🕷️ Crawler Inspector

URL Lookup

Direct Parameter Lookup

Raw Queries and Responses

1. Shard Calculation

Query:

Response:

Calculated Shard: 77 (from laksa009)

2. Crawled Status Check

Query:

curl -X POST \
  'http://laksa077.int.ahrefs:8124/' \
  -H 'Content-Type: text/plain' \
  -H 'X-ClickHouse-Database: crawler3' \
  -H 'Authorization: Basic YXBpOg==' \
  -d 'SELECT getAhrefsURLFromUnparsed(src_unparsed) AS found_url, ifNull(toUnixTimestamp(download_stamp), 0) AS crawl_time, ifNull(toUnixTimestamp(props_url_first_seen), 0) AS first_indexed_time, download_http_code AS http_code, src_unparsed AS src_unparsed, src_root_hash AS src_root_hash, history_drop_reason AS history_drop_reason, meta_title AS meta_title, meta_descriptions AS meta_descriptions, attrs_boilerpipe_text AS attrs_boilerpipe_text, attrs_markdown AS attrs_markdown, attrs_readable_markdown AS attrs_readable_markdown, meta_canonical AS meta_canonical FROM crawler3.page_info_local FINAL PREWHERE (src_root_hash, src_unparsed) IN ((getAhrefsRootHashFromUnparsed(getAhrefsUnparsedNoserviceFromURL(\'https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/boost-self-esteem.html\')), getAhrefsUnparsedNoserviceFromURL(\'https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/boost-self-esteem.html\'))) FORMAT JSONEachRow'

Response:

{"found_url":"https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/boost-self-esteem.html","crawl_time":1775605576,"first_indexed_time":1695169621,"http_code":200,"src_unparsed":"org,kidshealth!\/en\/parents\/boost-self-esteem.html s443","src_root_hash":"11780170919675751477","history_drop_reason":null,"meta_title":"9 Ways to Boost Your Child’s Self-Esteem | Nemours KidsHealth","meta_descriptions":["Self-esteem can come easier to some kids than others. If your child's self-esteem needs a boost, try these suggestions."],"attrs_boilerpipe_text":"As a parent, you want your kids to feel happy about themselves and have good\nself-esteem\n(also called a self-image). Your words and actions affect it more than anything else, starting from when they’re babies. Your child absorbs your tone of voice, body language, and every expression. \nSelf-esteem can come easier to some kids than others. If your child's self-esteem is low, here are 9 ways you can help boost it:\n1. Help your child learn to do things\n. For a baby, learning to hold a cup or take first steps sparks a sense of understanding and delight. As a child grows, things like learning to dress, read, or ride a bike are chances for self-esteem to grow.\nTeach by showing and helping at first. Then let kids do what they can, even if they make mistakes. This is a key part of developing positive self-esteem. Be sure your kids get a chance to learn, try, and feel proud. Don't make new challenges too easy or too hard. Encourage them to always do their best but explain that they don’t have to be perfect. No one is!\n2. Praise efforts.\nAvoid praising only results (like getting an A) or qualities (like being smart or athletic). Instead, congratulate kids on effort, progress, and attitude. For example: \"You're working hard on that project,\" \"You're getting better at these spelling tests,\" or, \"I'm proud of you for practicing piano — you've really stuck with it.\" With this kind of praise, kids put effort into things, work toward goals, and try. This makes them more likely to succeed.\n3. Be honest.\nPraise that doesn't feel earned doesn't ring true. For example, telling kids they played a great game when they know they didn't can feel hollow and fake. Instead you can say, \"Even though that wasn’t your best game, I'm proud of you for not giving up.\" Add a vote of confidence: \"Tomorrow, you'll do well.\"\n4. Be a good role model.\nWhen you put effort into everyday tasks (like making a meal or washing the dishes), you set a good example. Your child learns to put effort into doing homework, cleaning up toys, or making the bed.\nModeling the right attitude counts too. When you do tasks without grumbling or complaining, you teach your child to do the same. When you avoid rushing through chores and take pride in a job well done, your child also learns to do that.\n5. Avoid being critical.\nThe messages kids hear about themselves from others often affect how they feel about themselves. Harsh words or negative statements (like calling a child lazy) don't motivate kids and can hurt their self-esteem. Correct kids with patience. Focus on what you want them to do next time. When needed, show them how.\n6. Focus on strengths.\nPay attention to what your kids do well and enjoy. Make sure they have chances to develop these things. Focus more on strengths than weaknesses to help them feel good about themselves. This improves behavior too.\n7. Notice what goes well.\nIt can be easy for kids to focus on what went wrong, like not doing well on a test. Unless they balance it with the good, they'll just feel bad. When you hear your kids complain about themselves or their day, have them find something that went well instead.\nAnd try this: Each night before bed, have your child say at least 3 good things that happened that day. Soon kids will start to notice more positive things about the people in their life and themselves.\n8. Encourage healthy friendships.\nTeach kids that the best friends are those who treat them well, and lift them up by what they say and do. Kids should avoid people who act in ways that tear others down. Instead, they should choose friends they can be themselves with and who help them feel OK about who they are. Help them be that type of friend for others.\n9. Let kids help and give.\nSelf-esteem grows when kids see that what they do matters to others. Kids can help at home, do a service project at school, or do a favor for a sibling. Helping other people and doing kind acts builds self-esteem and other good feelings.\nBy helping boost your child’s self-esteem, they’ll have the courage to try new things and make smart choices.","attrs_markdown":"[\\[Skip to Content\\]](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/boost-self-esteem.html#thelou)\n\nFind care at   [Nemours Children's Health](https:\/\/www.nemours.org\/?external_id=RE2350835010600)  [Doctors](https:\/\/www.nemours.org\/find-a-doctor.html?external_id=RE2350835010600)  [Locations](https:\/\/www.nemours.org\/locations.html?external_id=RE2350835010600)\n\n[![Nemours KidsHealth](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/content\/dam\/kh-reskin\/nemours-kidshealth-logo.svg)](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/)\n\n[Sign Up](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/milestones-newsletter.html)\n\n- For Parents\n- For Kids\n- For Teens\n- For Educators\n\nSearch\n\nMenu\n\n[![Nemours KidsHealth](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/content\/dam\/kh-reskin\/nemours-kidshealth-logo.svg)](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/)\n\nClose Menu\n\n- For Parents\n- For Kids\n- For Teens\n- For Educators\n- ##### MILESTONES NEWSLETTER\n  Subscribe for trustworthy health information delivered directly to your inbox\n  \n  [Sign Up](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/milestones-newsletter.html)\n\nBack\n\nFeatured Topics\n\nFor Parents\n\n- [Sitio para padres](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/es\/parents\/)\n- [Parents Home](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/)\n- [General Health](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/general\/)\n- [Growth & Development](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/growth\/)\n- [Infections](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/infections\/)\n- [Diseases & Conditions](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/medical\/)\n- [Pregnancy & Baby](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/pregnancy-newborn\/)\n- [Nutrition & Fitness](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/nutrition-center\/)\n- [Emotions & Behavior](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/emotions\/)\n- [School & Family Life](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/positive\/)\n- [First Aid & Safety](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/firstaid-safe\/)\n- [Doctors & Hospitals](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/system\/)\n- [Videos](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/videos\/)\n- [Expert Answers (Q\\&A)](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/question\/)\n- [All Categories](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/all-categories.html)\n- [All Wellness Centers](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/centers\/center.html)\n\n[![](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/content\/dam\/kh-reskin\/menu-promo-kid-30th.png) Nemours KidsHealth® Is Celebrating! We've been providing trusted health information for 30 years. Learn More](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/celebrating-30-years.html)\n\n- [Parents Home](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/)\n- [Sitio para padres](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/es\/parents\/)\n- [All Categories](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/all-categories.html)\n- [All Wellness Centers](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/centers\/center.html)\n\nBack\n\nFeatured Topics\n\nFor Kids\n\n- [Sitio para niños](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/es\/kids\/)\n- [Kids Home](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/kids\/)\n- [How the Body Works](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/kids\/center\/htbw-main-page.html)\n- [Puberty & Growing Up](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/kids\/grow\/)\n- [Staying Healthy](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/kids\/stay-healthy\/)\n- [Staying Safe](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/kids\/watch\/)\n- [Dictionary](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/kids\/word\/)\n- [Health Problems](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/kids\/health-problems\/)\n- [Illnesses & Injuries](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/kids\/ill-injure\/)\n- [Relax & Unwind](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/kids\/center\/relax-center.html)\n- [People, Places & Things That Help](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/kids\/feel-better\/)\n- [Feelings](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/kids\/feeling\/)\n- [Expert Answers (Q\\&A)](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/kids\/talk\/)\n- [Videos](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/kids\/videos\/)\n- [All Categories](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/kids\/all-categories.html)\n- [All Wellness Centers](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/kids\/centers\/center.html)\n\n[![](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/content\/dam\/kh-reskin\/menu-promo-kid-30th.png) Nemours KidsHealth® Is Celebrating! We've been providing trusted health information for 30 years. Learn More](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/celebrating-30-years.html)\n\n- [Kids Home](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/kids\/)\n- [Sitio para niños](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/es\/kids\/)\n- [All Categories](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/kids\/all-categories.html)\n- [All Wellness Centers](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/kids\/centers\/center.html)\n\nBack\n\nFeatured Topics\n\nFor Teens\n\n- [Sitio para adolescentes](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/es\/teens\/)\n- [Teens Home](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/teens\/)\n- [Body](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/teens\/your-body\/)\n- [Mind](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/teens\/your-mind\/)\n- [Sexual Health](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/teens\/sexual-health\/)\n- [Food & Fitness](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/teens\/food-fitness\/)\n- [Diseases & Conditions](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/teens\/diseases-conditions\/)\n- [Infections](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/teens\/infections\/)\n- [Drugs & Alcohol](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/teens\/drug-alcohol\/)\n- [School & Jobs](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/teens\/school-jobs\/)\n- [Sports](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/teens\/sports-center\/)\n- [Expert Answers (Q\\&A)](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/teens\/expert\/)\n- [Staying Safe](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/teens\/safety\/)\n- [Videos](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/teens\/videos\/)\n- [All Categories](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/teens\/all-categories.html)\n- [All Wellness Centers](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/teens\/centers\/center.html)\n\n[![](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/content\/dam\/kh-reskin\/menu-promo-kid-30th.png) Nemours KidsHealth® Is Celebrating! We've been providing trusted health information for 30 years. Learn More](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/celebrating-30-years.html)\n\n- [Teens Home](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/teens\/)\n- [Sitio para adolescentes](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/es\/teens\/)\n- [All Categories](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/teens\/all-categories.html)\n- [All Wellness Centers](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/teens\/centers\/center.html)\n\n- [KidsHealth](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/)\n- [Parents](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/)\n- 9 Ways to Boost Your Child’s Self-Esteem\n# 9 Ways to Boost Your Child’s Self-Esteem\nen español: [9 maneras de fomentar la autoestima de su hijo](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/es\/parents\/boost-self-esteem.html)\n\nMedically reviewed by: [Amanda S. Lochrie, PhD, ABPPThis link opens in a new tab](https:\/\/www.nemours.org\/find-a-doctor\/6038-amanda-lochrie-psychology-jacksonville.html)\n\n[Learn About Behavioral Health (Psychology and Psychiatry) at Nemours Children's HealthThis link opens in a new tab](https:\/\/www.nemours.org\/services\/child-psychology.html)\n\n- [Listen](https:\/\/app-na.readspeaker.com\/cgi-bin\/rsent?customerid=5202&lang=en_us&readid=khcontent_article&url=kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/boost-self-esteem.html \"Listen to this page using ReadSpeaker\")\n  \n  Play\n  \n  Stop\n  \n  Volume\n  \n  [mp3](https:\/\/app-na.readspeaker.com\/cgi-bin\/rsent?customerid=5202&lang=en_us&readid=khcontent_article&url=kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/boost-self-esteem.html&audiofilename=KidsHealth_&save=1 \"mp3\")\n  \n  Settings\n  \n  Close Player\n- Larger text size\n  \n  Large text size\n  \n  Regular text size\n- [Print]()\n\nAs a parent, you want your kids to feel happy about themselves and have good [self-esteem](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/self-esteem.html) (also called a self-image). Your words and actions affect it more than anything else, starting from when they’re babies. Your child absorbs your tone of voice, body language, and every expression.\n\nSelf-esteem can come easier to some kids than others. If your child's self-esteem is low, here are 9 ways you can help boost it:\n\n**1\\. Help your child learn to do things**. For a baby, learning to hold a cup or take first steps sparks a sense of understanding and delight. As a child grows, things like learning to dress, read, or ride a bike are chances for self-esteem to grow.\n\nTeach by showing and helping at first. Then let kids do what they can, even if they make mistakes. This is a key part of developing positive self-esteem. Be sure your kids get a chance to learn, try, and feel proud. Don't make new challenges too easy or too hard. Encourage them to always do their best but explain that they don’t have to be perfect. No one is\\!\n\n**2\\. Praise efforts.** Avoid praising only results (like getting an A) or qualities (like being smart or athletic). Instead, congratulate kids on effort, progress, and attitude. For example: \"You're working hard on that project,\" \"You're getting better at these spelling tests,\" or, \"I'm proud of you for practicing piano — you've really stuck with it.\" With this kind of praise, kids put effort into things, work toward goals, and try. This makes them more likely to succeed.\n\n**3\\. Be honest.** Praise that doesn't feel earned doesn't ring true. For example, telling kids they played a great game when they know they didn't can feel hollow and fake. Instead you can say, \"Even though that wasn’t your best game, I'm proud of you for not giving up.\" Add a vote of confidence: \"Tomorrow, you'll do well.\"\n\n**4\\. Be a good role model.** When you put effort into everyday tasks (like making a meal or washing the dishes), you set a good example. Your child learns to put effort into doing homework, cleaning up toys, or making the bed.\n\nModeling the right attitude counts too. When you do tasks without grumbling or complaining, you teach your child to do the same. When you avoid rushing through chores and take pride in a job well done, your child also learns to do that.\n\n**5\\. Avoid being critical.** The messages kids hear about themselves from others often affect how they feel about themselves. Harsh words or negative statements (like calling a child lazy) don't motivate kids and can hurt their self-esteem. Correct kids with patience. Focus on what you want them to do next time. When needed, show them how.\n\n**6\\. Focus on strengths.** Pay attention to what your kids do well and enjoy. Make sure they have chances to develop these things. Focus more on strengths than weaknesses to help them feel good about themselves. This improves behavior too.\n\n**7\\. Notice what goes well.** It can be easy for kids to focus on what went wrong, like not doing well on a test. Unless they balance it with the good, they'll just feel bad. When you hear your kids complain about themselves or their day, have them find something that went well instead.\n\nAnd try this: Each night before bed, have your child say at least 3 good things that happened that day. Soon kids will start to notice more positive things about the people in their life and themselves.\n\n**8\\. Encourage healthy friendships.** Teach kids that the best friends are those who treat them well, and lift them up by what they say and do. Kids should avoid people who act in ways that tear others down. Instead, they should choose friends they can be themselves with and who help them feel OK about who they are. Help them be that type of friend for others.\n\n**9\\. Let kids help and give.** Self-esteem grows when kids see that what they do matters to others. Kids can help at home, do a service project at school, or do a favor for a sibling. Helping other people and doing kind acts builds self-esteem and other good feelings.\n\nBy helping boost your child’s self-esteem, they’ll have the courage to try new things and make smart choices.\n\n**Medically reviewed by:** [Amanda S. Lochrie, PhD, ABPPThis link opens in a new tab](https:\/\/www.nemours.org\/find-a-doctor\/6038-amanda-lochrie-psychology-jacksonville.html)\n\nDate reviewed: September 2023\n\n## More on this topic for:\n- Parents\n- Kids\n- Teens\n\n## More on this topic For Parents\n- [Your Child's Self-Esteem](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/self-esteem.html)\n- [9 Steps to More Effective Parenting](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/nine-steps.html)\n- [Childhood Fears and Worries](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/anxiety.html)\n\n## More on this topic For Kids\n- [Feeling Good About Yourself (Self-Esteem)](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/kids\/self-esteem.html)\n- [Feeling Good About Your Body](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/kids\/feel-better-about-body.html)\n\n## More on this topic For Teens\n- [How Can I Improve My Self-Esteem?](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/teens\/self-esteem.html)\n- [Confidence in Teens](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/teens\/confidence.html)\n- [How's Your Self-Esteem? (Quiz)](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/teens\/self-esteem-quiz.html)\n- [Body Image and Self-Esteem](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/teens\/body-image.html)\n- [How Positive Thoughts and Emotions Help You](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/teens\/power-positive.html)\n\nView more\n\nShare:\n\n- Share to Facebook\n- Share to Twitter\n- Share to Pinterest\n\n## RELATED CATEGORIES\n- [Emotions](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/emotions\/feelings.html)\n- [Tough Topics](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/positive\/talk.html)\n\n\/content\/kidshealth\/misc\/medicalcodes\/parents\/articles\/boost-self-esteem\n\n##### Who We Are\n- [About Us](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/about.html)\n\n##### Working With Us\n- [Partners](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/partners.html)\n- [Editorial Policy](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/editorial-policy.html)\n- [Permissions Guidelines](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/permissions-guidelines.html)\n- [Media Requests This link opens in a new tab](https:\/\/nemours.mediaroom.com\/journalist-resources)\n- [Contact Us](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/general-information\/contact-us)\n\n##### Legal & Privacy\n- [Privacy Policy & Terms of Use](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/policy.html)\n- [Notice of Nondiscrimination](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/nondiscrimination.html)\n\n##### All Categories\n- [For Parents](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/all-categories.html)\n- [For Kids](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/kids\/all-categories.html)\n- [For Teens](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/teens\/all-categories.html)\n##### Wellness Centers\n- [For Parents](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/centers\/center.html)\n- [For Kids](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/kids\/centers\/center.html)\n- [For Teens](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/teens\/centers\/center.html)\n\n- [![Nemours KidsHealth on Facebook](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/content\/dam\/kh-reskin\/iconFacebookWhite.svg)](https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/nemourskidshealth\/)\n- [![Nemours KidsHealth on X](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/content\/dam\/kh-reskin\/iconTwitterWhite.svg)](https:\/\/x.com\/nemours)\n- [![Nemours KidsHealth on YouTube](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/content\/dam\/kh-reskin\/iconYoutubeWhite.svg)](https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/@NemoursKidsHealth)\n\n[![Nemours](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/content\/dam\/kidshealth\/logo-nemours_KidsHealth.svg)](https:\/\/www.nemours.org\/?external_id=RE2350803010600)\n\nNote: All information on Nemours KidsHealth® is for educational purposes only. For specific medical advice, diagnoses, and treatment, consult your doctor. © 1995-2026. The Nemours Foundation. Nemours Children's Health®, Nemours KidsHealth®, KidsHealth®, and Well Beyond Medicine® are registered trademarks of The Nemours Foundation. All rights reserved. Images sourced by The Nemours Foundation and Getty Images.","attrs_readable_markdown":"As a parent, you want your kids to feel happy about themselves and have good [self-esteem](https:\/\/kidshealth.org\/en\/parents\/self-esteem.html) (also called a self-image). Your words and actions affect it more than anything else, starting from when they’re babies. Your child absorbs your tone of voice, body language, and every expression.\n\nSelf-esteem can come easier to some kids than others. If your child's self-esteem is low, here are 9 ways you can help boost it:\n\n**1\\. Help your child learn to do things**. For a baby, learning to hold a cup or take first steps sparks a sense of understanding and delight. As a child grows, things like learning to dress, read, or ride a bike are chances for self-esteem to grow.\n\nTeach by showing and helping at first. Then let kids do what they can, even if they make mistakes. This is a key part of developing positive self-esteem. Be sure your kids get a chance to learn, try, and feel proud. Don't make new challenges too easy or too hard. Encourage them to always do their best but explain that they don’t have to be perfect. No one is\\!\n\n**2\\. Praise efforts.** Avoid praising only results (like getting an A) or qualities (like being smart or athletic). Instead, congratulate kids on effort, progress, and attitude. For example: \"You're working hard on that project,\" \"You're getting better at these spelling tests,\" or, \"I'm proud of you for practicing piano — you've really stuck with it.\" With this kind of praise, kids put effort into things, work toward goals, and try. This makes them more likely to succeed.\n\n**3\\. Be honest.** Praise that doesn't feel earned doesn't ring true. For example, telling kids they played a great game when they know they didn't can feel hollow and fake. Instead you can say, \"Even though that wasn’t your best game, I'm proud of you for not giving up.\" Add a vote of confidence: \"Tomorrow, you'll do well.\"\n\n**4\\. Be a good role model.** When you put effort into everyday tasks (like making a meal or washing the dishes), you set a good example. Your child learns to put effort into doing homework, cleaning up toys, or making the bed.\n\nModeling the right attitude counts too. When you do tasks without grumbling or complaining, you teach your child to do the same. When you avoid rushing through chores and take pride in a job well done, your child also learns to do that.\n\n**5\\. Avoid being critical.** The messages kids hear about themselves from others often affect how they feel about themselves. Harsh words or negative statements (like calling a child lazy) don't motivate kids and can hurt their self-esteem. Correct kids with patience. Focus on what you want them to do next time. When needed, show them how.\n\n**6\\. Focus on strengths.** Pay attention to what your kids do well and enjoy. Make sure they have chances to develop these things. Focus more on strengths than weaknesses to help them feel good about themselves. This improves behavior too.\n\n**7\\. Notice what goes well.** It can be easy for kids to focus on what went wrong, like not doing well on a test. Unless they balance it with the good, they'll just feel bad. When you hear your kids complain about themselves or their day, have them find something that went well instead.\n\nAnd try this: Each night before bed, have your child say at least 3 good things that happened that day. Soon kids will start to notice more positive things about the people in their life and themselves.\n\n**8\\. Encourage healthy friendships.** Teach kids that the best friends are those who treat them well, and lift them up by what they say and do. Kids should avoid people who act in ways that tear others down. Instead, they should choose friends they can be themselves with and who help them feel OK about who they are. Help them be that type of friend for others.\n\n**9\\. Let kids help and give.** Self-esteem grows when kids see that what they do matters to others. Kids can help at home, do a service project at school, or do a favor for a sibling. Helping other people and doing kind acts builds self-esteem and other good feelings.\n\nBy helping boost your child’s self-esteem, they’ll have the courage to try new things and make smart choices.","meta_canonical":null}

3. Robots.txt Check

Query:

Response:

4. Spam/Ban Check

Query:

Response:

5. Seen Status Check

ℹ️ Skipped - page is already crawled

📄

INDEXABLE

✅

CRAWLED

2 hours ago

🤖

ROBOTS ALLOWED

Page Info Filters

Filter	Status	Condition	Details
HTTP status	PASS	`download_http_code = 200`	HTTP 200
Age cutoff	PASS	`download_stamp > now() - 6 MONTH`	0 months ago
History drop	PASS	`isNull(history_drop_reason)`	No drop reason
Spam/ban	PASS	`fh_dont_index != 1 AND ml_spam_score = 0`	ml_spam_score=0
Canonical	PASS	`meta_canonical IS NULL OR = '' OR = src_unparsed`	Not set

Page Details

Property	Value
URL	https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/boost-self-esteem.html
Last Crawled	2026-04-07 23:46:16 (2 hours ago)
First Indexed	2023-09-20 00:27:01 (2 years ago)
HTTP Status Code	200
Meta Title	9 Ways to Boost Your Child’s Self-Esteem \| Nemours KidsHealth
Meta Description	Self-esteem can come easier to some kids than others. If your child's self-esteem needs a boost, try these suggestions.
Meta Canonical	null
Boilerpipe Text	As a parent, you want your kids to feel happy about themselves and have good self-esteem (also called a self-image). Your words and actions affect it more than anything else, starting from when they’re babies. Your child absorbs your tone of voice, body language, and every expression. Self-esteem can come easier to some kids than others. If your child's self-esteem is low, here are 9 ways you can help boost it: 1. Help your child learn to do things . For a baby, learning to hold a cup or take first steps sparks a sense of understanding and delight. As a child grows, things like learning to dress, read, or ride a bike are chances for self-esteem to grow. Teach by showing and helping at first. Then let kids do what they can, even if they make mistakes. This is a key part of developing positive self-esteem. Be sure your kids get a chance to learn, try, and feel proud. Don't make new challenges too easy or too hard. Encourage them to always do their best but explain that they don’t have to be perfect. No one is! 2. Praise efforts. Avoid praising only results (like getting an A) or qualities (like being smart or athletic). Instead, congratulate kids on effort, progress, and attitude. For example: "You're working hard on that project," "You're getting better at these spelling tests," or, "I'm proud of you for practicing piano — you've really stuck with it." With this kind of praise, kids put effort into things, work toward goals, and try. This makes them more likely to succeed. 3. Be honest. Praise that doesn't feel earned doesn't ring true. For example, telling kids they played a great game when they know they didn't can feel hollow and fake. Instead you can say, "Even though that wasn’t your best game, I'm proud of you for not giving up." Add a vote of confidence: "Tomorrow, you'll do well." 4. Be a good role model. When you put effort into everyday tasks (like making a meal or washing the dishes), you set a good example. Your child learns to put effort into doing homework, cleaning up toys, or making the bed. Modeling the right attitude counts too. When you do tasks without grumbling or complaining, you teach your child to do the same. When you avoid rushing through chores and take pride in a job well done, your child also learns to do that. 5. Avoid being critical. The messages kids hear about themselves from others often affect how they feel about themselves. Harsh words or negative statements (like calling a child lazy) don't motivate kids and can hurt their self-esteem. Correct kids with patience. Focus on what you want them to do next time. When needed, show them how. 6. Focus on strengths. Pay attention to what your kids do well and enjoy. Make sure they have chances to develop these things. Focus more on strengths than weaknesses to help them feel good about themselves. This improves behavior too. 7. Notice what goes well. It can be easy for kids to focus on what went wrong, like not doing well on a test. Unless they balance it with the good, they'll just feel bad. When you hear your kids complain about themselves or their day, have them find something that went well instead. And try this: Each night before bed, have your child say at least 3 good things that happened that day. Soon kids will start to notice more positive things about the people in their life and themselves. 8. Encourage healthy friendships. Teach kids that the best friends are those who treat them well, and lift them up by what they say and do. Kids should avoid people who act in ways that tear others down. Instead, they should choose friends they can be themselves with and who help them feel OK about who they are. Help them be that type of friend for others. 9. Let kids help and give. Self-esteem grows when kids see that what they do matters to others. Kids can help at home, do a service project at school, or do a favor for a sibling. Helping other people and doing kind acts builds self-esteem and other good feelings. By helping boost your child’s self-esteem, they’ll have the courage to try new things and make smart choices.
Markdown	[\[Skip to Content\]](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/boost-self-esteem.html#thelou) Find care at [Nemours Children's Health](https://www.nemours.org/?external_id=RE2350835010600) [Doctors](https://www.nemours.org/find-a-doctor.html?external_id=RE2350835010600) [Locations](https://www.nemours.org/locations.html?external_id=RE2350835010600) [![Nemours KidsHealth](https://kidshealth.org/content/dam/kh-reskin/nemours-kidshealth-logo.svg)](https://kidshealth.org/) [Sign Up](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/milestones-newsletter.html) - For Parents - For Kids - For Teens - For Educators Search Menu [![Nemours KidsHealth](https://kidshealth.org/content/dam/kh-reskin/nemours-kidshealth-logo.svg)](https://kidshealth.org/) Close Menu - For Parents - For Kids - For Teens - For Educators - ##### MILESTONES NEWSLETTER Subscribe for trustworthy health information delivered directly to your inbox [Sign Up](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/milestones-newsletter.html) Back Featured Topics For Parents - [Sitio para padres](https://kidshealth.org/es/parents/) - [Parents Home](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/) - [General Health](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/general/) - [Growth & Development](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/growth/) - [Infections](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/infections/) - [Diseases & Conditions](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/medical/) - [Pregnancy & Baby](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/pregnancy-newborn/) - [Nutrition & Fitness](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/nutrition-center/) - [Emotions & Behavior](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/emotions/) - [School & Family Life](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/positive/) - [First Aid & Safety](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/firstaid-safe/) - [Doctors & Hospitals](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/system/) - [Videos](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/videos/) - [Expert Answers (Q\&A)](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/question/) - [All Categories](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/all-categories.html) - [All Wellness Centers](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/centers/center.html) [![](https://kidshealth.org/content/dam/kh-reskin/menu-promo-kid-30th.png) Nemours KidsHealth® Is Celebrating! We've been providing trusted health information for 30 years. Learn More](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/celebrating-30-years.html) - [Parents Home](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/) - [Sitio para padres](https://kidshealth.org/es/parents/) - [All Categories](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/all-categories.html) - [All Wellness Centers](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/centers/center.html) Back Featured Topics For Kids - [Sitio para niños](https://kidshealth.org/es/kids/) - [Kids Home](https://kidshealth.org/en/kids/) - [How the Body Works](https://kidshealth.org/en/kids/center/htbw-main-page.html) - [Puberty & Growing Up](https://kidshealth.org/en/kids/grow/) - [Staying Healthy](https://kidshealth.org/en/kids/stay-healthy/) - [Staying Safe](https://kidshealth.org/en/kids/watch/) - [Dictionary](https://kidshealth.org/en/kids/word/) - [Health Problems](https://kidshealth.org/en/kids/health-problems/) - [Illnesses & Injuries](https://kidshealth.org/en/kids/ill-injure/) - [Relax & Unwind](https://kidshealth.org/en/kids/center/relax-center.html) - [People, Places & Things That Help](https://kidshealth.org/en/kids/feel-better/) - [Feelings](https://kidshealth.org/en/kids/feeling/) - [Expert Answers (Q\&A)](https://kidshealth.org/en/kids/talk/) - [Videos](https://kidshealth.org/en/kids/videos/) - [All Categories](https://kidshealth.org/en/kids/all-categories.html) - [All Wellness Centers](https://kidshealth.org/en/kids/centers/center.html) [![](https://kidshealth.org/content/dam/kh-reskin/menu-promo-kid-30th.png) Nemours KidsHealth® Is Celebrating! We've been providing trusted health information for 30 years. Learn More](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/celebrating-30-years.html) - [Kids Home](https://kidshealth.org/en/kids/) - [Sitio para niños](https://kidshealth.org/es/kids/) - [All Categories](https://kidshealth.org/en/kids/all-categories.html) - [All Wellness Centers](https://kidshealth.org/en/kids/centers/center.html) Back Featured Topics For Teens - [Sitio para adolescentes](https://kidshealth.org/es/teens/) - [Teens Home](https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/) - [Body](https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/your-body/) - [Mind](https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/your-mind/) - [Sexual Health](https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/sexual-health/) - [Food & Fitness](https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/food-fitness/) - [Diseases & Conditions](https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/diseases-conditions/) - [Infections](https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/infections/) - [Drugs & Alcohol](https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/drug-alcohol/) - [School & Jobs](https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/school-jobs/) - [Sports](https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/sports-center/) - [Expert Answers (Q\&A)](https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/expert/) - [Staying Safe](https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/safety/) - [Videos](https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/videos/) - [All Categories](https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/all-categories.html) - [All Wellness Centers](https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/centers/center.html) [![](https://kidshealth.org/content/dam/kh-reskin/menu-promo-kid-30th.png) Nemours KidsHealth® Is Celebrating! We've been providing trusted health information for 30 years. Learn More](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/celebrating-30-years.html) - [Teens Home](https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/) - [Sitio para adolescentes](https://kidshealth.org/es/teens/) - [All Categories](https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/all-categories.html) - [All Wellness Centers](https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/centers/center.html) - [KidsHealth](https://kidshealth.org/) - [Parents](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/) - 9 Ways to Boost Your Child’s Self-Esteem # 9 Ways to Boost Your Child’s Self-Esteem en español: [9 maneras de fomentar la autoestima de su hijo](https://kidshealth.org/es/parents/boost-self-esteem.html) Medically reviewed by: [Amanda S. Lochrie, PhD, ABPPThis link opens in a new tab](https://www.nemours.org/find-a-doctor/6038-amanda-lochrie-psychology-jacksonville.html) [Learn About Behavioral Health (Psychology and Psychiatry) at Nemours Children's HealthThis link opens in a new tab](https://www.nemours.org/services/child-psychology.html) - [Listen](https://app-na.readspeaker.com/cgi-bin/rsent?customerid=5202&lang=en_us&readid=khcontent_article&url=kidshealth.org/en/parents/boost-self-esteem.html "Listen to this page using ReadSpeaker") Play Stop Volume [mp3](https://app-na.readspeaker.com/cgi-bin/rsent?customerid=5202&lang=en_us&readid=khcontent_article&url=kidshealth.org/en/parents/boost-self-esteem.html&audiofilename=KidsHealth_&save=1 "mp3") Settings Close Player - Larger text size Large text size Regular text size - [Print]() As a parent, you want your kids to feel happy about themselves and have good [self-esteem](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/self-esteem.html) (also called a self-image). Your words and actions affect it more than anything else, starting from when they’re babies. Your child absorbs your tone of voice, body language, and every expression. Self-esteem can come easier to some kids than others. If your child's self-esteem is low, here are 9 ways you can help boost it: 1\. Help your child learn to do things. For a baby, learning to hold a cup or take first steps sparks a sense of understanding and delight. As a child grows, things like learning to dress, read, or ride a bike are chances for self-esteem to grow. Teach by showing and helping at first. Then let kids do what they can, even if they make mistakes. This is a key part of developing positive self-esteem. Be sure your kids get a chance to learn, try, and feel proud. Don't make new challenges too easy or too hard. Encourage them to always do their best but explain that they don’t have to be perfect. No one is\! 2\. Praise efforts. Avoid praising only results (like getting an A) or qualities (like being smart or athletic). Instead, congratulate kids on effort, progress, and attitude. For example: "You're working hard on that project," "You're getting better at these spelling tests," or, "I'm proud of you for practicing piano — you've really stuck with it." With this kind of praise, kids put effort into things, work toward goals, and try. This makes them more likely to succeed. 3\. Be honest. Praise that doesn't feel earned doesn't ring true. For example, telling kids they played a great game when they know they didn't can feel hollow and fake. Instead you can say, "Even though that wasn’t your best game, I'm proud of you for not giving up." Add a vote of confidence: "Tomorrow, you'll do well." 4\. Be a good role model. When you put effort into everyday tasks (like making a meal or washing the dishes), you set a good example. Your child learns to put effort into doing homework, cleaning up toys, or making the bed. Modeling the right attitude counts too. When you do tasks without grumbling or complaining, you teach your child to do the same. When you avoid rushing through chores and take pride in a job well done, your child also learns to do that. 5\. Avoid being critical. The messages kids hear about themselves from others often affect how they feel about themselves. Harsh words or negative statements (like calling a child lazy) don't motivate kids and can hurt their self-esteem. Correct kids with patience. Focus on what you want them to do next time. When needed, show them how. 6\. Focus on strengths. Pay attention to what your kids do well and enjoy. Make sure they have chances to develop these things. Focus more on strengths than weaknesses to help them feel good about themselves. This improves behavior too. 7\. Notice what goes well. It can be easy for kids to focus on what went wrong, like not doing well on a test. Unless they balance it with the good, they'll just feel bad. When you hear your kids complain about themselves or their day, have them find something that went well instead. And try this: Each night before bed, have your child say at least 3 good things that happened that day. Soon kids will start to notice more positive things about the people in their life and themselves. 8\. Encourage healthy friendships. Teach kids that the best friends are those who treat them well, and lift them up by what they say and do. Kids should avoid people who act in ways that tear others down. Instead, they should choose friends they can be themselves with and who help them feel OK about who they are. Help them be that type of friend for others. 9\. Let kids help and give. Self-esteem grows when kids see that what they do matters to others. Kids can help at home, do a service project at school, or do a favor for a sibling. Helping other people and doing kind acts builds self-esteem and other good feelings. By helping boost your child’s self-esteem, they’ll have the courage to try new things and make smart choices. Medically reviewed by: [Amanda S. Lochrie, PhD, ABPPThis link opens in a new tab](https://www.nemours.org/find-a-doctor/6038-amanda-lochrie-psychology-jacksonville.html) Date reviewed: September 2023 ## More on this topic for: - Parents - Kids - Teens ## More on this topic For Parents - [Your Child's Self-Esteem](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/self-esteem.html) - [9 Steps to More Effective Parenting](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/nine-steps.html) - [Childhood Fears and Worries](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/anxiety.html) ## More on this topic For Kids - [Feeling Good About Yourself (Self-Esteem)](https://kidshealth.org/en/kids/self-esteem.html) - [Feeling Good About Your Body](https://kidshealth.org/en/kids/feel-better-about-body.html) ## More on this topic For Teens - [How Can I Improve My Self-Esteem?](https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/self-esteem.html) - [Confidence in Teens](https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/confidence.html) - [How's Your Self-Esteem? (Quiz)](https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/self-esteem-quiz.html) - [Body Image and Self-Esteem](https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/body-image.html) - [How Positive Thoughts and Emotions Help You](https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/power-positive.html) View more Share: - Share to Facebook - Share to Twitter - Share to Pinterest ## RELATED CATEGORIES - [Emotions](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/emotions/feelings.html) - [Tough Topics](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/positive/talk.html) /content/kidshealth/misc/medicalcodes/parents/articles/boost-self-esteem ##### Who We Are - [About Us](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/about.html) ##### Working With Us - [Partners](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/partners.html) - [Editorial Policy](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/editorial-policy.html) - [Permissions Guidelines](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/permissions-guidelines.html) - [Media Requests This link opens in a new tab](https://nemours.mediaroom.com/journalist-resources) - [Contact Us](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/general-information/contact-us) ##### Legal & Privacy - [Privacy Policy & Terms of Use](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/policy.html) - [Notice of Nondiscrimination](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/nondiscrimination.html) ##### All Categories - [For Parents](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/all-categories.html) - [For Kids](https://kidshealth.org/en/kids/all-categories.html) - [For Teens](https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/all-categories.html) ##### Wellness Centers - [For Parents](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/centers/center.html) - [For Kids](https://kidshealth.org/en/kids/centers/center.html) - [For Teens](https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/centers/center.html) - [![Nemours KidsHealth on Facebook](https://kidshealth.org/content/dam/kh-reskin/iconFacebookWhite.svg)](https://www.facebook.com/nemourskidshealth/) - [![Nemours KidsHealth on X](https://kidshealth.org/content/dam/kh-reskin/iconTwitterWhite.svg)](https://x.com/nemours) - [![Nemours KidsHealth on YouTube](https://kidshealth.org/content/dam/kh-reskin/iconYoutubeWhite.svg)](https://www.youtube.com/@NemoursKidsHealth) [![Nemours](https://kidshealth.org/content/dam/kidshealth/logo-nemours_KidsHealth.svg)](https://www.nemours.org/?external_id=RE2350803010600) Note: All information on Nemours KidsHealth® is for educational purposes only. For specific medical advice, diagnoses, and treatment, consult your doctor. © 1995-2026. The Nemours Foundation. Nemours Children's Health®, Nemours KidsHealth®, KidsHealth®, and Well Beyond Medicine® are registered trademarks of The Nemours Foundation. All rights reserved. Images sourced by The Nemours Foundation and Getty Images.
Readable Markdown	As a parent, you want your kids to feel happy about themselves and have good [self-esteem](https://kidshealth.org/en/parents/self-esteem.html) (also called a self-image). Your words and actions affect it more than anything else, starting from when they’re babies. Your child absorbs your tone of voice, body language, and every expression. Self-esteem can come easier to some kids than others. If your child's self-esteem is low, here are 9 ways you can help boost it: 1\. Help your child learn to do things. For a baby, learning to hold a cup or take first steps sparks a sense of understanding and delight. As a child grows, things like learning to dress, read, or ride a bike are chances for self-esteem to grow. Teach by showing and helping at first. Then let kids do what they can, even if they make mistakes. This is a key part of developing positive self-esteem. Be sure your kids get a chance to learn, try, and feel proud. Don't make new challenges too easy or too hard. Encourage them to always do their best but explain that they don’t have to be perfect. No one is\! 2\. Praise efforts. Avoid praising only results (like getting an A) or qualities (like being smart or athletic). Instead, congratulate kids on effort, progress, and attitude. For example: "You're working hard on that project," "You're getting better at these spelling tests," or, "I'm proud of you for practicing piano — you've really stuck with it." With this kind of praise, kids put effort into things, work toward goals, and try. This makes them more likely to succeed. 3\. Be honest. Praise that doesn't feel earned doesn't ring true. For example, telling kids they played a great game when they know they didn't can feel hollow and fake. Instead you can say, "Even though that wasn’t your best game, I'm proud of you for not giving up." Add a vote of confidence: "Tomorrow, you'll do well." 4\. Be a good role model. When you put effort into everyday tasks (like making a meal or washing the dishes), you set a good example. Your child learns to put effort into doing homework, cleaning up toys, or making the bed. Modeling the right attitude counts too. When you do tasks without grumbling or complaining, you teach your child to do the same. When you avoid rushing through chores and take pride in a job well done, your child also learns to do that. 5\. Avoid being critical. The messages kids hear about themselves from others often affect how they feel about themselves. Harsh words or negative statements (like calling a child lazy) don't motivate kids and can hurt their self-esteem. Correct kids with patience. Focus on what you want them to do next time. When needed, show them how. 6\. Focus on strengths. Pay attention to what your kids do well and enjoy. Make sure they have chances to develop these things. Focus more on strengths than weaknesses to help them feel good about themselves. This improves behavior too. 7\. Notice what goes well. It can be easy for kids to focus on what went wrong, like not doing well on a test. Unless they balance it with the good, they'll just feel bad. When you hear your kids complain about themselves or their day, have them find something that went well instead. And try this: Each night before bed, have your child say at least 3 good things that happened that day. Soon kids will start to notice more positive things about the people in their life and themselves. 8\. Encourage healthy friendships. Teach kids that the best friends are those who treat them well, and lift them up by what they say and do. Kids should avoid people who act in ways that tear others down. Instead, they should choose friends they can be themselves with and who help them feel OK about who they are. Help them be that type of friend for others. 9\. Let kids help and give. Self-esteem grows when kids see that what they do matters to others. Kids can help at home, do a service project at school, or do a favor for a sibling. Helping other people and doing kind acts builds self-esteem and other good feelings. By helping boost your child’s self-esteem, they’ll have the courage to try new things and make smart choices.
Shard	77 (laksa)
Root Hash	11780170919675751477
Unparsed URL	org,kidshealth!/en/parents/boost-self-esteem.html s443