to read at least once.\n\n**P.S.** If you’re new here, hey! I’m Thalia.I help burnt-out girlies like you build a life that’s aligned, magnetic, and unapologetically yours. Every week(ish), I share content on burnout recovery, self-development, finding joy, and career growth. [Subscribe here](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/resources\/newsletter\/) so you never miss a debrief.\n\n## The 7 best self-improvement books that changed my life\nSaying that these self-improvement [books have changed my life](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/books-to-survive-the-corporate-grind\/) is not an understatement.\n\nThey have given my life more meaning, boosted my self-awareness and provided me with self-love.\n\nWhenever I read a self-help book, I always underline the words and lines that mean the most to me. I then transfer my underlinings [into Notion](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/notion-how-to-organize-your-life\/), where I can easily access them. And I always find myself coming back to these 7 books and re-reading the quotes I so thoughtfully underlined.\n\nSo it is these 7 self-improvement books that I consider to be the best:\n\n- [Atomic Habits](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Atomic-Habits-Proven-Build-Break\/dp\/1847941834?keywords=atomic+habits&qid=1647956741&s=books&sprefix=atomic%2Cstripbooks%2C298&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=0468c5bd71f34e66228da2955e43b5f4&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by James Clear\n- [The Gifts of Imperfection](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Gifts-Imperfection-Anniversary-Brand-New-paperback\/dp\/1616499605?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1647956829&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ccec3c31fc5dbe6791c30fc6e31b684f&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Brené Brown\n- [Stay & Slay](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/resources\/ebook-stay-and-slay\/) by Thalia-Maria Tourikis\n- [The Mountain Is You](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Mountain-You-Transforming-Self-Sabotage-Self-Mastery-ebook\/dp\/B089DQRDSV?crid=KJLF1DV7HQ4K&keywords=the+mountain+is+you+book&qid=1695307187&sprefix=the+mo%2Caps%2C131&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=e2a6eb70aa527e42b9e57c31e92fef42&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Brianna Wiest\n- [The Daily Stoic](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Daily-Stoic-Meditations-Perseverance-translations\/dp\/1781257655?crid=2LZN8JEF39UE6&keywords=the+daily+stoic&qid=1647957043&s=books&sprefix=the+daily+stoic%2Cstripbooks%2C273&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=f77be232b1aed0c0cd9fe71a8ff07f68&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Ryan Holiday\n- [Start With Why](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Start-Why-Leaders-Inspire-Everyone-ebook\/dp\/B005JZD3B4?crid=KJ51V1ADMT1Q&keywords=start+with+why+simon+sinek&qid=1687577844&sprefix=start+with+%2Caps%2C286&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=7c7b441b063a525107cc06e073415529&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Simon Sinek\n- [Big Magic](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Big-Magic-Creative-Living-Beyond\/dp\/1408866757?crid=WBMSRE5PBC5S&keywords=big+magic&qid=1647956899&s=books&sprefix=big+magiv%2Cstripbooks%2C182&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=60c6e2ba90f7725df360b29f574efe07&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Elizabeth Gilbert\n- [Mindset](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Mindset-Updated-Changing-Fulfil-Potential\/dp\/147213995X?crid=308NSHQG5WV6K&keywords=mindset&qid=1647956959&s=books&sprefix=mindse%2Cstripbooks%2C200&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ff281ed7d93513eb6edc3c5d5a73cb62&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Carol Dweck\n### 1 \\| Atomic Habits by James Clear\nJust as the title says, [Atomic Habits](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Atomic-Habits-Proven-Build-Break\/dp\/1847941834?keywords=atomic+habits&qid=1647956741&s=books&sprefix=atomic%2Cstripbooks%2C298&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=0468c5bd71f34e66228da2955e43b5f4&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) is all about habits. How to build good ones and break bad ones.\n\nYou might be thinking, how can a book on habits be so popular?\n\nJames Clear shows us that habit-building can be easy and fun. It’s not as boring or arduous as you might think.\n\nAnd by making these tiny changes, you are setting yourself up to achieve remarkable results.\n\n#### Highlights\n- Easy to read and digestible\n- The contents of the book are laid out well\n- Includes diagrams\n- Summary at the end of each chapter\n- Tips and advice are all extremely actionable\n- [I’ve previously written a review](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/atomic-habits-book-review\/), so you know it’s worth a read\n- Million copy \\#1 bestseller\n\n[![The book cover atomic habits by James Clear which is one of the best self-improvement books to read](data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iMzI3IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDMyNyA1MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Atomic-Habits-Proven-Build-Break\/dp\/1847941834?keywords=atomic+habits&qid=1647956741&s=books&sprefix=atomic%2Cstripbooks%2C298&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=0468c5bd71f34e66228da2955e43b5f4&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl)\n\n#### My thoughts\n[Atomic Habits](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Atomic-Habits-Proven-Build-Break\/dp\/1847941834?keywords=atomic+habits&qid=1647956741&s=books&sprefix=atomic%2Cstripbooks%2C298&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=0468c5bd71f34e66228da2955e43b5f4&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) has literally changed the way I view habits. I now build habits to work for me rather than against me.\n\nAnd in all honesty, Atomic Habits was actually the motivating factor behind my blog.\n\nBefore I read this book, I was constantly comparing myself to others online and copying what female entrepreneurs were doing to be productive. Long story short, the hustle culture didn’t work for me, and I thought there was something wrong with me.\n\nBut when I read Atomic Habits, James Clear made me feel less alone. It wasn’t the fact that there was something wrong with me; it was the fact that these “productivity hacks from others” didn’t suit my personality.\n\nSo I applied his advice on building habits to my own work ethic. I then started to view productivity as unique to the individual and built it around my own personality and lifestyle.\n\nMy mindful approach to productivity was born, and so was the basis of my blog. I wanted to show others that there is a more sustainable way of working, and this is where it all started.\n\nSo yes, like the cover says, Atomic Habits is truly life-changing\\!\n\n[Buy now](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Atomic-Habits-Proven-Build-Break\/dp\/1847941834?keywords=atomic+habits&qid=1647956741&s=books&sprefix=atomic%2Cstripbooks%2C298&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=0468c5bd71f34e66228da2955e43b5f4&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl)\n\n> “There is a version of every habit that can bring you joy and satisfaction. Find it. Habits need to be enjoyable if they are going to stick… tailoring your habits to your personality is a good start.”\n> \n> James Clear \\| Atomic Habits\n### 2 \\| The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown\nQuite simply put, [The Gifts of Imperfection](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Gifts-Imperfection-Anniversary-Brand-New-paperback\/dp\/1616499605?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1647956829&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ccec3c31fc5dbe6791c30fc6e31b684f&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) teaches us how to live a wholehearted life.\n\nAnd to do that, we need to embrace our flaws, vulnerabilities and imperfections. We need to step into our truth, own our story and live a truly authentic life.\n\nAnd the daily tools needed for this are courage, compassion and connection, our gifts of imperfection.\n\n#### Highlights\n- Actionable and digestible advice\n- Spread out over 10 chapters, otherwise known as guideposts\n- There’s a *dig-deep* section at the end of each guidepost, which encourages you to explore each topic on a deeper level\n- Includes top tips, questions to ask yourself and resources for further reading\n- Space at the back to make a note of the pages that spoke to you the most\n- 10th Anniversary Edition features a foreword by Brené herself\n- [I’ve previously written a review](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/book-review-the-gifts-of-imperfection-by-brene-brown\/), so you know it’s worth a read\n\n[![The book cover of The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown which is one of the best self-improvement books to read](data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iMzMzIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDMzMyA1MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Gifts-Imperfection-Anniversary-Brand-New-paperback\/dp\/1616499605?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1647956829&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ccec3c31fc5dbe6791c30fc6e31b684f&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl)\n\n#### My thoughts\nI’m a devoted Brené Brown fan. I’ve read a few of her books, listened to her podcast and watched her talk on [TED](https:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/brene_brown_the_power_of_vulnerability?language=en) and [Netflix.](https:\/\/www.netflix.com\/search?q=call%20to%20courage&jbv=81010166)\n\nBrené provides me with so much guidance. The guidance that I don’t usually get from other people in my life or from social media.\n\nIn [The Gifts of Imperfection,](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Gifts-Imperfection-Anniversary-Brand-New-paperback\/dp\/1616499605?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1647956829&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ccec3c31fc5dbe6791c30fc6e31b684f&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) Brené Brown proves once again that she has a way with words.\n\nShe speaks directly to the soul and sparks something inside.\n\nI honestly still get shivers from this book.\n\nIt taught me how to start letting go of the things holding me back, like fear, comparison and perfectionism and start cultivating the things I need more of, like intuition, gratitude and laughter.\n\nSeriously, what more do you want from a book?\n\n[Buy now](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Gifts-Imperfection-Anniversary-Brand-New-paperback\/dp\/1616499605?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1647956829&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ccec3c31fc5dbe6791c30fc6e31b684f&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl\\))\n\n> “Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing that we will ever do.”\n> \n> Brené Brown \\| The Gifts of Imperfection\n### 3 \\| Stay & Slay: How To Beat Burnout Without Quitting Your Job\nOkay, so this one is a bit of a shameless plug, but hey, it’s my blog, and I know for a fact that it’s exactly what you need.\n\n[Stay & Slay](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/resources\/ebook-stay-and-slay\/) helps you understand what’s really burning you out and teaches you how to rebuild your energy and confidence in a way that feels realistic, doable, and supportive.\n\nBecause if you ask me, you shouldn’t have to choose between an ambitious career and your well-being. You can have both.\n\n#### Highlights\n- Reflection prompts that help you figure out what’s really burning you out\n- My signature [Anti-Burnout Framework™](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/how-to-beat-burnout-without-quitting-your-job\/) is built into every page, so you have a clear roadmap to follow\n- Actionable and realistic tips to help you navigate and beat burnout for good\n- Hear from my clients who’ve been where you are now and come out stronger\n- Includes a bonus workbook, so you can SLAY-as-you-go and actually put every strategy into action\n- It’s written by me, so you know it’s full of value\n\n[![The cover of an ebook, Stay & Slay; How to beat burnout without quitting your job which is one of the best self-improvement books to read](data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iMzU0IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDM1NCA1MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/resources\/ebook-stay-and-slay\/)\n\n#### My thoughts\n[This is the book](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/resources\/ebook-stay-and-slay\/) I wish I had when I was deep in burnout and thought the only way out was quitting.\n\nDon’t get me wrong, my job was toxic, and I knew I couldn’t stay. But after walking away, it took me another few years to figure out how to recover from burnout and build a [career that actually feels good.](https:\/\/resumewritinglab.com\/career-coaching-resume-service\/)\n\nThis book is everything I learned along the way (minus all the trial and error).\n\n[Buy now](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/resources\/ebook-stay-and-slay\/)\n\n> “It will get better. You will experience better things, meet better people and step into a job (and life) that feels better. You will become better, stronger, and more aligned with who you’re meant to be. Trust the process, because the best is yet to come.”\n> \n> Thalia-Maria Tourikis \\| Stay & Slay\n### 4 \\| The Mountain Is You by Brianna Wiest\nThroughout history, mountains have symbolised big challenges, much like the ones we face within ourselves. This is the message Brianna Wiest brings into [The Mountain Is You.](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Mountain-You-Transforming-Self-Sabotage-Self-Mastery-ebook\/dp\/B089DQRDSV?crid=KJLF1DV7HQ4K&keywords=the+mountain+is+you+book&qid=1695307187&sprefix=the+mo%2Caps%2C131&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=e2a6eb70aa527e42b9e57c31e92fef42&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl)\n\nThis book is your go-to guide to understanding why we hold ourselves back and how to [break free from self-sabotage.](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/how-to-overcome-self-sabotage\/)\n\nThe Mountain Is You will take you on a journey with practical insights and tools to help you unleash your full potential and conquer life’s challenges through “self-mastery”.\n\n#### Highlights\n- A life-changing read which is a must for everyone\n- Explore how you can overcome self-sabotage through self-mastery\n- A well-written book with a supportive and friendly tone of voice\n- Powerful and emotional\n- [I’ve written a book review](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/the-mountain-is-you-by-brianna-wiest-book-review\/), so you know it’s worth a read\n- Reading this book is an act of self-care\n\n[![The book cover of The Mountain Is You by Brianna Wiest which is one of the best self-improvement books to read](data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iMzMzIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDMzMyA1MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Mountain-You-Transforming-Self-Sabotage-Self-Mastery-ebook\/dp\/B089DQRDSV?crid=KJLF1DV7HQ4K&keywords=the+mountain+is+you+book&qid=1695307187&sprefix=the+mo%2Caps%2C131&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=e2a6eb70aa527e42b9e57c31e92fef42&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl)\n\n#### My thoughts\nI’ve been following [Brianna Wiest on Instagram](https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/briannawiest\/) for a while now, and her thoughtful and mindful quotes always set the right tone for my day. They make me stop, think and question how I want to show up for myself that day and in life.\n\nSo if you read any book from this list, make sure it is [The Mountain Is You](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Mountain-You-Transforming-Self-Sabotage-Self-Mastery-ebook\/dp\/B089DQRDSV?crid=KJLF1DV7HQ4K&keywords=the+mountain+is+you+book&qid=1695307187&sprefix=the+mo%2Caps%2C131&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=e2a6eb70aa527e42b9e57c31e92fef42&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) — it will be an act of self-care within itself.\n\n[Buy now](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Mountain-You-Transforming-Self-Sabotage-Self-Mastery-ebook\/dp\/B089DQRDSV?crid=KJLF1DV7HQ4K&keywords=the+mountain+is+you+book&qid=1695307187&sprefix=the+mo%2Caps%2C131&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=e2a6eb70aa527e42b9e57c31e92fef42&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl)\n\n> “If we want to change the world, we change ourselves. If we want to change our lives, we change ourselves. If we want to scale the greatest mountains before us, we change how we arrive at the path.”\n> \n> Brianna Wiest \\| The Mountain Is You\n### 5 \\| The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday\nAdopting a Stoic practice in your life can reduce anxiety, [help you avoid distractions](https:\/\/dailystoic.com\/benefits-stoicism\/) and teach you gratitude. However, there’s so much written on Stoicism that it can be hard to know where to start.\n\nRyan Holiday’s [The Daily Stoic](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Daily-Stoic-Meditations-Perseverance-translations\/dp\/1781257655?crid=2LZN8JEF39UE6&keywords=the+daily+stoic&qid=1647957043&s=books&sprefix=the+daily+stoic%2Cstripbooks%2C273&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=f77be232b1aed0c0cd9fe71a8ff07f68&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) makes learning about Stoicism digestible and intentional.\n\nThis isn’t a typical book as it’s not split into chapters. Instead, The Daily Stoic is separated into a page-a-day to make practising Stoicism more manageable.\n\nEach page features a powerful lesson or quote from the Ancient Stoics, including Marcus Aurelius, the playwright Seneca and philosopher Epictetus, among others.\n\nThese thought-provoking observations help you “to tackle any problem, approach any goal and find the serenity, self-knowledge and resilience you need to live well.” *(The Daily Stoic)*\n\n#### Highlights\n- Includes 366 meditations on wisdom, perseverance and the art of living\n- Features lessons from the Ancient Stoics, including Marcus Aurelius, Seneca and Epictetus\n- Page-a-day guide; no need to read it all in one go\n- It’s dated daily from 1st January to 31st December\n- Daily doses of practical, uplifting philosophy\n- From the best-selling author of [The Obstacle Is The Way](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Obstacle-Way-Ancient-Adversity-Advantage\/dp\/1781251495?pd_rd_w=j0DfE&pf_rd_p=424ee22f-2317-49a5-9cbb-bc8836ac7d96&pf_rd_r=42PDBKQD73N7NES995PE&pd_rd_r=61598966-ae20-4081-8ae5-ce4de8d46f30&pd_rd_wg=FKzmz&pd_rd_i=1781251495&psc=1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=c625b84be50d76c319bf35545f9e0e9e&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl)\n- There’s a guided [Daily Stoic Journal](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Daily-Stoic-Journal-Writing-Reflection\/dp\/1788160231?pd_rd_w=j0DfE&pf_rd_p=424ee22f-2317-49a5-9cbb-bc8836ac7d96&pf_rd_r=42PDBKQD73N7NES995PE&pd_rd_r=61598966-ae20-4081-8ae5-ce4de8d46f30&pd_rd_wg=FKzmz&pd_rd_i=1788160231&psc=1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=1cb9e3810ed90f4555650b54e25cf558&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) that accompanies the book to make it even easier for you to practice mindfulness\n\n[![The book cover of The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday which is one of the best self-improvement books to read](data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iMzI4IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDMyOCA1MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Daily-Stoic-Meditations-Perseverance-translations\/dp\/1781257655?crid=2LZN8JEF39UE6&keywords=the+daily+stoic&qid=1647957043&s=books&sprefix=the+daily+stoic%2Cstripbooks%2C273&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=f77be232b1aed0c0cd9fe71a8ff07f68&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl)\n\n#### My thoughts\nI haven’t finished [The Daily Stoic](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Daily-Stoic-Meditations-Perseverance-translations\/dp\/1781257655?crid=2LZN8JEF39UE6&keywords=the+daily+stoic&qid=1647957043&s=books&sprefix=the+daily+stoic%2Cstripbooks%2C273&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=f77be232b1aed0c0cd9fe71a8ff07f68&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) yet, as it’s a year-long process.\n\nHowever, it’s already been incredibly life-changing for both me and my husband. It has positively impacted our minds in a way where we are learning to ignore the things we can’t control and focus only on what we can change.\n\nSo if you’re looking to cultivate more meaning and self-awareness this year, then The Daily Stoic is the best self-help book for you.\n\n[Buy now](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Daily-Stoic-Meditations-Perseverance-translations\/dp\/1781257655?crid=2LZN8JEF39UE6&keywords=the+daily+stoic&qid=1647957043&s=books&sprefix=the+daily+stoic%2Cstripbooks%2C273&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=f77be232b1aed0c0cd9fe71a8ff07f68&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl)\n\n> “You have power over your mind – not outside events. Realise this, and you will find strength.”\n> \n> Marcus Aurelius\n### 6 \\| Start With Why by Simon Sinek\n[Start With Why](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Start-Why-Leaders-Inspire-Everyone-ebook\/dp\/B005JZD3B4?keywords=start+with+why+simon+sinek&qid=1687583127&sprefix=start+with+%2Caps%2C325&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=29e09e02a8d1b422caf02635fb7d9460&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) explores the fundamental question of why some leaders are able to inspire and motivate others while others struggle to do so.\n\nDrawing on real-life examples (mainly Apple), Simon Sinek explains that the key lies in understanding and communicating the “why” behind our actions — the deep-rooted causes and beliefs that drive us.\n\nWhether you are an aspiring leader, entrepreneur, or simply seeking personal growth, Start With Why provides you with a blueprint for discovering your own *why* and leveraging it to inspire others so you can [live with *real* purpose.](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/how-to-find-your-ikigai\/)\n\n##### Highlights\n- Inspiring quotes you can refer back to again and again\n- Part of a 3-book series which also includes a practical guide to Find Your Why\n- Uses well-known companies and individuals to back up his points, e.g. Martin Luther King Jr.\n- Based on [the life-changing Ted Talk](https:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/simon_sinek_how_great_leaders_inspire_action\/c?language=en)\n- Multi-million-copy bestseller\n\n[![The book cover of Start With Why by Simon Sinek which is one of the best self-improvement books to read](data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iMzI2IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDMyNiA1MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Start-Why-Leaders-Inspire-Everyone-ebook\/dp\/B005JZD3B4?keywords=start+with+why+simon+sinek&qid=1687583127&sprefix=start+with+%2Caps%2C325&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=29e09e02a8d1b422caf02635fb7d9460&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl)\n\n#### My thoughts\nI read [Start With Why](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Start-Why-Leaders-Inspire-Everyone-ebook\/dp\/B005JZD3B4?keywords=start+with+why+simon+sinek&qid=1687583127&sprefix=start+with+%2Caps%2C325&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=29e09e02a8d1b422caf02635fb7d9460&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) during a time when I was figuring out the next steps for *Notes by Thalia* and what I envision for my brand.\n\nThis book has given me the guidance and space I needed to really dig deep and figure out the *core* of what I use this space for and get really clear on my *why*.\n\nIt has [levelled up my productivity](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/best-productivity-books) and given me so much motivation as a result.\n\nIn short, it is a book that has changed the way I show up and has greatly improved my business life. I also think it is a book that everyone needs to read, no matter where you are on your self-discovery journey.\n\nSo, if [you’re feeling a little lost,](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/saturn-return-101\/) then read *Start With Why,* as it will help you find your purpose.\n\n[Buy now](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Start-Why-Leaders-Inspire-Everyone-ebook\/dp\/B005JZD3B4?crid=KJ51V1ADMT1Q&keywords=start+with+why+simon+sinek&qid=1687577844&sprefix=start+with+%2Caps%2C286&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=7c7b441b063a525107cc06e073415529&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl)\n\n> “The work we’re doing now is better than the work we were doing six months ago. And the work we’ll be doing six months from now will be better than the work we’re doing today. Because we wake up every day with a sense of WHY we come to work. We come to work to inspire people to do the things that inspire them.”\n> \n> Simon Sinek \\| Start WIth Why\n### 7 \\| Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert\nElizabeth Gilbert takes on the role of a life coach in [Big Magic.](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Big-Magic-Creative-Living-Beyond\/dp\/1408866757?crid=WBMSRE5PBC5S&keywords=big+magic&qid=1647956899&s=books&sprefix=big+magiv%2Cstripbooks%2C182&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=60c6e2ba90f7725df360b29f574efe07&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl)\n\nShe shares her unique perspective on living a creative life that is led by curiosity and not by fear. Big Magic consists of Gilbert’s past life lessons, real stories and her timeless wisdom to draw out a road map of how we can gain the courage to pursue our own creative endeavours.\n\n#### Highlights\n- Not your typical boring self-help book\n- Features a bright, colourful cover which will look great on any bookshelf\n- More like a guidebook teaching you how to deal with your doubts, how to observe ideas and how to act upon them without fear\n- Gilbert writes as though she is writing to a friend\n- Matter-of-fact, screw-the-norm tone of voice\n- Written by the author of the international bestseller [Eat Pray Love](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Eat-Pray-Love-Womans-Everything\/dp\/0747585660?crid=AUHJY20DFUXK&keywords=eat+pray+love+book&qid=1647977782&sprefix=eat+pray+love%2Caps%2C238&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=52c167d9a62359659826a7cf31e3a416&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl)\n\n[![The book cover of Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert which is one of the best self-improvement books to read](data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iMzA3IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDMwNyA1MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Big-Magic-Creative-Living-Beyond\/dp\/1408866757?crid=WBMSRE5PBC5S&keywords=big+magic&qid=1647956899&s=books&sprefix=big+magiv%2Cstripbooks%2C182&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=60c6e2ba90f7725df360b29f574efe07&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl)\n\n#### My thoughts\n[Big Magic](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Big-Magic-Creative-Living-Beyond\/dp\/1408866757?crid=WBMSRE5PBC5S&keywords=big+magic&qid=1647956899&s=books&sprefix=big+magiv%2Cstripbooks%2C182&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=60c6e2ba90f7725df360b29f574efe07&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) taught me that I should never feel embarrassed about building a creative business. I’m doing it for me, because I enjoy being creative, and that is all that matters.\n\nThere seems to be such a stigma around creative work, and I’m glad Elizabeth Gilbert has finally spoken up about the fact that it should be treated the same as non-creative work.\n\nSo, if you feel like you’re hiding your true creative self, then read Big Magic and cultivate the creativity you need to live a life that is truly your own.\n\n[Buy now](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Big-Magic-Creative-Living-Beyond\/dp\/1408866757?crid=WBMSRE5PBC5S&keywords=big+magic&qid=1647956899&s=books&sprefix=big+magiv%2Cstripbooks%2C182&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=60c6e2ba90f7725df360b29f574efe07&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl)\n\n> “Always remember that people’s judgements about you, are none of your business.”\n> \n> Elizabeth Gilbert \\| Big Magic\n### 8 \\| Mindset by Carol Dweck\n[Mindset by Carol Dweck](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Mindset-Updated-Changing-Fulfil-Potential\/dp\/147213995X?crid=308NSHQG5WV6K&keywords=mindset&qid=1647956959&s=books&sprefix=mindse%2Cstripbooks%2C200&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ff281ed7d93513eb6edc3c5d5a73cb62&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) is a fundamental book that everyone should read.\n\nIt explores the power of our mindset and how success doesn’t just depend on our abilities or talent but rather on how we approach our goals: with a fixed or growth mindset⁣.\n\nThis book is all about changing the way we think to fulfil our potential.\n\n#### Highlights\n- The whole book is simply mind-blowing\n- Explore the difference between a fixed and growth mindset\n- Includes chapters for every area of our life\n- Uses well-known and famous people as examples to back up her points e.g. Michael Jordan\n- Includes diagrams\n- The book has recently been updated\n- [I’ve previously written a review](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/mindset-book-review\/), so you know it’s worth a read\n\n[![The book cover of Mindset by Carol Dweck which is one of the best self-improvement books to read](data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iMzE4IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDMxOCA1MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Mindset-Updated-Changing-Fulfil-Potential\/dp\/147213995X?crid=308NSHQG5WV6K&keywords=mindset&qid=1647956959&s=books&sprefix=mindse%2Cstripbooks%2C200&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ff281ed7d93513eb6edc3c5d5a73cb62&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl)\n\n#### My thoughts\nI must admit that I was slightly apprehensive about reading [this book at first.](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Mindset-Updated-Changing-Fulfil-Potential\/dp\/147213995X?crid=308NSHQG5WV6K&keywords=mindset&qid=1647956959&s=books&sprefix=mindse%2Cstripbooks%2C200&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ff281ed7d93513eb6edc3c5d5a73cb62&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl)\n\nCarol is one of the world’s leading researchers in personality and social and developmental psychology, so I felt that it would be highly academic and difficult to understand.\n\nBut it’s the complete opposite. Carol wanted this book to be digestible and easy to follow.\n\nAnd that’s exactly what it is.\n\nSo if you’re going to buy one of the self-help books from this list, make sure it’s this one, and invest in your mindset.\n\n[Buy now](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Mindset-Updated-Changing-Fulfil-Potential\/dp\/147213995X?crid=308NSHQG5WV6K&keywords=mindset&qid=1647956959&s=books&sprefix=mindse%2Cstripbooks%2C200&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ff281ed7d93513eb6edc3c5d5a73cb62&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl)\n\n> “Mindsets are just beliefs. They’re powerful beliefs, but they’re just something in your mind, and you can change your mind.”\n> \n> Carol Dweck \\| Mindset\n## Why read self-improvement books?\nSelf-improvement books lead to positive change.\n\nThey help you [learn more about yourself](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/future-self-journaling-prompts\/) while also providing you with the guidance and skills you need to help improve different areas of your life.\n\nI honestly wouldn’t be the person I am today without the help of these books.\n\nBrené Brown has worked wonders on my mind, soul and well-being. James Clear has changed my entire perspective on habits and what it means to be productive. Elizabeth Gilbert has provided me with the confidence I need to continue pursuing my creative business. Carol Dweck has opened up my eyes to what it means to truly [have a growth mindset.](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/how-to-cultivate-a-positive-and-resilient-mindset\/) Simon Sinek has changed the way I show up in my business.\n\nAnd I continue to look inward as I learn more about how Stoicism and self-mastery can change my thinking for the better.\n\n#### In a rush? Save this list on Pinterest for later\\!\n[![The 7 best self-development books infographic including the book cover images of Atomic Habits by James Clear, The Gifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown, Mindset by Carol Dweck, The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday, Start With Why by Simon Sinek, Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert and The Mountain Is You By Brianna Wiest on beige solid circles and black italic text](data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iNjY3IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMDAiIHZpZXdCb3g9IjAgMCA2NjcgMTAwMCI+PHJlY3Qgd2lkdGg9IjEwMCUiIGhlaWdodD0iMTAwJSIgc3R5bGU9ImZpbGw6I2UyZTVlOTtmaWxsLW9wYWNpdHk6IDAuMTsiLz48L3N2Zz4=)](https:\/\/uk.pinterest.com\/pin\/366832332170027853\/)\n\n## Final thoughts\nI hope you feel inspired by this post and have the motivation to kickstart your self-development journey. Or continue the one you’re already on.\n\nIf you’re looking [to become your best self,](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/how-to-become-your-best-self\/) then I honestly can’t recommend these self-improvement books enough.\n\nThey will provide you with the guidance and awareness you need to grow.\n\nAnd just to recap, the books I mentioned in this post are:\n\n1. [Atomic Habits](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Atomic-Habits-Proven-Build-Break\/dp\/1847941834?keywords=atomic+habits&qid=1647956741&s=books&sprefix=atomic%2Cstripbooks%2C298&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=0468c5bd71f34e66228da2955e43b5f4&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by James Clear\n2. [The Gifts of Imperfection](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Gifts-Imperfection-Anniversary-Brand-New-paperback\/dp\/1616499605?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1647956829&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ccec3c31fc5dbe6791c30fc6e31b684f&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Brené Brown\n3. [Stay & Slay](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/resources\/ebook-stay-and-slay\/) by Thalia-Maria Tourikis\n4. [The Mountain Is You](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Mountain-You-Transforming-Self-Sabotage-Self-Mastery-ebook\/dp\/B089DQRDSV?crid=KJLF1DV7HQ4K&keywords=the+mountain+is+you+book&qid=1695307187&sprefix=the+mo%2Caps%2C131&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=e2a6eb70aa527e42b9e57c31e92fef42&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Brianna Wiest\n5. [The Daily Stoic](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Daily-Stoic-Meditations-Perseverance-translations\/dp\/1781257655?crid=2LZN8JEF39UE6&keywords=the+daily+stoic&qid=1647957043&s=books&sprefix=the+daily+stoic%2Cstripbooks%2C273&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=f77be232b1aed0c0cd9fe71a8ff07f68&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Ryan Holiday\n6. [Start With Why](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Start-Why-Leaders-Inspire-Everyone-ebook\/dp\/B005JZD3B4?crid=KJ51V1ADMT1Q&keywords=start+with+why+simon+sinek&qid=1687577844&sprefix=start+with+%2Caps%2C286&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=7c7b441b063a525107cc06e073415529&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Simon Sinek\n7. [Big Magic](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Big-Magic-Creative-Living-Beyond\/dp\/1408866757?crid=WBMSRE5PBC5S&keywords=big+magic&qid=1647956899&s=books&sprefix=big+magiv%2Cstripbooks%2C182&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=60c6e2ba90f7725df360b29f574efe07&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Elizabeth Gilbert\n8. [Mindset](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Mindset-Updated-Changing-Fulfil-Potential\/dp\/147213995X?crid=308NSHQG5WV6K&keywords=mindset&qid=1647956959&s=books&sprefix=mindse%2Cstripbooks%2C200&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ff281ed7d93513eb6edc3c5d5a73cb62&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Carol Dweck\n\nI can’t wait to hear if you end up reading one of these books. Hopefully, you will fall in love with them just much as I have, and continue to turn to them in times of need.\n\nUntil next week,\n\nThalia xx\n\n**Just a heads up:** Notes by Thalia is reader-supported. This means that instead of running Ads, I occasionally write blog posts that contain affiliate links, and this is one of those posts. If you make a purchase using the links above, then I will be rewarded at no extra cost to you. Thank you, as always, for your support.\n\nTags: [Books](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/tag\/books\/), [Resources](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/tag\/resources\/), [Self-Development](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/tag\/self-development\/)\n\nHey! It's Thalia\n\nI'm a Certified Health Coach and the creator of Notes by Thalia — a self-development blog that helps over one million girlies beat burnout and unf\\*ck their life without starting over. Having navigated the toxic fashion industry in my 20s and come out stronger, I'm now sharing everything (and I mean, everything!!) I've learnt along the way.\n\n[Read my book](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/resources\/ebook-stay-and-slay\/)\n\n![Professional headshot taken of the author of Notes by Thalia, Thalia posing to the camera with a smile and her hand resting on her chin](data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iNDAwIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjQwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDQwMCA0MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)\n\n## You'll also love\n- ### [101 Things To Say at Work When You’re Stressed But Don’t Want To Be a Bitch](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/things-to-say-at-work\/)\n  May 26th, 2025\n  \n  Dive In\n  \n  ![Aesthetic stock image showing a woman meditating on the bed with an open notebook in front of her. The image is purely for decorative use only to support the blog post on things to say at work when you’re stressed out](data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iNzY4IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUzMiIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDc2OCA1MzIiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)\n- ### [The 5 Best Intelligent Change Products To Help You Become More Intentional](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/best-intelligent-change-products\/)\n  January 26th, 2023\n  \n  Dive In\n  \n  ![Aesthetic flatlay image of two of Intelligent Change’s best products including The Five Minute Journal and The Productivity Planner. 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I do not have confidence in myself like something I don’t know.  \n   I wanna be able to speak before a great number of people\n  - #### Thalia\n    [4 weeks ago](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/best-self-improvement-books\/#comment-1060)  [Reply](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/best-self-improvement-books\/?replytocom=1060#respond)\n    \n    Building confidence takes time, but it’s definitely doable 😊 Start small by speaking out loud to the mirror, practicing in front of smaller groups first, then gradually work your way up. The more you do it, the more confident you’ll feel. You’ve got this\\!\n- #### L.H.Weiss,\n  [4 months ago](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/best-self-improvement-books\/#comment-1030)  [Reply](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/best-self-improvement-books\/?replytocom=1030#respond)\n  \n  “Think & Grow Rich” Napolean Hill  \n   Positive Mental Attitude, Dale Carnegie, Master the Game,  \n   Tony Robbins, Sermon on the  \n   Mount, Jesus….\n- #### Tammie\n  [8 months ago](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/best-self-improvement-books\/#comment-972)  [Reply](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/best-self-improvement-books\/?replytocom=972#respond)\n  \n  These sound like amazing books.\n- #### Naomi Oghene-udi\n  [8 months ago](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/best-self-improvement-books\/#comment-968)  [Reply](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/best-self-improvement-books\/?replytocom=968#respond)\n  \n  I love to be reading the seven books listed above for free\n### Leave a comment [(Cancel Reply)](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/best-self-improvement-books\/#respond)\n\n## Never miss a debrief\nJoin thousands of burnt out girlies getting the latest, unfiltered advice in their inbox every Friday.\n\n## Ready to get your shit together? 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From Atomic Habits teaching you how to make lasting changes, to The Gifts of Imperfection helping you embrace your flaws—each book has the power to shift how you think, work, and live.\n\n![Aesthetic stock image showing a beige in door plant feature on top of a white hardback book. The image is purely for decorative use only to support the blog post on the best self-improvement books](data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iNzY4IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUzMiIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDc2OCA1MzIiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)\n\n**From as young as I can remember, I’ve always loved reading.**\n\n**Books allow me to tap into my imagination and escape into another world.**\n\nBut since starting my online business, I no longer have a monogamous relationship with fiction books. I now find myself gravitating more towards the personal development and self-help aisle [rather than beach reads.](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/best-contemporary-fiction-books\/)\n\nYes, reading self-help books can sometimes feel like a chore. Personal development is exhausting at times and sometimes seems quite arduous. But for me, there is something about reading these types of books.\n\nThey fill me with positive energy.\n\nBy the closing chapter, I feel somewhat accomplished. I say to myself, “I managed to finish this hefty book, I’m clearly capable of something!” It makes me feel motivated and inspired to start improving and growing as a person.\n\nSo while reading [my latest non-fiction](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/the-let-them-theory-mel-robbins-book-review\/), I reflected on the other self-help books I’ve read in the past couple of years. There were some that I loved, and some that I didn’t love so much. And there were some that provided me with guidance at a time when I needed it most.\n\nIt’s these self-improvement books that have stayed with me and changed my life for the better.\n\nSo I wanted to share them with you in the hopes that they will also inspire you on your personal development journey.\n\nHere are the 7 best self-improvement books that I think everyone needs to read at least once.\n\n**P.S.** If you’re new here, hey! I’m Thalia.I help burnt-out girlies like you build a life that’s aligned, magnetic, and unapologetically yours. Every week(ish), I share content on burnout recovery, self-development, finding joy, and career growth. [Subscribe here](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/resources\/newsletter\/) so you never miss a debrief.\n\nSaying that these self-improvement [books have changed my life](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/books-to-survive-the-corporate-grind\/) is not an understatement.\n\nThey have given my life more meaning, boosted my self-awareness and provided me with self-love.\n\nWhenever I read a self-help book, I always underline the words and lines that mean the most to me. I then transfer my underlinings [into Notion](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/notion-how-to-organize-your-life\/), where I can easily access them. And I always find myself coming back to these 7 books and re-reading the quotes I so thoughtfully underlined.\n\nSo it is these 7 self-improvement books that I consider to be the best:\n\n- [Atomic Habits](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Atomic-Habits-Proven-Build-Break\/dp\/1847941834?keywords=atomic+habits&qid=1647956741&s=books&sprefix=atomic%2Cstripbooks%2C298&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=0468c5bd71f34e66228da2955e43b5f4&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by James Clear\n- [The Gifts of Imperfection](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Gifts-Imperfection-Anniversary-Brand-New-paperback\/dp\/1616499605?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1647956829&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ccec3c31fc5dbe6791c30fc6e31b684f&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Brené Brown\n- [Stay & Slay](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/resources\/ebook-stay-and-slay\/) by Thalia-Maria Tourikis\n- [The Mountain Is You](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Mountain-You-Transforming-Self-Sabotage-Self-Mastery-ebook\/dp\/B089DQRDSV?crid=KJLF1DV7HQ4K&keywords=the+mountain+is+you+book&qid=1695307187&sprefix=the+mo%2Caps%2C131&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=e2a6eb70aa527e42b9e57c31e92fef42&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Brianna Wiest\n- [The Daily Stoic](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Daily-Stoic-Meditations-Perseverance-translations\/dp\/1781257655?crid=2LZN8JEF39UE6&keywords=the+daily+stoic&qid=1647957043&s=books&sprefix=the+daily+stoic%2Cstripbooks%2C273&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=f77be232b1aed0c0cd9fe71a8ff07f68&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Ryan Holiday\n- [Start With Why](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Start-Why-Leaders-Inspire-Everyone-ebook\/dp\/B005JZD3B4?crid=KJ51V1ADMT1Q&keywords=start+with+why+simon+sinek&qid=1687577844&sprefix=start+with+%2Caps%2C286&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=7c7b441b063a525107cc06e073415529&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Simon Sinek\n- [Big Magic](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Big-Magic-Creative-Living-Beyond\/dp\/1408866757?crid=WBMSRE5PBC5S&keywords=big+magic&qid=1647956899&s=books&sprefix=big+magiv%2Cstripbooks%2C182&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=60c6e2ba90f7725df360b29f574efe07&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Elizabeth Gilbert\n- [Mindset](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Mindset-Updated-Changing-Fulfil-Potential\/dp\/147213995X?crid=308NSHQG5WV6K&keywords=mindset&qid=1647956959&s=books&sprefix=mindse%2Cstripbooks%2C200&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ff281ed7d93513eb6edc3c5d5a73cb62&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Carol Dweck\n### 1 \\| Atomic Habits by James Clear\nJust as the title says, [Atomic Habits](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Atomic-Habits-Proven-Build-Break\/dp\/1847941834?keywords=atomic+habits&qid=1647956741&s=books&sprefix=atomic%2Cstripbooks%2C298&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=0468c5bd71f34e66228da2955e43b5f4&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) is all about habits. How to build good ones and break bad ones.\n\nYou might be thinking, how can a book on habits be so popular?\n\nJames Clear shows us that habit-building can be easy and fun. It’s not as boring or arduous as you might think.\n\nAnd by making these tiny changes, you are setting yourself up to achieve remarkable results.\n\n#### Highlights\n- Easy to read and digestible\n- The contents of the book are laid out well\n- Includes diagrams\n- Summary at the end of each chapter\n- Tips and advice are all extremely actionable\n- [I’ve previously written a review](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/atomic-habits-book-review\/), so you know it’s worth a read\n- Million copy \\#1 bestseller\n\n[![The book cover atomic habits by James Clear which is one of the best self-improvement books to read](data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iMzI3IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDMyNyA1MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Atomic-Habits-Proven-Build-Break\/dp\/1847941834?keywords=atomic+habits&qid=1647956741&s=books&sprefix=atomic%2Cstripbooks%2C298&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=0468c5bd71f34e66228da2955e43b5f4&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl)\n\n#### My thoughts\n[Atomic Habits](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Atomic-Habits-Proven-Build-Break\/dp\/1847941834?keywords=atomic+habits&qid=1647956741&s=books&sprefix=atomic%2Cstripbooks%2C298&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=0468c5bd71f34e66228da2955e43b5f4&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) has literally changed the way I view habits. I now build habits to work for me rather than against me.\n\nAnd in all honesty, Atomic Habits was actually the motivating factor behind my blog.\n\nBefore I read this book, I was constantly comparing myself to others online and copying what female entrepreneurs were doing to be productive. Long story short, the hustle culture didn’t work for me, and I thought there was something wrong with me.\n\nBut when I read Atomic Habits, James Clear made me feel less alone. It wasn’t the fact that there was something wrong with me; it was the fact that these “productivity hacks from others” didn’t suit my personality.\n\nSo I applied his advice on building habits to my own work ethic. I then started to view productivity as unique to the individual and built it around my own personality and lifestyle.\n\nMy mindful approach to productivity was born, and so was the basis of my blog. I wanted to show others that there is a more sustainable way of working, and this is where it all started.\n\nSo yes, like the cover says, Atomic Habits is truly life-changing\\!\n\n> “There is a version of every habit that can bring you joy and satisfaction. Find it. Habits need to be enjoyable if they are going to stick… tailoring your habits to your personality is a good start.”\n> \n> James Clear \\| Atomic Habits\n### 2 \\| The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown\nQuite simply put, [The Gifts of Imperfection](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Gifts-Imperfection-Anniversary-Brand-New-paperback\/dp\/1616499605?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1647956829&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ccec3c31fc5dbe6791c30fc6e31b684f&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) teaches us how to live a wholehearted life.\n\nAnd to do that, we need to embrace our flaws, vulnerabilities and imperfections. We need to step into our truth, own our story and live a truly authentic life.\n\nAnd the daily tools needed for this are courage, compassion and connection, our gifts of imperfection.\n\n#### Highlights\n- Actionable and digestible advice\n- Spread out over 10 chapters, otherwise known as guideposts\n- There’s a *dig-deep* section at the end of each guidepost, which encourages you to explore each topic on a deeper level\n- Includes top tips, questions to ask yourself and resources for further reading\n- Space at the back to make a note of the pages that spoke to you the most\n- 10th Anniversary Edition features a foreword by Brené herself\n- [I’ve previously written a review](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/book-review-the-gifts-of-imperfection-by-brene-brown\/), so you know it’s worth a read\n\n[![The book cover of The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown which is one of the best self-improvement books to read](data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iMzMzIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDMzMyA1MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Gifts-Imperfection-Anniversary-Brand-New-paperback\/dp\/1616499605?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1647956829&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ccec3c31fc5dbe6791c30fc6e31b684f&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl)\n\n#### My thoughts\nI’m a devoted Brené Brown fan. I’ve read a few of her books, listened to her podcast and watched her talk on [TED](https:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/brene_brown_the_power_of_vulnerability?language=en) and [Netflix.](https:\/\/www.netflix.com\/search?q=call%20to%20courage&jbv=81010166)\n\nBrené provides me with so much guidance. The guidance that I don’t usually get from other people in my life or from social media.\n\nIn [The Gifts of Imperfection,](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Gifts-Imperfection-Anniversary-Brand-New-paperback\/dp\/1616499605?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1647956829&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ccec3c31fc5dbe6791c30fc6e31b684f&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) Brené Brown proves once again that she has a way with words.\n\nShe speaks directly to the soul and sparks something inside.\n\nI honestly still get shivers from this book.\n\nIt taught me how to start letting go of the things holding me back, like fear, comparison and perfectionism and start cultivating the things I need more of, like intuition, gratitude and laughter.\n\nSeriously, what more do you want from a book?\n\n> “Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing that we will ever do.”\n> \n> Brené Brown \\| The Gifts of Imperfection\n### 3 \\| Stay & Slay: How To Beat Burnout Without Quitting Your Job\nOkay, so this one is a bit of a shameless plug, but hey, it’s my blog, and I know for a fact that it’s exactly what you need.\n\n[Stay & Slay](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/resources\/ebook-stay-and-slay\/) helps you understand what’s really burning you out and teaches you how to rebuild your energy and confidence in a way that feels realistic, doable, and supportive.\n\nBecause if you ask me, you shouldn’t have to choose between an ambitious career and your well-being. You can have both.\n\n#### Highlights\n- Reflection prompts that help you figure out what’s really burning you out\n- My signature [Anti-Burnout Framework™](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/how-to-beat-burnout-without-quitting-your-job\/) is built into every page, so you have a clear roadmap to follow\n- Actionable and realistic tips to help you navigate and beat burnout for good\n- Hear from my clients who’ve been where you are now and come out stronger\n- Includes a bonus workbook, so you can SLAY-as-you-go and actually put every strategy into action\n- It’s written by me, so you know it’s full of value\n\n[![The cover of an ebook, Stay & Slay; How to beat burnout without quitting your job which is one of the best self-improvement books to read](data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iMzU0IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDM1NCA1MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/resources\/ebook-stay-and-slay\/)\n\n#### My thoughts\n[This is the book](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/resources\/ebook-stay-and-slay\/) I wish I had when I was deep in burnout and thought the only way out was quitting.\n\nDon’t get me wrong, my job was toxic, and I knew I couldn’t stay. But after walking away, it took me another few years to figure out how to recover from burnout and build a [career that actually feels good.](https:\/\/resumewritinglab.com\/career-coaching-resume-service\/)\n\nThis book is everything I learned along the way (minus all the trial and error).\n\n> “It will get better. You will experience better things, meet better people and step into a job (and life) that feels better. You will become better, stronger, and more aligned with who you’re meant to be. Trust the process, because the best is yet to come.”\n> \n> Thalia-Maria Tourikis \\| Stay & Slay\n### 4 \\| The Mountain Is You by Brianna Wiest\nThroughout history, mountains have symbolised big challenges, much like the ones we face within ourselves. This is the message Brianna Wiest brings into [The Mountain Is You.](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Mountain-You-Transforming-Self-Sabotage-Self-Mastery-ebook\/dp\/B089DQRDSV?crid=KJLF1DV7HQ4K&keywords=the+mountain+is+you+book&qid=1695307187&sprefix=the+mo%2Caps%2C131&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=e2a6eb70aa527e42b9e57c31e92fef42&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl)\n\nThis book is your go-to guide to understanding why we hold ourselves back and how to [break free from self-sabotage.](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/how-to-overcome-self-sabotage\/)\n\nThe Mountain Is You will take you on a journey with practical insights and tools to help you unleash your full potential and conquer life’s challenges through “self-mastery”.\n\n#### Highlights\n- A life-changing read which is a must for everyone\n- Explore how you can overcome self-sabotage through self-mastery\n- A well-written book with a supportive and friendly tone of voice\n- Powerful and emotional\n- [I’ve written a book review](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/the-mountain-is-you-by-brianna-wiest-book-review\/), so you know it’s worth a read\n- Reading this book is an act of self-care\n\n[![The book cover of The Mountain Is You by Brianna Wiest which is one of the best self-improvement books to read](data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iMzMzIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDMzMyA1MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Mountain-You-Transforming-Self-Sabotage-Self-Mastery-ebook\/dp\/B089DQRDSV?crid=KJLF1DV7HQ4K&keywords=the+mountain+is+you+book&qid=1695307187&sprefix=the+mo%2Caps%2C131&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=e2a6eb70aa527e42b9e57c31e92fef42&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl)\n\n#### My thoughts\nI’ve been following [Brianna Wiest on Instagram](https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/briannawiest\/) for a while now, and her thoughtful and mindful quotes always set the right tone for my day. They make me stop, think and question how I want to show up for myself that day and in life.\n\nSo if you read any book from this list, make sure it is [The Mountain Is You](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Mountain-You-Transforming-Self-Sabotage-Self-Mastery-ebook\/dp\/B089DQRDSV?crid=KJLF1DV7HQ4K&keywords=the+mountain+is+you+book&qid=1695307187&sprefix=the+mo%2Caps%2C131&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=e2a6eb70aa527e42b9e57c31e92fef42&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) — it will be an act of self-care within itself.\n\n> “If we want to change the world, we change ourselves. If we want to change our lives, we change ourselves. If we want to scale the greatest mountains before us, we change how we arrive at the path.”\n> \n> Brianna Wiest \\| The Mountain Is You\n### 5 \\| The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday\nAdopting a Stoic practice in your life can reduce anxiety, [help you avoid distractions](https:\/\/dailystoic.com\/benefits-stoicism\/) and teach you gratitude. However, there’s so much written on Stoicism that it can be hard to know where to start.\n\nRyan Holiday’s [The Daily Stoic](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Daily-Stoic-Meditations-Perseverance-translations\/dp\/1781257655?crid=2LZN8JEF39UE6&keywords=the+daily+stoic&qid=1647957043&s=books&sprefix=the+daily+stoic%2Cstripbooks%2C273&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=f77be232b1aed0c0cd9fe71a8ff07f68&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) makes learning about Stoicism digestible and intentional.\n\nThis isn’t a typical book as it’s not split into chapters. Instead, The Daily Stoic is separated into a page-a-day to make practising Stoicism more manageable.\n\nEach page features a powerful lesson or quote from the Ancient Stoics, including Marcus Aurelius, the playwright Seneca and philosopher Epictetus, among others.\n\nThese thought-provoking observations help you “to tackle any problem, approach any goal and find the serenity, self-knowledge and resilience you need to live well.” *(The Daily Stoic)*\n\n#### Highlights\n- Includes 366 meditations on wisdom, perseverance and the art of living\n- Features lessons from the Ancient Stoics, including Marcus Aurelius, Seneca and Epictetus\n- Page-a-day guide; no need to read it all in one go\n- It’s dated daily from 1st January to 31st December\n- Daily doses of practical, uplifting philosophy\n- From the best-selling author of [The Obstacle Is The Way](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Obstacle-Way-Ancient-Adversity-Advantage\/dp\/1781251495?pd_rd_w=j0DfE&pf_rd_p=424ee22f-2317-49a5-9cbb-bc8836ac7d96&pf_rd_r=42PDBKQD73N7NES995PE&pd_rd_r=61598966-ae20-4081-8ae5-ce4de8d46f30&pd_rd_wg=FKzmz&pd_rd_i=1781251495&psc=1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=c625b84be50d76c319bf35545f9e0e9e&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl)\n- There’s a guided [Daily Stoic Journal](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Daily-Stoic-Journal-Writing-Reflection\/dp\/1788160231?pd_rd_w=j0DfE&pf_rd_p=424ee22f-2317-49a5-9cbb-bc8836ac7d96&pf_rd_r=42PDBKQD73N7NES995PE&pd_rd_r=61598966-ae20-4081-8ae5-ce4de8d46f30&pd_rd_wg=FKzmz&pd_rd_i=1788160231&psc=1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=1cb9e3810ed90f4555650b54e25cf558&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) that accompanies the book to make it even easier for you to practice mindfulness\n\n[![The book cover of The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday which is one of the best self-improvement books to read](data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iMzI4IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDMyOCA1MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Daily-Stoic-Meditations-Perseverance-translations\/dp\/1781257655?crid=2LZN8JEF39UE6&keywords=the+daily+stoic&qid=1647957043&s=books&sprefix=the+daily+stoic%2Cstripbooks%2C273&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=f77be232b1aed0c0cd9fe71a8ff07f68&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl)\n\n#### My thoughts\nI haven’t finished [The Daily Stoic](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Daily-Stoic-Meditations-Perseverance-translations\/dp\/1781257655?crid=2LZN8JEF39UE6&keywords=the+daily+stoic&qid=1647957043&s=books&sprefix=the+daily+stoic%2Cstripbooks%2C273&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=f77be232b1aed0c0cd9fe71a8ff07f68&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) yet, as it’s a year-long process.\n\nHowever, it’s already been incredibly life-changing for both me and my husband. It has positively impacted our minds in a way where we are learning to ignore the things we can’t control and focus only on what we can change.\n\nSo if you’re looking to cultivate more meaning and self-awareness this year, then The Daily Stoic is the best self-help book for you.\n\n> “You have power over your mind – not outside events. Realise this, and you will find strength.”\n> \n> Marcus Aurelius\n### 6 \\| Start With Why by Simon Sinek\n[Start With Why](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Start-Why-Leaders-Inspire-Everyone-ebook\/dp\/B005JZD3B4?keywords=start+with+why+simon+sinek&qid=1687583127&sprefix=start+with+%2Caps%2C325&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=29e09e02a8d1b422caf02635fb7d9460&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) explores the fundamental question of why some leaders are able to inspire and motivate others while others struggle to do so.\n\nDrawing on real-life examples (mainly Apple), Simon Sinek explains that the key lies in understanding and communicating the “why” behind our actions — the deep-rooted causes and beliefs that drive us.\n\nWhether you are an aspiring leader, entrepreneur, or simply seeking personal growth, Start With Why provides you with a blueprint for discovering your own *why* and leveraging it to inspire others so you can [live with *real* purpose.](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/how-to-find-your-ikigai\/)\n\n##### Highlights\n- Inspiring quotes you can refer back to again and again\n- Part of a 3-book series which also includes a practical guide to Find Your Why\n- Uses well-known companies and individuals to back up his points, e.g. Martin Luther King Jr.\n- Based on [the life-changing Ted Talk](https:\/\/www.ted.com\/talks\/simon_sinek_how_great_leaders_inspire_action\/c?language=en)\n- Multi-million-copy bestseller\n\n[![The book cover of Start With Why by Simon Sinek which is one of the best self-improvement books to read](data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iMzI2IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDMyNiA1MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Start-Why-Leaders-Inspire-Everyone-ebook\/dp\/B005JZD3B4?keywords=start+with+why+simon+sinek&qid=1687583127&sprefix=start+with+%2Caps%2C325&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=29e09e02a8d1b422caf02635fb7d9460&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl)\n\n#### My thoughts\nI read [Start With Why](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Start-Why-Leaders-Inspire-Everyone-ebook\/dp\/B005JZD3B4?keywords=start+with+why+simon+sinek&qid=1687583127&sprefix=start+with+%2Caps%2C325&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=29e09e02a8d1b422caf02635fb7d9460&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) during a time when I was figuring out the next steps for *Notes by Thalia* and what I envision for my brand.\n\nThis book has given me the guidance and space I needed to really dig deep and figure out the *core* of what I use this space for and get really clear on my *why*.\n\nIt has [levelled up my productivity](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/best-productivity-books) and given me so much motivation as a result.\n\nIn short, it is a book that has changed the way I show up and has greatly improved my business life. I also think it is a book that everyone needs to read, no matter where you are on your self-discovery journey.\n\nSo, if [you’re feeling a little lost,](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/saturn-return-101\/) then read *Start With Why,* as it will help you find your purpose.\n\n> “The work we’re doing now is better than the work we were doing six months ago. And the work we’ll be doing six months from now will be better than the work we’re doing today. Because we wake up every day with a sense of WHY we come to work. We come to work to inspire people to do the things that inspire them.”\n> \n> Simon Sinek \\| Start WIth Why\n### 7 \\| Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert\nElizabeth Gilbert takes on the role of a life coach in [Big Magic.](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Big-Magic-Creative-Living-Beyond\/dp\/1408866757?crid=WBMSRE5PBC5S&keywords=big+magic&qid=1647956899&s=books&sprefix=big+magiv%2Cstripbooks%2C182&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=60c6e2ba90f7725df360b29f574efe07&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl)\n\nShe shares her unique perspective on living a creative life that is led by curiosity and not by fear. Big Magic consists of Gilbert’s past life lessons, real stories and her timeless wisdom to draw out a road map of how we can gain the courage to pursue our own creative endeavours.\n\n#### Highlights\n- Not your typical boring self-help book\n- Features a bright, colourful cover which will look great on any bookshelf\n- More like a guidebook teaching you how to deal with your doubts, how to observe ideas and how to act upon them without fear\n- Gilbert writes as though she is writing to a friend\n- Matter-of-fact, screw-the-norm tone of voice\n- Written by the author of the international bestseller [Eat Pray Love](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Eat-Pray-Love-Womans-Everything\/dp\/0747585660?crid=AUHJY20DFUXK&keywords=eat+pray+love+book&qid=1647977782&sprefix=eat+pray+love%2Caps%2C238&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=52c167d9a62359659826a7cf31e3a416&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl)\n\n[![The book cover of Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert which is one of the best self-improvement books to read](data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iMzA3IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDMwNyA1MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Big-Magic-Creative-Living-Beyond\/dp\/1408866757?crid=WBMSRE5PBC5S&keywords=big+magic&qid=1647956899&s=books&sprefix=big+magiv%2Cstripbooks%2C182&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=60c6e2ba90f7725df360b29f574efe07&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl)\n\n#### My thoughts\n[Big Magic](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Big-Magic-Creative-Living-Beyond\/dp\/1408866757?crid=WBMSRE5PBC5S&keywords=big+magic&qid=1647956899&s=books&sprefix=big+magiv%2Cstripbooks%2C182&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=60c6e2ba90f7725df360b29f574efe07&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) taught me that I should never feel embarrassed about building a creative business. I’m doing it for me, because I enjoy being creative, and that is all that matters.\n\nThere seems to be such a stigma around creative work, and I’m glad Elizabeth Gilbert has finally spoken up about the fact that it should be treated the same as non-creative work.\n\nSo, if you feel like you’re hiding your true creative self, then read Big Magic and cultivate the creativity you need to live a life that is truly your own.\n\n> “Always remember that people’s judgements about you, are none of your business.”\n> \n> Elizabeth Gilbert \\| Big Magic\n### 8 \\| Mindset by Carol Dweck\n[Mindset by Carol Dweck](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Mindset-Updated-Changing-Fulfil-Potential\/dp\/147213995X?crid=308NSHQG5WV6K&keywords=mindset&qid=1647956959&s=books&sprefix=mindse%2Cstripbooks%2C200&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ff281ed7d93513eb6edc3c5d5a73cb62&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) is a fundamental book that everyone should read.\n\nIt explores the power of our mindset and how success doesn’t just depend on our abilities or talent but rather on how we approach our goals: with a fixed or growth mindset⁣.\n\nThis book is all about changing the way we think to fulfil our potential.\n\n#### Highlights\n- The whole book is simply mind-blowing\n- Explore the difference between a fixed and growth mindset\n- Includes chapters for every area of our life\n- Uses well-known and famous people as examples to back up her points e.g. Michael Jordan\n- Includes diagrams\n- The book has recently been updated\n- [I’ve previously written a review](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/mindset-book-review\/), so you know it’s worth a read\n\n[![The book cover of Mindset by Carol Dweck which is one of the best self-improvement books to read](data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iMzE4IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDMxOCA1MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Mindset-Updated-Changing-Fulfil-Potential\/dp\/147213995X?crid=308NSHQG5WV6K&keywords=mindset&qid=1647956959&s=books&sprefix=mindse%2Cstripbooks%2C200&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ff281ed7d93513eb6edc3c5d5a73cb62&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl)\n\n#### My thoughts\nI must admit that I was slightly apprehensive about reading [this book at first.](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Mindset-Updated-Changing-Fulfil-Potential\/dp\/147213995X?crid=308NSHQG5WV6K&keywords=mindset&qid=1647956959&s=books&sprefix=mindse%2Cstripbooks%2C200&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ff281ed7d93513eb6edc3c5d5a73cb62&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl)\n\nCarol is one of the world’s leading researchers in personality and social and developmental psychology, so I felt that it would be highly academic and difficult to understand.\n\nBut it’s the complete opposite. Carol wanted this book to be digestible and easy to follow.\n\nAnd that’s exactly what it is.\n\nSo if you’re going to buy one of the self-help books from this list, make sure it’s this one, and invest in your mindset.\n\n> “Mindsets are just beliefs. They’re powerful beliefs, but they’re just something in your mind, and you can change your mind.”\n> \n> Carol Dweck \\| Mindset\n## Why read self-improvement books?\nSelf-improvement books lead to positive change.\n\nThey help you [learn more about yourself](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/future-self-journaling-prompts\/) while also providing you with the guidance and skills you need to help improve different areas of your life.\n\nI honestly wouldn’t be the person I am today without the help of these books.\n\nBrené Brown has worked wonders on my mind, soul and well-being. James Clear has changed my entire perspective on habits and what it means to be productive. Elizabeth Gilbert has provided me with the confidence I need to continue pursuing my creative business. Carol Dweck has opened up my eyes to what it means to truly [have a growth mindset.](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/how-to-cultivate-a-positive-and-resilient-mindset\/) Simon Sinek has changed the way I show up in my business.\n\nAnd I continue to look inward as I learn more about how Stoicism and self-mastery can change my thinking for the better.\n\n#### In a rush? Save this list on Pinterest for later\\!\n[![The 7 best self-development books infographic including the book cover images of Atomic Habits by James Clear, The Gifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown, Mindset by Carol Dweck, The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday, Start With Why by Simon Sinek, Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert and The Mountain Is You By Brianna Wiest on beige solid circles and black italic text](data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iNjY3IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMDAiIHZpZXdCb3g9IjAgMCA2NjcgMTAwMCI+PHJlY3Qgd2lkdGg9IjEwMCUiIGhlaWdodD0iMTAwJSIgc3R5bGU9ImZpbGw6I2UyZTVlOTtmaWxsLW9wYWNpdHk6IDAuMTsiLz48L3N2Zz4=)](https:\/\/uk.pinterest.com\/pin\/366832332170027853\/)\n\n## Final thoughts\nI hope you feel inspired by this post and have the motivation to kickstart your self-development journey. Or continue the one you’re already on.\n\nIf you’re looking [to become your best self,](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/how-to-become-your-best-self\/) then I honestly can’t recommend these self-improvement books enough.\n\nThey will provide you with the guidance and awareness you need to grow.\n\nAnd just to recap, the books I mentioned in this post are:\n\n1. [Atomic Habits](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Atomic-Habits-Proven-Build-Break\/dp\/1847941834?keywords=atomic+habits&qid=1647956741&s=books&sprefix=atomic%2Cstripbooks%2C298&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=0468c5bd71f34e66228da2955e43b5f4&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by James Clear\n2. [The Gifts of Imperfection](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Gifts-Imperfection-Anniversary-Brand-New-paperback\/dp\/1616499605?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1647956829&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ccec3c31fc5dbe6791c30fc6e31b684f&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Brené Brown\n3. [Stay & Slay](https:\/\/notesbythalia.com\/resources\/ebook-stay-and-slay\/) by Thalia-Maria Tourikis\n4. [The Mountain Is You](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Mountain-You-Transforming-Self-Sabotage-Self-Mastery-ebook\/dp\/B089DQRDSV?crid=KJLF1DV7HQ4K&keywords=the+mountain+is+you+book&qid=1695307187&sprefix=the+mo%2Caps%2C131&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=e2a6eb70aa527e42b9e57c31e92fef42&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Brianna Wiest\n5. [The Daily Stoic](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Daily-Stoic-Meditations-Perseverance-translations\/dp\/1781257655?crid=2LZN8JEF39UE6&keywords=the+daily+stoic&qid=1647957043&s=books&sprefix=the+daily+stoic%2Cstripbooks%2C273&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=f77be232b1aed0c0cd9fe71a8ff07f68&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Ryan Holiday\n6. [Start With Why](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Start-Why-Leaders-Inspire-Everyone-ebook\/dp\/B005JZD3B4?crid=KJ51V1ADMT1Q&keywords=start+with+why+simon+sinek&qid=1687577844&sprefix=start+with+%2Caps%2C286&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=7c7b441b063a525107cc06e073415529&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Simon Sinek\n7. [Big Magic](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Big-Magic-Creative-Living-Beyond\/dp\/1408866757?crid=WBMSRE5PBC5S&keywords=big+magic&qid=1647956899&s=books&sprefix=big+magiv%2Cstripbooks%2C182&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=60c6e2ba90f7725df360b29f574efe07&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Elizabeth Gilbert\n8. [Mindset](https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Mindset-Updated-Changing-Fulfil-Potential\/dp\/147213995X?crid=308NSHQG5WV6K&keywords=mindset&qid=1647956959&s=books&sprefix=mindse%2Cstripbooks%2C200&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ff281ed7d93513eb6edc3c5d5a73cb62&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Carol Dweck\n\nI can’t wait to hear if you end up reading one of these books. Hopefully, you will fall in love with them just much as I have, and continue to turn to them in times of need.\n\nUntil next week,\n\nThalia xx\n\n**Just a heads up:** Notes by Thalia is reader-supported. This means that instead of running Ads, I occasionally write blog posts that contain affiliate links, and this is one of those posts. If you make a purchase using the links above, then I will be rewarded at no extra cost to you. Thank you, as always, for your support.\n\nHey! 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Boilerpipe Text	The 7 Best Self-Improvement Books That Everyone Needs To Read At Least Once Published: March 24th, 2022 Last updated: March 13th, 2026 TL;DR: Want to level up your mindset, habits, and creativity? These 7 self-improvement books are total game-changers. From Atomic Habits teaching you how to make lasting changes, to The Gifts of Imperfection helping you embrace your flaws—each book has the power to shift how you think, work, and live. From as young as I can remember, I’ve always loved reading. Books allow me to tap into my imagination and escape into another world. But since starting my online business, I no longer have a monogamous relationship with fiction books. I now find myself gravitating more towards the personal development and self-help aisle rather than beach reads. Yes, reading self-help books can sometimes feel like a chore. Personal development is exhausting at times and sometimes seems quite arduous. But for me, there is something about reading these types of books. They fill me with positive energy. By the closing chapter, I feel somewhat accomplished. I say to myself, “I managed to finish this hefty book, I’m clearly capable of something!” It makes me feel motivated and inspired to start improving and growing as a person. So while reading my latest non-fiction , I reflected on the other self-help books I’ve read in the past couple of years. There were some that I loved, and some that I didn’t love so much. And there were some that provided me with guidance at a time when I needed it most. It’s these self-improvement books that have stayed with me and changed my life for the better. So I wanted to share them with you in the hopes that they will also inspire you on your personal development journey. Here are the 7 best self-improvement books that I think everyone needs to read at least once. P.S. If you’re new here, hey! I’m Thalia. I help burnt-out girlies like you build a life that’s aligned, magnetic, and unapologetically yours. Every week(ish), I share content on burnout recovery, self-development, finding joy, and career growth. Subscribe here so you never miss a debrief. Saying that these self-improvement books have changed my life is not an understatement. They have given my life more meaning, boosted my self-awareness and provided me with self-love. Whenever I read a self-help book, I always underline the words and lines that mean the most to me. I then transfer my underlinings into Notion , where I can easily access them. And I always find myself coming back to these 7 books and re-reading the quotes I so thoughtfully underlined. So it is these 7 self-improvement books that I consider to be the best: Atomic Habits by James Clear The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown Stay & Slay by Thalia-Maria Tourikis The Mountain Is You by Brianna Wiest The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday Start With Why by Simon Sinek Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert Mindset by Carol Dweck 1 \| Atomic Habits by James Clear Just as the title says, Atomic Habits is all about habits. How to build good ones and break bad ones. You might be thinking, how can a book on habits be so popular? James Clear shows us that habit-building can be easy and fun. It’s not as boring or arduous as you might think. And by making these tiny changes, you are setting yourself up to achieve remarkable results. Highlights Easy to read and digestible The contents of the book are laid out well Includes diagrams Summary at the end of each chapter Tips and advice are all extremely actionable I’ve previously written a review , so you know it’s worth a read Million copy #1 bestseller My thoughts Atomic Habits has literally changed the way I view habits. I now build habits to work for me rather than against me. And in all honesty, Atomic Habits was actually the motivating factor behind my blog. Before I read this book, I was constantly comparing myself to others online and copying what female entrepreneurs were doing to be productive. Long story short, the hustle culture didn’t work for me, and I thought there was something wrong with me. But when I read Atomic Habits, James Clear made me feel less alone. It wasn’t the fact that there was something wrong with me; it was the fact that these “productivity hacks from others” didn’t suit my personality. So I applied his advice on building habits to my own work ethic. I then started to view productivity as unique to the individual and built it around my own personality and lifestyle. My mindful approach to productivity was born, and so was the basis of my blog. I wanted to show others that there is a more sustainable way of working, and this is where it all started. So yes, like the cover says, Atomic Habits is truly life-changing! “There is a version of every habit that can bring you joy and satisfaction. Find it. Habits need to be enjoyable if they are going to stick… tailoring your habits to your personality is a good start.” James Clear \| Atomic Habits 2 \| The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown Quite simply put, The Gifts of Imperfection teaches us how to live a wholehearted life. And to do that, we need to embrace our flaws, vulnerabilities and imperfections. We need to step into our truth, own our story and live a truly authentic life. And the daily tools needed for this are courage, compassion and connection, our gifts of imperfection. Highlights Actionable and digestible advice Spread out over 10 chapters, otherwise known as guideposts There’s a dig-deep section at the end of each guidepost, which encourages you to explore each topic on a deeper level Includes top tips, questions to ask yourself and resources for further reading Space at the back to make a note of the pages that spoke to you the most 10th Anniversary Edition features a foreword by Brené herself I’ve previously written a review , so you know it’s worth a read My thoughts I’m a devoted Brené Brown fan. I’ve read a few of her books, listened to her podcast and watched her talk on TED and Netflix. Brené provides me with so much guidance. The guidance that I don’t usually get from other people in my life or from social media. In The Gifts of Imperfection, Brené Brown proves once again that she has a way with words. She speaks directly to the soul and sparks something inside. I honestly still get shivers from this book. It taught me how to start letting go of the things holding me back, like fear, comparison and perfectionism and start cultivating the things I need more of, like intuition, gratitude and laughter. Seriously, what more do you want from a book? “Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing that we will ever do.” Brené Brown \| The Gifts of Imperfection 3 \| Stay & Slay: How To Beat Burnout Without Quitting Your Job Okay, so this one is a bit of a shameless plug, but hey, it’s my blog, and I know for a fact that it’s exactly what you need. Stay & Slay helps you understand what’s really burning you out and teaches you how to rebuild your energy and confidence in a way that feels realistic, doable, and supportive. Because if you ask me, you shouldn’t have to choose between an ambitious career and your well-being. You can have both. Highlights Reflection prompts that help you figure out what’s really burning you out My signature Anti-Burnout Framework™ is built into every page, so you have a clear roadmap to follow Actionable and realistic tips to help you navigate and beat burnout for good Hear from my clients who’ve been where you are now and come out stronger Includes a bonus workbook, so you can SLAY-as-you-go and actually put every strategy into action It’s written by me, so you know it’s full of value My thoughts This is the book I wish I had when I was deep in burnout and thought the only way out was quitting. Don’t get me wrong, my job was toxic, and I knew I couldn’t stay. But after walking away, it took me another few years to figure out how to recover from burnout and build a career that actually feels good. This book is everything I learned along the way (minus all the trial and error). “It will get better. You will experience better things, meet better people and step into a job (and life) that feels better. You will become better, stronger, and more aligned with who you’re meant to be. Trust the process, because the best is yet to come.” Thalia-Maria Tourikis \| Stay & Slay 4 \| The Mountain Is You by Brianna Wiest Throughout history, mountains have symbolised big challenges, much like the ones we face within ourselves. This is the message Brianna Wiest brings into The Mountain Is You. This book is your go-to guide to understanding why we hold ourselves back and how to break free from self-sabotage. The Mountain Is You will take you on a journey with practical insights and tools to help you unleash your full potential and conquer life’s challenges through “self-mastery”. Highlights A life-changing read which is a must for everyone Explore how you can overcome self-sabotage through self-mastery A well-written book with a supportive and friendly tone of voice Powerful and emotional I’ve written a book review , so you know it’s worth a read Reading this book is an act of self-care My thoughts I’ve been following Brianna Wiest on Instagram for a while now, and her thoughtful and mindful quotes always set the right tone for my day. They make me stop, think and question how I want to show up for myself that day and in life. So if you read any book from this list, make sure it is The Mountain Is You — it will be an act of self-care within itself. “If we want to change the world, we change ourselves. If we want to change our lives, we change ourselves. If we want to scale the greatest mountains before us, we change how we arrive at the path.” Brianna Wiest \| The Mountain Is You 5 \| The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday Adopting a Stoic practice in your life can reduce anxiety, help you avoid distractions and teach you gratitude. However, there’s so much written on Stoicism that it can be hard to know where to start. Ryan Holiday’s The Daily Stoic makes learning about Stoicism digestible and intentional. This isn’t a typical book as it’s not split into chapters. Instead, The Daily Stoic is separated into a page-a-day to make practising Stoicism more manageable. Each page features a powerful lesson or quote from the Ancient Stoics, including Marcus Aurelius, the playwright Seneca and philosopher Epictetus, among others. These thought-provoking observations help you “to tackle any problem, approach any goal and find the serenity, self-knowledge and resilience you need to live well.” (The Daily Stoic) Highlights Includes 366 meditations on wisdom, perseverance and the art of living Features lessons from the Ancient Stoics, including Marcus Aurelius, Seneca and Epictetus Page-a-day guide; no need to read it all in one go It’s dated daily from 1st January to 31st December Daily doses of practical, uplifting philosophy From the best-selling author of The Obstacle Is The Way There’s a guided Daily Stoic Journal that accompanies the book to make it even easier for you to practice mindfulness My thoughts I haven’t finished The Daily Stoic yet, as it’s a year-long process. However, it’s already been incredibly life-changing for both me and my husband. It has positively impacted our minds in a way where we are learning to ignore the things we can’t control and focus only on what we can change. So if you’re looking to cultivate more meaning and self-awareness this year, then The Daily Stoic is the best self-help book for you. “You have power over your mind – not outside events. Realise this, and you will find strength.” Marcus Aurelius 6 \| Start With Why by Simon Sinek Start With Why explores the fundamental question of why some leaders are able to inspire and motivate others while others struggle to do so. Drawing on real-life examples (mainly Apple), Simon Sinek explains that the key lies in understanding and communicating the “why” behind our actions — the deep-rooted causes and beliefs that drive us. Whether you are an aspiring leader, entrepreneur, or simply seeking personal growth, Start With Why provides you with a blueprint for discovering your own why and leveraging it to inspire others so you can live with real purpose. Highlights Inspiring quotes you can refer back to again and again Part of a 3-book series which also includes a practical guide to Find Your Why Uses well-known companies and individuals to back up his points, e.g. Martin Luther King Jr. Based on the life-changing Ted Talk Multi-million-copy bestseller My thoughts I read Start With Why during a time when I was figuring out the next steps for Notes by Thalia and what I envision for my brand. This book has given me the guidance and space I needed to really dig deep and figure out the core of what I use this space for and get really clear on my why . It has levelled up my productivity and given me so much motivation as a result. In short, it is a book that has changed the way I show up and has greatly improved my business life. I also think it is a book that everyone needs to read, no matter where you are on your self-discovery journey. So, if you’re feeling a little lost, then read Start With Why, as it will help you find your purpose. “The work we’re doing now is better than the work we were doing six months ago. And the work we’ll be doing six months from now will be better than the work we’re doing today. Because we wake up every day with a sense of WHY we come to work. We come to work to inspire people to do the things that inspire them.” Simon Sinek \| Start WIth Why 7 \| Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert Elizabeth Gilbert takes on the role of a life coach in Big Magic. She shares her unique perspective on living a creative life that is led by curiosity and not by fear. Big Magic consists of Gilbert’s past life lessons, real stories and her timeless wisdom to draw out a road map of how we can gain the courage to pursue our own creative endeavours. Highlights Not your typical boring self-help book Features a bright, colourful cover which will look great on any bookshelf More like a guidebook teaching you how to deal with your doubts, how to observe ideas and how to act upon them without fear Gilbert writes as though she is writing to a friend Matter-of-fact, screw-the-norm tone of voice Written by the author of the international bestseller Eat Pray Love My thoughts Big Magic taught me that I should never feel embarrassed about building a creative business. I’m doing it for me, because I enjoy being creative, and that is all that matters. There seems to be such a stigma around creative work, and I’m glad Elizabeth Gilbert has finally spoken up about the fact that it should be treated the same as non-creative work. So, if you feel like you’re hiding your true creative self, then read Big Magic and cultivate the creativity you need to live a life that is truly your own. “Always remember that people’s judgements about you, are none of your business.” Elizabeth Gilbert \| Big Magic 8 \| Mindset by Carol Dweck Mindset by Carol Dweck is a fundamental book that everyone should read. It explores the power of our mindset and how success doesn’t just depend on our abilities or talent but rather on how we approach our goals: with a fixed or growth mindset⁣. This book is all about changing the way we think to fulfil our potential. Highlights The whole book is simply mind-blowing Explore the difference between a fixed and growth mindset Includes chapters for every area of our life Uses well-known and famous people as examples to back up her points e.g. Michael Jordan Includes diagrams The book has recently been updated I’ve previously written a review , so you know it’s worth a read My thoughts I must admit that I was slightly apprehensive about reading this book at first. Carol is one of the world’s leading researchers in personality and social and developmental psychology, so I felt that it would be highly academic and difficult to understand. But it’s the complete opposite. Carol wanted this book to be digestible and easy to follow. And that’s exactly what it is. So if you’re going to buy one of the self-help books from this list, make sure it’s this one, and invest in your mindset. “Mindsets are just beliefs. They’re powerful beliefs, but they’re just something in your mind, and you can change your mind.” Carol Dweck \| Mindset Why read self-improvement books? Self-improvement books lead to positive change. They help you learn more about yourself while also providing you with the guidance and skills you need to help improve different areas of your life. I honestly wouldn’t be the person I am today without the help of these books. Brené Brown has worked wonders on my mind, soul and well-being. James Clear has changed my entire perspective on habits and what it means to be productive. Elizabeth Gilbert has provided me with the confidence I need to continue pursuing my creative business. Carol Dweck has opened up my eyes to what it means to truly have a growth mindset. Simon Sinek has changed the way I show up in my business. And I continue to look inward as I learn more about how Stoicism and self-mastery can change my thinking for the better. In a rush? Save this list on Pinterest for later! Final thoughts I hope you feel inspired by this post and have the motivation to kickstart your self-development journey. Or continue the one you’re already on. If you’re looking to become your best self, then I honestly can’t recommend these self-improvement books enough. They will provide you with the guidance and awareness you need to grow. And just to recap, the books I mentioned in this post are: Atomic Habits by James Clear The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown Stay & Slay by Thalia-Maria Tourikis The Mountain Is You by Brianna Wiest The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday Start With Why by Simon Sinek Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert Mindset by Carol Dweck I can’t wait to hear if you end up reading one of these books. Hopefully, you will fall in love with them just much as I have, and continue to turn to them in times of need. Until next week, Thalia xx Just a heads up: Notes by Thalia is reader-supported. 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From Atomic Habits teaching you how to make lasting changes, to The Gifts of Imperfection helping you embrace your flaws—each book has the power to shift how you think, work, and live. ![Aesthetic stock image showing a beige in door plant feature on top of a white hardback book. The image is purely for decorative use only to support the blog post on the best self-improvement books](data:image/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iNzY4IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUzMiIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDc2OCA1MzIiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+) From as young as I can remember, I’ve always loved reading. Books allow me to tap into my imagination and escape into another world. But since starting my online business, I no longer have a monogamous relationship with fiction books. I now find myself gravitating more towards the personal development and self-help aisle [rather than beach reads.](https://notesbythalia.com/best-contemporary-fiction-books/) Yes, reading self-help books can sometimes feel like a chore. Personal development is exhausting at times and sometimes seems quite arduous. But for me, there is something about reading these types of books. They fill me with positive energy. By the closing chapter, I feel somewhat accomplished. I say to myself, “I managed to finish this hefty book, I’m clearly capable of something!” It makes me feel motivated and inspired to start improving and growing as a person. So while reading [my latest non-fiction](https://notesbythalia.com/the-let-them-theory-mel-robbins-book-review/), I reflected on the other self-help books I’ve read in the past couple of years. There were some that I loved, and some that I didn’t love so much. And there were some that provided me with guidance at a time when I needed it most. It’s these self-improvement books that have stayed with me and changed my life for the better. So I wanted to share them with you in the hopes that they will also inspire you on your personal development journey. Here are the 7 best self-improvement books that I think everyone needs to read at least once. P.S. If you’re new here, hey! I’m Thalia.I help burnt-out girlies like you build a life that’s aligned, magnetic, and unapologetically yours. Every week(ish), I share content on burnout recovery, self-development, finding joy, and career growth. [Subscribe here](https://notesbythalia.com/resources/newsletter/) so you never miss a debrief. ## The 7 best self-improvement books that changed my life Saying that these self-improvement [books have changed my life](https://notesbythalia.com/books-to-survive-the-corporate-grind/) is not an understatement. They have given my life more meaning, boosted my self-awareness and provided me with self-love. Whenever I read a self-help book, I always underline the words and lines that mean the most to me. I then transfer my underlinings [into Notion](https://notesbythalia.com/notion-how-to-organize-your-life/), where I can easily access them. And I always find myself coming back to these 7 books and re-reading the quotes I so thoughtfully underlined. So it is these 7 self-improvement books that I consider to be the best: - [Atomic Habits](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Atomic-Habits-Proven-Build-Break/dp/1847941834?keywords=atomic+habits&qid=1647956741&s=books&sprefix=atomic%2Cstripbooks%2C298&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=0468c5bd71f34e66228da2955e43b5f4&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by James Clear - [The Gifts of Imperfection](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Gifts-Imperfection-Anniversary-Brand-New-paperback/dp/1616499605?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1647956829&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ccec3c31fc5dbe6791c30fc6e31b684f&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Brené Brown - [Stay & Slay](https://notesbythalia.com/resources/ebook-stay-and-slay/) by Thalia-Maria Tourikis - [The Mountain Is You](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mountain-You-Transforming-Self-Sabotage-Self-Mastery-ebook/dp/B089DQRDSV?crid=KJLF1DV7HQ4K&keywords=the+mountain+is+you+book&qid=1695307187&sprefix=the+mo%2Caps%2C131&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=e2a6eb70aa527e42b9e57c31e92fef42&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Brianna Wiest - [The Daily Stoic](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Daily-Stoic-Meditations-Perseverance-translations/dp/1781257655?crid=2LZN8JEF39UE6&keywords=the+daily+stoic&qid=1647957043&s=books&sprefix=the+daily+stoic%2Cstripbooks%2C273&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=f77be232b1aed0c0cd9fe71a8ff07f68&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Ryan Holiday - [Start With Why](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Start-Why-Leaders-Inspire-Everyone-ebook/dp/B005JZD3B4?crid=KJ51V1ADMT1Q&keywords=start+with+why+simon+sinek&qid=1687577844&sprefix=start+with+%2Caps%2C286&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=7c7b441b063a525107cc06e073415529&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Simon Sinek - [Big Magic](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Big-Magic-Creative-Living-Beyond/dp/1408866757?crid=WBMSRE5PBC5S&keywords=big+magic&qid=1647956899&s=books&sprefix=big+magiv%2Cstripbooks%2C182&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=60c6e2ba90f7725df360b29f574efe07&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Elizabeth Gilbert - [Mindset](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mindset-Updated-Changing-Fulfil-Potential/dp/147213995X?crid=308NSHQG5WV6K&keywords=mindset&qid=1647956959&s=books&sprefix=mindse%2Cstripbooks%2C200&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ff281ed7d93513eb6edc3c5d5a73cb62&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Carol Dweck ### 1 \\| Atomic Habits by James Clear Just as the title says, [Atomic Habits](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Atomic-Habits-Proven-Build-Break/dp/1847941834?keywords=atomic+habits&qid=1647956741&s=books&sprefix=atomic%2Cstripbooks%2C298&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=0468c5bd71f34e66228da2955e43b5f4&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) is all about habits. How to build good ones and break bad ones. You might be thinking, how can a book on habits be so popular? James Clear shows us that habit-building can be easy and fun. It’s not as boring or arduous as you might think. And by making these tiny changes, you are setting yourself up to achieve remarkable results. #### Highlights - Easy to read and digestible - The contents of the book are laid out well - Includes diagrams - Summary at the end of each chapter - Tips and advice are all extremely actionable - [I’ve previously written a review](https://notesbythalia.com/atomic-habits-book-review/), so you know it’s worth a read - Million copy \#1 bestseller [![The book cover atomic habits by James Clear which is one of the best self-improvement books to read](data:image/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iMzI3IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDMyNyA1MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Atomic-Habits-Proven-Build-Break/dp/1847941834?keywords=atomic+habits&qid=1647956741&s=books&sprefix=atomic%2Cstripbooks%2C298&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=0468c5bd71f34e66228da2955e43b5f4&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) #### My thoughts [Atomic Habits](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Atomic-Habits-Proven-Build-Break/dp/1847941834?keywords=atomic+habits&qid=1647956741&s=books&sprefix=atomic%2Cstripbooks%2C298&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=0468c5bd71f34e66228da2955e43b5f4&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) has literally changed the way I view habits. I now build habits to work for me rather than against me. And in all honesty, Atomic Habits was actually the motivating factor behind my blog. Before I read this book, I was constantly comparing myself to others online and copying what female entrepreneurs were doing to be productive. Long story short, the hustle culture didn’t work for me, and I thought there was something wrong with me. But when I read Atomic Habits, James Clear made me feel less alone. It wasn’t the fact that there was something wrong with me; it was the fact that these “productivity hacks from others” didn’t suit my personality. So I applied his advice on building habits to my own work ethic. I then started to view productivity as unique to the individual and built it around my own personality and lifestyle. My mindful approach to productivity was born, and so was the basis of my blog. I wanted to show others that there is a more sustainable way of working, and this is where it all started. So yes, like the cover says, Atomic Habits is truly life-changing\! [Buy now](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Atomic-Habits-Proven-Build-Break/dp/1847941834?keywords=atomic+habits&qid=1647956741&s=books&sprefix=atomic%2Cstripbooks%2C298&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=0468c5bd71f34e66228da2955e43b5f4&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) > “There is a version of every habit that can bring you joy and satisfaction. Find it. Habits need to be enjoyable if they are going to stick… tailoring your habits to your personality is a good start.” > > James Clear \\| Atomic Habits ### 2 \\| The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown Quite simply put, [The Gifts of Imperfection](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Gifts-Imperfection-Anniversary-Brand-New-paperback/dp/1616499605?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1647956829&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ccec3c31fc5dbe6791c30fc6e31b684f&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) teaches us how to live a wholehearted life. And to do that, we need to embrace our flaws, vulnerabilities and imperfections. We need to step into our truth, own our story and live a truly authentic life. And the daily tools needed for this are courage, compassion and connection, our gifts of imperfection. #### Highlights - Actionable and digestible advice - Spread out over 10 chapters, otherwise known as guideposts - There’s a dig-deep section at the end of each guidepost, which encourages you to explore each topic on a deeper level - Includes top tips, questions to ask yourself and resources for further reading - Space at the back to make a note of the pages that spoke to you the most - 10th Anniversary Edition features a foreword by Brené herself - [I’ve previously written a review](https://notesbythalia.com/book-review-the-gifts-of-imperfection-by-brene-brown/), so you know it’s worth a read [![The book cover of The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown which is one of the best self-improvement books to read](data:image/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iMzMzIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDMzMyA1MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Gifts-Imperfection-Anniversary-Brand-New-paperback/dp/1616499605?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1647956829&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ccec3c31fc5dbe6791c30fc6e31b684f&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) #### My thoughts I’m a devoted Brené Brown fan. I’ve read a few of her books, listened to her podcast and watched her talk on [TED](https://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_the_power_of_vulnerability?language=en) and [Netflix.](https://www.netflix.com/search?q=call%20to%20courage&jbv=81010166) Brené provides me with so much guidance. The guidance that I don’t usually get from other people in my life or from social media. In [The Gifts of Imperfection,](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Gifts-Imperfection-Anniversary-Brand-New-paperback/dp/1616499605?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1647956829&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ccec3c31fc5dbe6791c30fc6e31b684f&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) Brené Brown proves once again that she has a way with words. She speaks directly to the soul and sparks something inside. I honestly still get shivers from this book. It taught me how to start letting go of the things holding me back, like fear, comparison and perfectionism and start cultivating the things I need more of, like intuition, gratitude and laughter. Seriously, what more do you want from a book? [Buy now](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Gifts-Imperfection-Anniversary-Brand-New-paperback/dp/1616499605?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1647956829&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ccec3c31fc5dbe6791c30fc6e31b684f&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl\)) > “Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing that we will ever do.” > > Brené Brown \\| The Gifts of Imperfection ### 3 \\| Stay & Slay: How To Beat Burnout Without Quitting Your Job Okay, so this one is a bit of a shameless plug, but hey, it’s my blog, and I know for a fact that it’s exactly what you need. [Stay & Slay](https://notesbythalia.com/resources/ebook-stay-and-slay/) helps you understand what’s really burning you out and teaches you how to rebuild your energy and confidence in a way that feels realistic, doable, and supportive. Because if you ask me, you shouldn’t have to choose between an ambitious career and your well-being. You can have both. #### Highlights - Reflection prompts that help you figure out what’s really burning you out - My signature [Anti-Burnout Framework™](https://notesbythalia.com/how-to-beat-burnout-without-quitting-your-job/) is built into every page, so you have a clear roadmap to follow - Actionable and realistic tips to help you navigate and beat burnout for good - Hear from my clients who’ve been where you are now and come out stronger - Includes a bonus workbook, so you can SLAY-as-you-go and actually put every strategy into action - It’s written by me, so you know it’s full of value [![The cover of an ebook, Stay & Slay; How to beat burnout without quitting your job which is one of the best self-improvement books to read](data:image/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iMzU0IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDM1NCA1MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)](https://notesbythalia.com/resources/ebook-stay-and-slay/) #### My thoughts [This is the book](https://notesbythalia.com/resources/ebook-stay-and-slay/) I wish I had when I was deep in burnout and thought the only way out was quitting. Don’t get me wrong, my job was toxic, and I knew I couldn’t stay. But after walking away, it took me another few years to figure out how to recover from burnout and build a [career that actually feels good.](https://resumewritinglab.com/career-coaching-resume-service/) This book is everything I learned along the way (minus all the trial and error). [Buy now](https://notesbythalia.com/resources/ebook-stay-and-slay/) > “It will get better. You will experience better things, meet better people and step into a job (and life) that feels better. You will become better, stronger, and more aligned with who you’re meant to be. Trust the process, because the best is yet to come.” > > Thalia-Maria Tourikis \\| Stay & Slay ### 4 \\| The Mountain Is You by Brianna Wiest Throughout history, mountains have symbolised big challenges, much like the ones we face within ourselves. This is the message Brianna Wiest brings into [The Mountain Is You.](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mountain-You-Transforming-Self-Sabotage-Self-Mastery-ebook/dp/B089DQRDSV?crid=KJLF1DV7HQ4K&keywords=the+mountain+is+you+book&qid=1695307187&sprefix=the+mo%2Caps%2C131&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=e2a6eb70aa527e42b9e57c31e92fef42&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) This book is your go-to guide to understanding why we hold ourselves back and how to [break free from self-sabotage.](https://notesbythalia.com/how-to-overcome-self-sabotage/) The Mountain Is You will take you on a journey with practical insights and tools to help you unleash your full potential and conquer life’s challenges through “self-mastery”. #### Highlights - A life-changing read which is a must for everyone - Explore how you can overcome self-sabotage through self-mastery - A well-written book with a supportive and friendly tone of voice - Powerful and emotional - [I’ve written a book review](https://notesbythalia.com/the-mountain-is-you-by-brianna-wiest-book-review/), so you know it’s worth a read - Reading this book is an act of self-care [![The book cover of The Mountain Is You by Brianna Wiest which is one of the best self-improvement books to read](data:image/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iMzMzIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDMzMyA1MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mountain-You-Transforming-Self-Sabotage-Self-Mastery-ebook/dp/B089DQRDSV?crid=KJLF1DV7HQ4K&keywords=the+mountain+is+you+book&qid=1695307187&sprefix=the+mo%2Caps%2C131&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=e2a6eb70aa527e42b9e57c31e92fef42&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) #### My thoughts I’ve been following [Brianna Wiest on Instagram](https://www.instagram.com/briannawiest/) for a while now, and her thoughtful and mindful quotes always set the right tone for my day. They make me stop, think and question how I want to show up for myself that day and in life. So if you read any book from this list, make sure it is [The Mountain Is You](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mountain-You-Transforming-Self-Sabotage-Self-Mastery-ebook/dp/B089DQRDSV?crid=KJLF1DV7HQ4K&keywords=the+mountain+is+you+book&qid=1695307187&sprefix=the+mo%2Caps%2C131&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=e2a6eb70aa527e42b9e57c31e92fef42&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) — it will be an act of self-care within itself. [Buy now](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mountain-You-Transforming-Self-Sabotage-Self-Mastery-ebook/dp/B089DQRDSV?crid=KJLF1DV7HQ4K&keywords=the+mountain+is+you+book&qid=1695307187&sprefix=the+mo%2Caps%2C131&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=e2a6eb70aa527e42b9e57c31e92fef42&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) > “If we want to change the world, we change ourselves. If we want to change our lives, we change ourselves. If we want to scale the greatest mountains before us, we change how we arrive at the path.” > > Brianna Wiest \\| The Mountain Is You ### 5 \\| The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday Adopting a Stoic practice in your life can reduce anxiety, [help you avoid distractions](https://dailystoic.com/benefits-stoicism/) and teach you gratitude. However, there’s so much written on Stoicism that it can be hard to know where to start. Ryan Holiday’s [The Daily Stoic](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Daily-Stoic-Meditations-Perseverance-translations/dp/1781257655?crid=2LZN8JEF39UE6&keywords=the+daily+stoic&qid=1647957043&s=books&sprefix=the+daily+stoic%2Cstripbooks%2C273&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=f77be232b1aed0c0cd9fe71a8ff07f68&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) makes learning about Stoicism digestible and intentional. This isn’t a typical book as it’s not split into chapters. Instead, The Daily Stoic is separated into a page-a-day to make practising Stoicism more manageable. Each page features a powerful lesson or quote from the Ancient Stoics, including Marcus Aurelius, the playwright Seneca and philosopher Epictetus, among others. These thought-provoking observations help you “to tackle any problem, approach any goal and find the serenity, self-knowledge and resilience you need to live well.” (The Daily Stoic) #### Highlights - Includes 366 meditations on wisdom, perseverance and the art of living - Features lessons from the Ancient Stoics, including Marcus Aurelius, Seneca and Epictetus - Page-a-day guide; no need to read it all in one go - It’s dated daily from 1st January to 31st December - Daily doses of practical, uplifting philosophy - From the best-selling author of [The Obstacle Is The Way](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Obstacle-Way-Ancient-Adversity-Advantage/dp/1781251495?pd_rd_w=j0DfE&pf_rd_p=424ee22f-2317-49a5-9cbb-bc8836ac7d96&pf_rd_r=42PDBKQD73N7NES995PE&pd_rd_r=61598966-ae20-4081-8ae5-ce4de8d46f30&pd_rd_wg=FKzmz&pd_rd_i=1781251495&psc=1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=c625b84be50d76c319bf35545f9e0e9e&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) - There’s a guided [Daily Stoic Journal](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Daily-Stoic-Journal-Writing-Reflection/dp/1788160231?pd_rd_w=j0DfE&pf_rd_p=424ee22f-2317-49a5-9cbb-bc8836ac7d96&pf_rd_r=42PDBKQD73N7NES995PE&pd_rd_r=61598966-ae20-4081-8ae5-ce4de8d46f30&pd_rd_wg=FKzmz&pd_rd_i=1788160231&psc=1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=1cb9e3810ed90f4555650b54e25cf558&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) that accompanies the book to make it even easier for you to practice mindfulness [![The book cover of The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday which is one of the best self-improvement books to read](data:image/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iMzI4IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDMyOCA1MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Daily-Stoic-Meditations-Perseverance-translations/dp/1781257655?crid=2LZN8JEF39UE6&keywords=the+daily+stoic&qid=1647957043&s=books&sprefix=the+daily+stoic%2Cstripbooks%2C273&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=f77be232b1aed0c0cd9fe71a8ff07f68&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) #### My thoughts I haven’t finished [The Daily Stoic](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Daily-Stoic-Meditations-Perseverance-translations/dp/1781257655?crid=2LZN8JEF39UE6&keywords=the+daily+stoic&qid=1647957043&s=books&sprefix=the+daily+stoic%2Cstripbooks%2C273&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=f77be232b1aed0c0cd9fe71a8ff07f68&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) yet, as it’s a year-long process. However, it’s already been incredibly life-changing for both me and my husband. It has positively impacted our minds in a way where we are learning to ignore the things we can’t control and focus only on what we can change. So if you’re looking to cultivate more meaning and self-awareness this year, then The Daily Stoic is the best self-help book for you. [Buy now](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Daily-Stoic-Meditations-Perseverance-translations/dp/1781257655?crid=2LZN8JEF39UE6&keywords=the+daily+stoic&qid=1647957043&s=books&sprefix=the+daily+stoic%2Cstripbooks%2C273&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=f77be232b1aed0c0cd9fe71a8ff07f68&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) > “You have power over your mind – not outside events. Realise this, and you will find strength.” > > Marcus Aurelius ### 6 \\| Start With Why by Simon Sinek [Start With Why](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Start-Why-Leaders-Inspire-Everyone-ebook/dp/B005JZD3B4?keywords=start+with+why+simon+sinek&qid=1687583127&sprefix=start+with+%2Caps%2C325&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=29e09e02a8d1b422caf02635fb7d9460&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) explores the fundamental question of why some leaders are able to inspire and motivate others while others struggle to do so. Drawing on real-life examples (mainly Apple), Simon Sinek explains that the key lies in understanding and communicating the “why” behind our actions — the deep-rooted causes and beliefs that drive us. Whether you are an aspiring leader, entrepreneur, or simply seeking personal growth, Start With Why provides you with a blueprint for discovering your own why and leveraging it to inspire others so you can [live with real purpose.](https://notesbythalia.com/how-to-find-your-ikigai/) ##### Highlights - Inspiring quotes you can refer back to again and again - Part of a 3-book series which also includes a practical guide to Find Your Why - Uses well-known companies and individuals to back up his points, e.g. Martin Luther King Jr. - Based on [the life-changing Ted Talk](https://www.ted.com/talks/simon_sinek_how_great_leaders_inspire_action/c?language=en) - Multi-million-copy bestseller [![The book cover of Start With Why by Simon Sinek which is one of the best self-improvement books to read](data:image/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iMzI2IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDMyNiA1MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Start-Why-Leaders-Inspire-Everyone-ebook/dp/B005JZD3B4?keywords=start+with+why+simon+sinek&qid=1687583127&sprefix=start+with+%2Caps%2C325&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=29e09e02a8d1b422caf02635fb7d9460&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) #### My thoughts I read [Start With Why](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Start-Why-Leaders-Inspire-Everyone-ebook/dp/B005JZD3B4?keywords=start+with+why+simon+sinek&qid=1687583127&sprefix=start+with+%2Caps%2C325&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=29e09e02a8d1b422caf02635fb7d9460&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) during a time when I was figuring out the next steps for Notes by Thalia and what I envision for my brand. This book has given me the guidance and space I needed to really dig deep and figure out the core of what I use this space for and get really clear on my why. It has [levelled up my productivity](https://notesbythalia.com/best-productivity-books) and given me so much motivation as a result. In short, it is a book that has changed the way I show up and has greatly improved my business life. I also think it is a book that everyone needs to read, no matter where you are on your self-discovery journey. So, if [you’re feeling a little lost,](https://notesbythalia.com/saturn-return-101/) then read Start With Why, as it will help you find your purpose. [Buy now](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Start-Why-Leaders-Inspire-Everyone-ebook/dp/B005JZD3B4?crid=KJ51V1ADMT1Q&keywords=start+with+why+simon+sinek&qid=1687577844&sprefix=start+with+%2Caps%2C286&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=7c7b441b063a525107cc06e073415529&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) > “The work we’re doing now is better than the work we were doing six months ago. And the work we’ll be doing six months from now will be better than the work we’re doing today. Because we wake up every day with a sense of WHY we come to work. We come to work to inspire people to do the things that inspire them.” > > Simon Sinek \\| Start WIth Why ### 7 \\| Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert Elizabeth Gilbert takes on the role of a life coach in [Big Magic.](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Big-Magic-Creative-Living-Beyond/dp/1408866757?crid=WBMSRE5PBC5S&keywords=big+magic&qid=1647956899&s=books&sprefix=big+magiv%2Cstripbooks%2C182&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=60c6e2ba90f7725df360b29f574efe07&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) She shares her unique perspective on living a creative life that is led by curiosity and not by fear. Big Magic consists of Gilbert’s past life lessons, real stories and her timeless wisdom to draw out a road map of how we can gain the courage to pursue our own creative endeavours. #### Highlights - Not your typical boring self-help book - Features a bright, colourful cover which will look great on any bookshelf - More like a guidebook teaching you how to deal with your doubts, how to observe ideas and how to act upon them without fear - Gilbert writes as though she is writing to a friend - Matter-of-fact, screw-the-norm tone of voice - Written by the author of the international bestseller [Eat Pray Love](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Eat-Pray-Love-Womans-Everything/dp/0747585660?crid=AUHJY20DFUXK&keywords=eat+pray+love+book&qid=1647977782&sprefix=eat+pray+love%2Caps%2C238&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=52c167d9a62359659826a7cf31e3a416&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) [![The book cover of Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert which is one of the best self-improvement books to read](data:image/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iMzA3IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDMwNyA1MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Big-Magic-Creative-Living-Beyond/dp/1408866757?crid=WBMSRE5PBC5S&keywords=big+magic&qid=1647956899&s=books&sprefix=big+magiv%2Cstripbooks%2C182&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=60c6e2ba90f7725df360b29f574efe07&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) #### My thoughts [Big Magic](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Big-Magic-Creative-Living-Beyond/dp/1408866757?crid=WBMSRE5PBC5S&keywords=big+magic&qid=1647956899&s=books&sprefix=big+magiv%2Cstripbooks%2C182&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=60c6e2ba90f7725df360b29f574efe07&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) taught me that I should never feel embarrassed about building a creative business. I’m doing it for me, because I enjoy being creative, and that is all that matters. There seems to be such a stigma around creative work, and I’m glad Elizabeth Gilbert has finally spoken up about the fact that it should be treated the same as non-creative work. So, if you feel like you’re hiding your true creative self, then read Big Magic and cultivate the creativity you need to live a life that is truly your own. [Buy now](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Big-Magic-Creative-Living-Beyond/dp/1408866757?crid=WBMSRE5PBC5S&keywords=big+magic&qid=1647956899&s=books&sprefix=big+magiv%2Cstripbooks%2C182&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=60c6e2ba90f7725df360b29f574efe07&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) > “Always remember that people’s judgements about you, are none of your business.” > > Elizabeth Gilbert \\| Big Magic ### 8 \\| Mindset by Carol Dweck [Mindset by Carol Dweck](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mindset-Updated-Changing-Fulfil-Potential/dp/147213995X?crid=308NSHQG5WV6K&keywords=mindset&qid=1647956959&s=books&sprefix=mindse%2Cstripbooks%2C200&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ff281ed7d93513eb6edc3c5d5a73cb62&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) is a fundamental book that everyone should read. It explores the power of our mindset and how success doesn’t just depend on our abilities or talent but rather on how we approach our goals: with a fixed or growth mindset⁣. This book is all about changing the way we think to fulfil our potential. #### Highlights - The whole book is simply mind-blowing - Explore the difference between a fixed and growth mindset - Includes chapters for every area of our life - Uses well-known and famous people as examples to back up her points e.g. Michael Jordan - Includes diagrams - The book has recently been updated - [I’ve previously written a review](https://notesbythalia.com/mindset-book-review/), so you know it’s worth a read [![The book cover of Mindset by Carol Dweck which is one of the best self-improvement books to read](data:image/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iMzE4IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDMxOCA1MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mindset-Updated-Changing-Fulfil-Potential/dp/147213995X?crid=308NSHQG5WV6K&keywords=mindset&qid=1647956959&s=books&sprefix=mindse%2Cstripbooks%2C200&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ff281ed7d93513eb6edc3c5d5a73cb62&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) #### My thoughts I must admit that I was slightly apprehensive about reading [this book at first.](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mindset-Updated-Changing-Fulfil-Potential/dp/147213995X?crid=308NSHQG5WV6K&keywords=mindset&qid=1647956959&s=books&sprefix=mindse%2Cstripbooks%2C200&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ff281ed7d93513eb6edc3c5d5a73cb62&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) Carol is one of the world’s leading researchers in personality and social and developmental psychology, so I felt that it would be highly academic and difficult to understand. But it’s the complete opposite. Carol wanted this book to be digestible and easy to follow. And that’s exactly what it is. So if you’re going to buy one of the self-help books from this list, make sure it’s this one, and invest in your mindset. [Buy now](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mindset-Updated-Changing-Fulfil-Potential/dp/147213995X?crid=308NSHQG5WV6K&keywords=mindset&qid=1647956959&s=books&sprefix=mindse%2Cstripbooks%2C200&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ff281ed7d93513eb6edc3c5d5a73cb62&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) > “Mindsets are just beliefs. They’re powerful beliefs, but they’re just something in your mind, and you can change your mind.” > > Carol Dweck \\| Mindset ## Why read self-improvement books? Self-improvement books lead to positive change. They help you [learn more about yourself](https://notesbythalia.com/future-self-journaling-prompts/) while also providing you with the guidance and skills you need to help improve different areas of your life. I honestly wouldn’t be the person I am today without the help of these books. Brené Brown has worked wonders on my mind, soul and well-being. James Clear has changed my entire perspective on habits and what it means to be productive. Elizabeth Gilbert has provided me with the confidence I need to continue pursuing my creative business. Carol Dweck has opened up my eyes to what it means to truly [have a growth mindset.](https://notesbythalia.com/how-to-cultivate-a-positive-and-resilient-mindset/) Simon Sinek has changed the way I show up in my business. And I continue to look inward as I learn more about how Stoicism and self-mastery can change my thinking for the better. #### In a rush? Save this list on Pinterest for later\! [![The 7 best self-development books infographic including the book cover images of Atomic Habits by James Clear, The Gifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown, Mindset by Carol Dweck, The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday, Start With Why by Simon Sinek, Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert and The Mountain Is You By Brianna Wiest on beige solid circles and black italic text](data:image/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iNjY3IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMDAiIHZpZXdCb3g9IjAgMCA2NjcgMTAwMCI+PHJlY3Qgd2lkdGg9IjEwMCUiIGhlaWdodD0iMTAwJSIgc3R5bGU9ImZpbGw6I2UyZTVlOTtmaWxsLW9wYWNpdHk6IDAuMTsiLz48L3N2Zz4=)](https://uk.pinterest.com/pin/366832332170027853/) ## Final thoughts I hope you feel inspired by this post and have the motivation to kickstart your self-development journey. Or continue the one you’re already on. If you’re looking [to become your best self,](https://notesbythalia.com/how-to-become-your-best-self/) then I honestly can’t recommend these self-improvement books enough. They will provide you with the guidance and awareness you need to grow. And just to recap, the books I mentioned in this post are: 1. [Atomic Habits](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Atomic-Habits-Proven-Build-Break/dp/1847941834?keywords=atomic+habits&qid=1647956741&s=books&sprefix=atomic%2Cstripbooks%2C298&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=0468c5bd71f34e66228da2955e43b5f4&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by James Clear 2. [The Gifts of Imperfection](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Gifts-Imperfection-Anniversary-Brand-New-paperback/dp/1616499605?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1647956829&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ccec3c31fc5dbe6791c30fc6e31b684f&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Brené Brown 3. [Stay & Slay](https://notesbythalia.com/resources/ebook-stay-and-slay/) by Thalia-Maria Tourikis 4. [The Mountain Is You](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mountain-You-Transforming-Self-Sabotage-Self-Mastery-ebook/dp/B089DQRDSV?crid=KJLF1DV7HQ4K&keywords=the+mountain+is+you+book&qid=1695307187&sprefix=the+mo%2Caps%2C131&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=e2a6eb70aa527e42b9e57c31e92fef42&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Brianna Wiest 5. [The Daily Stoic](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Daily-Stoic-Meditations-Perseverance-translations/dp/1781257655?crid=2LZN8JEF39UE6&keywords=the+daily+stoic&qid=1647957043&s=books&sprefix=the+daily+stoic%2Cstripbooks%2C273&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=f77be232b1aed0c0cd9fe71a8ff07f68&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Ryan Holiday 6. [Start With Why](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Start-Why-Leaders-Inspire-Everyone-ebook/dp/B005JZD3B4?crid=KJ51V1ADMT1Q&keywords=start+with+why+simon+sinek&qid=1687577844&sprefix=start+with+%2Caps%2C286&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=7c7b441b063a525107cc06e073415529&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Simon Sinek 7. [Big Magic](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Big-Magic-Creative-Living-Beyond/dp/1408866757?crid=WBMSRE5PBC5S&keywords=big+magic&qid=1647956899&s=books&sprefix=big+magiv%2Cstripbooks%2C182&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=60c6e2ba90f7725df360b29f574efe07&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Elizabeth Gilbert 8. [Mindset](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mindset-Updated-Changing-Fulfil-Potential/dp/147213995X?crid=308NSHQG5WV6K&keywords=mindset&qid=1647956959&s=books&sprefix=mindse%2Cstripbooks%2C200&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ff281ed7d93513eb6edc3c5d5a73cb62&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Carol Dweck I can’t wait to hear if you end up reading one of these books. Hopefully, you will fall in love with them just much as I have, and continue to turn to them in times of need. Until next week, Thalia xx Just a heads up: Notes by Thalia is reader-supported. This means that instead of running Ads, I occasionally write blog posts that contain affiliate links, and this is one of those posts. If you make a purchase using the links above, then I will be rewarded at no extra cost to you. Thank you, as always, for your support. Tags: [Books](https://notesbythalia.com/tag/books/), [Resources](https://notesbythalia.com/tag/resources/), [Self-Development](https://notesbythalia.com/tag/self-development/) Hey! It's Thalia I'm a Certified Health Coach and the creator of Notes by Thalia — a self-development blog that helps over one million girlies beat burnout and unf\*ck their life without starting over. Having navigated the toxic fashion industry in my 20s and come out stronger, I'm now sharing everything (and I mean, everything!!) I've learnt along the way. 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I wanna be able to speak before a great number of people - #### Thalia [4 weeks ago](https://notesbythalia.com/best-self-improvement-books/#comment-1060) [Reply](https://notesbythalia.com/best-self-improvement-books/?replytocom=1060#respond) Building confidence takes time, but it’s definitely doable 😊 Start small by speaking out loud to the mirror, practicing in front of smaller groups first, then gradually work your way up. The more you do it, the more confident you’ll feel. You’ve got this\! - #### L.H.Weiss, [4 months ago](https://notesbythalia.com/best-self-improvement-books/#comment-1030) [Reply](https://notesbythalia.com/best-self-improvement-books/?replytocom=1030#respond) “Think & Grow Rich” Napolean Hill Positive Mental Attitude, Dale Carnegie, Master the Game, Tony Robbins, Sermon on the Mount, Jesus…. - #### Tammie [8 months ago](https://notesbythalia.com/best-self-improvement-books/#comment-972) [Reply](https://notesbythalia.com/best-self-improvement-books/?replytocom=972#respond) These sound like amazing books. - #### Naomi Oghene-udi [8 months ago](https://notesbythalia.com/best-self-improvement-books/#comment-968) [Reply](https://notesbythalia.com/best-self-improvement-books/?replytocom=968#respond) I love to be reading the seven books listed above for free ### Leave a comment [(Cancel Reply)](https://notesbythalia.com/best-self-improvement-books/#respond) ## Never miss a debrief Join thousands of burnt out girlies getting the latest, unfiltered advice in their inbox every Friday. ## Ready to get your shit together? 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Readable Markdown	## The 7 Best Self-Improvement Books That Everyone Needs To Read At Least Once Published: March 24th, 2022 Last updated: March 13th, 2026 TL;DR: Want to level up your mindset, habits, and creativity? These 7 self-improvement books are total game-changers. From Atomic Habits teaching you how to make lasting changes, to The Gifts of Imperfection helping you embrace your flaws—each book has the power to shift how you think, work, and live. ![Aesthetic stock image showing a beige in door plant feature on top of a white hardback book. The image is purely for decorative use only to support the blog post on the best self-improvement books](data:image/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iNzY4IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUzMiIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDc2OCA1MzIiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+) From as young as I can remember, I’ve always loved reading. Books allow me to tap into my imagination and escape into another world. But since starting my online business, I no longer have a monogamous relationship with fiction books. I now find myself gravitating more towards the personal development and self-help aisle [rather than beach reads.](https://notesbythalia.com/best-contemporary-fiction-books/) Yes, reading self-help books can sometimes feel like a chore. Personal development is exhausting at times and sometimes seems quite arduous. But for me, there is something about reading these types of books. They fill me with positive energy. By the closing chapter, I feel somewhat accomplished. I say to myself, “I managed to finish this hefty book, I’m clearly capable of something!” It makes me feel motivated and inspired to start improving and growing as a person. So while reading [my latest non-fiction](https://notesbythalia.com/the-let-them-theory-mel-robbins-book-review/), I reflected on the other self-help books I’ve read in the past couple of years. There were some that I loved, and some that I didn’t love so much. And there were some that provided me with guidance at a time when I needed it most. It’s these self-improvement books that have stayed with me and changed my life for the better. So I wanted to share them with you in the hopes that they will also inspire you on your personal development journey. Here are the 7 best self-improvement books that I think everyone needs to read at least once. P.S. If you’re new here, hey! I’m Thalia.I help burnt-out girlies like you build a life that’s aligned, magnetic, and unapologetically yours. Every week(ish), I share content on burnout recovery, self-development, finding joy, and career growth. [Subscribe here](https://notesbythalia.com/resources/newsletter/) so you never miss a debrief. Saying that these self-improvement [books have changed my life](https://notesbythalia.com/books-to-survive-the-corporate-grind/) is not an understatement. They have given my life more meaning, boosted my self-awareness and provided me with self-love. Whenever I read a self-help book, I always underline the words and lines that mean the most to me. I then transfer my underlinings [into Notion](https://notesbythalia.com/notion-how-to-organize-your-life/), where I can easily access them. And I always find myself coming back to these 7 books and re-reading the quotes I so thoughtfully underlined. So it is these 7 self-improvement books that I consider to be the best: - [Atomic Habits](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Atomic-Habits-Proven-Build-Break/dp/1847941834?keywords=atomic+habits&qid=1647956741&s=books&sprefix=atomic%2Cstripbooks%2C298&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=0468c5bd71f34e66228da2955e43b5f4&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by James Clear - [The Gifts of Imperfection](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Gifts-Imperfection-Anniversary-Brand-New-paperback/dp/1616499605?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1647956829&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ccec3c31fc5dbe6791c30fc6e31b684f&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Brené Brown - [Stay & Slay](https://notesbythalia.com/resources/ebook-stay-and-slay/) by Thalia-Maria Tourikis - [The Mountain Is You](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mountain-You-Transforming-Self-Sabotage-Self-Mastery-ebook/dp/B089DQRDSV?crid=KJLF1DV7HQ4K&keywords=the+mountain+is+you+book&qid=1695307187&sprefix=the+mo%2Caps%2C131&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=e2a6eb70aa527e42b9e57c31e92fef42&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Brianna Wiest - [The Daily Stoic](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Daily-Stoic-Meditations-Perseverance-translations/dp/1781257655?crid=2LZN8JEF39UE6&keywords=the+daily+stoic&qid=1647957043&s=books&sprefix=the+daily+stoic%2Cstripbooks%2C273&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=f77be232b1aed0c0cd9fe71a8ff07f68&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Ryan Holiday - [Start With Why](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Start-Why-Leaders-Inspire-Everyone-ebook/dp/B005JZD3B4?crid=KJ51V1ADMT1Q&keywords=start+with+why+simon+sinek&qid=1687577844&sprefix=start+with+%2Caps%2C286&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=7c7b441b063a525107cc06e073415529&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Simon Sinek - [Big Magic](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Big-Magic-Creative-Living-Beyond/dp/1408866757?crid=WBMSRE5PBC5S&keywords=big+magic&qid=1647956899&s=books&sprefix=big+magiv%2Cstripbooks%2C182&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=60c6e2ba90f7725df360b29f574efe07&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Elizabeth Gilbert - [Mindset](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mindset-Updated-Changing-Fulfil-Potential/dp/147213995X?crid=308NSHQG5WV6K&keywords=mindset&qid=1647956959&s=books&sprefix=mindse%2Cstripbooks%2C200&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ff281ed7d93513eb6edc3c5d5a73cb62&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Carol Dweck ### 1 \\| Atomic Habits by James Clear Just as the title says, [Atomic Habits](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Atomic-Habits-Proven-Build-Break/dp/1847941834?keywords=atomic+habits&qid=1647956741&s=books&sprefix=atomic%2Cstripbooks%2C298&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=0468c5bd71f34e66228da2955e43b5f4&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) is all about habits. How to build good ones and break bad ones. You might be thinking, how can a book on habits be so popular? James Clear shows us that habit-building can be easy and fun. It’s not as boring or arduous as you might think. And by making these tiny changes, you are setting yourself up to achieve remarkable results. #### Highlights - Easy to read and digestible - The contents of the book are laid out well - Includes diagrams - Summary at the end of each chapter - Tips and advice are all extremely actionable - [I’ve previously written a review](https://notesbythalia.com/atomic-habits-book-review/), so you know it’s worth a read - Million copy \#1 bestseller [![The book cover atomic habits by James Clear which is one of the best self-improvement books to read](data:image/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iMzI3IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDMyNyA1MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Atomic-Habits-Proven-Build-Break/dp/1847941834?keywords=atomic+habits&qid=1647956741&s=books&sprefix=atomic%2Cstripbooks%2C298&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=0468c5bd71f34e66228da2955e43b5f4&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) #### My thoughts [Atomic Habits](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Atomic-Habits-Proven-Build-Break/dp/1847941834?keywords=atomic+habits&qid=1647956741&s=books&sprefix=atomic%2Cstripbooks%2C298&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=0468c5bd71f34e66228da2955e43b5f4&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) has literally changed the way I view habits. I now build habits to work for me rather than against me. And in all honesty, Atomic Habits was actually the motivating factor behind my blog. Before I read this book, I was constantly comparing myself to others online and copying what female entrepreneurs were doing to be productive. Long story short, the hustle culture didn’t work for me, and I thought there was something wrong with me. But when I read Atomic Habits, James Clear made me feel less alone. It wasn’t the fact that there was something wrong with me; it was the fact that these “productivity hacks from others” didn’t suit my personality. So I applied his advice on building habits to my own work ethic. I then started to view productivity as unique to the individual and built it around my own personality and lifestyle. My mindful approach to productivity was born, and so was the basis of my blog. I wanted to show others that there is a more sustainable way of working, and this is where it all started. So yes, like the cover says, Atomic Habits is truly life-changing\! > “There is a version of every habit that can bring you joy and satisfaction. Find it. Habits need to be enjoyable if they are going to stick… tailoring your habits to your personality is a good start.” > > James Clear \\| Atomic Habits ### 2 \\| The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown Quite simply put, [The Gifts of Imperfection](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Gifts-Imperfection-Anniversary-Brand-New-paperback/dp/1616499605?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1647956829&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ccec3c31fc5dbe6791c30fc6e31b684f&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) teaches us how to live a wholehearted life. And to do that, we need to embrace our flaws, vulnerabilities and imperfections. We need to step into our truth, own our story and live a truly authentic life. And the daily tools needed for this are courage, compassion and connection, our gifts of imperfection. #### Highlights - Actionable and digestible advice - Spread out over 10 chapters, otherwise known as guideposts - There’s a dig-deep section at the end of each guidepost, which encourages you to explore each topic on a deeper level - Includes top tips, questions to ask yourself and resources for further reading - Space at the back to make a note of the pages that spoke to you the most - 10th Anniversary Edition features a foreword by Brené herself - [I’ve previously written a review](https://notesbythalia.com/book-review-the-gifts-of-imperfection-by-brene-brown/), so you know it’s worth a read [![The book cover of The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown which is one of the best self-improvement books to read](data:image/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iMzMzIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDMzMyA1MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Gifts-Imperfection-Anniversary-Brand-New-paperback/dp/1616499605?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1647956829&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ccec3c31fc5dbe6791c30fc6e31b684f&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) #### My thoughts I’m a devoted Brené Brown fan. I’ve read a few of her books, listened to her podcast and watched her talk on [TED](https://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_the_power_of_vulnerability?language=en) and [Netflix.](https://www.netflix.com/search?q=call%20to%20courage&jbv=81010166) Brené provides me with so much guidance. The guidance that I don’t usually get from other people in my life or from social media. In [The Gifts of Imperfection,](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Gifts-Imperfection-Anniversary-Brand-New-paperback/dp/1616499605?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1647956829&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ccec3c31fc5dbe6791c30fc6e31b684f&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) Brené Brown proves once again that she has a way with words. She speaks directly to the soul and sparks something inside. I honestly still get shivers from this book. It taught me how to start letting go of the things holding me back, like fear, comparison and perfectionism and start cultivating the things I need more of, like intuition, gratitude and laughter. Seriously, what more do you want from a book? > “Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing that we will ever do.” > > Brené Brown \\| The Gifts of Imperfection ### 3 \\| Stay & Slay: How To Beat Burnout Without Quitting Your Job Okay, so this one is a bit of a shameless plug, but hey, it’s my blog, and I know for a fact that it’s exactly what you need. [Stay & Slay](https://notesbythalia.com/resources/ebook-stay-and-slay/) helps you understand what’s really burning you out and teaches you how to rebuild your energy and confidence in a way that feels realistic, doable, and supportive. Because if you ask me, you shouldn’t have to choose between an ambitious career and your well-being. You can have both. #### Highlights - Reflection prompts that help you figure out what’s really burning you out - My signature [Anti-Burnout Framework™](https://notesbythalia.com/how-to-beat-burnout-without-quitting-your-job/) is built into every page, so you have a clear roadmap to follow - Actionable and realistic tips to help you navigate and beat burnout for good - Hear from my clients who’ve been where you are now and come out stronger - Includes a bonus workbook, so you can SLAY-as-you-go and actually put every strategy into action - It’s written by me, so you know it’s full of value [![The cover of an ebook, Stay & Slay; How to beat burnout without quitting your job which is one of the best self-improvement books to read](data:image/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iMzU0IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDM1NCA1MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)](https://notesbythalia.com/resources/ebook-stay-and-slay/) #### My thoughts [This is the book](https://notesbythalia.com/resources/ebook-stay-and-slay/) I wish I had when I was deep in burnout and thought the only way out was quitting. Don’t get me wrong, my job was toxic, and I knew I couldn’t stay. But after walking away, it took me another few years to figure out how to recover from burnout and build a [career that actually feels good.](https://resumewritinglab.com/career-coaching-resume-service/) This book is everything I learned along the way (minus all the trial and error). > “It will get better. You will experience better things, meet better people and step into a job (and life) that feels better. You will become better, stronger, and more aligned with who you’re meant to be. Trust the process, because the best is yet to come.” > > Thalia-Maria Tourikis \\| Stay & Slay ### 4 \\| The Mountain Is You by Brianna Wiest Throughout history, mountains have symbolised big challenges, much like the ones we face within ourselves. This is the message Brianna Wiest brings into [The Mountain Is You.](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mountain-You-Transforming-Self-Sabotage-Self-Mastery-ebook/dp/B089DQRDSV?crid=KJLF1DV7HQ4K&keywords=the+mountain+is+you+book&qid=1695307187&sprefix=the+mo%2Caps%2C131&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=e2a6eb70aa527e42b9e57c31e92fef42&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) This book is your go-to guide to understanding why we hold ourselves back and how to [break free from self-sabotage.](https://notesbythalia.com/how-to-overcome-self-sabotage/) The Mountain Is You will take you on a journey with practical insights and tools to help you unleash your full potential and conquer life’s challenges through “self-mastery”. #### Highlights - A life-changing read which is a must for everyone - Explore how you can overcome self-sabotage through self-mastery - A well-written book with a supportive and friendly tone of voice - Powerful and emotional - [I’ve written a book review](https://notesbythalia.com/the-mountain-is-you-by-brianna-wiest-book-review/), so you know it’s worth a read - Reading this book is an act of self-care [![The book cover of The Mountain Is You by Brianna Wiest which is one of the best self-improvement books to read](data:image/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iMzMzIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDMzMyA1MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mountain-You-Transforming-Self-Sabotage-Self-Mastery-ebook/dp/B089DQRDSV?crid=KJLF1DV7HQ4K&keywords=the+mountain+is+you+book&qid=1695307187&sprefix=the+mo%2Caps%2C131&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=e2a6eb70aa527e42b9e57c31e92fef42&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) #### My thoughts I’ve been following [Brianna Wiest on Instagram](https://www.instagram.com/briannawiest/) for a while now, and her thoughtful and mindful quotes always set the right tone for my day. They make me stop, think and question how I want to show up for myself that day and in life. So if you read any book from this list, make sure it is [The Mountain Is You](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mountain-You-Transforming-Self-Sabotage-Self-Mastery-ebook/dp/B089DQRDSV?crid=KJLF1DV7HQ4K&keywords=the+mountain+is+you+book&qid=1695307187&sprefix=the+mo%2Caps%2C131&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=e2a6eb70aa527e42b9e57c31e92fef42&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) — it will be an act of self-care within itself. > “If we want to change the world, we change ourselves. If we want to change our lives, we change ourselves. If we want to scale the greatest mountains before us, we change how we arrive at the path.” > > Brianna Wiest \\| The Mountain Is You ### 5 \\| The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday Adopting a Stoic practice in your life can reduce anxiety, [help you avoid distractions](https://dailystoic.com/benefits-stoicism/) and teach you gratitude. However, there’s so much written on Stoicism that it can be hard to know where to start. Ryan Holiday’s [The Daily Stoic](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Daily-Stoic-Meditations-Perseverance-translations/dp/1781257655?crid=2LZN8JEF39UE6&keywords=the+daily+stoic&qid=1647957043&s=books&sprefix=the+daily+stoic%2Cstripbooks%2C273&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=f77be232b1aed0c0cd9fe71a8ff07f68&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) makes learning about Stoicism digestible and intentional. This isn’t a typical book as it’s not split into chapters. Instead, The Daily Stoic is separated into a page-a-day to make practising Stoicism more manageable. Each page features a powerful lesson or quote from the Ancient Stoics, including Marcus Aurelius, the playwright Seneca and philosopher Epictetus, among others. These thought-provoking observations help you “to tackle any problem, approach any goal and find the serenity, self-knowledge and resilience you need to live well.” (The Daily Stoic) #### Highlights - Includes 366 meditations on wisdom, perseverance and the art of living - Features lessons from the Ancient Stoics, including Marcus Aurelius, Seneca and Epictetus - Page-a-day guide; no need to read it all in one go - It’s dated daily from 1st January to 31st December - Daily doses of practical, uplifting philosophy - From the best-selling author of [The Obstacle Is The Way](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Obstacle-Way-Ancient-Adversity-Advantage/dp/1781251495?pd_rd_w=j0DfE&pf_rd_p=424ee22f-2317-49a5-9cbb-bc8836ac7d96&pf_rd_r=42PDBKQD73N7NES995PE&pd_rd_r=61598966-ae20-4081-8ae5-ce4de8d46f30&pd_rd_wg=FKzmz&pd_rd_i=1781251495&psc=1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=c625b84be50d76c319bf35545f9e0e9e&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) - There’s a guided [Daily Stoic Journal](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Daily-Stoic-Journal-Writing-Reflection/dp/1788160231?pd_rd_w=j0DfE&pf_rd_p=424ee22f-2317-49a5-9cbb-bc8836ac7d96&pf_rd_r=42PDBKQD73N7NES995PE&pd_rd_r=61598966-ae20-4081-8ae5-ce4de8d46f30&pd_rd_wg=FKzmz&pd_rd_i=1788160231&psc=1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=1cb9e3810ed90f4555650b54e25cf558&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) that accompanies the book to make it even easier for you to practice mindfulness [![The book cover of The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday which is one of the best self-improvement books to read](data:image/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iMzI4IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDMyOCA1MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Daily-Stoic-Meditations-Perseverance-translations/dp/1781257655?crid=2LZN8JEF39UE6&keywords=the+daily+stoic&qid=1647957043&s=books&sprefix=the+daily+stoic%2Cstripbooks%2C273&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=f77be232b1aed0c0cd9fe71a8ff07f68&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) #### My thoughts I haven’t finished [The Daily Stoic](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Daily-Stoic-Meditations-Perseverance-translations/dp/1781257655?crid=2LZN8JEF39UE6&keywords=the+daily+stoic&qid=1647957043&s=books&sprefix=the+daily+stoic%2Cstripbooks%2C273&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=f77be232b1aed0c0cd9fe71a8ff07f68&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) yet, as it’s a year-long process. However, it’s already been incredibly life-changing for both me and my husband. It has positively impacted our minds in a way where we are learning to ignore the things we can’t control and focus only on what we can change. So if you’re looking to cultivate more meaning and self-awareness this year, then The Daily Stoic is the best self-help book for you. > “You have power over your mind – not outside events. Realise this, and you will find strength.” > > Marcus Aurelius ### 6 \\| Start With Why by Simon Sinek [Start With Why](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Start-Why-Leaders-Inspire-Everyone-ebook/dp/B005JZD3B4?keywords=start+with+why+simon+sinek&qid=1687583127&sprefix=start+with+%2Caps%2C325&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=29e09e02a8d1b422caf02635fb7d9460&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) explores the fundamental question of why some leaders are able to inspire and motivate others while others struggle to do so. Drawing on real-life examples (mainly Apple), Simon Sinek explains that the key lies in understanding and communicating the “why” behind our actions — the deep-rooted causes and beliefs that drive us. Whether you are an aspiring leader, entrepreneur, or simply seeking personal growth, Start With Why provides you with a blueprint for discovering your own why and leveraging it to inspire others so you can [live with real purpose.](https://notesbythalia.com/how-to-find-your-ikigai/) ##### Highlights - Inspiring quotes you can refer back to again and again - Part of a 3-book series which also includes a practical guide to Find Your Why - Uses well-known companies and individuals to back up his points, e.g. Martin Luther King Jr. - Based on [the life-changing Ted Talk](https://www.ted.com/talks/simon_sinek_how_great_leaders_inspire_action/c?language=en) - Multi-million-copy bestseller [![The book cover of Start With Why by Simon Sinek which is one of the best self-improvement books to read](data:image/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iMzI2IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDMyNiA1MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Start-Why-Leaders-Inspire-Everyone-ebook/dp/B005JZD3B4?keywords=start+with+why+simon+sinek&qid=1687583127&sprefix=start+with+%2Caps%2C325&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=29e09e02a8d1b422caf02635fb7d9460&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) #### My thoughts I read [Start With Why](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Start-Why-Leaders-Inspire-Everyone-ebook/dp/B005JZD3B4?keywords=start+with+why+simon+sinek&qid=1687583127&sprefix=start+with+%2Caps%2C325&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=29e09e02a8d1b422caf02635fb7d9460&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) during a time when I was figuring out the next steps for Notes by Thalia and what I envision for my brand. This book has given me the guidance and space I needed to really dig deep and figure out the core of what I use this space for and get really clear on my why. It has [levelled up my productivity](https://notesbythalia.com/best-productivity-books) and given me so much motivation as a result. In short, it is a book that has changed the way I show up and has greatly improved my business life. I also think it is a book that everyone needs to read, no matter where you are on your self-discovery journey. So, if [you’re feeling a little lost,](https://notesbythalia.com/saturn-return-101/) then read Start With Why, as it will help you find your purpose. > “The work we’re doing now is better than the work we were doing six months ago. And the work we’ll be doing six months from now will be better than the work we’re doing today. Because we wake up every day with a sense of WHY we come to work. We come to work to inspire people to do the things that inspire them.” > > Simon Sinek \\| Start WIth Why ### 7 \\| Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert Elizabeth Gilbert takes on the role of a life coach in [Big Magic.](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Big-Magic-Creative-Living-Beyond/dp/1408866757?crid=WBMSRE5PBC5S&keywords=big+magic&qid=1647956899&s=books&sprefix=big+magiv%2Cstripbooks%2C182&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=60c6e2ba90f7725df360b29f574efe07&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) She shares her unique perspective on living a creative life that is led by curiosity and not by fear. Big Magic consists of Gilbert’s past life lessons, real stories and her timeless wisdom to draw out a road map of how we can gain the courage to pursue our own creative endeavours. #### Highlights - Not your typical boring self-help book - Features a bright, colourful cover which will look great on any bookshelf - More like a guidebook teaching you how to deal with your doubts, how to observe ideas and how to act upon them without fear - Gilbert writes as though she is writing to a friend - Matter-of-fact, screw-the-norm tone of voice - Written by the author of the international bestseller [Eat Pray Love](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Eat-Pray-Love-Womans-Everything/dp/0747585660?crid=AUHJY20DFUXK&keywords=eat+pray+love+book&qid=1647977782&sprefix=eat+pray+love%2Caps%2C238&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=52c167d9a62359659826a7cf31e3a416&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) [![The book cover of Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert which is one of the best self-improvement books to read](data:image/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iMzA3IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDMwNyA1MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Big-Magic-Creative-Living-Beyond/dp/1408866757?crid=WBMSRE5PBC5S&keywords=big+magic&qid=1647956899&s=books&sprefix=big+magiv%2Cstripbooks%2C182&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=60c6e2ba90f7725df360b29f574efe07&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) #### My thoughts [Big Magic](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Big-Magic-Creative-Living-Beyond/dp/1408866757?crid=WBMSRE5PBC5S&keywords=big+magic&qid=1647956899&s=books&sprefix=big+magiv%2Cstripbooks%2C182&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=60c6e2ba90f7725df360b29f574efe07&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) taught me that I should never feel embarrassed about building a creative business. I’m doing it for me, because I enjoy being creative, and that is all that matters. There seems to be such a stigma around creative work, and I’m glad Elizabeth Gilbert has finally spoken up about the fact that it should be treated the same as non-creative work. So, if you feel like you’re hiding your true creative self, then read Big Magic and cultivate the creativity you need to live a life that is truly your own. > “Always remember that people’s judgements about you, are none of your business.” > > Elizabeth Gilbert \\| Big Magic ### 8 \\| Mindset by Carol Dweck [Mindset by Carol Dweck](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mindset-Updated-Changing-Fulfil-Potential/dp/147213995X?crid=308NSHQG5WV6K&keywords=mindset&qid=1647956959&s=books&sprefix=mindse%2Cstripbooks%2C200&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ff281ed7d93513eb6edc3c5d5a73cb62&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) is a fundamental book that everyone should read. It explores the power of our mindset and how success doesn’t just depend on our abilities or talent but rather on how we approach our goals: with a fixed or growth mindset⁣. This book is all about changing the way we think to fulfil our potential. #### Highlights - The whole book is simply mind-blowing - Explore the difference between a fixed and growth mindset - Includes chapters for every area of our life - Uses well-known and famous people as examples to back up her points e.g. Michael Jordan - Includes diagrams - The book has recently been updated - [I’ve previously written a review](https://notesbythalia.com/mindset-book-review/), so you know it’s worth a read [![The book cover of Mindset by Carol Dweck which is one of the best self-improvement books to read](data:image/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iMzE4IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjUwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDMxOCA1MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+)](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mindset-Updated-Changing-Fulfil-Potential/dp/147213995X?crid=308NSHQG5WV6K&keywords=mindset&qid=1647956959&s=books&sprefix=mindse%2Cstripbooks%2C200&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ff281ed7d93513eb6edc3c5d5a73cb62&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) #### My thoughts I must admit that I was slightly apprehensive about reading [this book at first.](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mindset-Updated-Changing-Fulfil-Potential/dp/147213995X?crid=308NSHQG5WV6K&keywords=mindset&qid=1647956959&s=books&sprefix=mindse%2Cstripbooks%2C200&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ff281ed7d93513eb6edc3c5d5a73cb62&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) Carol is one of the world’s leading researchers in personality and social and developmental psychology, so I felt that it would be highly academic and difficult to understand. But it’s the complete opposite. Carol wanted this book to be digestible and easy to follow. And that’s exactly what it is. So if you’re going to buy one of the self-help books from this list, make sure it’s this one, and invest in your mindset. > “Mindsets are just beliefs. They’re powerful beliefs, but they’re just something in your mind, and you can change your mind.” > > Carol Dweck \\| Mindset ## Why read self-improvement books? Self-improvement books lead to positive change. They help you [learn more about yourself](https://notesbythalia.com/future-self-journaling-prompts/) while also providing you with the guidance and skills you need to help improve different areas of your life. I honestly wouldn’t be the person I am today without the help of these books. Brené Brown has worked wonders on my mind, soul and well-being. James Clear has changed my entire perspective on habits and what it means to be productive. Elizabeth Gilbert has provided me with the confidence I need to continue pursuing my creative business. Carol Dweck has opened up my eyes to what it means to truly [have a growth mindset.](https://notesbythalia.com/how-to-cultivate-a-positive-and-resilient-mindset/) Simon Sinek has changed the way I show up in my business. And I continue to look inward as I learn more about how Stoicism and self-mastery can change my thinking for the better. #### In a rush? Save this list on Pinterest for later\! [![The 7 best self-development books infographic including the book cover images of Atomic Habits by James Clear, The Gifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown, Mindset by Carol Dweck, The Daily Stoic by Ryan Holiday, Start With Why by Simon Sinek, Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert and The Mountain Is You By Brianna Wiest on beige solid circles and black italic text](data:image/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iNjY3IiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMDAiIHZpZXdCb3g9IjAgMCA2NjcgMTAwMCI+PHJlY3Qgd2lkdGg9IjEwMCUiIGhlaWdodD0iMTAwJSIgc3R5bGU9ImZpbGw6I2UyZTVlOTtmaWxsLW9wYWNpdHk6IDAuMTsiLz48L3N2Zz4=)](https://uk.pinterest.com/pin/366832332170027853/) ## Final thoughts I hope you feel inspired by this post and have the motivation to kickstart your self-development journey. Or continue the one you’re already on. If you’re looking [to become your best self,](https://notesbythalia.com/how-to-become-your-best-self/) then I honestly can’t recommend these self-improvement books enough. They will provide you with the guidance and awareness you need to grow. And just to recap, the books I mentioned in this post are: 1. [Atomic Habits](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Atomic-Habits-Proven-Build-Break/dp/1847941834?keywords=atomic+habits&qid=1647956741&s=books&sprefix=atomic%2Cstripbooks%2C298&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=0468c5bd71f34e66228da2955e43b5f4&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by James Clear 2. [The Gifts of Imperfection](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Gifts-Imperfection-Anniversary-Brand-New-paperback/dp/1616499605?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1647956829&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ccec3c31fc5dbe6791c30fc6e31b684f&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Brené Brown 3. [Stay & Slay](https://notesbythalia.com/resources/ebook-stay-and-slay/) by Thalia-Maria Tourikis 4. [The Mountain Is You](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mountain-You-Transforming-Self-Sabotage-Self-Mastery-ebook/dp/B089DQRDSV?crid=KJLF1DV7HQ4K&keywords=the+mountain+is+you+book&qid=1695307187&sprefix=the+mo%2Caps%2C131&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=e2a6eb70aa527e42b9e57c31e92fef42&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Brianna Wiest 5. [The Daily Stoic](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Daily-Stoic-Meditations-Perseverance-translations/dp/1781257655?crid=2LZN8JEF39UE6&keywords=the+daily+stoic&qid=1647957043&s=books&sprefix=the+daily+stoic%2Cstripbooks%2C273&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=f77be232b1aed0c0cd9fe71a8ff07f68&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Ryan Holiday 6. [Start With Why](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Start-Why-Leaders-Inspire-Everyone-ebook/dp/B005JZD3B4?crid=KJ51V1ADMT1Q&keywords=start+with+why+simon+sinek&qid=1687577844&sprefix=start+with+%2Caps%2C286&sr=8-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=7c7b441b063a525107cc06e073415529&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Simon Sinek 7. [Big Magic](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Big-Magic-Creative-Living-Beyond/dp/1408866757?crid=WBMSRE5PBC5S&keywords=big+magic&qid=1647956899&s=books&sprefix=big+magiv%2Cstripbooks%2C182&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=60c6e2ba90f7725df360b29f574efe07&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Elizabeth Gilbert 8. [Mindset](https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mindset-Updated-Changing-Fulfil-Potential/dp/147213995X?crid=308NSHQG5WV6K&keywords=mindset&qid=1647956959&s=books&sprefix=mindse%2Cstripbooks%2C200&sr=1-1&linkCode=ll1&tag=notesbythal00-21&linkId=ff281ed7d93513eb6edc3c5d5a73cb62&language=en_GB&ref_=as_li_ss_tl) by Carol Dweck I can’t wait to hear if you end up reading one of these books. Hopefully, you will fall in love with them just much as I have, and continue to turn to them in times of need. Until next week, Thalia xx Just a heads up: Notes by Thalia is reader-supported. This means that instead of running Ads, I occasionally write blog posts that contain affiliate links, and this is one of those posts. If you make a purchase using the links above, then I will be rewarded at no extra cost to you. Thank you, as always, for your support. Hey! It's Thalia I'm a Certified Health Coach and the creator of Notes by Thalia — a self-development blog that helps over one million girlies beat burnout and unf\*ck their life without starting over. Having navigated the toxic fashion industry in my 20s and come out stronger, I'm now sharing everything (and I mean, everything!!) I've learnt along the way. [Read my book](https://notesbythalia.com/resources/ebook-stay-and-slay/) ![Professional headshot taken of the author of Notes by Thalia, Thalia posing to the camera with a smile and her hand resting on her chin](data:image/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB4bWxucz0iaHR0cHM6Ly93d3cudzMub3JnLzIwMDAvc3ZnIiB3aWR0aD0iNDAwIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjQwMCIgdmlld0JveD0iMCAwIDQwMCA0MDAiPjxyZWN0IHdpZHRoPSIxMDAlIiBoZWlnaHQ9IjEwMCUiIHN0eWxlPSJmaWxsOiNlMmU1ZTk7ZmlsbC1vcGFjaXR5OiAwLjE7Ii8+PC9zdmc+) You'll also love The comments section
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