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Calculated Shard: 152 (from laksa094)

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curl -X POST \
  'http://laksa152.int.ahrefs:8124/' \
  -H 'Content-Type: text/plain' \
  -H 'X-ClickHouse-Database: crawler3' \
  -H 'Authorization: Basic YXBpOg==' \
  -d 'SELECT getAhrefsURLFromUnparsed(src_unparsed) AS found_url, ifNull(toUnixTimestamp(download_stamp), 0) AS crawl_time, ifNull(toUnixTimestamp(props_url_first_seen), 0) AS first_indexed_time, download_http_code AS http_code, src_unparsed AS src_unparsed, src_root_hash AS src_root_hash, history_drop_reason AS history_drop_reason, meta_title AS meta_title, meta_descriptions AS meta_descriptions, attrs_boilerpipe_text AS attrs_boilerpipe_text, attrs_markdown AS attrs_markdown, attrs_readable_markdown AS attrs_readable_markdown, meta_canonical AS meta_canonical FROM crawler3.page_info_local FINAL PREWHERE (src_root_hash, src_unparsed) IN ((getAhrefsRootHashFromUnparsed(getAhrefsUnparsedNoserviceFromURL(\'https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend\')), getAhrefsUnparsedNoserviceFromURL(\'https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend\'))) FORMAT JSONEachRow'

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{"found_url":"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend","crawl_time":1774122770,"first_indexed_time":1624438975,"http_code":200,"src_unparsed":"org,wikipedia!en,\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend s443","src_root_hash":"17790707453426894952","history_drop_reason":null,"meta_title":"Distracted boyfriend - Wikipedia","meta_descriptions":[],"attrs_boilerpipe_text":"The stock photograph that inspired the meme\nDistracted boyfriend\nis an\nInternet meme\nbased on a 2015\nstock photograph\nby Spanish photographer Antonio Guillem. Social media users started using the image as a meme at the start of 2017, and it went viral in August 2017 as a way to depict different forms of disloyalty. The meme has inspired various spin-offs and received critical acclaim.\nThe stock image was taken in the city of\nGirona\nin\nCatalonia\n,\nSpain\n, in mid-2015 by photographer Antonio Guillem from\nBarcelona\n.\n[\n1\n]\nGuillem told\nWired\nthat he and the stock image models planned on having a session that would represent the concept of infidelity \"in a playful and fun way\".\n[\n2\n]\nThe boyfriend and girlfriend in the photograph are known by their stage names \"Mario\" and \"Laura\". \"Laura\" later described the experience shooting the stock images, saying: \"When people saw us simulate those scenes in the street, they stopped to look and laugh and, in my case that I had to have a more serious face, I had a hard time to keeping it  [\nsic\n]\".\n[\n3\n]\nThe image was uploaded to\nShutterstock\nwith the caption: \"Disloyal man walking with his girlfriend and looking amazed at another seductive girl\".\n[\n4\n]\nRegarding the copyright status of this image, Guillem has stated that his images \"are subject to copyright laws and the license agreements of the microstock agencies. It's not allowed to use any image without purchasing the proper license in any possible way, so each one of the people that use the images without the license are doing it illegally. This is not the thing that really worries us, as they are just a group of people doing it in good faith, and we are not going to take any action, except for the extreme cases in which this good faith doesn't exist\".\n[\n5\n]\nThe first known use of the stock image as an internet meme was posted to a Turkish\nprogressive rock\nFacebook group\nin January 2017. The post labeled the man as\nPhil Collins\n, who is being distracted from progressive rock by pop music. This meme was reposted on an English-language progressive rock\nFacebook\npage the next day, and then on\nTwitter\non February 2, 2017.\n[\n6\n]\nLater that month, the original stock photograph was shared on\nInstagram\nand got almost 30,000 likes.\n[\n7\n]\nThe meme started going viral on August 19, 2017 after a Twitter user posted the photograph with the man labeled \"the youth\" being distracted from his girlfriend \"\ncapitalism\n\" by \"\nsocialism\n\". Another Twitter user copied this meme, getting retweeted more than 35,000 retweets and nearly 100,000 likes.\n[\n8\n]\nThe meme and its permutations went viral on Twitter, Reddit, and Facebook.\n[\n8\n]\n[\n9\n]\nThe distracted-boyfriend meme is listed by\nKnow Your Meme\nas an example of\nobject labeling\n.\n[\n10\n]\nThe girlfriend in the meme generally came to represent something that one is supposed to do and the woman wearing red came to represent something more desirable or riskier.\n[\n11\n]\nThe models \"Mario\" and \"Laura\" say they first learned about the memes based on their photograph when people started posting them to their social media accounts.\n[\n12\n]\n[\n3\n]\nIn late August 2017, Guillem told\nThe Guardian\nthat \"I didn't even know what a meme is until recently. The models discovered the meme on social media and they told me about it. None of us could imagine the media repercussion that it has reached right now\".\n[\n1\n]\nSome brands started using the meme when it started going viral.\n[\n13\n]\nIn early January 2018, a version of the meme referencing the biblical story of\nLot's wife\nturning into a pillar of salt went viral on Twitter.\n[\n14\n]\nThe meme was used in a sign for the \"\nEnough! National School Walkout\n\" gun violence protest in March 2018.\n[\n15\n]\n[\n16\n]\nOn June 25, 2018, Twitter user Ernie Smith noted other stock images in which the girlfriend from the original meme is surprised looking at screens.\n[\n17\n]\nIn November 2020, it was used in a commercial for Jules, a French clothing company.\n[\n18\n]\nThe New York Times\npublished the meme in its Business section on May 29, 2019, referencing the proposed merger of\nRenault\nand\nFiat Chrysler Automobiles\n. The boyfriend is labeled as \"Renault\", who is being distracted by \"Fiat Chrysler\" with his girlfriend \"\nNissan\n\".\n[\n19\n]\nVariations and spin-offs\n[\nedit\n]\nMeme inspired by a print of the 1761 painting\nDavid Garrick Between Tragedy and Comedy\nEarly variations of the distracted meme used other photos from Guillem's photo shoot of the three stock characters to create a story.\n[\n7\n]\nIn late January 2018, some social media users noted similarities between the meme and a\nMission: Impossible – Fallout\nteaser image featuring\nHenry Cavill\nand\nAngela Bassett\n.\n[\n20\n]\nOn April 16, 2018, a Twitter user called the\nJoshua Reynolds\n1761 painting\nDavid Garrick Between Tragedy and Comedy\nthe \"18th-century equivalent\" of the distracted boyfriend meme;\n[\n21\n]\nthe painting itself would then become popular as a similar meme with historic references.\n[\n11\n]\nSimilarities have been drawn with a shot from Charlie Chaplin's 1922 film,\nPay Day\nIn May 2018, a Twitter user posted an image pairing a coin commemorating the\nwedding of Prince Harry and Meghan Markle\nwith one of the characters from the meme.\n[\n22\n]\nIn June 2018, film writer Peter Goldberg posted on his Twitter account a scene from\nCharlie Chaplin\n's 1922 short film\nPay Day\nwith a format similar to the distracted-boyfriend meme.\n[\n23\n]\n[\n24\n]\n[\n25\n]\nIn July 2018, a photograph of a woman eating ice cream with a man and a woman holding hands in Venice went viral because of its similarities to the distracted boyfriend meme.\n[\n26\n]\nA version of the meme featuring a distracted groom went viral on Twitter in October 2018.\n[\n27\n]\nIn Hungary, another stock photo of the same two models was used in a government campaign to promote child birth, prompting ridicule.\n[\n28\n]\nNathan Heller of\nThe New Yorker\nwrote that \"the delight of the Distracted Boyfriend meme was not unlike the perverse pleasure taken by Distracted Boyfriend himself: it allowed America to turn its attention away from much more important commitments\".\n[\n29\n]\nTiffany Kelly of\nThe Daily Dot\nwrote that \"the distracted boyfriend meme's range, unintentionally created by Guillem's portfolio, set it apart from other popular internet content [in 2017]\".\n[\n30\n]\nClair Valentine of\nPaper\nlisted the meme as one that defined the year 2017, writing that \"They say that often, the most specific stories are in fact the most universal, and this meme's absurd popularity proves that point beyond a shadow of a doubt\".\n[\n31\n]\nThe meme made various lists of the top memes of 2017, including\nNDTV\n[\n32\n]\nThe Next Web\n,\n[\n33\n]\nPC Magazine\n,\n[\n34\n]\nThe Ringer\n,\n[\n35\n]\nand\nNarcity\n.\n[\n36\n]\nThe Washington Post\nlisted the meme on its \"Meme Hall of Fame of 2017\", calling it \"the ultimate stock photo meme with endless permutations\".\n[\n37\n]\nThe\nReddit\nmoderators of the \/r\/MemeEconomy subreddit told\nInverse\nthat they thought it was one of the best memes of 2017.\n[\n38\n]\nIn April 2018, the meme won the Best Meme of 2017 category at the 10th Annual\nShorty Awards\n.\n[\n39\n]\nJoe McCarthy of\nGlobal Citizen\nwrote that the original photograph depicts \"sexual harassment\", and criticized most uses of the meme for failing \"to transcend the image's inherent, toxic sexism\".\n[\n40\n]\nIn September 2018,\nSweden\n's advertising\nombudsman\ndetermined the internet service provider\nBahnhof\nhad broken rules against gender discrimination when it used the meme in an advertisement which portrayed Bahnhof's employment opportunities as the attention-stealing woman and the ignored girlfriend as \"your current workplace\".\n[\n41\n]\n^\na\nb\nBelam, Martin (August 30, 2017).\n\"I didn't know what a meme was, says Distracted Boyfriend photographer\"\n.\nThe Guardian\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\nBarrett, Brian (August 28, 2017).\n\"The 'Distracted Boyfriend' Meme's Photographer Explains All\"\n.\nWired\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\na\nb\nShamsian, Jacob (August 29, 2017).\n\"The spurned girlfriend from the 'distracted boyfriend' meme thinks everyone 'has been the girl in the red dress'\n\"\n.\nInsider\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\nMolina, Brett (August 25, 2017).\n\"The 'disloyal man' meme, explained\"\n.\nUSA Today\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\nZhang, Michael (September 18, 2017).\n\"The Story Behind That Viral 'Distracted Boyfriend' Meme Photo\"\n.\nPetaPixel\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\nBritton, David (July 14, 2018).\n\"The best Distracted Boyfriend memes\"\n.\nThe Daily Dot\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\na\nb\nWanshel, Elyse (August 25, 2017).\n\"The Story Behind The Stock Photo That Launched A Thousand Jokes\"\n.\nHuffPost\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\na\nb\nRomano, Aja (August 25, 2017).\n\"Why that \"distracted boyfriend\" stock photo meme is suddenly everywhere\"\n.\nVox\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\nHathaway, Jay (August 24, 2017).\n\"The distracted boyfriend is everyone's favorite new meme\"\n.\nThe Daily Dot\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\nSchwedel, Heather (March 22, 2018).\n\"Thanks to the Distracted Boyfriend, We're Living in a Golden Age of 'Object Labeling' Memes\"\n.\nSlate\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\na\nb\nTansill-Suddath, Callie (April 17, 2018).\n\"The 'Distracted Boyfriend' Meme Has An 18th Century Version That People Are Going Wild For On Twitter\"\n.\nBustle\n. Retrieved\nJuly 24,\n2018\n.\n^\nFeldman, Brian (August 29, 2017).\n\"\n'Disloyal Man' Meme Models: 'People Have a Lot of Imagination!'\n\"\n.\nNew York\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\nBradley, Diana (August 30, 2017).\n\"5 brands insert themselves into the viral 'distracted boyfriend' stock picture\"\n.\nPRWeek\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\nBritton, David (January 5, 2018).\n\"The 'Distracted Boyfriend' meme gets a biblical makeover\"\n.\nThe Daily Dot\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\nReinstein, Julia (March 15, 2018).\n\"Teens Brought Their Meme Brilliance To The National School Walkout\"\n.\nBuzzFeed News\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\nAlemoru, Text Kemi (March 16, 2018).\n\"How memes became an agent of protest in 2018\"\n.\nDazed\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\nAmatulll, Jenna (June 26, 2018).\n\"Woman In Distracted Boyfriend Meme Is Perpetually Shocked In Other Stock Photos\"\n.\nHuffPost\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\nJules - Men In Progress (November 2020)\n, November 2, 2020\n, retrieved\nApril 20,\n2023\n^\nKircher, Madison Malone (May 29, 2019).\n\"New York Times: Hello, Fellow Kids\"\n.\nNew York Magazine\n. Retrieved\nMay 29,\n2019\n.\n^\nBastidas, Jose (January 27, 2018).\n\"\n'Mission: Impossible 6' Teaser Resembles 'Distracted Boyfriend' Meme\"\n.\nPopCulture.com\n.\nEntertainment Tonight\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\nKelly, Tiffany (April 17, 2018).\n\"This 18th-century painting looks like the Distracted Boyfriend meme\"\n.\nThe Daily Dot\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\nReitz, Collette (May 4, 2018).\n\"Meghan Markle & Prince Harry's Coin Just Got Turned Into The Funniest Meme\"\n.\nElite Daily\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\nEvon, Dan (June 11, 2018).\n\"Did the 'Distracted Boyfriend' Meme Come From a 1920's Silent Film?\"\n.\nSnopes\n.\n^\nNovak, Matt (June 11, 2018).\n\"Did Charlie Chaplin Invent the Distracted Boyfriend Meme?\"\n.\nPaleofuture\n.\nGizmodo Media Group\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\n\"Charlie Chaplin - The Original Distracted Boyfriend (Clip from \"Pay Day\")\"\n.\nYouTube\n. June 12, 2018.\n^\nDrascott, Edd (July 8, 2018).\n\"This photobomber recreated the Distracted Boyfriend meme by fluke\"\n.\nIrish Independent\n. Press Association\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\nBruner, Raisa (October 1, 2018).\n\"Distracted Groom Meme Is a Step Up From Distracted Boyfriend\"\n.\nTime\n. Retrieved\nOctober 2,\n2018\n.\n^\nWalker, Shaun (March 13, 2019).\n\"Orbán's family values ads mocked for using 'distracted boyfriend' models\"\n.\nThe Guardian\n.\n^\nHeller, Nathan (December 11, 2017).\n\"The Distracted Boyfriend Meme's Perverse Pleasure in 2017\"\n.\nThe New Yorker\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\nKelly, Tiffany (December 25, 2017).\n\"Distracted Boyfriend Is the Meme of the Year\"\n.\nThe Daily Dot\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\nValentine, Claire (December 30, 2017).\n\"The 10 Memes That Defined 2017\"\n.\nPaper\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\n\"From Salt Bae to Distracted Boyfriend, 10 Memes We Loved in 2017\"\n.\nGadgets360\n.\nNDTV\n. December 25, 2017\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\nKaser, Rachel (December 25, 2017).\n\"2017 in Memes: The best of the best\"\n.\nThe Next Web\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\nMoscaritolo, Angela (December 20, 2017).\n\"Distracted Boyfriend to Salt Bae: 2017's Best Memes\"\n.\nPC Magazine\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\n\"The Best Memes of 2017\"\n.\nThe Ringer\n. December 21, 2018\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\n\"Here Are The Top Memes Of 2017\"\n.\nNarcity\n.\nNarcity Media\n. December 19, 2017. Archived from\nthe original\non July 21, 2018\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\nPodnar, Rachel (December 28, 2017).\n\"Trending: Meme Hall of Fame of 2017\"\n.\nThe Washington Post\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\nPaoletta, Rae (December 26, 2017).\n\"Reddit Moderators Reveal The Best Memes of 2017, And The Ones That Must Die\"\n.\nInverse\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\n\"It's Official: The Shorty Awards Have Declared 'Distracted Boyfriend' The Best Meme Of 2017\"\n.\nMemebase\n.\nCheezburger\n. April 16, 2018\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\nMcCarthy, Joe (August 24, 2017).\n\"The Best 'Disloyal Man' Meme Shows Why It's Problematic\"\n.\nGlobal Citizen\n.\nGlobal Poverty Project\n. Archived from\nthe original\non February 9, 2023\n. Retrieved\nJuly 21,\n2018\n.\n^\nTsang, Amie (September 26, 2018).\n\"The Distracted Boyfriend Who Took Over the Internet Is Deemed Sexist in Sweden\"\n.\nThe New York Times\n. 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2.821250](https:\/\/geohack.toolforge.org\/geohack.php?pagename=Distracted_boyfriend&params=41_58_57.6_N_2_49_16.5_E_)\n\nFrom Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia\n\nStock photograph and internet meme\n\n[![](https:\/\/upload.wikimedia.org\/wikipedia\/en\/b\/be\/Disloyal_man_with_his_girlfriend_looking_at_another_girl.jpg)](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/File:Disloyal_man_with_his_girlfriend_looking_at_another_girl.jpg)\n\nThe stock photograph that inspired the meme\n\n**Distracted boyfriend** is an [Internet meme](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Internet_meme \"Internet meme\") based on a 2015 [stock photograph](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Stock_photograph \"Stock photograph\") by Spanish photographer Antonio Guillem. Social media users started using the image as a meme at the start of 2017, and it went viral in August 2017 as a way to depict different forms of disloyalty. The meme has inspired various spin-offs and received critical acclaim.\n\n## Stock photograph\n\\[[edit](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/w\/index.php?title=Distracted_boyfriend&action=edit&section=1 \"Edit section: Stock photograph\")\\]\n\nThe stock image was taken in the city of [Girona](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Girona \"Girona\") in [Catalonia](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Catalonia \"Catalonia\"), [Spain](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Spain \"Spain\"), in mid-2015 by photographer Antonio Guillem from [Barcelona](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Barcelona \"Barcelona\").[\\[1\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-Belam_2017-1) Guillem told *[Wired](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Wired_\\(magazine\\) \"Wired (magazine)\")* that he and the stock image models planned on having a session that would represent the concept of infidelity \"in a playful and fun way\".[\\[2\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-2) The boyfriend and girlfriend in the photograph are known by their stage names \"Mario\" and \"Laura\". \"Laura\" later described the experience shooting the stock images, saying: \"When people saw us simulate those scenes in the street, they stopped to look and laugh and, in my case that I had to have a more serious face, I had a hard time to keeping it \\[*[sic](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Sic \"Sic\")*\\]\".[\\[3\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-Insider_interview-3)\n\nThe image was uploaded to [Shutterstock](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Shutterstock \"Shutterstock\") with the caption: \"Disloyal man walking with his girlfriend and looking amazed at another seductive girl\".[\\[4\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-4) Regarding the copyright status of this image, Guillem has stated that his images \"are subject to copyright laws and the license agreements of the microstock agencies. It's not allowed to use any image without purchasing the proper license in any possible way, so each one of the people that use the images without the license are doing it illegally. This is not the thing that really worries us, as they are just a group of people doing it in good faith, and we are not going to take any action, except for the extreme cases in which this good faith doesn't exist\".[\\[5\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-5)\n\n## Meme\n\\[[edit](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/w\/index.php?title=Distracted_boyfriend&action=edit&section=2 \"Edit section: Meme\")\\]\n\nThe first known use of the stock image as an internet meme was posted to a Turkish [progressive rock](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Progressive_rock \"Progressive rock\") [Facebook group](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Facebook_group \"Facebook group\") in January 2017. The post labeled the man as [Phil Collins](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Phil_Collins \"Phil Collins\"), who is being distracted from progressive rock by pop music. This meme was reposted on an English-language progressive rock [Facebook](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Facebook \"Facebook\") page the next day, and then on [Twitter](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Twitter \"Twitter\") on February 2, 2017.[\\[6\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-6) Later that month, the original stock photograph was shared on [Instagram](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Instagram \"Instagram\") and got almost 30,000 likes.[\\[7\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-HuffPost-7)\n\nThe meme started going viral on August 19, 2017 after a Twitter user posted the photograph with the man labeled \"the youth\" being distracted from his girlfriend \"[capitalism](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Capitalism \"Capitalism\")\" by \"[socialism](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Socialism \"Socialism\")\". Another Twitter user copied this meme, getting retweeted more than 35,000 retweets and nearly 100,000 likes.[\\[8\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-Vox_Romano-8) The meme and its permutations went viral on Twitter, Reddit, and Facebook.[\\[8\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-Vox_Romano-8)[\\[9\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-9) The distracted-boyfriend meme is listed by *[Know Your Meme](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Know_Your_Meme \"Know Your Meme\")* as an example of *object labeling*.[\\[10\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-10) The girlfriend in the meme generally came to represent something that one is supposed to do and the woman wearing red came to represent something more desirable or riskier.[\\[11\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-Tansill-Suddath_2018-11)\n\nThe models \"Mario\" and \"Laura\" say they first learned about the memes based on their photograph when people started posting them to their social media accounts.[\\[12\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-12)[\\[3\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-Insider_interview-3) In late August 2017, Guillem told *[The Guardian](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/The_Guardian \"The Guardian\")* that \"I didn't even know what a meme is until recently. The models discovered the meme on social media and they told me about it. None of us could imagine the media repercussion that it has reached right now\".[\\[1\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-Belam_2017-1)\n\nSome brands started using the meme when it started going viral.[\\[13\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-13) In early January 2018, a version of the meme referencing the biblical story of [Lot's wife](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Lot%27s_wife \"Lot's wife\") turning into a pillar of salt went viral on Twitter.[\\[14\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-14) The meme was used in a sign for the \"[Enough! National School Walkout](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Enough!_National_School_Walkout \"Enough! National School Walkout\")\" gun violence protest in March 2018.[\\[15\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-15)[\\[16\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-16) On June 25, 2018, Twitter user Ernie Smith noted other stock images in which the girlfriend from the original meme is surprised looking at screens.[\\[17\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-17)\n\nIn November 2020, it was used in a commercial for Jules, a French clothing company.[\\[18\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-18)\n\n*[The New York Times](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/The_New_York_Times \"The New York Times\")* published the meme in its Business section on May 29, 2019, referencing the proposed merger of [Renault](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Renault \"Renault\") and [Fiat Chrysler Automobiles](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Fiat_Chrysler_Automobiles \"Fiat Chrysler Automobiles\"). The boyfriend is labeled as \"Renault\", who is being distracted by \"Fiat Chrysler\" with his girlfriend \"[Nissan](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Nissan \"Nissan\")\".[\\[19\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-19)\n\n## Variations and spin-offs\n\\[[edit](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/w\/index.php?title=Distracted_boyfriend&action=edit&section=3 \"Edit section: Variations and spin-offs\")\\]\n\n[![](https:\/\/upload.wikimedia.org\/wikipedia\/commons\/thumb\/a\/a3\/The_Man_between_Vice_and_Virtue.jpg\/250px-The_Man_between_Vice_and_Virtue.jpg)](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/File:The_Man_between_Vice_and_Virtue.jpg)\n\nMeme inspired by a print of the 1761 painting *[David Garrick Between Tragedy and Comedy](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/David_Garrick_Between_Tragedy_and_Comedy \"David Garrick Between Tragedy and Comedy\")*\n\nEarly variations of the distracted meme used other photos from Guillem's photo shoot of the three stock characters to create a story.[\\[7\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-HuffPost-7) In late January 2018, some social media users noted similarities between the meme and a *[Mission: Impossible – Fallout](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Mission:_Impossible_%E2%80%93_Fallout \"Mission: Impossible – Fallout\")* teaser image featuring [Henry Cavill](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Henry_Cavill \"Henry Cavill\") and [Angela Bassett](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Angela_Bassett \"Angela Bassett\").[\\[20\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-20) On April 16, 2018, a Twitter user called the [Joshua Reynolds](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Joshua_Reynolds \"Joshua Reynolds\") 1761 painting *[David Garrick Between Tragedy and Comedy](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/David_Garrick_Between_Tragedy_and_Comedy \"David Garrick Between Tragedy and Comedy\")* the \"18th-century equivalent\" of the distracted boyfriend meme;[\\[21\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-21) the painting itself would then become popular as a similar meme with historic references.[\\[11\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-Tansill-Suddath_2018-11)\n\n[![](https:\/\/upload.wikimedia.org\/wikipedia\/commons\/thumb\/f\/f1\/Distracted_Charlie_Chaplin_in_Pay_Day_%281922%29.jpeg\/250px-Distracted_Charlie_Chaplin_in_Pay_Day_%281922%29.jpeg)](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/File:Distracted_Charlie_Chaplin_in_Pay_Day_\\(1922\\).jpeg)\n\nSimilarities have been drawn with a shot from Charlie Chaplin's 1922 film, *[Pay Day](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Pay_Day_\\(1922_film\\) \"Pay Day (1922 film)\")*\n\nIn May 2018, a Twitter user posted an image pairing a coin commemorating the [wedding of Prince Harry and Meghan Markle](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Wedding_of_Prince_Harry_and_Meghan_Markle \"Wedding of Prince Harry and Meghan Markle\") with one of the characters from the meme.[\\[22\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-22) In June 2018, film writer Peter Goldberg posted on his Twitter account a scene from [Charlie Chaplin](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Charlie_Chaplin \"Charlie Chaplin\")'s 1922 short film *[Pay Day](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Pay_Day_\\(1922_film\\) \"Pay Day (1922 film)\")* with a format similar to the distracted-boyfriend meme.[\\[23\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-23)[\\[24\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-24)[\\[25\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-25) In July 2018, a photograph of a woman eating ice cream with a man and a woman holding hands in Venice went viral because of its similarities to the distracted boyfriend meme.[\\[26\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-26) A version of the meme featuring a distracted groom went viral on Twitter in October 2018.[\\[27\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-27)\n\nIn Hungary, another stock photo of the same two models was used in a government campaign to promote child birth, prompting ridicule.[\\[28\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-28)\n\n## Reception\n\\[[edit](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/w\/index.php?title=Distracted_boyfriend&action=edit&section=4 \"Edit section: Reception\")\\]\n\nNathan Heller of *[The New Yorker](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/The_New_Yorker \"The New Yorker\")* wrote that \"the delight of the Distracted Boyfriend meme was not unlike the perverse pleasure taken by Distracted Boyfriend himself: it allowed America to turn its attention away from much more important commitments\".[\\[29\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-29) Tiffany Kelly of *[The Daily Dot](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/The_Daily_Dot \"The Daily Dot\")* wrote that \"the distracted boyfriend meme's range, unintentionally created by Guillem's portfolio, set it apart from other popular internet content \\[in 2017\\]\".[\\[30\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-30) Clair Valentine of *[Paper](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Paper_\\(magazine\\) \"Paper (magazine)\")* listed the meme as one that defined the year 2017, writing that \"They say that often, the most specific stories are in fact the most universal, and this meme's absurd popularity proves that point beyond a shadow of a doubt\".[\\[31\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-31)\n\nThe meme made various lists of the top memes of 2017, including [NDTV](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/NDTV \"NDTV\")[\\[32\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-32) *The Next Web*,[\\[33\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-33) *[PC Magazine](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/PC_Magazine \"PC Magazine\")*,[\\[34\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-34) *[The Ringer](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/The_Ringer_\\(website\\) \"The Ringer (website)\")*,[\\[35\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-35) and *[Narcity](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Narcity \"Narcity\")*.[\\[36\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-36) *[The Washington Post](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/The_Washington_Post \"The Washington Post\")* listed the meme on its \"Meme Hall of Fame of 2017\", calling it \"the ultimate stock photo meme with endless permutations\".[\\[37\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-37) The [Reddit](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Reddit \"Reddit\") moderators of the \/r\/MemeEconomy subreddit told *[Inverse](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Inverse_\\(website\\) \"Inverse (website)\")* that they thought it was one of the best memes of 2017.[\\[38\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-38) In April 2018, the meme won the Best Meme of 2017 category at the 10th Annual [Shorty Awards](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Shorty_Awards \"Shorty Awards\").[\\[39\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-39)\n\nJoe McCarthy of *[Global Citizen](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Global_Citizen_\\(website\\) \"Global Citizen (website)\")* wrote that the original photograph depicts \"sexual harassment\", and criticized most uses of the meme for failing \"to transcend the image's inherent, toxic sexism\".[\\[40\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-40) In September 2018, [Sweden](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Sweden \"Sweden\")'s advertising [ombudsman](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Ombudsman \"Ombudsman\") determined the internet service provider [Bahnhof](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Bahnhof \"Bahnhof\") had broken rules against gender discrimination when it used the meme in an advertisement which portrayed Bahnhof's employment opportunities as the attention-stealing woman and the ignored girlfriend as \"your current workplace\".[\\[41\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-NYTimes20180926-41)\n\n## References\n\\[[edit](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/w\/index.php?title=Distracted_boyfriend&action=edit&section=5 \"Edit section: References\")\\]\n\n1. ^ [***a***](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_ref-Belam_2017_1-0) [***b***](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_ref-Belam_2017_1-1)\n   Belam, Martin (August 30, 2017). [\"I didn't know what a meme was, says Distracted Boyfriend photographer\"](https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/media\/2017\/aug\/30\/the-team-that-made-the-distracted-boyfriend-meme-have-split-up). *[The Guardian](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/The_Guardian \"The Guardian\")*. Retrieved July 21, 2018.\n2. **[^](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_ref-2)**\n   Barrett, Brian (August 28, 2017). [\"The 'Distracted Boyfriend' Meme's Photographer Explains All\"](https:\/\/www.wired.com\/story\/distracted-boyfriend-meme-photographer-interview\/). *[Wired](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Wired_\\(magazine\\) \"Wired (magazine)\")*. Retrieved July 21, 2018.\n3. ^ [***a***](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_ref-Insider_interview_3-0) [***b***](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_ref-Insider_interview_3-1)\n   Shamsian, Jacob (August 29, 2017). [\"The spurned girlfriend from the 'distracted boyfriend' meme thinks everyone 'has been the girl in the red dress'\"](https:\/\/www.thisisinsider.com\/distracted-boyfriend-meme-interview-with-couple-2017-8). *[Insider](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Business_Insider \"Business Insider\")*. Retrieved July 21, 2018.\n4. **[^](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_ref-4)**\n   Molina, Brett (August 25, 2017). [\"The 'disloyal man' meme, explained\"](https:\/\/www.usatoday.com\/story\/tech\/talkingtech\/2017\/08\/25\/disloyal-man-meme-explained\/600822001\/). *[USA Today](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/USA_Today \"USA Today\")*. Retrieved July 21, 2018.\n5. **[^](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_ref-5)**\n   Zhang, Michael (September 18, 2017). [\"The Story Behind That Viral 'Distracted Boyfriend' Meme Photo\"](https:\/\/petapixel.com\/2017\/09\/18\/story-behind-viral-distracted-boyfriend-meme-photo\/). *PetaPixel*. Retrieved July 21, 2018.\n6. **[^](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_ref-6)**\n   Britton, David (July 14, 2018). [\"The best Distracted Boyfriend memes\"](https:\/\/www.dailydot.com\/unclick\/distracted-boyfriend-memes\/). *[The Daily Dot](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/The_Daily_Dot \"The Daily Dot\")*. Retrieved July 21, 2018.\n7. ^ [***a***](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_ref-HuffPost_7-0) [***b***](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_ref-HuffPost_7-1)\n   Wanshel, Elyse (August 25, 2017). [\"The Story Behind The Stock Photo That Launched A Thousand Jokes\"](https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/entry\/distracted-boyfriend-disloyal-man-wandering-eyes-meme_us_59a05626e4b05710aa5bf381). *[HuffPost](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/HuffPost \"HuffPost\")*. 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Social media users started using the image as a meme at the start of 2017, and it went viral in August 2017 as a way to depict different forms of disloyalty. The meme has inspired various spin-offs and received critical acclaim.\n\nThe stock image was taken in the city of [Girona](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Girona \"Girona\") in [Catalonia](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Catalonia \"Catalonia\"), [Spain](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Spain \"Spain\"), in mid-2015 by photographer Antonio Guillem from [Barcelona](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Barcelona \"Barcelona\").[\\[1\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-Belam_2017-1) Guillem told *[Wired](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Wired_\\(magazine\\) \"Wired (magazine)\")* that he and the stock image models planned on having a session that would represent the concept of infidelity \"in a playful and fun way\".[\\[2\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-2) The boyfriend and girlfriend in the photograph are known by their stage names \"Mario\" and \"Laura\". \"Laura\" later described the experience shooting the stock images, saying: \"When people saw us simulate those scenes in the street, they stopped to look and laugh and, in my case that I had to have a more serious face, I had a hard time to keeping it \\[*[sic](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Sic \"Sic\")*\\]\".[\\[3\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-Insider_interview-3)\n\nThe image was uploaded to [Shutterstock](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Shutterstock \"Shutterstock\") with the caption: \"Disloyal man walking with his girlfriend and looking amazed at another seductive girl\".[\\[4\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-4) Regarding the copyright status of this image, Guillem has stated that his images \"are subject to copyright laws and the license agreements of the microstock agencies. It's not allowed to use any image without purchasing the proper license in any possible way, so each one of the people that use the images without the license are doing it illegally. This is not the thing that really worries us, as they are just a group of people doing it in good faith, and we are not going to take any action, except for the extreme cases in which this good faith doesn't exist\".[\\[5\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-5)\n\nThe first known use of the stock image as an internet meme was posted to a Turkish [progressive rock](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Progressive_rock \"Progressive rock\") [Facebook group](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Facebook_group \"Facebook group\") in January 2017. The post labeled the man as [Phil Collins](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Phil_Collins \"Phil Collins\"), who is being distracted from progressive rock by pop music. This meme was reposted on an English-language progressive rock [Facebook](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Facebook \"Facebook\") page the next day, and then on [Twitter](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Twitter \"Twitter\") on February 2, 2017.[\\[6\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-6) Later that month, the original stock photograph was shared on [Instagram](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Instagram \"Instagram\") and got almost 30,000 likes.[\\[7\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-HuffPost-7)\n\nThe meme started going viral on August 19, 2017 after a Twitter user posted the photograph with the man labeled \"the youth\" being distracted from his girlfriend \"[capitalism](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Capitalism \"Capitalism\")\" by \"[socialism](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Socialism \"Socialism\")\". Another Twitter user copied this meme, getting retweeted more than 35,000 retweets and nearly 100,000 likes.[\\[8\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-Vox_Romano-8) The meme and its permutations went viral on Twitter, Reddit, and Facebook.[\\[8\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-Vox_Romano-8)[\\[9\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-9) The distracted-boyfriend meme is listed by *[Know Your Meme](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Know_Your_Meme \"Know Your Meme\")* as an example of *object labeling*.[\\[10\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-10) The girlfriend in the meme generally came to represent something that one is supposed to do and the woman wearing red came to represent something more desirable or riskier.[\\[11\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-Tansill-Suddath_2018-11)\n\nThe models \"Mario\" and \"Laura\" say they first learned about the memes based on their photograph when people started posting them to their social media accounts.[\\[12\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-12)[\\[3\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-Insider_interview-3) In late August 2017, Guillem told *[The Guardian](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/The_Guardian \"The Guardian\")* that \"I didn't even know what a meme is until recently. The models discovered the meme on social media and they told me about it. None of us could imagine the media repercussion that it has reached right now\".[\\[1\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-Belam_2017-1)\n\nSome brands started using the meme when it started going viral.[\\[13\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-13) In early January 2018, a version of the meme referencing the biblical story of [Lot's wife](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Lot%27s_wife \"Lot's wife\") turning into a pillar of salt went viral on Twitter.[\\[14\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-14) The meme was used in a sign for the \"[Enough! National School Walkout](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Enough!_National_School_Walkout \"Enough! National School Walkout\")\" gun violence protest in March 2018.[\\[15\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-15)[\\[16\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-16) On June 25, 2018, Twitter user Ernie Smith noted other stock images in which the girlfriend from the original meme is surprised looking at screens.[\\[17\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-17)\n\nIn November 2020, it was used in a commercial for Jules, a French clothing company.[\\[18\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-18)\n\n*[The New York Times](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/The_New_York_Times \"The New York Times\")* published the meme in its Business section on May 29, 2019, referencing the proposed merger of [Renault](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Renault \"Renault\") and [Fiat Chrysler Automobiles](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Fiat_Chrysler_Automobiles \"Fiat Chrysler Automobiles\"). The boyfriend is labeled as \"Renault\", who is being distracted by \"Fiat Chrysler\" with his girlfriend \"[Nissan](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Nissan \"Nissan\")\".[\\[19\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-19)\n\n## Variations and spin-offs\n\\[[edit](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/w\/index.php?title=Distracted_boyfriend&action=edit&section=3 \"Edit section: Variations and spin-offs\")\\]\n\n[![](https:\/\/upload.wikimedia.org\/wikipedia\/commons\/thumb\/a\/a3\/The_Man_between_Vice_and_Virtue.jpg\/250px-The_Man_between_Vice_and_Virtue.jpg)](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/File:The_Man_between_Vice_and_Virtue.jpg)\n\nMeme inspired by a print of the 1761 painting *[David Garrick Between Tragedy and Comedy](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/David_Garrick_Between_Tragedy_and_Comedy \"David Garrick Between Tragedy and Comedy\")*\n\nEarly variations of the distracted meme used other photos from Guillem's photo shoot of the three stock characters to create a story.[\\[7\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-HuffPost-7) In late January 2018, some social media users noted similarities between the meme and a *[Mission: Impossible – Fallout](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Mission:_Impossible_%E2%80%93_Fallout \"Mission: Impossible – Fallout\")* teaser image featuring [Henry Cavill](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Henry_Cavill \"Henry Cavill\") and [Angela Bassett](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Angela_Bassett \"Angela Bassett\").[\\[20\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-20) On April 16, 2018, a Twitter user called the [Joshua Reynolds](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Joshua_Reynolds \"Joshua Reynolds\") 1761 painting *[David Garrick Between Tragedy and Comedy](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/David_Garrick_Between_Tragedy_and_Comedy \"David Garrick Between Tragedy and Comedy\")* the \"18th-century equivalent\" of the distracted boyfriend meme;[\\[21\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-21) the painting itself would then become popular as a similar meme with historic references.[\\[11\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-Tansill-Suddath_2018-11)\n\n[![](https:\/\/upload.wikimedia.org\/wikipedia\/commons\/thumb\/f\/f1\/Distracted_Charlie_Chaplin_in_Pay_Day_%281922%29.jpeg\/250px-Distracted_Charlie_Chaplin_in_Pay_Day_%281922%29.jpeg)](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/File:Distracted_Charlie_Chaplin_in_Pay_Day_\\(1922\\).jpeg)\n\nSimilarities have been drawn with a shot from Charlie Chaplin's 1922 film, *[Pay Day](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Pay_Day_\\(1922_film\\) \"Pay Day (1922 film)\")*\n\nIn May 2018, a Twitter user posted an image pairing a coin commemorating the [wedding of Prince Harry and Meghan Markle](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Wedding_of_Prince_Harry_and_Meghan_Markle \"Wedding of Prince Harry and Meghan Markle\") with one of the characters from the meme.[\\[22\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-22) In June 2018, film writer Peter Goldberg posted on his Twitter account a scene from [Charlie Chaplin](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Charlie_Chaplin \"Charlie Chaplin\")'s 1922 short film *[Pay Day](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Pay_Day_\\(1922_film\\) \"Pay Day (1922 film)\")* with a format similar to the distracted-boyfriend meme.[\\[23\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-23)[\\[24\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-24)[\\[25\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-25) In July 2018, a photograph of a woman eating ice cream with a man and a woman holding hands in Venice went viral because of its similarities to the distracted boyfriend meme.[\\[26\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-26) A version of the meme featuring a distracted groom went viral on Twitter in October 2018.[\\[27\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-27)\n\nIn Hungary, another stock photo of the same two models was used in a government campaign to promote child birth, prompting ridicule.[\\[28\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-28)\n\nNathan Heller of *[The New Yorker](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/The_New_Yorker \"The New Yorker\")* wrote that \"the delight of the Distracted Boyfriend meme was not unlike the perverse pleasure taken by Distracted Boyfriend himself: it allowed America to turn its attention away from much more important commitments\".[\\[29\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-29) Tiffany Kelly of *[The Daily Dot](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/The_Daily_Dot \"The Daily Dot\")* wrote that \"the distracted boyfriend meme's range, unintentionally created by Guillem's portfolio, set it apart from other popular internet content \\[in 2017\\]\".[\\[30\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-30) Clair Valentine of *[Paper](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Paper_\\(magazine\\) \"Paper (magazine)\")* listed the meme as one that defined the year 2017, writing that \"They say that often, the most specific stories are in fact the most universal, and this meme's absurd popularity proves that point beyond a shadow of a doubt\".[\\[31\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-31)\n\nThe meme made various lists of the top memes of 2017, including [NDTV](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/NDTV \"NDTV\")[\\[32\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-32) *The Next Web*,[\\[33\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-33) *[PC Magazine](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/PC_Magazine \"PC Magazine\")*,[\\[34\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-34) *[The Ringer](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/The_Ringer_\\(website\\) \"The Ringer (website)\")*,[\\[35\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-35) and *[Narcity](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Narcity \"Narcity\")*.[\\[36\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-36) *[The Washington Post](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/The_Washington_Post \"The Washington Post\")* listed the meme on its \"Meme Hall of Fame of 2017\", calling it \"the ultimate stock photo meme with endless permutations\".[\\[37\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-37) The [Reddit](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Reddit \"Reddit\") moderators of the \/r\/MemeEconomy subreddit told *[Inverse](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Inverse_\\(website\\) \"Inverse (website)\")* that they thought it was one of the best memes of 2017.[\\[38\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-38) In April 2018, the meme won the Best Meme of 2017 category at the 10th Annual [Shorty Awards](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Shorty_Awards \"Shorty Awards\").[\\[39\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-39)\n\nJoe McCarthy of *[Global Citizen](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Global_Citizen_\\(website\\) \"Global Citizen (website)\")* wrote that the original photograph depicts \"sexual harassment\", and criticized most uses of the meme for failing \"to transcend the image's inherent, toxic sexism\".[\\[40\\]](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-40) In September 2018, [Sweden](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Sweden \"Sweden\")'s advertising [ombudsman](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Ombudsman \"Ombudsman\") determined the internet service provider [Bahnhof](https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Bahnhof \"Bahnhof\") had broken rules against gender discrimination when it used the meme in an advertisement which portrayed Bahnhof's employment 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Boilerpipe Text	The stock photograph that inspired the meme Distracted boyfriend is an Internet meme based on a 2015 stock photograph by Spanish photographer Antonio Guillem. Social media users started using the image as a meme at the start of 2017, and it went viral in August 2017 as a way to depict different forms of disloyalty. The meme has inspired various spin-offs and received critical acclaim. The stock image was taken in the city of Girona in Catalonia , Spain , in mid-2015 by photographer Antonio Guillem from Barcelona . [ 1 ] Guillem told Wired that he and the stock image models planned on having a session that would represent the concept of infidelity "in a playful and fun way". [ 2 ] The boyfriend and girlfriend in the photograph are known by their stage names "Mario" and "Laura". "Laura" later described the experience shooting the stock images, saying: "When people saw us simulate those scenes in the street, they stopped to look and laugh and, in my case that I had to have a more serious face, I had a hard time to keeping it [ sic ]". [ 3 ] The image was uploaded to Shutterstock with the caption: "Disloyal man walking with his girlfriend and looking amazed at another seductive girl". [ 4 ] Regarding the copyright status of this image, Guillem has stated that his images "are subject to copyright laws and the license agreements of the microstock agencies. It's not allowed to use any image without purchasing the proper license in any possible way, so each one of the people that use the images without the license are doing it illegally. This is not the thing that really worries us, as they are just a group of people doing it in good faith, and we are not going to take any action, except for the extreme cases in which this good faith doesn't exist". [ 5 ] The first known use of the stock image as an internet meme was posted to a Turkish progressive rock Facebook group in January 2017. The post labeled the man as Phil Collins , who is being distracted from progressive rock by pop music. This meme was reposted on an English-language progressive rock Facebook page the next day, and then on Twitter on February 2, 2017. [ 6 ] Later that month, the original stock photograph was shared on Instagram and got almost 30,000 likes. [ 7 ] The meme started going viral on August 19, 2017 after a Twitter user posted the photograph with the man labeled "the youth" being distracted from his girlfriend " capitalism " by " socialism ". Another Twitter user copied this meme, getting retweeted more than 35,000 retweets and nearly 100,000 likes. [ 8 ] The meme and its permutations went viral on Twitter, Reddit, and Facebook. [ 8 ] [ 9 ] The distracted-boyfriend meme is listed by Know Your Meme as an example of object labeling . [ 10 ] The girlfriend in the meme generally came to represent something that one is supposed to do and the woman wearing red came to represent something more desirable or riskier. [ 11 ] The models "Mario" and "Laura" say they first learned about the memes based on their photograph when people started posting them to their social media accounts. [ 12 ] [ 3 ] In late August 2017, Guillem told The Guardian that "I didn't even know what a meme is until recently. The models discovered the meme on social media and they told me about it. None of us could imagine the media repercussion that it has reached right now". [ 1 ] Some brands started using the meme when it started going viral. [ 13 ] In early January 2018, a version of the meme referencing the biblical story of Lot's wife turning into a pillar of salt went viral on Twitter. [ 14 ] The meme was used in a sign for the " Enough! National School Walkout " gun violence protest in March 2018. [ 15 ] [ 16 ] On June 25, 2018, Twitter user Ernie Smith noted other stock images in which the girlfriend from the original meme is surprised looking at screens. [ 17 ] In November 2020, it was used in a commercial for Jules, a French clothing company. [ 18 ] The New York Times published the meme in its Business section on May 29, 2019, referencing the proposed merger of Renault and Fiat Chrysler Automobiles . The boyfriend is labeled as "Renault", who is being distracted by "Fiat Chrysler" with his girlfriend " Nissan ". [ 19 ] Variations and spin-offs [ edit ] Meme inspired by a print of the 1761 painting David Garrick Between Tragedy and Comedy Early variations of the distracted meme used other photos from Guillem's photo shoot of the three stock characters to create a story. [ 7 ] In late January 2018, some social media users noted similarities between the meme and a Mission: Impossible – Fallout teaser image featuring Henry Cavill and Angela Bassett . [ 20 ] On April 16, 2018, a Twitter user called the Joshua Reynolds 1761 painting David Garrick Between Tragedy and Comedy the "18th-century equivalent" of the distracted boyfriend meme; [ 21 ] the painting itself would then become popular as a similar meme with historic references. [ 11 ] Similarities have been drawn with a shot from Charlie Chaplin's 1922 film, Pay Day In May 2018, a Twitter user posted an image pairing a coin commemorating the wedding of Prince Harry and Meghan Markle with one of the characters from the meme. [ 22 ] In June 2018, film writer Peter Goldberg posted on his Twitter account a scene from Charlie Chaplin 's 1922 short film Pay Day with a format similar to the distracted-boyfriend meme. [ 23 ] [ 24 ] [ 25 ] In July 2018, a photograph of a woman eating ice cream with a man and a woman holding hands in Venice went viral because of its similarities to the distracted boyfriend meme. [ 26 ] A version of the meme featuring a distracted groom went viral on Twitter in October 2018. [ 27 ] In Hungary, another stock photo of the same two models was used in a government campaign to promote child birth, prompting ridicule. [ 28 ] Nathan Heller of The New Yorker wrote that "the delight of the Distracted Boyfriend meme was not unlike the perverse pleasure taken by Distracted Boyfriend himself: it allowed America to turn its attention away from much more important commitments". [ 29 ] Tiffany Kelly of The Daily Dot wrote that "the distracted boyfriend meme's range, unintentionally created by Guillem's portfolio, set it apart from other popular internet content [in 2017]". [ 30 ] Clair Valentine of Paper listed the meme as one that defined the year 2017, writing that "They say that often, the most specific stories are in fact the most universal, and this meme's absurd popularity proves that point beyond a shadow of a doubt". [ 31 ] The meme made various lists of the top memes of 2017, including NDTV [ 32 ] The Next Web , [ 33 ] PC Magazine , [ 34 ] The Ringer , [ 35 ] and Narcity . [ 36 ] The Washington Post listed the meme on its "Meme Hall of Fame of 2017", calling it "the ultimate stock photo meme with endless permutations". [ 37 ] The Reddit moderators of the /r/MemeEconomy subreddit told Inverse that they thought it was one of the best memes of 2017. [ 38 ] In April 2018, the meme won the Best Meme of 2017 category at the 10th Annual Shorty Awards . [ 39 ] Joe McCarthy of Global Citizen wrote that the original photograph depicts "sexual harassment", and criticized most uses of the meme for failing "to transcend the image's inherent, toxic sexism". [ 40 ] In September 2018, Sweden 's advertising ombudsman determined the internet service provider Bahnhof had broken rules against gender discrimination when it used the meme in an advertisement which portrayed Bahnhof's employment opportunities as the attention-stealing woman and the ignored girlfriend as "your current workplace". [ 41 ] ^ a b Belam, Martin (August 30, 2017). "I didn't know what a meme was, says Distracted Boyfriend photographer" . The Guardian . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ Barrett, Brian (August 28, 2017). "The 'Distracted Boyfriend' Meme's Photographer Explains All" . Wired . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ a b Shamsian, Jacob (August 29, 2017). "The spurned girlfriend from the 'distracted boyfriend' meme thinks everyone 'has been the girl in the red dress' " . Insider . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ Molina, Brett (August 25, 2017). "The 'disloyal man' meme, explained" . USA Today . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ Zhang, Michael (September 18, 2017). "The Story Behind That Viral 'Distracted Boyfriend' Meme Photo" . PetaPixel . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ Britton, David (July 14, 2018). "The best Distracted Boyfriend memes" . The Daily Dot . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ a b Wanshel, Elyse (August 25, 2017). "The Story Behind The Stock Photo That Launched A Thousand Jokes" . HuffPost . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ a b Romano, Aja (August 25, 2017). "Why that "distracted boyfriend" stock photo meme is suddenly everywhere" . Vox . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ Hathaway, Jay (August 24, 2017). "The distracted boyfriend is everyone's favorite new meme" . The Daily Dot . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ Schwedel, Heather (March 22, 2018). "Thanks to the Distracted Boyfriend, We're Living in a Golden Age of 'Object Labeling' Memes" . Slate . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ a b Tansill-Suddath, Callie (April 17, 2018). "The 'Distracted Boyfriend' Meme Has An 18th Century Version That People Are Going Wild For On Twitter" . Bustle . Retrieved July 24, 2018 . ^ Feldman, Brian (August 29, 2017). " 'Disloyal Man' Meme Models: 'People Have a Lot of Imagination!' " . New York . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ Bradley, Diana (August 30, 2017). "5 brands insert themselves into the viral 'distracted boyfriend' stock picture" . PRWeek . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ Britton, David (January 5, 2018). "The 'Distracted Boyfriend' meme gets a biblical makeover" . The Daily Dot . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ Reinstein, Julia (March 15, 2018). "Teens Brought Their Meme Brilliance To The National School Walkout" . BuzzFeed News . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ Alemoru, Text Kemi (March 16, 2018). "How memes became an agent of protest in 2018" . Dazed . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ Amatulll, Jenna (June 26, 2018). "Woman In Distracted Boyfriend Meme Is Perpetually Shocked In Other Stock Photos" . HuffPost . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ Jules - Men In Progress (November 2020) , November 2, 2020 , retrieved April 20, 2023 ^ Kircher, Madison Malone (May 29, 2019). "New York Times: Hello, Fellow Kids" . New York Magazine . Retrieved May 29, 2019 . ^ Bastidas, Jose (January 27, 2018). " 'Mission: Impossible 6' Teaser Resembles 'Distracted Boyfriend' Meme" . PopCulture.com . Entertainment Tonight . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ Kelly, Tiffany (April 17, 2018). "This 18th-century painting looks like the Distracted Boyfriend meme" . The Daily Dot . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ Reitz, Collette (May 4, 2018). "Meghan Markle & Prince Harry's Coin Just Got Turned Into The Funniest Meme" . Elite Daily . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ Evon, Dan (June 11, 2018). "Did the 'Distracted Boyfriend' Meme Come From a 1920's Silent Film?" . Snopes . ^ Novak, Matt (June 11, 2018). "Did Charlie Chaplin Invent the Distracted Boyfriend Meme?" . Paleofuture . Gizmodo Media Group . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ "Charlie Chaplin - The Original Distracted Boyfriend (Clip from "Pay Day")" . YouTube . June 12, 2018. ^ Drascott, Edd (July 8, 2018). "This photobomber recreated the Distracted Boyfriend meme by fluke" . Irish Independent . Press Association . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ Bruner, Raisa (October 1, 2018). "Distracted Groom Meme Is a Step Up From Distracted Boyfriend" . Time . Retrieved October 2, 2018 . ^ Walker, Shaun (March 13, 2019). "Orbán's family values ads mocked for using 'distracted boyfriend' models" . The Guardian . ^ Heller, Nathan (December 11, 2017). "The Distracted Boyfriend Meme's Perverse Pleasure in 2017" . The New Yorker . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ Kelly, Tiffany (December 25, 2017). "Distracted Boyfriend Is the Meme of the Year" . The Daily Dot . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ Valentine, Claire (December 30, 2017). "The 10 Memes That Defined 2017" . Paper . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ "From Salt Bae to Distracted Boyfriend, 10 Memes We Loved in 2017" . Gadgets360 . NDTV . December 25, 2017 . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ Kaser, Rachel (December 25, 2017). "2017 in Memes: The best of the best" . The Next Web . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ Moscaritolo, Angela (December 20, 2017). "Distracted Boyfriend to Salt Bae: 2017's Best Memes" . PC Magazine . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ "The Best Memes of 2017" . The Ringer . December 21, 2018 . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ "Here Are The Top Memes Of 2017" . Narcity . Narcity Media . December 19, 2017. Archived from the original on July 21, 2018 . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ Podnar, Rachel (December 28, 2017). "Trending: Meme Hall of Fame of 2017" . The Washington Post . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ Paoletta, Rae (December 26, 2017). "Reddit Moderators Reveal The Best Memes of 2017, And The Ones That Must Die" . Inverse . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ "It's Official: The Shorty Awards Have Declared 'Distracted Boyfriend' The Best Meme Of 2017" . Memebase . Cheezburger . April 16, 2018 . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ McCarthy, Joe (August 24, 2017). "The Best 'Disloyal Man' Meme Shows Why It's Problematic" . Global Citizen . Global Poverty Project . Archived from the original on February 9, 2023 . Retrieved July 21, 2018 . ^ Tsang, Amie (September 26, 2018). "The Distracted Boyfriend Who Took Over the Internet Is Deemed Sexist in Sweden" . The New York Times . Retrieved September 27, 2018 . Distracted Boyfriend entry at Know Your Meme " Disloyal man walking with his girlfriend and looking amazed at another seductive girl" on Shutterstock " Disloyal man with his girlfriend looking at another girl " on iStock AntonioGuillem.com , website of the stock photographer 41°58′57.6″N 2°49′16.5″E / 41.982667°N 2.821250°E
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2.821250](https://geohack.toolforge.org/geohack.php?pagename=Distracted_boyfriend&params=41_58_57.6_N_2_49_16.5_E_) From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Stock photograph and internet meme [![](https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/b/be/Disloyal_man_with_his_girlfriend_looking_at_another_girl.jpg)](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Disloyal_man_with_his_girlfriend_looking_at_another_girl.jpg) The stock photograph that inspired the meme Distracted boyfriend is an [Internet meme](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Internet_meme "Internet meme") based on a 2015 [stock photograph](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stock_photograph "Stock photograph") by Spanish photographer Antonio Guillem. Social media users started using the image as a meme at the start of 2017, and it went viral in August 2017 as a way to depict different forms of disloyalty. The meme has inspired various spin-offs and received critical acclaim. ## Stock photograph \[[edit](https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Distracted_boyfriend&action=edit&section=1 "Edit section: Stock photograph")\] The stock image was taken in the city of [Girona](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Girona "Girona") in [Catalonia](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Catalonia "Catalonia"), [Spain](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spain "Spain"), in mid-2015 by photographer Antonio Guillem from [Barcelona](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Barcelona "Barcelona").[\[1\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-Belam_2017-1) Guillem told [Wired](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wired_\(magazine\) "Wired (magazine)") that he and the stock image models planned on having a session that would represent the concept of infidelity "in a playful and fun way".[\[2\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-2) The boyfriend and girlfriend in the photograph are known by their stage names "Mario" and "Laura". "Laura" later described the experience shooting the stock images, saying: "When people saw us simulate those scenes in the street, they stopped to look and laugh and, in my case that I had to have a more serious face, I had a hard time to keeping it \[[sic](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sic "Sic")\]".[\[3\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-Insider_interview-3) The image was uploaded to [Shutterstock](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shutterstock "Shutterstock") with the caption: "Disloyal man walking with his girlfriend and looking amazed at another seductive girl".[\[4\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-4) Regarding the copyright status of this image, Guillem has stated that his images "are subject to copyright laws and the license agreements of the microstock agencies. It's not allowed to use any image without purchasing the proper license in any possible way, so each one of the people that use the images without the license are doing it illegally. This is not the thing that really worries us, as they are just a group of people doing it in good faith, and we are not going to take any action, except for the extreme cases in which this good faith doesn't exist".[\[5\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-5) ## Meme \[[edit](https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Distracted_boyfriend&action=edit&section=2 "Edit section: Meme")\] The first known use of the stock image as an internet meme was posted to a Turkish [progressive rock](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Progressive_rock "Progressive rock") [Facebook group](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Facebook_group "Facebook group") in January 2017. The post labeled the man as [Phil Collins](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phil_Collins "Phil Collins"), who is being distracted from progressive rock by pop music. This meme was reposted on an English-language progressive rock [Facebook](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Facebook "Facebook") page the next day, and then on [Twitter](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Twitter "Twitter") on February 2, 2017.[\[6\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-6) Later that month, the original stock photograph was shared on [Instagram](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Instagram "Instagram") and got almost 30,000 likes.[\[7\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-HuffPost-7) The meme started going viral on August 19, 2017 after a Twitter user posted the photograph with the man labeled "the youth" being distracted from his girlfriend "[capitalism](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Capitalism "Capitalism")" by "[socialism](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Socialism "Socialism")". Another Twitter user copied this meme, getting retweeted more than 35,000 retweets and nearly 100,000 likes.[\[8\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-Vox_Romano-8) The meme and its permutations went viral on Twitter, Reddit, and Facebook.[\[8\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-Vox_Romano-8)[\[9\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-9) The distracted-boyfriend meme is listed by [Know Your Meme](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Know_Your_Meme "Know Your Meme") as an example of object labeling.[\[10\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-10) The girlfriend in the meme generally came to represent something that one is supposed to do and the woman wearing red came to represent something more desirable or riskier.[\[11\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-Tansill-Suddath_2018-11) The models "Mario" and "Laura" say they first learned about the memes based on their photograph when people started posting them to their social media accounts.[\[12\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-12)[\[3\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-Insider_interview-3) In late August 2017, Guillem told [The Guardian](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Guardian "The Guardian") that "I didn't even know what a meme is until recently. The models discovered the meme on social media and they told me about it. None of us could imagine the media repercussion that it has reached right now".[\[1\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-Belam_2017-1) Some brands started using the meme when it started going viral.[\[13\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-13) In early January 2018, a version of the meme referencing the biblical story of [Lot's wife](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lot%27s_wife "Lot's wife") turning into a pillar of salt went viral on Twitter.[\[14\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-14) The meme was used in a sign for the "[Enough! National School Walkout](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enough!_National_School_Walkout "Enough! National School Walkout")" gun violence protest in March 2018.[\[15\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-15)[\[16\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-16) On June 25, 2018, Twitter user Ernie Smith noted other stock images in which the girlfriend from the original meme is surprised looking at screens.[\[17\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-17) In November 2020, it was used in a commercial for Jules, a French clothing company.[\[18\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-18) [The New York Times](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_New_York_Times "The New York Times") published the meme in its Business section on May 29, 2019, referencing the proposed merger of [Renault](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Renault "Renault") and [Fiat Chrysler Automobiles](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fiat_Chrysler_Automobiles "Fiat Chrysler Automobiles"). The boyfriend is labeled as "Renault", who is being distracted by "Fiat Chrysler" with his girlfriend "[Nissan](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nissan "Nissan")".[\[19\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-19) ## Variations and spin-offs \[[edit](https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Distracted_boyfriend&action=edit&section=3 "Edit section: Variations and spin-offs")\] [![](https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/a/a3/The_Man_between_Vice_and_Virtue.jpg/250px-The_Man_between_Vice_and_Virtue.jpg)](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:The_Man_between_Vice_and_Virtue.jpg) Meme inspired by a print of the 1761 painting [David Garrick Between Tragedy and Comedy](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/David_Garrick_Between_Tragedy_and_Comedy "David Garrick Between Tragedy and Comedy") Early variations of the distracted meme used other photos from Guillem's photo shoot of the three stock characters to create a story.[\[7\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-HuffPost-7) In late January 2018, some social media users noted similarities between the meme and a [Mission: Impossible – Fallout](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mission:_Impossible_%E2%80%93_Fallout "Mission: Impossible – Fallout") teaser image featuring [Henry Cavill](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Henry_Cavill "Henry Cavill") and [Angela Bassett](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Angela_Bassett "Angela Bassett").[\[20\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-20) On April 16, 2018, a Twitter user called the [Joshua Reynolds](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joshua_Reynolds "Joshua Reynolds") 1761 painting [David Garrick Between Tragedy and Comedy](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/David_Garrick_Between_Tragedy_and_Comedy "David Garrick Between Tragedy and Comedy") the "18th-century equivalent" of the distracted boyfriend meme;[\[21\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-21) the painting itself would then become popular as a similar meme with historic references.[\[11\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-Tansill-Suddath_2018-11) [![](https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/f/f1/Distracted_Charlie_Chaplin_in_Pay_Day_%281922%29.jpeg/250px-Distracted_Charlie_Chaplin_in_Pay_Day_%281922%29.jpeg)](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Distracted_Charlie_Chaplin_in_Pay_Day_\(1922\).jpeg) Similarities have been drawn with a shot from Charlie Chaplin's 1922 film, [Pay Day](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pay_Day_\(1922_film\) "Pay Day (1922 film)") In May 2018, a Twitter user posted an image pairing a coin commemorating the [wedding of Prince Harry and Meghan Markle](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wedding_of_Prince_Harry_and_Meghan_Markle "Wedding of Prince Harry and Meghan Markle") with one of the characters from the meme.[\[22\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-22) In June 2018, film writer Peter Goldberg posted on his Twitter account a scene from [Charlie Chaplin](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Charlie_Chaplin "Charlie Chaplin")'s 1922 short film [Pay Day](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pay_Day_\(1922_film\) "Pay Day (1922 film)") with a format similar to the distracted-boyfriend meme.[\[23\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-23)[\[24\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-24)[\[25\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-25) In July 2018, a photograph of a woman eating ice cream with a man and a woman holding hands in Venice went viral because of its similarities to the distracted boyfriend meme.[\[26\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-26) A version of the meme featuring a distracted groom went viral on Twitter in October 2018.[\[27\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-27) In Hungary, another stock photo of the same two models was used in a government campaign to promote child birth, prompting ridicule.[\[28\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-28) ## Reception \[[edit](https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Distracted_boyfriend&action=edit&section=4 "Edit section: Reception")\] Nathan Heller of [The New Yorker](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_New_Yorker "The New Yorker") wrote that "the delight of the Distracted Boyfriend meme was not unlike the perverse pleasure taken by Distracted Boyfriend himself: it allowed America to turn its attention away from much more important commitments".[\[29\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-29) Tiffany Kelly of [The Daily Dot](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Daily_Dot "The Daily Dot") wrote that "the distracted boyfriend meme's range, unintentionally created by Guillem's portfolio, set it apart from other popular internet content \[in 2017\]".[\[30\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-30) Clair Valentine of [Paper](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paper_\(magazine\) "Paper (magazine)") listed the meme as one that defined the year 2017, writing that "They say that often, the most specific stories are in fact the most universal, and this meme's absurd popularity proves that point beyond a shadow of a doubt".[\[31\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-31) The meme made various lists of the top memes of 2017, including [NDTV](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/NDTV "NDTV")[\[32\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-32) The Next Web,[\[33\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-33) [PC Magazine](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/PC_Magazine "PC Magazine"),[\[34\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-34) [The Ringer](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Ringer_\(website\) "The Ringer (website)"),[\[35\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-35) and [Narcity](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcity "Narcity").[\[36\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-36) [The Washington Post](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Washington_Post "The Washington Post") listed the meme on its "Meme Hall of Fame of 2017", calling it "the ultimate stock photo meme with endless permutations".[\[37\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-37) The [Reddit](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reddit "Reddit") moderators of the /r/MemeEconomy subreddit told [Inverse](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Inverse_\(website\) "Inverse (website)") that they thought it was one of the best memes of 2017.[\[38\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-38) In April 2018, the meme won the Best Meme of 2017 category at the 10th Annual [Shorty Awards](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shorty_Awards "Shorty Awards").[\[39\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-39) Joe McCarthy of [Global Citizen](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Global_Citizen_\(website\) "Global Citizen (website)") wrote that the original photograph depicts "sexual harassment", and criticized most uses of the meme for failing "to transcend the image's inherent, toxic sexism".[\[40\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-40) In September 2018, [Sweden](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sweden "Sweden")'s advertising [ombudsman](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ombudsman "Ombudsman") determined the internet service provider [Bahnhof](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bahnhof "Bahnhof") had broken rules against gender discrimination when it used the meme in an advertisement which portrayed Bahnhof's employment opportunities as the attention-stealing woman and the ignored girlfriend as "your current workplace".[\[41\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-NYTimes20180926-41) ## References \[[edit](https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Distracted_boyfriend&action=edit&section=5 "Edit section: References")\] 1. ^ [*a](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_ref-Belam_2017_1-0) [b](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_ref-Belam_2017_1-1) Belam, Martin (August 30, 2017). ["I didn't know what a meme was, says Distracted Boyfriend photographer"](https://www.theguardian.com/media/2017/aug/30/the-team-that-made-the-distracted-boyfriend-meme-have-split-up). [The Guardian](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Guardian "The Guardian"). Retrieved July 21, 2018. 2. [^](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_ref-2)* Barrett, Brian (August 28, 2017). ["The 'Distracted Boyfriend' Meme's Photographer Explains All"](https://www.wired.com/story/distracted-boyfriend-meme-photographer-interview/). [Wired](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wired_\(magazine\) "Wired (magazine)"). Retrieved July 21, 2018. 3. ^ [*a](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_ref-Insider_interview_3-0) [b](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_ref-Insider_interview_3-1) Shamsian, Jacob (August 29, 2017). 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Readable Markdown	[![](https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/b/be/Disloyal_man_with_his_girlfriend_looking_at_another_girl.jpg)](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Disloyal_man_with_his_girlfriend_looking_at_another_girl.jpg) The stock photograph that inspired the meme Distracted boyfriend is an [Internet meme](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Internet_meme "Internet meme") based on a 2015 [stock photograph](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stock_photograph "Stock photograph") by Spanish photographer Antonio Guillem. Social media users started using the image as a meme at the start of 2017, and it went viral in August 2017 as a way to depict different forms of disloyalty. The meme has inspired various spin-offs and received critical acclaim. The stock image was taken in the city of [Girona](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Girona "Girona") in [Catalonia](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Catalonia "Catalonia"), [Spain](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spain "Spain"), in mid-2015 by photographer Antonio Guillem from [Barcelona](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Barcelona "Barcelona").[\[1\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-Belam_2017-1) Guillem told [Wired](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wired_\(magazine\) "Wired (magazine)") that he and the stock image models planned on having a session that would represent the concept of infidelity "in a playful and fun way".[\[2\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-2) The boyfriend and girlfriend in the photograph are known by their stage names "Mario" and "Laura". "Laura" later described the experience shooting the stock images, saying: "When people saw us simulate those scenes in the street, they stopped to look and laugh and, in my case that I had to have a more serious face, I had a hard time to keeping it \[[sic](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sic "Sic")\]".[\[3\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-Insider_interview-3) The image was uploaded to [Shutterstock](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shutterstock "Shutterstock") with the caption: "Disloyal man walking with his girlfriend and looking amazed at another seductive girl".[\[4\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-4) Regarding the copyright status of this image, Guillem has stated that his images "are subject to copyright laws and the license agreements of the microstock agencies. It's not allowed to use any image without purchasing the proper license in any possible way, so each one of the people that use the images without the license are doing it illegally. This is not the thing that really worries us, as they are just a group of people doing it in good faith, and we are not going to take any action, except for the extreme cases in which this good faith doesn't exist".[\[5\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-5) The first known use of the stock image as an internet meme was posted to a Turkish [progressive rock](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Progressive_rock "Progressive rock") [Facebook group](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Facebook_group "Facebook group") in January 2017. The post labeled the man as [Phil Collins](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phil_Collins "Phil Collins"), who is being distracted from progressive rock by pop music. This meme was reposted on an English-language progressive rock [Facebook](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Facebook "Facebook") page the next day, and then on [Twitter](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Twitter "Twitter") on February 2, 2017.[\[6\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-6) Later that month, the original stock photograph was shared on [Instagram](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Instagram "Instagram") and got almost 30,000 likes.[\[7\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-HuffPost-7) The meme started going viral on August 19, 2017 after a Twitter user posted the photograph with the man labeled "the youth" being distracted from his girlfriend "[capitalism](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Capitalism "Capitalism")" by "[socialism](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Socialism "Socialism")". Another Twitter user copied this meme, getting retweeted more than 35,000 retweets and nearly 100,000 likes.[\[8\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-Vox_Romano-8) The meme and its permutations went viral on Twitter, Reddit, and Facebook.[\[8\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-Vox_Romano-8)[\[9\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-9) The distracted-boyfriend meme is listed by [Know Your Meme](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Know_Your_Meme "Know Your Meme") as an example of object labeling.[\[10\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-10) The girlfriend in the meme generally came to represent something that one is supposed to do and the woman wearing red came to represent something more desirable or riskier.[\[11\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-Tansill-Suddath_2018-11) The models "Mario" and "Laura" say they first learned about the memes based on their photograph when people started posting them to their social media accounts.[\[12\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-12)[\[3\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-Insider_interview-3) In late August 2017, Guillem told [The Guardian](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Guardian "The Guardian") that "I didn't even know what a meme is until recently. The models discovered the meme on social media and they told me about it. None of us could imagine the media repercussion that it has reached right now".[\[1\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-Belam_2017-1) Some brands started using the meme when it started going viral.[\[13\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-13) In early January 2018, a version of the meme referencing the biblical story of [Lot's wife](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lot%27s_wife "Lot's wife") turning into a pillar of salt went viral on Twitter.[\[14\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-14) The meme was used in a sign for the "[Enough! National School Walkout](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enough!_National_School_Walkout "Enough! National School Walkout")" gun violence protest in March 2018.[\[15\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-15)[\[16\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-16) On June 25, 2018, Twitter user Ernie Smith noted other stock images in which the girlfriend from the original meme is surprised looking at screens.[\[17\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-17) In November 2020, it was used in a commercial for Jules, a French clothing company.[\[18\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-18) [The New York Times](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_New_York_Times "The New York Times") published the meme in its Business section on May 29, 2019, referencing the proposed merger of [Renault](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Renault "Renault") and [Fiat Chrysler Automobiles](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fiat_Chrysler_Automobiles "Fiat Chrysler Automobiles"). The boyfriend is labeled as "Renault", who is being distracted by "Fiat Chrysler" with his girlfriend "[Nissan](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nissan "Nissan")".[\[19\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-19) ## Variations and spin-offs \[[edit](https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=Distracted_boyfriend&action=edit&section=3 "Edit section: Variations and spin-offs")\] [![](https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/a/a3/The_Man_between_Vice_and_Virtue.jpg/250px-The_Man_between_Vice_and_Virtue.jpg)](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:The_Man_between_Vice_and_Virtue.jpg) Meme inspired by a print of the 1761 painting [David Garrick Between Tragedy and Comedy](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/David_Garrick_Between_Tragedy_and_Comedy "David Garrick Between Tragedy and Comedy") Early variations of the distracted meme used other photos from Guillem's photo shoot of the three stock characters to create a story.[\[7\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-HuffPost-7) In late January 2018, some social media users noted similarities between the meme and a [Mission: Impossible – Fallout](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mission:_Impossible_%E2%80%93_Fallout "Mission: Impossible – Fallout") teaser image featuring [Henry Cavill](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Henry_Cavill "Henry Cavill") and [Angela Bassett](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Angela_Bassett "Angela Bassett").[\[20\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-20) On April 16, 2018, a Twitter user called the [Joshua Reynolds](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joshua_Reynolds "Joshua Reynolds") 1761 painting [David Garrick Between Tragedy and Comedy](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/David_Garrick_Between_Tragedy_and_Comedy "David Garrick Between Tragedy and Comedy") the "18th-century equivalent" of the distracted boyfriend meme;[\[21\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-21) the painting itself would then become popular as a similar meme with historic references.[\[11\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-Tansill-Suddath_2018-11) [![](https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/f/f1/Distracted_Charlie_Chaplin_in_Pay_Day_%281922%29.jpeg/250px-Distracted_Charlie_Chaplin_in_Pay_Day_%281922%29.jpeg)](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Distracted_Charlie_Chaplin_in_Pay_Day_\(1922\).jpeg) Similarities have been drawn with a shot from Charlie Chaplin's 1922 film, [Pay Day](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pay_Day_\(1922_film\) "Pay Day (1922 film)") In May 2018, a Twitter user posted an image pairing a coin commemorating the [wedding of Prince Harry and Meghan Markle](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wedding_of_Prince_Harry_and_Meghan_Markle "Wedding of Prince Harry and Meghan Markle") with one of the characters from the meme.[\[22\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-22) In June 2018, film writer Peter Goldberg posted on his Twitter account a scene from [Charlie Chaplin](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Charlie_Chaplin "Charlie Chaplin")'s 1922 short film [Pay Day](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pay_Day_\(1922_film\) "Pay Day (1922 film)") with a format similar to the distracted-boyfriend meme.[\[23\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-23)[\[24\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-24)[\[25\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-25) In July 2018, a photograph of a woman eating ice cream with a man and a woman holding hands in Venice went viral because of its similarities to the distracted boyfriend meme.[\[26\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-26) A version of the meme featuring a distracted groom went viral on Twitter in October 2018.[\[27\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-27) In Hungary, another stock photo of the same two models was used in a government campaign to promote child birth, prompting ridicule.[\[28\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-28) Nathan Heller of [The New Yorker](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_New_Yorker "The New Yorker") wrote that "the delight of the Distracted Boyfriend meme was not unlike the perverse pleasure taken by Distracted Boyfriend himself: it allowed America to turn its attention away from much more important commitments".[\[29\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-29) Tiffany Kelly of [The Daily Dot](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Daily_Dot "The Daily Dot") wrote that "the distracted boyfriend meme's range, unintentionally created by Guillem's portfolio, set it apart from other popular internet content \[in 2017\]".[\[30\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-30) Clair Valentine of [Paper](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paper_\(magazine\) "Paper (magazine)") listed the meme as one that defined the year 2017, writing that "They say that often, the most specific stories are in fact the most universal, and this meme's absurd popularity proves that point beyond a shadow of a doubt".[\[31\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-31) The meme made various lists of the top memes of 2017, including [NDTV](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/NDTV "NDTV")[\[32\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-32) The Next Web,[\[33\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-33) [PC Magazine](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/PC_Magazine "PC Magazine"),[\[34\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-34) [The Ringer](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Ringer_\(website\) "The Ringer (website)"),[\[35\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-35) and [Narcity](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcity "Narcity").[\[36\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-36) [The Washington Post](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Washington_Post "The Washington Post") listed the meme on its "Meme Hall of Fame of 2017", calling it "the ultimate stock photo meme with endless permutations".[\[37\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-37) The [Reddit](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reddit "Reddit") moderators of the /r/MemeEconomy subreddit told [Inverse](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Inverse_\(website\) "Inverse (website)") that they thought it was one of the best memes of 2017.[\[38\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-38) In April 2018, the meme won the Best Meme of 2017 category at the 10th Annual [Shorty Awards](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shorty_Awards "Shorty Awards").[\[39\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-39) Joe McCarthy of [Global Citizen](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Global_Citizen_\(website\) "Global Citizen (website)") wrote that the original photograph depicts "sexual harassment", and criticized most uses of the meme for failing "to transcend the image's inherent, toxic sexism".[\[40\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-40) In September 2018, [Sweden](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sweden "Sweden")'s advertising [ombudsman](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ombudsman "Ombudsman") determined the internet service provider [Bahnhof](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bahnhof "Bahnhof") had broken rules against gender discrimination when it used the meme in an advertisement which portrayed Bahnhof's employment opportunities as the attention-stealing woman and the ignored girlfriend as "your current workplace".[\[41\]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_note-NYTimes20180926-41) 1. ^ [*a](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_ref-Belam_2017_1-0) [b](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Distracted_boyfriend#cite_ref-Belam_2017_1-1) Belam, Martin (August 30, 2017). 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